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writes:what should i do when my mom dosent want me to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of our age gap..... n how can i tell my gf that we need to break up knowing that she would hurt herself?the reason why i went into a relationship with her was because i was afraid of what she wud do to herself....but as i started to know her better. i started to have feelings for her.....when my mom found out she disapproved.... cos my gf was older than me... and that we dont match.....and that i am still studying... there were ALOT of things she, family members and friends from my side and my gf's side said that disapprove our relationship together..... i have no problems i can handle the situation and move on..... but its my girlfriend... its her i'm reaaly worried about.... she is too emotional... and i am afraid she might do something bad to herself.... i havent told her anytin yet cos she is leaving alone for the meantime.... i am waiting for her family to come back..(in a weeks time) before i tell her...WHAT SHOULD I DO????
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): well you should talk to her about it and she might have a secret that she wants sex with u so just have irty sex
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reader, home_land  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 hello
you calm down and try to talk to your mom like a man and you dont let an prsure from your gf effect you its not good to let that happind becouse later this will creat a mantal strugel for you and its not funny if she really loves you she can be nice and talk to you and not to play i will kill my self game i really mean that.
good luck
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (28 March 2007):
 It's up to you to be with this woman or not! Nobody else's! You shouldn't do what others want you to do! But if you are feeling the same, you should let this girl know straight away. Making her wait to hear what you gotta say is unfair! You are not responsible for her actions... if she hurts herself, it could get a lot worse if you keep putting it off!
She needs to know the truth... but if you dont want to end the relationship, you dont need to listen to anybody else! Let everyone know how this is making you feel!
You are old enough to make your own decisions and your family should get used to the idea! As long as your happy is all that matters!
Best of Luck!
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 Hello there,
You need to be honest with this woman and say you have plans and your young and your not ready for a serious relationship, if that's what you want. If you want to stay with this woman then you shouldn't let anyone push you into ending things.
You care about this woman and you dont want to hurt her, but you are not responsible for her, and she would be far more hurt if you let this go on longer and then finish things with her. Be honest with her no one wants to be lied to. If you genuinely want to end this relationship I'm afraid there's no other way than to be gentle and kind and end things with this woman.
Good luck!
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