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anonymous
writes:i have two problems...1.i was seeing this guy who i loved so much for 7 months recently he just stopped showing interest in me and suddenly broke up with because he says he has fallen for my cousin who is also my best friend.my cousin claims there is nothing going on but i am doudting that cos they still communicate and it seems they are very close.i dont know what to do and i m so heartbroken from the betrayal i dont know wat to do.2.though my break up is very recent, there is this guy who likes me but i am doudting him.he is 31 and recently lost his wife who died after childbirth.i am having doudts about this guy's good intentions.i just dont trust him.i dont know if it is because of what i have been through or that he hasnt had time to moan his wife because she died less than 6 months ago.please help me out i am in a complete mess and i dont know what to do.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Hello
If your cousin has always been honest with you then there's no reason to doubt her now, they are probably just friends and you are reading more into it because your still hurt from the break up.
With this other guy I would try just being friends with him for mow, as I think you need to step back from any relationship and give your self a chance to get over your break up and to spend sometime time by yourself and slowly try to begin to learn to trust people again. Speak to your cousin and talk to her about all things that have happened and try to clear the air because I think at the moment her friendship is the only one worth working on.
I hope it all works out, take care.
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