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36-40,
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writes:I am so mixed up at the moment, I'm at university in England, where I live with my boyfriend, who moved over here with me from N.Ireland. He's wonderful; very loyal, kind and generous and I love him dearly. Ideally I would love us to marry and live happily ever after. However, lately we've been like an old married couple. We don't have many friends over here, don't go out much and because he has a very stressful job, he is always tired and falls asleep really early. I often find myself thinking about guys I've previously been with and feel like I'm missing out on the crazy lifestyle other people my age live. I want it both wayds but I know I can't have it like that.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (11 August 2007):
 It's very easy to fall into this kind of pattern with someone and the only thing you can do isalk bout it, you really need to tell him how you feel and you never know he may actually be feeling the same.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (11 August 2007):
 I feel for you, your still young and want to have fun, although he probably really is too tired.
It would maybe be easier to try and make some more friends, easier said than done, but you could go out with them once in a while? Or maybe you could talk to him and try to arrange 1 or 2 nights a week that you can both go and have a good time together? He seems a good guy and remember that it won't always feel like this, but while your a uni you should be having some fun too. He seems to have got slightly in a rut with work he probably needs a good night out too!
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