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Hello,

Well I wish I could claim that I waited until I was older and wiser before deciding to share my advise with others but the truth is that I have been handing out my version of the unvarnished truth for as long as I can remember.

I can clearly recall myself at 13 years of age telling my girlfriend's mother that she was raising her daughter all wrong and screwing her up in the process. The funny part is that she stood there crying and actually listened to me and never held it against me. Looking back now, I find it pretty amazing because these people were well educated and rich. And I was nobody special, just a friend that cared enough to open my mouth.

And that never changed, over the years people came to know they could come to me for truthful advise and I would give it to them straight, no sugar coating.

I have been married for 23 years to a wonderful man. I have 3 sons and 2 grandchildren, they call me GeeGee, which is short for groovy grandma, hence the agony aunt name, lol.

I have a degree in the allied health field and have worked as an EMT and as a beautician. So I have heard a lot of sad storied in my day and my heart goes out to all of them.

So I guess, this site is just a way for me to reach out and try to do the same for a bigger crowd.

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To all young girls with a boyfriend

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17 March 2011: So you are young and in love, that is so sweet and romantic. I am happy for you. I really am, there is nothing better then being young and in love. It is a very special time for all of us. But what happens when it is over?? Maybe you have ...

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Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time

Q.   I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...

A.   10 March 2011: That's a low blow when I guy screams at you that he doesn't even beleive it's his baby when you both know it is. That to me is a sign of big trouble ahead. Either he is to immature to be a good husband and father. Or he is a real jerk. Niether ... (read in full...)

I want him as my boyfriend or nothing at all! How do I tell him that?

Q.   So I’ve been talking to this guy... I like him a lot. But he lives about an hour and a half away. We talk everyday, he calls me his future girlfriend, and stuff like that..but lately I've been feeling like I can't just keep talking to him.. I want ...

A.   6 March 2011: If Aunt Honesty's idea won't work for some reason then I think you need to explain to the boy that it's not that you don't like him, it's that you like him too much for a long distance relationship to work. Tell him it is just too painful for ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I'm not up for a casual roll in the hay??

Q.   the guy i have been seeing exclusively for the past few months recently told me that he didn't think he was in the right place for a relationship, mainly because at the end of the year he is leaving uni and going abroad, but that he does really care ...

A.   6 March 2011: If he is pressuring you without knowing you're still a virgin then it doesn't make sense to me to think he would after you tell him. If anything he should respect and understand your position even better. I think I would tell him by saying someth... (read in full...)

Are there symptoms of being sterile?

Q.   why is my semen look kinda milky !! its a white color,. and lately i wasnt able to produce a big quantity of sperm !! does that mean im a sterile or something !! that would suck coz i really love kids !! are there any symptomps of bein sterile !...

A.   6 March 2011: Normal semen is white and milky looking and no you can't tell sperm count without a lab test. And finally you may produce a little less semen if you have been masturbating or having sex a lot. Like on a daily basis.... (read in full...)

Has my boyfriend lost interest? If so, how do I confront him?

Q.   We've been dating for five months, and our communication has become pretty sparse. For the past week or so, it's become so that if I don't initiate the conversation, we just don't communicate at all for days. And he's always online on his ...

A.   6 March 2011: Dear Flame You sound like a very mature and resonable person, especially for such a young girl, so no I don't believe you are asking for too much from your boyfriend. You seem to be doing everything right asking all the right questions, givin... (read in full...)

Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time

Q.   I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...

A.   28 February 2011: How long were you dating him before you got pregnant?... (read in full...)

Does body size matter to a guy?

Q.   Do men find a curvy body attractive??? I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom a...

A.   28 February 2011: Ever hear the saying, There is a lid for every pot?? PS: I am only 5'3" have similar measurements, and my hubby is 6'7". Its never been a problem for us. ;)... (read in full...)

His brother is trying to sabotoge our relationship!

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much and is very much serious about him. I know that very well that his brother doesn't like our commitment. Recently I came to know the reason behind this hatred, his brother liked me before. But I accepted my boyfriend's ...

A.   28 February 2011: Ask his brother to tell the truth, that he lied because he was jealous. Ask if he cares more about revenge or his brother? Tell him that yo two are on the verge of breaking up over his lies and that its up to him to fix it now or he'll have to live ... (read in full...)

Popular girl is getting in my face about her ex, what do I do?

Q.   I really like this guy at my school and we talk all the time online but he has a really really pretty ex girlfriend who, until recently, he was still in love with, but they still talk everyday and she flirts with him loads even though she doesnt ...

A.   28 February 2011: Try to say a little as possible about it. If she comes up to you and forces a confrontation. Just say I'm sorry I thought you two were not together anymore. So shouldn't it be his decision who he is allowed to talk to and be friends with? Or s... (read in full...)

Others say I'm pretty, why can't my boyfriend?!

Q.   I feel so upset. I asked my boyfriend if I am pretty. He said that I am not very pretty but I am cute because of my cheerful character. He doesn't think that I am pretty he just said that he loves me because of my character and that I have a good h...

A.   27 February 2011: Try not to get so hung up on this. You should already know if you are attractive or not, no matter what your boyfriend says or won't say about it. I think he is just one of those guys who puts more value on what a girl has going for her inside t... (read in full...)

I just want to know if you can or not....

Q.   I am a virgin but my boyfriend has been fingering me a few times. I was wandering if there is any way I can make my vagina hole smaller again???...

A.   27 February 2011: It may loosen up a bit while you're fooling around with your boyfriend, but should return to shape almost immediately right after. Unless you have seen blood and suspect that he may have broken your hymen. Why exactly are you concerned about ... (read in full...)

I know he's no good for me, I need to get over him!

Q.   So it's been like 3 years since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. I've been so hurt that I've been doing things that I'm not supposed to do. We've only been together for 6 months but he is my first love, on the last 3 months of our relationship we ...

A.   27 February 2011: Its hard to know for sure, but I would guess that you still have feelings for him because he was the first boy you ever had sex with and have contined to have sex with at least once since the breakup. I would also guess that he wants to keep in... (read in full...)

10 Things Guys really want in a woman...

Q.   I received a message from a friend on my Facebook fan page and she had an idea for a post for my blog. She inquired if I could write about what men want in a woman. I thought that this might be interesting as well, so I responded to her message and ...

A.   27 February 2011: Excellent article! Well done! Every woman posting questions about relationships on this site should come here first and read this article.... (read in full...)

Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?

Q.   I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?...

A.   27 February 2011: No you are just doing what is right for you. And your samrt enough to know that "doing it" just because everyone else is doing it is a stupid and irresponsible thing to do. You are more about yourself then that and you should. Too bad more of ... (read in full...)

What does this text mean? is his feelings genuine

Q.   well ive been meeting a lad who lives with his ex girlfriend, i have asked other questions relating to this...if you would like to have a look? his ex girlfriend only lives there because she has nowhere to live till she gets herself sorted. they ...

A.   27 February 2011: Unless he is saying the same thing to 3 other girls at the same time, I would trust him until he gives you a reason not to. Just take it slow and keep your eyes open.... (read in full...)

Height Perception..what's a desirable height?

Q.   On average, is a height of 5'8 an initial turnoff? I understand that women prefer taller guys, and that 5'8 is a bit below the average height of 5'10-6'. Am I at a general disadvantage in dealing with women? I mean my current girlfriend is 5'4 so ...

A.   27 February 2011: 5'8" is not a bad height, you're still taller than the average girl. Most girls are going to worry more about how buff you are than how tall. Which is a good thing because you can't change how tall you are but you can work out. Good Luck!... (read in full...)

Can our friendship be salvaged after all the mess thats been created??

Q.   I have been really good friends with a guy in my class for almost a year now. Up until recently, we told each other everything -- our deepest secrets, what we were going through at home -- everything -- and the other always listened and offered ...

A.   27 February 2011: Don't you see what happened. Every part of your relationship has been all about you and your drama, and he tried his best to help you with all of it for as long as he could. So much so that it started to take a toll on him with school and his grades ... (read in full...)

I'm a mature student and I am attracted to my college tutor. He seems interested, but I am confused!

Q.   Help needed please! I am a bit confused by the signals that this man is sending out to me...I have been extremely attracted to someone for about four years, but never told him or really showed it in any way. He is four years older than me and my ...

A.   27 February 2011: He left you know that he is free, but now your not. Not if you are still sharing a home with your ex. Are you still married to him or not? If not move out, get your own place, and tell your tutor that you are free now too and would very muc... (read in full...)

How can I get him to see it's not healthy for him? he's glued to his computer daily.

Q.   My bf and I are a couple for two years (almost) - I'm 22 he's 25. I usually go to sleep around 12 at midnight and sometimes I talk to my boyfriend on the internet before doing it and he says "ok, I'll do the same". But he never does it! He's going...

A.   27 February 2011: It sounds like the problem really isn't that bad. If he doesn't do it when your with him and he still likes to go out and do other things with you, then what he chooses to do after work when your not there is his business, not yours. So Leave him ... (read in full...)

Its been a year since I asked him out twice, I don't think I've moved on yet!

Q.   Dear Cupid 3, My name is Teresa, and I've just turned 16 years old. Last year I had a complicated relationship with a 17 year old boy named Eric. It started out with a smile, and later we started talking. Once I got the guts to do so, I asked h...

A.   27 February 2011: Its always hard when the one we love doesn't love us back no matter how young or old you are. But we have all been through it.... (read in full...)

Why are we constantly hurting each other if we love each other so much?

Q.   I need some very blunt, and honest relationship advice. My relationship is barely hanging on by a string.. and I guess I need someone to kind of 'counsel' me through it. (We've been together for a year and a half) I'm 17, he's 19. About 2 years ...

A.   27 February 2011: I agree with all Chigirls comments below except about the password. To me the only reason he would suddenly want his privacy is so he can talk to someone without your knowing it. Let him keep the password secret, but ask him to log you into his ... (read in full...)

4 years and I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever find love again

Q.   I sometimes wonder if I'll ever find love again. I've only had one serious relationship and that was four years ago. we were together for 2.5years. Back then I was naieve and gullable. I've been on plenty of dates and had the odd boyfriend here n ...

A.   27 February 2011: The man you are waiting for is getting to you just as quickly as he can. Please be patient with him he doesn't know it yet.... (read in full...)

Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??

Q.   how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?...

A.   27 February 2011: A bra store will measure you for free. But basically you measure under your breasts for the band size. Say you measure 32 inches around for example. Add 4 inches. 30 + 4 = 34 (bras come in even sizes so round up odd no's) Next you measure over... (read in full...)

He does not act interested in our band any longer, so why was he upset when I suggested SOLO careers?

Q.   Dear cupid, Me and my Dh started a band long before we got married back in 1998-99. When we started the band we were happy and excited about the future of our music together. We did well and booked and performed some great shows. We recorded...

A.   27 February 2011: It's hard to be sure but I would guess that he has more or less settled into married life and no longer feels the need to make it the the music business. However, he doesn't want you to go ahead without him either because if you were to be ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to see it's not healthy for him? he's glued to his computer daily.

Q.   My bf and I are a couple for two years (almost) - I'm 22 he's 25. I usually go to sleep around 12 at midnight and sometimes I talk to my boyfriend on the internet before doing it and he says "ok, I'll do the same". But he never does it! He's going...

A.   27 February 2011: Well he is not a baby but you may have to take something away from him to get his attention. Maybe the next time you are with him and he is to tired to talk. You should get up and leave immediately. When he asks where you are going say you have... (read in full...)

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

A.   27 February 2011: He is right he should still get married, to her.... (read in full...)

I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?

Q.   I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...

A.   27 February 2011: I don't think your friends are jealous. I think it's because you dress in provacative clothing and put out. You know the old saying right? Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clear to the bone. ... (read in full...)

I'm in a long-distance relationship, but I have a crush on a good friend of mine. What should I do?

Q.   Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship with a guy (J) I met online. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have known him for around 3+ years. We have made plans to meet early next year and we are both very busy working tow...

A.   27 February 2011: Maybe I am old fashioned but in my book you have not been dating J for a a year and a half! You've been pen pals. Maybe that was what you wanted and needed at the time, but now you have a real guy standing right in front of you wanting to be with ... (read in full...)

Relationship with long time close friend who's always had a crush on me?

Q.   Hmm I've known a guy let's call him O, for 5 years and he's liked me from the first day we met. I was going out with someone else at the time in a long distance relationship but I did like O, and thought he was someone I would go out with if I wa...

A.   27 February 2011: It sounds like the guy has been half in love with you since he first met you. Do you really think he is going to blow his chance with you after waiting over 5 years for it? I highly doubt it. Go for it.... (read in full...)

Does she like me or not? Is she just playing hard to get?

Q.   Hey, So theres this girl i like, and i can't keep her out of my mind, shes basically in my eyes perfect for what i like in a girl. i've had a long 2 and a half year relationship which totally broke my heart and any girl i've met since has been a...

A.   27 February 2011: I think you are right. It seems like all she currently wants from you is to be friends with occasional benefits.... (read in full...)

My b/f LDR move back home -- what about the other guy?

Q.   I was in love with my boyfriend of two years. But his dad got this promotion and he had to move to a different country. We talked about being in a long distance relationship, but with the time difference it became too hard for us. And we ended it. ...

A.   27 February 2011: If the boy you are with now treats you well and you have no reason to want to break up with him (other than the old bf moving back) then don't. It wouldn't be fair. The old bf should understand and respect your decision. ... (read in full...)

I just can't persuade myself to believe that she is happy that I am heartbroken because of her.

Q.   One and half year ago, I fell in love with a girl but she did not like me and she turned my life upside down. During this extremely difficult time, another girl appeared in my life. She listened to me and found out we both suffered from the s...

A.   27 February 2011: You blew your best chance with the second girl when you allowed the first one back into your life. Now you have lost them both. Learn from this and move on. ... (read in full...)

We are very compatible but there are many obstacles

Q.   I need advice regarding a relationship. I meet this man on-line and we seem to hit it off very well. He is very nice and we seem to have so much in common. Now here is the hard part.. The one draw back is that we live in two different cities. About ...

A.   27 February 2011: An hour is not that far. Do your ex's get the kids every other week? Maybe you could sinc up your schedules and/or alternate who drives where each weekend.... (read in full...)

Twenty-five year old virgin, help!

Q.   I know a lot of guys have problems getting laid, but I’m having a crisis. I’m 25 years old and considered a virgin by everyone. In reality, I did lose my virginity, but not in a way that is something I would brag about. Nothing illegal or immoral, ...

A.   27 February 2011: Find a shy girl your own age and ask her out. Everyone has to start somewhere.... (read in full...)

Religion, family and friends are causing trouble in our relationship

Q.   Hey, basically there are three problems in my relationship with my girlfriend at the moment. 1) Her friends don't accept me because I fingered her before she was ready although she led me on to do it and they are now making it very hard for us to be ...

A.   27 February 2011: Stop pressuring her for sex, treat her as excellent as you can, get to know her parents, and start going to church with her and the rest should fall into line.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend loves me, but doesn't know if he can give me the stability and commitment I desire. What should I do?

Q.   I am 26 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for nearly two years and within those, and like most couples, have had our ups and downs. Our history together is quite complicated, but I will try to summarise. We met when I moved ...

A.   27 February 2011: The guy has already flat out told you that he isn't ready for a bigger commitment, he isn't even willing to move in with you. Which really isn't that much of a commitment anyways. The only thing that tells me it that he wants to be free to come ... (read in full...)

What is my next move with ex girl???

Q.   hi split with girl over 3 months. 3 months of sheer hell with anxiety. was together 6 years. i really want her back. she dumped me. her feelings changed. she had lots change in her life recently and i know noone else involved. she struggles with ...

A.   27 February 2011: Keep working on yourself, stop drinking and try to move on with your life. If it's meant to be she'll come back to you. She knows how to reach you. But don't pin all your hopes on it. It will take longer than 3 mths to get over a relation... (read in full...)

I feel like he could have done better scheduling a holiday for us - am I right to be upset?

Q.   Hi Aunts, After a busy Summer Semester, I was looking forward to my ONE week of holidays before Uni starts again. I'd suggested to my boyfriend that we might go to one of our beach houses for a few days. He never really wants to go away for long...

A.   27 February 2011: Tell him it's to bad he didn't plan better to have this week off, but that you don't see why that should ruin your holiday. And that you'll be spending it at the beach house without him. Not only will he probably suddenly find the time to go with ... (read in full...)

Pretty sure she's cheating, but need to know for sure before I can move on

Q.   So i have a bit of a problem. my ex and i have been trying to get back together for about 2 months now. The thing is she is about to move away for college and we will not see each other anymore since shes moving all the way to the other side of the ...

A.   27 February 2011: Can you ask one of her friends if she is really in Mexico. Maybe you could post something to her on Facebook. I doubt she would go off with some guy for a couple of weeks without anyone knowing where she is or who she is with. Girls just don... (read in full...)

He's pushing me to go out with others, but how can I get him to try to make 'us' work?

Q.   i'm sorry it's long but i really really need advice and help on this, so can you please help me, i would really appreciate it. my ex broke up with me through a text saying that i couldnt fix it and that he was sorry and he loved me to but that...

A.   27 February 2011: NOT ONLY MY BOYFRIEND BUT ALSO MY BEST FRIEND HE WAS LIKE MY EVERYTHING....... Ok, first of all you need to face some very important facts. No 1. Until you are in your mid twenties or so you will probably go through several romances before ... (read in full...)

What can I do about this? My BF is always so sad

Q.   I need help, My boyfriend is Always sad! he cant spend too much time with me without just being like "ok i want to go home now i've had enough for one day" he said he loves me but i dont feel it and when i tell him that, he doesnt try to show me it, ...

A.   27 February 2011: Confusedlover 10 could very well be right. Before you do anything else I suggested please just ask him if he's been wanting to break up with you but was afraid to hurt you. ... (read in full...)

He was awful to me, so why do I want closure from his abusive ways as badly as I do?

Q.   Why do I miss someone who was abusive? I met this guy a few months ago. He came with a lot of "issues"---he was an ex-con, has multiple kids, possible anger issues. However, I try not to judge people, and when I first met him, I thought he was t...

A.   27 February 2011: Dear lady, you are not a naive young girl anymore. So you should have known better then to get mixed up with an ex con with domestic violence in his background. And you are never going to get closure form this man. Why? Because an ex con doesn't ... (read in full...)

What can I do about this? My BF is always so sad

Q.   I need help, My boyfriend is Always sad! he cant spend too much time with me without just being like "ok i want to go home now i've had enough for one day" he said he loves me but i dont feel it and when i tell him that, he doesnt try to show me it, ...

A.   27 February 2011: Sweetie, Nobody can make someone else happy. Happiness has to come from inside yourself. Has anyting happened to your BF in the last 6mths to a year? A death, lose of job in his family, has he quit any sports teams or stopped doing other things... (read in full...)

Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time

Q.   I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...

A.   27 February 2011: Hold on until the baby is born and see how you feel then. Besides all the hormones you have surging through your body you're both just in very different places right now. You liked him well enough when you were both happy go lucky teenager... (read in full...)

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