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He dumped me got with her straight away, now he wont dump her for me and says hes confused!!!!

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Question - (28 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xXWork-Dat-StickXxX writes:

Hiya, i was goin out with this lad for nealry a year, we had some rocky times, a couple of weeks ago i found out he was txting a girl which i new from school, that now goes to his college. i broke up with him on friday nearly 3 weeks ago and 2 days after we broke up he got another girlfriend but he says he still loves me and wants me back but he dusnt want to hurt her, which i can understand... i have been stayin at his house all the time because i used to live at his house, when i say i am going home he doesnt let me. i really want him back and i really love him but i think he is just doing it to rub it in my face. what can i do. i have told him 2 make his mind up bt he says if i keep going on about it he will stay with her and take longer to finish her but i have got to the point wer i cant w8 ani longa. what can i do he says he is confused but i have sed 2 him choose the 1 u love or the 1 u like but he wont choose. what can i do he is fukkin my head up. xx

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A female reader, XxXWork-Dat-StickXxX United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2007):

XxXWork-Dat-StickXxX is verified as being by the original poster of the question

XxXWork-Dat-StickXxX agony auntthanx ppl... the thing is thought I dumped all of my mates for him and im only just getting in contact with them again xx

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A female reader, Lady tinks United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2007):

Lady tinks agony auntThis guy seems really confused over what he really wants. I think that maybe its time to walk away. This guy can't be that keen if he's torn between you and her. Take my advice and don't waste another second with him or you'll end up confused and hurt if he says he doesn't want you. Save yourself this trouble and take the first step. Im sure their are plenty of guys out there who won't make you feel like this. Get out there and him! all the best lady tinks x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007):

Run, don't walk away from this one. You are far too young to be getting all upset and serious over this one. Go out with your mates and have a good time. He isn't worth another minute of your time. When he goes after you the next time, tell him to get lost. He is playing a game and it is up to you to stop it.

Take care

xx

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A female reader, Reebe United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2007):

Reebe agony auntHi

This guy is playing you. There's a reason why you 2 split up and I think you should remember that. I wouldn't waste any more time on this guy. Your young go out and have some fun and find some one who isn't going to mess with your head! You don't need it.

Good Luck!

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