How can I get her back once shes cleared her head??
Q. My girlfriend of several months has decided to take a break and needs some space. I was a rebound guy and we moved pretty fast, so this makes sense to me. But I am still interested, and wonder what I should do in the intern and how I might get her ...
A. 10 January 2008: The answer really is you don't try and get her back.
Send her a message and say that you hope she's ok and to get in touch when she's ready.
Then wait for her to get in touch with you - just don't put your life on hold waiting for her.... (read in full...)
I love my bf but just cant forget the guy from work.
Q. Hi, I'm 28 and am in a 9 year relationship with the father of my children. We've had our ups and downs throughout the relationship, mostly downs with him not knowing if he wanted to be with me and the kids, and stuff like that. He's left me sever...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi
I'm going to be totally blunt with you, this guy from work was just using you I'm afraid.
He has made NO effort what so ever to try and contact you.
I think you're bored with your relationship with your bf and you need to decide whether you ... (read in full...)
The 'space' my gf wants is doing my head in...how do I cope??
Q. My girlfriend 'needs space', 'a break'. Were not living together or see each other as often due to commitments. She can't cut down hers. There is no-one else apparently and so work and stress I guess is a factor. 'Space' can be days, weeks, mont...
A. 10 January 2008: Some times people do need space, you sound like this isn't the first time she has asked for it?
Wait til she gets in touch, (try not to go nuts!)
and then say to her you're not prepared to have any more breaks in your relationship and if she does... (read in full...)
Do you think it's ok for me to let my wife have another guy as her best friend??
Q. I'm 32 and my wife is 28. My wife and a good friend of mine (male friend) are good friends. I think it would be safe to say that they are best friends (which is totally okay by me). My friends say I'm crazy to "be okay" with this. I disagree, ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi
Ask her about it, or suggest if she minds if you hang out with them sometimes, if she says she doesn't mind then she has nothing to hide, go out with them and judge how they are together.
My best friend is male (totally platonic) and my boyfrien... (read in full...)
How do we fool around without getting caught by our parents?
Q. OK my girlfriend wants to full around and use wip cream and stuff how can we without our parents knowing and when can we find time with our parents always around. ...
A. 19 December 2007: you don't.... (read in full...)
GF suffers from mild depression and it is now affecting me
Q. My girlfriend suffers from mild depression. She can hold down a good job, but she has trouble sleeping, cries a lot and rarely wants to see anybody. I have done my best to cope with her depression for the last 6 months and I have now reached ...
A. 19 December 2007: Sticky situation, a rock and a hard place right?
Firstly don't feel guilty, i think most people in this situation would feel the same as you do right now.
Even though she's fragile you need to explain how your feeling, tell her you want to help her... (read in full...)
Room for speculation. What could his words have meant?
Q. What does it mean when he says "what i said about not knowin what i wanted wasnt meant about me and you" ...
A. 19 December 2007: Hard to say, you don't give much information, could mean that he's not sure what he wants out of life, not that he doesn't want to be with you.... (read in full...)
Can a girl feel a guy ejaculate in her? Your experiences on the matter?
Q. Can a girl feel a guy cum in her? What are your experiences on the matter? ...
A. 19 December 2007: Usually you can feel a guy cum inside you, but if it's an early relationship, or you both haven't been tested remember to use a condom.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my friends will humiliate me the next day if she rejects my invitation, so what should I do?
Q. Ok, the situation is, i'm going to ask out a girl on Thursday, the last day before Christmas break, for two weeks. Ok, so that was my plan. Cause there's not a good chance that she'll say yes, as a matter of fact I haven't the faintest idea what...
A. 19 December 2007: well we've all been here, if you like this girl, get her on her own and ask her, the worst that can happen is she says no, and you might get some teasing for a few days, but they'll soon move on when something else happens.
Every guy goes thro... (read in full...)
What are extremely early sings of pregnancy?
Q. What are extremely early signs of pregnancy? There is a chance I could be pregnant. When i say EXTREMELY early i mean like 5-10 days (i know some dont show for a few weeks but...) So far I've felt a little tired easier then usual and when I pe...
A. 19 December 2007: Maybe feeling sick or sore breasts, the easiest way is to go and get yourself a test, so tests can tell you sooner than others if your pregnant.
Feeling tired is a symptom but that could be anything, the chances are if you've had unprotected sex ... (read in full...)
I have never been cheated on and I had imagined we'd be together forever. Should I excuse his infidelity?
Q. So here is my problem, plain and clear: My boyfriend makes no god damn sense. I am 22 years old. I am in University for engineering with a 4.0 GPA. I work out 5-6 days a week and I weigh 125 pounds, I am in top notch shape. I keep every part of ...
A. 19 December 2007: You seem very into looks, yours and his, and whilst that is fine to a degree he says he had a "connection" with this other girl, and even though you seem to think she's not as good as you, he obviously thought she was, maybe she gave him confidence ... (read in full...)
I feel i'm being pressured into sex.
Q. hi there, i think im being pressured into sex! i mean im only young! and i have my periods and dont realy want too do it but im scared he will brake up with me i have asked him if he would mind if we didnt do it so soon and he went offline!...
A. 11 August 2007: I hate to say it but I think he might be. He doesn't want people to know your together and if he respected you he would accept that you weren't ready for sex and good for you for not being pressured into it, you should be proud of yourself!
I woul... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a boy, but he keeps saying no.
Q. I have a really big problem. I have fallem for this boy and we have conversations over the internet. He is quite close to me as a friend aswell. he goes to the same school as me and i have asked him if he will go out with me but he keeps saying he ...
A. 11 August 2007: I know it's hard but it does seem that this boy just wants to be friends with you, maybe he's not ready to go out with someone.
You have asked him straight out if he wants to go out with you and he's not answerng because he doesn't want to hurt your... (read in full...)
Having trouble understanding the whole ovulation process.
Q. Hi, im courtney me and my boyfriend are trying to get pregant and we think i might already be but we are not sure so i took a test at the clinic and it came up negative but the doctor said it would be to soon to tell and now i just started bleeding ...
A. 11 August 2007: Why on earth are you trying to get pregnant?!
Not only should you not be having sex, you definalty should not be trying for a baby you are not mature enough emotionally or physically.... (read in full...)
How should i ask him out?
Q. i like this boy. he is cute. i want a way to notice me because i like him alot. idont know what to say when i want to ask him out what should i do???...
A. 11 August 2007: Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometimes, make things friendly and if he likes you too, maybe he might ask you out!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Does he just say he loves me, so not to hurt me?
Q. hi dear, please help me, i dont know anymore what to do.my bf are suffering under deep depression. anybody pls. tell me how can i deal with this. he totally change he lose his interest in everything. sometimes i feel he also lose his love for me ...
A. 11 August 2007: If your boyfriend is genuinely depressed then I very much doubt whether it's about you, you might be taking it too personally.
He needs to get medical help whether thats having some sort of therapy or medication.
You also need to talk to him and ... (read in full...)
He annoys me sometimes, is this right?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I love him more than anything and we have so much fun together. I am starting to worry that I am falling out of love with him though because I go through times when everything about him ...
A. 11 August 2007: When you've been together for a while you start to take them for granted, yes of course he annoys you sometimes that is completly normal! Although I don't understand the disgust thing, is it disgust or is just because your annoyed at him?
If it is d... (read in full...)
He choose his wife over his child.
Q. my dad kicked me out about a year ago,because he had to choose between me or his wife he choose his wife. all i want is a relationship with my own dad what can i do to convince him?...
A. 11 August 2007: You really shouldn't have to convince him, he should be there for you even if you don't live together anymore.
I would get in contact with your dad, and tell him you want to meet up and explain how your feeling. Do you still speak to him? if not ... (read in full...)
Feel like my boyfriend am I are living like a boring old married couple... already!
Q. I am so mixed up at the moment, I'm at university in England, where I live with my boyfriend, who moved over here with me from N.Ireland. He's wonderful; very loyal, kind and generous and I love him dearly. Ideally I would love us to marry and live ...
A. 11 August 2007: I feel for you, your still young and want to have fun, although he probably really is too tired.
It would maybe be easier to try and make some more friends, easier said than done, but you could go out with them once in a while? Or maybe you coul... (read in full...)
I have a couple of concerns about marrying my older internet boyfriend guy!
Q. Hey everyone, I just made my account on this site last night and thus far, I've answered everything I could honestly. So, can I get a little help? I have a boyfriend of almost a year, and I love him more than anything. He's twenty eight years old ...
A. 11 August 2007: If your having doubts I think you should listen to them. You are still young and there's so much to experience yet!
Most relationships when people are your age don't last, you will chnage alot in the next 5 years, and maybe him moving closer to you ... (read in full...)
I dont trust him, he doesnt make me feel sexy and it doesn't feel like he respects me, but he is such a nice guy
Q. I am currently living with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years. I love him very much but I dont feel happy in this relationship anymore. A year ago, he cheated on me, he was seeing a girl on his university course. He told me he made a mistake and asked ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello there,
I think you've lost trust in your partner after lying about this girl on at uni. It will still take sometime to get this trust back.
This I'm sure is normal, you want some reasurrance that he still finds you sexy and attracti... (read in full...)
I have tons of pubic hair! Is this normal?
Q. Hi everyone, I am a fifteen year old male and i'm worried about my pubic hair. The fact is that I have tons of the stuff. I don't like wearing boxers and when I put on normal pants I can still see it. Even when I have gf's I refuse them when t...
A. 29 March 2007: Yes it is normal to have a lot of pubic hair, especially if your male.
You may have a bit more than average, you can always trim it with some scissors, be very careful though, you don't have to trim it right down just make it look "neat".
Hope ... (read in full...)
Is "hanging out" a relationship?
Q. is hanging out a relationship?...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
I wouldn't say it was a relationship. Hanging out is just that, spending time with someone, but if you spend enough time with someone you never know what might happen!
... (read in full...)
I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??
Q. About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...
A. 29 March 2007: Hi
My oh my, you couldn't of done a better job of being unfaithful.
You not only could ruin your marriage but also the relationship between your husband and his brother.
Still judgement aside, I don't think I would tell your husband if you can g... (read in full...)
Getting married on 12th April and need ideas for a romantic tune to walk into the registry office to!!
Q. Hi guys, Shandy Pop here. Sorry this may sound a bit trivial, well it's not the sort of question that is asked on this site, BUT I am getting married on 12th April and i need your help. I need a song (tune), romantic, to walk into the Registry Off...
A. 29 March 2007: Hey Shandy
Well a song I love is islands in the steam, do you not have a song that reminds you of him and visa versa?
Good Luck and hope you have a special day xx... (read in full...)
Im hating the summer before its here! I cant stand my bf looking at all those pretty girls!
Q. I feel angry and jealous when the warmer weather comes b/c i feel like my b/f probably sees so many attractive girls(he works outside and near alot of stores). I also feel jealous b/c it seems he has less time for me in the summer b/c he is busy ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
I don't understand what your bf has done wrong, he has a hobby and it would be good for him to go away for a week with his friends. You seem a little insecure and if your bf has never cheated on you, or has never even given you any clue that... (read in full...)
Do you think that she would like to make it work, or is she scared of how her parents will react ?
Q. I really want to go out wth a grl who is 17 and I am 27. She said she won't date men who are over 22, Another day she told me over 23 and another day over 25. Also, she said that if she dated me, her parents would disown her! She knows that I...
A. 29 March 2007: I don't think she wants to be with you, I'm sorry, but I think your reading too much into this. Step back and see if she actually tells you she likes you. Or just ask her straight if she wants to go on a date or something.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My ex keeps running away all the time, could it be that shes jealous ?
Q. My ex girlfriend lived with her friend for 5 years but when her friend was going to get married my ex got upset and ran to her other best friend, but now she is married she is running away again. What does this mean?she went to spain to escape came ...
A. 29 March 2007: Sean
you keep posting the same question in a different way.
You need to move on from you ex, to keep going over all these things that have happen is defiantly unhealthy.
Take time looking after you!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How do you go about having a threesome!?
Q. How do you go about getting a threesome? I would be interested, just for fun, and so would my boyfriemd, but we dont know where to go from here... and i want another man, and he wants another girl! thanks for your advice...
A. 29 March 2007: Your too young to be having sex, so your way too young to be having a 3some, it's something you may regret in years to come, it can cause all sorts of problems and unless your in a mature and long lasting relationship and you were both 100% sure, ... (read in full...)
Does he want to date her, is he bored of me now ? What does this mean!?
Q. OMG! right another stupid question with most probably a simple answer i cant think of. I have a site like myspace but its not and so does my bf. so i can read all his comments and he can read mine etc. anyway, i wo jus looking through people in ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello there
The only way your going to know for certain is to talk to him, if I was you I would show him what you have written here. Then see what he has to say, it may just of been harmless flirting, or it maybe that he does like this girl.
Talk ... (read in full...)
Due to get married in two weeks, I cant go through with it, I hate his kids and Im going off him day by day, How do I tell him!?
Q. i am getting married in two weeks and i am sick to the stomach. the thing is planned, mostly paid for and i just cannot go through with it. I hate his kids, his family and i am going off him by the day. but how do i go about telling him without ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello there,
This sounds a little more than pre wedding jitters.
If you are sure that you do not want to marry this man, and if it's because you don't like his kids or his family, do you love him enough to rise above that and be with him anyway? ... (read in full...)
I want to date this guy but dont seem to trust him, is it because my ex ran off with my cousin ?
Q. i have two problems...1.i was seeing this guy who i loved so much for 7 months recently he just stopped showing interest in me and suddenly broke up with because he says he has fallen for my cousin who is also my best friend.my cousin claims there ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
If your cousin has always been honest with you then there's no reason to doubt her now, they are probably just friends and you are reading more into it because your still hurt from the break up.
With this other guy I would try just being fr... (read in full...)
I wanted to end it, but she said she cant "live" without me, I cant live with that guilt, please help!
Q. i told my gf. that i wanted to break up with her because everyone including my family and friends and those of hers disagrees to the relationship we have.. she alwys tells me that she cant live without me.... and that she will die if ever i leave...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
Do you actually want to break up with her? Don't do it just because other people want you too!
If how ever you do want to split up with her then she's saying these things because she doesn't want you to leave her. I doubt she would actually... (read in full...)
He wants to wait until marriage to have sex, anyway I can change his mind ?
Q. My boyfriend and I are both 20 year old virgins. He told me he is waiting for marrige, but I want to have sex now, bc I love him. Is there anything I can do to change his mind???...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello there
You shouldn't pressure him to do something he's not comfortable with, in the same way he shouldn't do it to you.
This is his decision and you should try and respect that. In time you never know, he may change his mind, and if you love... (read in full...)
The girl in my class keeps saying she wants to kiss me but never does! What shoud I do ?
Q. hi I am a boy and there is this girl in my class and she keeps on saying that she wants to kiss me, but she never does. What should i do. Please help....
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
Kiss her first! if she says anything tell her you got fed up of waiting!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems different lately, or is it just me !?
Q. Can someone help me please? I don’t know what to do about my boyfriend his been acting different lately like he can’t be bothered to have me as a boyfriend. Let me try to explain this. Well he has loads of friends and that in 6th form and so on and ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
You have only been together a short while, and everyone is always more caring with the other person when you first start going out with someone. As time has gone on maybe he's shown you the real him, and maybe he's not the person you thou... (read in full...)
I am totally paranoid that the guy I'm with is somehow deceiving me. Do I have a serious problem?
Q. I feel like I'm going crazy or have some kind of personality disorder. I am totally paranoid that the guy I'm with is somehow deceiving me. There was only one instance that he betrayed me trust, it was minor but still made me uneasy and now I just ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
To start with he doesn't question you because he believes you that you are going to do what you say your going to do.
So I wouldn't worry about that.
You need to stop doubting your boyfriend he told you a white lie and I think we're all gu... (read in full...)
Meeting him this weekend for the first time. I'm afraid he's going to think I'm really fat and ugly and be disappointed when he meets me. What should I do??
Q. I'm meeting this guy that I met on the internet this weekend. We're having lunch in NYC and he's very excited. I'm excited also. The problem is, he thinks I'm really pretty. From the few (edited) pictures I've sent him, he seems to think that I'm ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hi there
Relax!
I'm sure this guy is going to think your great, he means it when he says your pretty and he's got to know you pretty well so obviously he likes you enough to meet right.
He won't see any of the things that you think he will and he ... (read in full...)
Married 8 months and afraid of sex, because of the pain! What should I do?
Q. im married for almost 8months.im still virgin.im too scared to have sex because of the pain.my husband is really pissed with me.please advice how to avoid this and the right position to make love ....
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
It's going to take both of you to make this a pleasurable experience for you.
Firstly go to your doctor and make sure there is nohing physically wrong before you begin.
When you get the all clear - which I'm sure you will.
Then you need... (read in full...)
Guys, would you sleep with a girl who isnt toned and who has some cellulite?
Q. guys, would u sleep with a girl who isnt toned and who has some cellulite?...
A. 29 March 2007: Are you perfect? No i didn't think so.... (read in full...)
I emailed her asking her back and she hasn't replied! Does that mean she can't be bothered?
Q. How do you know if your ex still likes you? I emailed my girlfriend 5 Months ago and said i loved her i cared for her much and would do anything to get back with her, but i think you dont feel the same. i said i think we should move on now, take ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
I don't know why she would phone, she may think that you would be over her my now and you wouldn't be bothered if she called you. Maybe she did it because she wanted things to be final between you before she deleted your number, and she neve... (read in full...)
Do you think that she would like to make it work, or is she scared of how her parents will react ?
Q. I really want to go out wth a grl who is 17 and I am 27. She said she won't date men who are over 22, Another day she told me over 23 and another day over 25. Also, she said that if she dated me, her parents would disown her! She knows that I...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
I think maybe she is scared of what her parents would say, but also I think this is a way of her saying she's not interested. At 17 a 27 year old would be quite a scary prospect and you will have totally different interests. She is probably flat... (read in full...)
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