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36-40,
*azedandkonfused
writes:My bf was going to leave me and our children for someone he was cheating with. We are trying to work things out but he wants to still hang out with her. My nerves are shot because he won't stay away from her. Should I stay or should I go? Reply to this Question
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reader, dazedandkonfused +, writes (21 July 2007):
dazedandkonfused is verified as being by the original poster of the question It has been months since the affair and I'm still crying and hurting. My spouse has changed since this but I don't seem to want to be in this relationship anymore. Am I wrong to hurt my children because of my feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): You are only 18-21, have kids and putting up with this situation. You should be free and single, you are young enough to be. He wants to hang out with the other women, fine, let him do it, throw his clothes out on the streets. You deserve better and stop grovelling after him to come back. Who in their right minds wants a bloke like that who cannot make up his mind whether he want to be with you are hang out with someone else. Tell him to buggar off! He isn't worth breathing space.
Take care
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Hi
This is a very unhealthy situation for you and your children.
You need to tell him it's you or her I'm afraid an ultimation is the only way forward, if you are trying to repair your relationship he should not still be seeing the person he cheated on you with.
If he refuses not to stop seeing her then I'm afraid your bf has no respect for you and you need to try and move on with your life.
If he told you he will never see her again could you actually trust him not to see her in secret?
I know you have children together and I know deep down you want it to work, but isn't a few months of hurt better than spending more time on a guy who doesn't respect you and who is makng you unhappy?
One day you could find someone who is perfect for you and would never dream of hurting you or your children. At the moement I would concentrate on you and your kids and doing what will make them and you happy.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): what is this other woman offering (brining to the table) that you are not? Find it & then work on it. Make know you are hot and don't need him without saying a word. He'll come around.
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