We work together, fight all the time. Should we get a divorce?
Q. I'm married for 4 years and since there i had good moments and bad moments too, like every marriage is. But the last months it's getting hard keep the balance. Work, finance, family, relationship, pressure to have kids, i dont know if i'm up to ...
A. 30 September 2011: let me ask do you love her ? why did you marry her? you say you make up , do you forgive each other when you make up? it sounds like money could be the main trouble, you need to do what ever you can to correct or take some of the money pressure ... (read in full...)
He is ignoring me and I feel miserable, please help me!
Q. We met on a dating website 7 months ago and have been meeting and chatting in a regular basis but never more than that. Few weeks ago he was very sweet, more than usual, and I thought things were getting better. Then he disappeared from the chat, I ...
A. 30 September 2011: best to just wait on him for a set amount of time you feel comfortable with . if he is ignoring your attempt.s to get in touch with him , when you do hear from him you deserve an explanation from him. how much do you know of him. could he be ... (read in full...)
If men want their women to look like porn stars, why don't us women care that our men don't look like porn stars??
Q. I'm 25, and I'm here to discuss pornography and men. Some but not all men complain their women don't look like porn stars/models etc. but how come women don't do the opposite and ask for 6-packs/chiselled bodies / big penises etc? Or if they do,...
A. 30 September 2011: i don't want my wife to look like a porn star. she would have to step down several levels and look cheap. those women do not reflect real life, and neither do the men. a person can take care of them self for their partner and look good without ... (read in full...)
I get turned on hearing about my girlfriend's exes...how do I get her to talk about it for me?
Q. I really want my girlfriend to tell me about her past sexual experiences during sex. After hearing a little bit about her previous relationships, I want to hear more. It's not that I want her to sleep with another man, just that I want her to use ...
A. 25 September 2011: i agree with person12345 ,the information she give,s you in detail may not bother you now but it may come home and haunt you later on down the road. you may start seeing the other guy,s with her in living color in your mind. the closer ... (read in full...)
I like to watch her masturbate, is this normal?
Q. [note: please do not write questions in all caps] I like to watch my wife masturbate and she likes to watch me. I'm very small in size, maybe 6 inches hard. She tells me it doesn't matter. It bothers me and I just hope she's truthful. I perf...
A. 23 September 2011: yes it,s normal i like to watch my wife masturbate, and she likes to watch me masturbate.6 in. is average not small. you are letting things bother you that should not.... (read in full...)
Am I taking this too personally?
Q. My boyfriend and I are pretty solitary. We go out and do things, but generally just the two of us. One of our mutual friends was talking about Halloween parties and he really wanted to go, but he did not seem to even think of taking me with him ...
A. 23 September 2011: let him know how you feel. explain to him how you feel about being left out, he is more than likely excited about going and did not give a second thought. he needs to know that you are feeling like a convenient pal instead ... (read in full...)
Husband has cancer but cheated on me when I was asleep nxt door with his kids
Q. well hello everyone i dont know were to start and i have never postd before i just dont know what to do, im a mother of 5 ages 11 ,7,3,2 and 8month old baby me and my husband have been togeather 16 years and we have had our problems alot actually ...
A. 23 September 2011: i am sorry you are going through this.having sex with a prostitute and you being next door worrying about him ,and taking care of the kids . it,s not right,but i am trying to put myself in maybe his mind set. maybe he is worried about being able to ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he fight for me??
Q. Pleassee help meee I've dated this guy for about a month, i broke up with him because i had a gut feeling he wasnt over his ex so i ended it, the other day i was at a local club he was there with a couple of his friends, and she was there as well,...
A. 22 September 2011: i believe you still have strong feelings for him or you would not be depressed, or taking the time to write about him. if you are interested in him let him know. ask him about the other girl if it is over between them. what,s it going to hurt? you ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my looks, Does he lie to me to make me feel better, because I don't look like a porn star?
Q. I know, I know, another porn question. I need advice especially from females who "get it". I guess I have quite a degree of insecurity. The thing is, I know my boyfriend loves me. I know he lies to make me feel better, because he swears and insists ...
A. 21 September 2011: from a man,s perspective a porn star can't hold a candle to a real WOMAN ! i don,t need to watch a cheap, easy, silicon boobed,potential std carrier , that will screw everything that will have her. i prefer ... (read in full...)
Do people look badly upon me if I tell people that I think they are attractive?
Q. Just looking for some opinions on my behaviour and how it would make you feel and to be honest how it makes me look. When I find someone attractive I tell them. I am not interested in being with any of them but always tell them if they are sexy or...
A. 21 September 2011: it would make me think you might be inerested, or wanting to be picked up.... (read in full...)
How do you manage heart-sickness within the relationship?
Q. I'm so content and happy when we're together. We just 'get' each other. We're so very comfortable together with even the mundane things like sitting close watching TV, going to the grocery store, just hanging out. We're also pretty fiery when it ...
A. 19 September 2011: sounds a lot like love. it,s a good thing, your heart maybe telling you this is the person i can't live without. i felt the same way when i was dating my wife about 30 years ago. guess what at times if i am off and she is at work i really ... (read in full...)
How can I be sure my married lover will come for me?
Q. How can I be sure that he will come for me. He is married lives 2,000 away...with a son of 16...he is waiting for the son to go to college before we can be together. He phones when he can...emailing has stopped because his wife has now got access ...
A. 19 September 2011: he is married , you are married. that is two relationships built on mistrust. building a relationship is going to be on very little foundation of trust ,and commitment. your unhappy in your marriage, is he unhappy in his? ... (read in full...)
Hubby having/had an affair???
Q. Had or having an affair? hes 31 but 2 months ago he trashed his 24 year old friend by revealing her sexual antics on radio,the number of men she slept with and who's she sleeping with while hes talking and 3 weeks ago he said hes a fan of the same...
A. 17 September 2011: seems like he had alot of information on her on her that he knew. jealousy could be one motivation for doing what he did. the thing is how did he get all that info on her ? ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my wife, but I am having a hard time forgiving and forgetting her cheating
Q. I was a virgin when I met my wife. She wasn't. She had had about 6-10 other lovers before me. I have never been with anyone else, but I found out recently that she has not been faithful. She didn't have any emotional attachment to anyone, but she ...
A. 15 September 2011: i can understand how your wife,s past hurt you. i was not a virgin for my wife when i met her, but she was. we split up got back together by that time she had been with several men. even though i had been with other women before i met her ,it ... (read in full...)
My binge drinking days are done...but will friends always think of me as a party animal?
Q. Hello I wonder If anyone has been in the same situation as me ... I have realised that I am not a nice person when I am drunk, for the last few years I suppose I have gone off the rails, drinking far too much when going out, doing things I regret, ...
A. 14 September 2011: time will fade this from them as they see a change in you, even if they are still in the party lifestyle. the thing is be mature and let them know that was the old you.... (read in full...)
I am worried about telling a man I had a boob job in case he is repulsed. How do men feel about breast implants?
Q. Hi, I am going to re-send this question as I have only had one answer and the answer that I did get only gave one - very strong - personal bias. Does anyone feel differently about this issue please? If the woman in question was otherwise a perfect ...
A. 13 September 2011: it would not repulse me, but i would hope she would be honest about things up font and not lie . lying or covering up is no way to build on a relationship. as far as the breast implants go for me i prefer natural breast,but it would not ... (read in full...)
Am I the only person who doesn't like casual sex?
Q. Firstly, I want to say that to those whose opinions vary from mine- I respect your choice and this is not meant to be 'anti-promiscious' in general, even if I personally am for my life. I am 25 and in my first year of college. I am loving it her...
A. 11 September 2011: the right girl is out there for you, you are just seeing the crowd that is loading baggage , and placing skeletons in their closet,s . there are other people that have standard,s like you do. the people that are hooking up , and partying are just ... (read in full...)
Even though I've had my tubes tied, could I be pregnant???
Q. I'm 44 and had my tubes tied but hadnt had period in 2 months. i also had some slight bleeding after sex, when i wiped it was light in color and only when i wiped it last thru the day and was gone the next day but happend again after the next 2 ...
A. 10 September 2011: yes you could it happened to my cousin years ago , & they have a 25 year old daughter , along with the planed two boys that are in their 40,s.... (read in full...)
Seems like I am the last virgin in my college. Have so many questions on virginity and sex. Can you help?
Q. Right well im 17 years old and im still a virgin, i feel like im the only one which in my college there is only a few. Ive had so many oppurtunities to have sex but something keeps stopping me. Im just so scared i dont like my body and i dont real...
A. 10 September 2011: you have something special your virginity , don't throw it away. it,s the one thing you have you can give as a gift to someone special that will come into your life someday ,don't waste it and have regret,s. ... (read in full...)
Why does my wife wear sexy panties at work and granny panties at home?
Q. I'll try to keep this brief. She wears sexy panties and thongs to work but granny panties at home and sometimes, about 50% of the time, wears no panties to work. When questioned about no panties she explains she wore the same ugly pair because she...
A. 9 September 2011: it may not be an affair , but it is a RED FLAG ! something need,s fixed before it get,s broken.... (read in full...)
Is being a slut the way to mend a broken heart???
Q. Hi again Aunt/ uncle agonies. Thanks in advance for taking the time to read. I am going through an awful breakup, and all i wanna do is move on. I've been getting advice from all my friend on how to achieve this, but for some odd reason every sug...
A. 9 September 2011: what about your self respect . if you dress that way you will get attention from guy,s that is for sure. but dressing like a slut will get you the type of guy,s that are interested in one thing, and in the long run it ... (read in full...)
Is being a slut the way to mend a broken heart???
Q. Hi again Aunt/ uncle agonies. Thanks in advance for taking the time to read. I am going through an awful breakup, and all i wanna do is move on. I've been getting advice from all my friend on how to achieve this, but for some odd reason every sug...
A. 9 September 2011: what about your self respect, if you dress and act like a slut you are advertising for guy,s that is interested in one thing , and it will not be you in the long run.... (read in full...)
The difference between someone using you for sex or just having huge sex drive?
Q. If you're seeing a man and he seems very focused on sex, is that always a bad thing? I'm seeing someone, we haven't slept together yet, but he does seem to bring the conversation around to it a lot. That said, he has told me he isn't going to b...
A. 8 September 2011: love will wait, lust want,s now. ask your self is he interested in you or what he can get from you.... (read in full...)
Is it normally to feel physically sick after a break up?
Q. Is it normal to feel ill, after being hurt in your relationship i nearly split up with my boyfriend tonight, and i started shaking feeling sick, going cold it felt like i had the flu. I had a cup of tea at the side of me and could hardly pick it up ...
A. 7 September 2011: yes i have been there in my life.... (read in full...)
He waited 23 years to express his disappointment. How many people out there did not have sex on their first wedding night?
Q. How many people did not have sex on their wedding night and waited until the honeymoon?? Husband was upset that we did not have sex on wedding night. We did have sex as soon as we arrived at the hotel on the honeymoon. when i tried to explain...
A. 6 September 2011: it was the morning after the wedding for us, we got to the hotel late , exhausted from the wedding, two hour drive on the road.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a virgin guy to want to marry a virgin girl?
Q. dear cupid, is it wrong for a virgin guy to want to marry a virgin woman with great personality,respect,trust and love? It seems when i mention this to women they think am crazy or i have insecurities....
A. 27 August 2011: there is nothing wrong with it, and the bonus is that both of you will have the benefit of not having a past to haunt you. ... (read in full...)
I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again
Q. I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having ...
A. 29 June 2011: don't rush things , you have something you can only have once. my advice is make sure it is for the right person in your life. it is easier to have regrets later, for your self & who ever is in your future.... (read in full...)
Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?
Q. I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort ...
A. 30 May 2011: i think curvy women are sexy , skinny reminds me of a straight stick . thats my thoughts.... (read in full...)
Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?
Q. I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort ...
A. 30 May 2011: i think curvy women are sexy, skinny women dont do a thing for me. i like curves!!! looking at a straight stick does nothing for me.... (read in full...)
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