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*eganiff
writes:ive been with my partner for 6 years and at the start she told me she had 4 previous partners and liked making me jealous, and it worked and as time went on i asked her how the sex was with them, then all of a sudden she said she only slept with 3, then she said 2 and now she swears she only had 1 partner before me! what should i believe?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): She's lied, is lying, and will continue lying in the future.
What more information do you need?
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reader, twinlab99  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 you should double that number she orginally told you and then multiply it by 2.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Screw political correctness. I would want the real story.
I wanna know what kind of liar I might be dealing with, what kind of past relationship trauma might be affecting the present, and what kind of STD risk I'm exposing myself to.
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reader, msjuicy +, writes (21 April 2010):
 she might feel embarrasing and don't wanna hurt you or If she tells the truth you might unintrested on her so you have to stop asking
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reader, raiders +, writes (21 April 2010):
 You should asking her how many guys she slept with since she been with you That the only number that should matter to you not how many guys she has been with in her past, that is just childish and not man like. I hope she forgives you for your indiscretion and for badgering constantly with the same question.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 April 2010):
Stop asking her. She either had a lot, and is ashamed, or she only had one and was worried she didn't have enough experience. Stop asking and accept that she has a past.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Have you tried asking her why she keeps changing the number?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): if i were you - i'd stop asking cos if you don't ask then she won't feel a need to lie. You mentioned getting jealous and i think she keeps lowering her number because she can't really trust you to know the truth. Just stop asking, stop focusing on the yesterdays-years and focus on now/future with her. Everyone has a past so get over it - it matters how she is with you now not how she was, that is the important thing. Just stop asking.
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