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Well I wish I could claim that I waited until I was older and wiser before deciding to share my advise with others but the truth is that I have been handing out my version of the unvarnished truth for as long as I can remember.
I can clearly recall myself at 13 years of age telling my girlfriend's mother that she was raising her daughter all wrong and screwing her up in the process. The funny part is that she stood there crying and actually listened to me and never held it against me. Looking back now, I find it pretty amazing because these people were well educated and rich. And I was nobody special, just a friend that cared enough to open my mouth.
And that never changed, over the years people came to know they could come to me for truthful advise and I would give it to them straight, no sugar coating.
I have been married for 23 years to a wonderful man. I have 3 sons and 2 grandchildren, they call me GeeGee, which is short for groovy grandma, hence the agony aunt name, lol.
I have a degree in the allied health field and have worked as an EMT and as a beautician. So I have heard a lot of sad storied in my day and my heart goes out to all of them.
So I guess, this site is just a way for me to reach out and try to do the same for a bigger crowd. |
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17 March 2011: So you are young and in love, that is so sweet and romantic. I am happy for you. I really am, there is nothing better then being young and in love. It is a very special time for all of us. But what happens when it is over?? Maybe you have ...
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I want him to want me... again.
Q. okay so i need advice pronto! so for a really long time i was pretty much head over heels for this boy, lets call him mike. so mike and i had a on and off dating relationship for a year. then out the of the blue, one of mikes friends, a playe...
A. 12 March 2011: Are you still going to the dance with Tim?
If so there is your chance to win him back.... (read in full...)
About my ex ldr I miss her a lot and don't know if it's to late to get her back?
Q. Well to make this short as I can But if you like to read go for it. Well I meet this girl on A on line web site in I fell in love with her. I can't help but to think about her all the time and every day. But do to the ldr thing again I lost her ...
A. 12 March 2011: PS: I should have added that the only way to fix this is to earn back both her and her parents trust. She can't see you if her parents are giving her a hard time about you.... (read in full...)
Are Asian women tighter?
Q. Do Asian Women have tighter Vagina's??? My friend said that asian women have tighter vaginas and are much better sexually for pleasure for men? is this true x...
A. 12 March 2011: @Chigirl
Ahhh thank you for correcting me no wonder I never had any luck with that one.
PS: my husband is 6'7" and wears a size 13 shoe. hahahah... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always accusing me of doing things wrong!
Q. Well.. my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now and everything's been going pretty well for the most part, but it just seems that he is always accusing me of things I'm not doing, and it really hurts me, and I don't know what to ...
A. 12 March 2011: @StepfordWifeNot
Her follow up is concerning to me as well. She is just not picking up on all the glaring red flags that seem so obvious to me and you. I see major heartache ahead for this girl. I just hope it is only her heart that ends up ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has just told me that he lost his virginity to a prostitute!
Q. I found out last night that my boyfriend wasn't a virgin, and for all the time we've been together I thought he was, since he told me I was his first girlfriend, so I just assumed... Since I thought we were both virgins, I thought the first time we ...
A. 12 March 2011: What to do about it depends on you. Can you let it go or was it really important to you for you and the boy to both be "pure" the first time you have sex?
I don't think you would be so upset about this if you had know from the begining that he ... (read in full...)
Far away flowers on V-Day, does it mean anything?
Q. I met this guy on a dating website almost a year now. We're talking as friends, nothing serious. He sent me flowers on Valentine's Day although we live in two different continents. Does this mean anything? I really like him, but I'm just worried to ...
A. 12 March 2011: Sending flowers on Valentines day is a lovely way to show someone that you were thinking of them on that special day.
It can mean anything from I like you, to I love you or maybe he was just being nice, why don't you ask him?... (read in full...)
I absolutely have no idea where I stand!
Q. I am 25 years old, and a lesbian, I broke up with my ex girl friend after 3 years of relationship.But we still share the same room or stay under one roof .She has a long distance relationship with another woman ever since we broke up. Now the thing ...
A. 12 March 2011: Wow, that has got to be hard for you when you still love her so much. The fact that she is dependent on you for the roof over her head just makes things more complicated.
If she had a job and a place to go, I would probably tell you to dump her... (read in full...)
Did she only marry me because she got pregnant?
Q. I have been in love with this young woman for 2 years. We had been schooling in a local college training as P1 teachers.Accidentally in one of our happy moments she concieved while in college but since we were near to graduate and l loved her l ...
A. 12 March 2011: It is a stupid, cruel and hurtful thing to do, but many times a woman runs away, because she wants her husband or lover to come after her and fight for her to prove your love.
Maybe she has the same fears that you do, that you don't really love... (read in full...)
Flirty friends and double standards....what would you do in this situation?
Q. Ok i'm really unsure what to do and would love some advice. Here goes: My fella and I have been together a year now. I have this group of so-called friends (so-called because they never really bothered with me much when I was single unless th...
A. 12 March 2011: You and your boyfriend are grown ups now, you're not in high school anymore. You should be able to take him around your friends without a single fear or worry about his loyalty to you, whether another girl tries to flirt with him or not.
He i... (read in full...)
About my ex ldr I miss her a lot and don't know if it's to late to get her back?
Q. Well to make this short as I can But if you like to read go for it. Well I meet this girl on A on line web site in I fell in love with her. I can't help but to think about her all the time and every day. But do to the ldr thing again I lost her ...
A. 11 March 2011: How old is this girl? Is she is still in high school I can understand why her parents might not be to keen on the idea of a 20 something year old they know nothing about sneaking around with their daughter behind their backs. Or messing up her ... (read in full...)
After opening up and sharing his emotions with me, he is avoiding me! What is going on??
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a couple weeks now. I wrote on here last week as I was worried that he went all off-ish with me after we had an argument... Since then, we met each other on Saturday night. My friends saw him in a few different places w...
A. 11 March 2011: He sounds like he is struggling with myself. One side wants to stay free and avoid growing up as long as possible, the other side is getting tired of the bar scene and is thinking maybe it is time for him to settle down.
You are doing everythi... (read in full...)
Seeing him for a year but not sure if he likes me
Q. I have been seeing this guy for just over a year. I am having a hard time distinguishing if he really like me or not. Let's start from the beginning. I met him at work, the boss's son. We would hang out after work, have sex, go out to dinner (u...
A. 11 March 2011: If you feel this way then maybe it is time for you to tell Brad that you realy like him but since you both know it is never going to go anywhere (his words) that it is time for you to move on.
That maybe not tomorrow or the next day but someday ... (read in full...)
Are Asian women tighter?
Q. Do Asian Women have tighter Vagina's??? My friend said that asian women have tighter vaginas and are much better sexually for pleasure for men? is this true x...
A. 11 March 2011: Your friend is seriously mistaken or pulling your leg. A woman's size, big boned or petite have nothing to do with the size of her vagina.
PS: and just in case you ever wondered, if a woman has a box of large size tampons in her bathroom... (read in full...)
I want to propose to her, but I don't know how or when?
Q. i love a 16 yr. Old girl , puja very much..Sitting next to me in the 10th boards, i m 16 too, how would i propose her, i' ve thought to propose her on 18th march 2011, the 2nd last xam, and wait for rply till 23rd, the last day of xam.. Plz help me, ...
A. 11 March 2011: Personally, I think you are too young to be considering marriage, but I understand that your culture is different from mine in the USA.
So all I will say is that I think it would be better for you to wait until after exams are over.
That ki... (read in full...)
She lied and then said it was my fault
Q. dear users, Yesterday i got into kinda trouble with my relationship. But let's start from a very beginning. Im a 18 years old guy that is very jealous. She is almost 18 years old and loves to play rpg with guys. The games are played by two player...
A. 11 March 2011: If you don't mind her playing RPG then, why as you say, did they make you angry?? Like it or not you were trying to take something away from her that she enjoyed. Which made her feel like she had to hide it from you by your attitude and obvious ... (read in full...)
Should I leave the other guy and fix things with the boyfriend and father of my baby?
Q. Hello everyone I need advice big time. Well I have a boyfriend I’ve been with for 7 years and we have a daughter whose 3. My boyfriend and I met when I was in middle school and we got pregnant at the age of 16 and had the baby and kept going to ...
A. 11 March 2011: The solution is simple...
You need to pick which one you want to be with, now, before you lose them both.... (read in full...)
I look like a liar but I'm not!
Q. My boyfriend of a year and I got together back when I was going through a divorce from a very physically abusive man. I got therapy and got better. During the beginning of our relationship, though, I wasn't always honest with him about when I talked ...
A. 11 March 2011: First of all there is such a thing as a self fufilling prophecy, that you need to explain to him. Basically when a person lets one specific fear over rule them in a relationship they change their behavior toward their love one so much that they ... (read in full...)
I get scared when boyfriend wants to kiss
Q. i always gets scared anytime my boyfriend wants to kiss or have sex with me what do i do please help me he wants to break up with me....
A. 11 March 2011: All the answers below give some pretty good advise if the problem is simply that your not ready or scared of the consequences. Pregnancy, pain, STD's or loss of reputation.
But there is another possibility that you might want to consider... (read in full...)
Been told I have spine abifida, my life's over and I'm only 15!
Q. Please someone help:'( i feel as though my lifes over, i cant stop crying, i went to the doctors and have got told i have spine abifida, its in the lower part of my bck so it ok, but i also have a twisted spine, im an average bubbly teenage 1...
A. 11 March 2011: The best place to look for help is from other teens that have the same problem. Look online or near you for a support group they can tell you more about living with it than any doctor. Because they have it, he just treats it.... (read in full...)
How can I manage to do what I like when giving a blow job when he doesn't like it?
Q. My bf and i are having great sex thou it is not a 24/7 deal. i get it when the mood set right and the thing i enjoyed doing with him that i never did like with any other man i had in the past, is i like giving passionate heads.I use to give the best ...
A. 11 March 2011: You are right the only way to figure it out is to try different things and ask him to tell you which feels best to him. Or ask him to show you what he likes by doing it to you first. If he won't do either then I would give up. I mean come on is ... (read in full...)
My fiance got a vasectomy behind my back !!!!
Q. I am 32 and my fiance is 45, we had a baby a year ago after not being able to for many years. My fiance that I have been with for 5 years got a vasectomy behind my back 6 months after the baby was born. I would love to have another child in the ...
A. 11 March 2011: I got your message and the only positive thing I can say is that I honestly don't think he did this to hurt you. I know it's hard to see things from his eyes right now. But look at it this way, his first marriage fell apart after x amount of years, ... (read in full...)
My fiance got a vasectomy behind my back !!!!
Q. I am 32 and my fiance is 45, we had a baby a year ago after not being able to for many years. My fiance that I have been with for 5 years got a vasectomy behind my back 6 months after the baby was born. I would love to have another child in the ...
A. 11 March 2011: Getting a vasectomy behind your back was an act of betrayal to you and the relationship. No matter how strongly he felt about it he should not have done that.
Maybe I could have lived without another child if my partner felt strongly enough a... (read in full...)
What do her questions mean?
Q. dear qupid i like this girl, she's about one year younger than me, and we're close friends (we always come to eachother for advice, and we always hang out). not too long ago, i told her how i felt, and i got a really long responce about how she do...
A. 10 March 2011: Because it is flattering to hear whu a boy likes you, even if you don't like the boy as more than a friend.
You say she already wrote you a long reponse telling you she doesn't have any romantic feeling for you, so I think you need to believe ... (read in full...)
If you have sex, how do you feel, if you cannot make her finish?
Q. If you're a guy, how does it make you feel if you cannot make her finish during sex? ...
A. 10 March 2011:
If you happened to finished before her during sex it's not that big a deal it happens, and is nothing to feel bad about. It's what you do about it afterwards that matters.
Most woman can not reach climax in the missionary position ... The litt... (read in full...)
Can I be the one for her if I change?
Q. hi i need someone else view on whats going on with my life and maybe some advice recently my relationship ended with who i believe is my "one". However i couldnt fight it, she was very unhappy with me, and basicly i fucked up. Its my own damn faul...
A. 10 March 2011: Maybe she will give you another chance maybe she won't. The most important thing you can now for yourself is learn from your past mistakes and never treat a girl like you treated her again. You're not the first guy who had to learn this lesson the ... (read in full...)
Is my current relationship lowering my self-esteem
Q. Dear cupid Please read the entire post I had one bf before the current relationship. My ex-bf was extremely clingy type with no self-esteem at all. I broke up with him and he still send me messages. My current bf is the extreme oppoiste of my...
A. 10 March 2011: Isn't it funny that life sent up two men so opposite of each other? First one that suffocated you and was to clingy and now you have one that won't even answered the phone when you call him.
I think life is trying is to teach you a lesson a... (read in full...)
If your hymen is broken will you bleed during 1st time sex?
Q. dear cupid, are you still considered a virgin if your hymen is broken and you haven't had sex? also, if your hymen HAS been broken before your first time, is it likely that you will still bleed?...
A. 10 March 2011: Yes you are still a virgin if you have never had intercourse
with man. And you may not bleed the first time or only bleed a little if your hymen was already broken. A hymen can be broken by many things before sex such a bad fall on a bike.... (read in full...)
She needs space but still loves me!
Q. Please read entire post as I really need an answer: So, I recently got out of a 1 year and 2 month relationship. For about the first 3-4 months things were perfect as they always are, and then the fights and arguments started to happen. I'll adm...
A. 10 March 2011: Why, when things were just starting to get better would you decide to go out with your friends every night for almost a week straight? Are you trying to mess things up on purpose?
And when a girl says she misses you but not your bull crap tha... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always accusing me of doing things wrong!
Q. Well.. my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now and everything's been going pretty well for the most part, but it just seems that he is always accusing me of things I'm not doing, and it really hurts me, and I don't know what to ...
A. 10 March 2011: @Stepfordwifenot, I agree with you but I don't believe she is at the point where she is ready to hear that yet. No, she'll stay until she realizes just how bad it can get.... (read in full...)
I don't know how she feels and I cant get a straight answer out of her
Q. ok, well my situation is this, im a college student attending Utah State University, and ive fallen for a friend of mine, the feeling has grown over the past five months, shes a beautiful girl and very intelligent, with a very unique personality. ...
A. 10 March 2011: Next time you give her a full body massage lean over and kiss her neck, then slowly kiss her all the way down to her legs.
She will either tell you to stop or she will roll over and kiss you back. After that u can use your imagination and take it ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to marry me because I never let him win??
Q. I'm in shock and lost for words right now. My boyfriend/fiance of about 6 years off and on finally told me last night that the reason he has been so hesitant on marrying me is because he has worked his whole life on his business, and if he ever got ...
A. 10 March 2011: Look up some info about guys with abandonment issues
and see if he fits the profile. I know another guy with this problem who also lost their mother early to alcoholism.... (read in full...)
He told me to take the money and go shopping, is something up?
Q. I'm a stay at home house wife, take care of my daughter while my husband works. Recently he got some extra money 400 dollars, we split the money. My money is going for my daughter's bill from the doc. that our insurance did not cover.. Heth the way ...
A. 10 March 2011: Make a payment on the doctors bill and go shopping with the rest. No one says you have to pay it off all at once unless money is so tight that it might not get paid at all or before you need to see the doctor again.... (read in full...)
My relationship is causing me so much stress, that I can't think straight. ...
Q. Sorry up front for the long post. I have a lot on my mind and this is as short as I could possibly make it. I'm having trouble trusting my girlfriend lately and frankly, as things stand now, I have a strong urge to break up with her. We've been ...
A. 10 March 2011: Ok you got what you wanted your old girlfriend back the way she way before the new friend. So unless it is too late and you no longer love her why not just stay with her and see how it goes?
Is she starts to go back to her old ways again with the... (read in full...)
I want him to want me... again.
Q. okay so i need advice pronto! so for a really long time i was pretty much head over heels for this boy, lets call him mike. so mike and i had a on and off dating relationship for a year. then out the of the blue, one of mikes friends, a playe...
A. 10 March 2011: Who do you want back Mike or Tim. I'm sorry but I am having trouble understanding the quetion. Other than the fact that Tim still talks to other girls. Maybe you could clarify your questions for us little more.... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be friends
Q. me and my ex just broke up a month ago and she has a new bf. how ever she wants to be friends. she texts me every couple of days to chat,calls me on occasions, and wants to be able to "see me" because i "mean the world to her". Not sure if i can ...
A. 10 March 2011: It is probably not a good idea after just a month. You are just a habit she is having a hard time breaking at this point. Tell her you care for her and wish her the best but you need some time and distance from her for a while in order to heal and ... (read in full...)
Husband cares more for his family than he does for me
Q. I have been married for 2 years and recently seperated because he cares and does more for his family than me. We lived next door and all they had to do was call and he would run no matter what we were doing or planning takes care of their house and ...
A. 10 March 2011: His parent are getting up there in age, of course they need his help more right now. But they aren't going to be around forever, so why can't you just be more patient and understanding with him in the meantime? ... (read in full...)
Why is she hiding her bi self from me?
Q. I'm 15 years old,female,and bi. Anyway there's this girl that I like, a lot. She says she is straight, but I know she isn't because she told my friend the other day that she is bi. She denies it though because she doesn't want to be that way and ...
A. 10 March 2011: Because highschool is hard enough without everyone thinking your gay on top of it. She isn't ready for that. So she avoids you because she is afraid of what might happen.
That's why most people wait until they go away to college to open up about... (read in full...)
Just split up, what can I do?
Q. iv just split with my boyfriend and all i can think about is him. hes changed his number and blocked all contact so i cant get hold ov him. know this is for the best but just cant stop thinkin of him. when ever i go out everyones askin me if we ...
A. 10 March 2011: They say that it takes about half the time you were together to get over the breakup. Give yourself a chance to heal. ... (read in full...)
I am very jealous of his past, his ex, his kids
Q. Im In a realationship,living together.We were married and together for 3 yrs.He broke my heart.I never got over him.25 years later(recently)he contacted me on facebook-Both of us married living an hour apart.Both miserably unhappy...He left his wife ...
A. 10 March 2011: Would he be willing to adopt a child with you? There are many children age 5 and up in need of a good home since most young couples only want an infant. I think you need to be a mother in order to find peace in your heart. Otherwise your ... (read in full...)
Leading a double life, I thought I could go back, but I can't!
Q. When I started uni I decided to do something I've wanted to do for as long as I remember but never had the freedom to; explore my sexuality. I had a one year relationship with a boy in high school, pretty much because it just sort of happened and ...
A. 10 March 2011: You didn't choose to be a lesbian and your experimentation at college didn't cause you to get stuck this way either.
You said you have always felt this way a long as you can remember. And you can't just turn that off and on like a lightswi... (read in full...)
My aunt hates me now and I don't know why
Q. what do I do I am so upset? My aunt and me live kinda far but we have always been kinda close even because she is not just my aunt she is my godmother and so it means a little more to us usually. Well I went to send a request on facebook for her to ...
A. 10 March 2011: Maybe it had nothing to do with her not liking you. She accepted your friend request and didn't delete you until after you made that post on her wall. Maybe she didn't want someone to know she was going to be taking a trip to Florida. Maybe someone ... (read in full...)
We can't figure this girl out!
Q. Hey everyone, my cousin asked me for advice but I seriously can't figure this girl out... (you'll understand me in a couple of seconds) He met a girl about a year ago, she was instantly attracted to him but he didn't like her that much. They wer...
A. 10 March 2011: Who knows maybe she has a boyfriend back home or somewhere else. Maybe she doesn't think her family would approve.
Are they different races or religions? Maybe she is mentally damaged who knows...
Whatever the reason is doesn't really matte... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always accusing me of doing things wrong!
Q. Well.. my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now and everything's been going pretty well for the most part, but it just seems that he is always accusing me of things I'm not doing, and it really hurts me, and I don't know what to ...
A. 10 March 2011: It is not you it's him and you can't fix or make it better for him by being a better girlfriend. This guy sounds very insecure with himself. I mean look at the tickling thing, it seems to me that he only got mad when you were able to over power ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to marry me because I never let him win??
Q. I'm in shock and lost for words right now. My boyfriend/fiance of about 6 years off and on finally told me last night that the reason he has been so hesitant on marrying me is because he has worked his whole life on his business, and if he ever got ...
A. 10 March 2011: One last thing to consider, is it possible that he doesn't see you as being suitable "wife material" for any reason?
Is there anything in your past that could be holding him back. What about your family? Do you come from an upper middle class ba... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to marry me because I never let him win??
Q. I'm in shock and lost for words right now. My boyfriend/fiance of about 6 years off and on finally told me last night that the reason he has been so hesitant on marrying me is because he has worked his whole life on his business, and if he ever got ...
A. 10 March 2011: If the man loved you and was just worried about his money and his buisness he would have proposed but asked you to sign a prenup.
There is something else holding him back. Maybe he cares for you but the obvious message he is giving you here is ... (read in full...)
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