What does true love feel like?
Q. I dont think i have ever known true love. from your point of view what does it feel like?...
A. 17 July 2012: to me what does true love feels like. it feels like when i dated my wife 30 years ago , yes i have been married 29 years to her. this is what it felt like while dating her. i never wanted to leave her when it was time to drop her off back hom... (read in full...)
Can you tell the difference between love and lust?
Q. Dear all, Is it possible to be affectionate and miss someone a lot but not love them? I'm 5 months in a relationship and have developed strong feelings but I'm not sure if its love? What's the difference and how do you know? We currently on...
A. 13 July 2012: give yourself time you are only seeing him on weekends because of distance. your feelings will grow over time. do you long to see and be with him during the week, while you are apart. "it feels right but how do you know the difference b... (read in full...)
Would you stay in a sexless marriage?
Q. Would you stay with your husband, if he would go impotent, and it would not have medical cause? And on the top of. That, he would lose his affection too, so, basically the marriage becomes sexless? ...
A. 13 July 2012: i will have to agree with code warrior . when you got married it was and is for better or worse, to death do us part. any marriage can have highs and lows.
the giving of yourself ,the love toward your mate even when not given in return is a self... (read in full...)
How do I forget about her past?
Q. Hey guys, So I have been dating this wonderful girl for 3 months and we've talked about our pasts. I lost my virginity to her, but she had sex with 6 guys before me. We're both 16 and I just keep thinking about it. I am going to keep her but I don't ...
A. 13 July 2012: you both are 16. i would suggest stop having sex and build your relationship with each other. you both are young. get to know each others likes and dislikes. it sounds like you really care for her and trying to look out for her.... (read in full...)
Will I ever be able to forget what he's done to me?
Q. My boyfriend has beat me more than a couple times before and hasn't in a period of time and has told me he wouldn't ever again but I am scared of him im scared a lot of the time and if he gets really mad at me he threatens to choke me or beat me but ...
A. 11 July 2012: get away from him. you have these flashbacks because he has traumatized you. he may be fine for a while but if he has hit you once he can and more than likely will beat you again. i do not have any respect for a guy who will hit a woman. you need ... (read in full...)
I said no to going further. But am I still a virgin, based on what happened?
Q. Okay so there's this military guy i met with. I just wanted someone to date.. we went out to dinner. i dropped him off to on base i get out the car we made out he was groping me and hugging me tight. Then we meet up again the next day ( i am a vir...
A. 6 July 2012: if he did not penetrate your vagina with his penis , and has not been penetrated by a penis you are still a virgin.
technically : a penis penetration of the hymen (breaking open the hymen- popping the cherry)in the vagina would mean loos... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want sex, I don't know what to do?
Q. I know I'm too young... But my boyfriend is making it very difficult to control myself. Yesterday I walked over to his house, and I noticed that no one was home. So we started making out on his couch, but I thought that was just going to be it, ...
A. 28 June 2012: you are too young for all this "sex" to be happening , you will grow up looking back and regretting a lot of things if you don't stop now and have some self respect toward your self. if you don't have self respect the boys you meet won't have any ... (read in full...)
I masturbate and then don't want sex with my wife
Q. I don't seem to be sexually attracted to my wife very much. I'm not not sure if its a labido thing or what. I do masturbate to porn though when she's not around but as soon as she's back and wants sex I'm not interested. I do love her and want her ...
A. 21 June 2012: you masturbate to porn and have no desire for your wife. you will find yourself more attracted to your wife if you stop watching the porn. you are forcing her to be in competition with women that are making fantasy look real.
its ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex but I know he's a cheater
Q. am 17 and my boyfriend want to have sex with me and I know his a cheater but he don't admit it and he always tell me that he don't want to lose me but I don't believe him and he don't want me to touch his cell-phone, do he really love me? ...
A. 20 June 2012: you say you know he's a cheater, and he wants to have sex. if that is true you know you cant trust him. that will more than likely mean he is out to get sex from you and other girls.
if you give him sex that will not make him love you,... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 15 years will not divorce his wife!
Q. Hi, I have been with my live in boyfriend for 15 years. He has given me 2 engagement rings, (not diamonds) but when I told someone we were engaged, he got very angry. I drive him to and from work, as he works in a bar. He lost his license for 3 ye...
A. 6 June 2012: you are his play thing. his cake and eat it too.
he has no intentions of leaving her. 15 years it would be safe to say is not going to leave her.
he is using you for his interest.
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Her dad pushed her to break up with me, should I talk to him?
Q. Do my girlfriend recently split up with me because her dad wasn't happy about her seeing me, he threatened to throw her out. Now she acts like she doesn't love or even care anymore and says its because she is tryin to get used to it yet it's only ...
A. 6 June 2012: you have nothing to lose by talking to her dad and telling him how you feel toward his daughter.
but be honest and truthful to him.
you have a girl friend to lose if you don't , correct.
if you two don't want to be apart go tal... (read in full...)
Getting over a girlfriend's sexual past
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 months now, im 19 and she is 21, I live in a small town and she has had sex with a lot of people I know in the past, I accept this as I do live in a small town, anyway I only found out ...
A. 6 June 2012: the sexual past does matter, it effects us in negative ways.the things people do in the past effects us, especially sexual past of someone we love, and care for more than anything else on this earth. i understand how you feel. i have been the... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and don't know if I want to lose my virginity or not
Q. I'm 17 and basically, confused about weather I want to loose my virginity or not. I'm one of the oldest of my friends and I'm the only one to be still a virgin. I know that at least a small part of me wants to loose it, but the other half of me is ...
A. 2 June 2012: if you are on here asking weather to lose your virginity or not ,that tells me you are not wanting to lose your virginity but you feel pressured too. don't rush it because your friends have. they can't go back and get a undo. if... (read in full...)
Do guys my age automatically expect sex?
Q. Hey there! So, I'm 18 and I'm getting ready to head off to college soon. Like most kids (I guess some would consider me a "young adult"?) my age, I've been pondering the possibilities of what the future might bring. This includes relationships and ...
A. 31 May 2012: it should not be a deal breaker.
girls that put out are going to get the type of guys that go after girls that are easy. a guy that is after sex only ,and the girl does not give in to him . well the guy wont hang around long.
if a gir... (read in full...)
Why is it ok to be a virgin at 18?
Q. If I'm a virgin at 18, why do people say it's okay? I know for a fact that all those numbers people come up with about how many people lie about having sex is complete crap. There are more people around me who either have kids that are 2 or 3, or ...
A. 30 May 2012: why is "sex an intimate act"? because it involves two people giving them self to each other, sharing the most personal deepest parts of them self with someone else "body, soul,mind,heart,emotions" . it is a time when a person lets thei... (read in full...)
How can I show my boyfriend I really love him with out having sex ?
Q. how can i show my boyfriend i really love him with out having sex with him i am planning to be with him for a very long time any ideas tips it would realy help!...
A. 26 May 2012: sex is not the way to prove you love him.
"how can i show my b/f i really love him without sex"
you can be with him, spend time with him, be by his side.
when i dated my wife ,i wanted to be with her, i could not see her enough, could no... (read in full...)
I want to show him I love him -- should I lose my virginity to him?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months.. i feel like i really love him . but i sometimes think about my ex. that hurt really bad but then again we had alot connection. but! i really want to show my bf how much i love him i dont know ...
A. 25 May 2012: no , don't give yourself any regrets to look back on!
you only have your virginity to give once. what if you two break up after ward? what if you meet the b/f in the future you may wish to spend your life with,the one that you might have wish... (read in full...)
I'm a nice girl! So why do I wind up with jerks?
Q. Why do Guys keep hurting me like this? I feel like I'm not good enough:(? I've never had a relationship where the guy didn't break my heart. I'm 23 and all the guys I've been with have taken advantage of my feelings used me and dumped me...
A. 23 May 2012: you are attracted to the wrong types. jerks that act like nice guys. these types of guys know how to work a girl, and get what they want. once they get what they want, and they get tired of the girl they are off to the next adventure.
the... (read in full...)
Why is it ok to be a virgin at 18?
Q. If I'm a virgin at 18, why do people say it's okay? I know for a fact that all those numbers people come up with about how many people lie about having sex is complete crap. There are more people around me who either have kids that are 2 or 3, or ...
A. 23 May 2012: you are 18 , so i take it you are almost out of high school. those in school with you that have trashed their virginity , some will wish they have saved it for that some one they meet in the future, some will regret looking back, and some wont ... (read in full...)
Should I remain at home? I'm so scared of leaving home. It's scary.
Q. The time has come for me to be an adult and im so scared. I don't know how to grow up and do for myself because im the only chilf and i use to being well taken care of. Next to all that issue is that im shy and i don't even get out as much. be...
A. 20 May 2012: no don't stay at home. the best thing that could happen to you is staying at a relatives place away from home. they will treat you good but different , and let you grow up . your parents meant well while you were growing up but did not help you by ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're really loved?
Q. How do y0u kn0w that y0u're realy l0ved in a relationship?...
A. 20 May 2012: you feel wanted, not neglected . the other person wants to spend time with you.
its always good if the other person tells you that they love you.
love is the other person giving, not taking. giving is caring, and ... (read in full...)
Should we run away to get married since parents are against it?
Q. I m 23 and he is 25 want to get married but my parents are not allowing me we were in relationship from last 11year now we are trying to run away should we do that just because of caste problem my family members are not allowing me ?please help me ...
A. 19 May 2012: you both are adults, not kids. your parents are parents and as long as you are under their roof they will look at you as their kid, and not an adult.
have you ask why they don't want you to marry this man?
is there a reason why they wou... (read in full...)
I'm no longer a priority in my man's life. How to tell him?
Q. My boyfriend suddenly acts like he has no time for me. Hes always got something going on and it was fine I guess for the time been but now it's becoming absurd. Idk how I'm supposed to tel him that I dont feel like a priority in his life anymore and ...
A. 19 May 2012: just tell him you feel neglected. tell him you want to be part of his , and you hope he wants to be part of yours.
let him know how , and what it is doing to you. that you feel like you have been put on a shelf waiting for him to get you ... (read in full...)
I cheated for 10 years. Is our relationship going to get better?
Q. I am really baffled. See I cheated on my boyfriend over 10 years ago. This man I cheated on him with was well in doubt. Now since I finally came clean about all the sexual experiences I have ever had that I can honestly admit to. Now it's like our...
A. 19 May 2012: you say you love him , hes your soul mate. you don't want him to leave .
"your mind tells you one thing, and your heart tells you another" could be your heart still has a place of attachment , and caring for him (you know you still love... (read in full...)
How to come out from exta marital affair
Q. I've an extra marital affair from last 6months. I'm emotionally connected with him but I don't understand does he really loves me or he is only after physical relationship? He doesn't have a kid nd completed 6yrs. Of his marriage. I have a adopted ...
A. 16 May 2012: well ( does he really love me or is he only interested in physical relationship? ). he is married and you can presume he is not going to leave his wife. he is getting what he wants at home and from you. you are emotionally conn... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old virgin...is that a turn off?
Q. I'm 20 years old and I'm in college. I've never had sex because I've never had a boyfriend and never wanted to sleep with random guys. No one ever believes me when I tell them I've never had sex mainly because I go out/party/drink a lot and ...
A. 14 May 2012: your virtue should be looked up to with respect from guys, and it says you have self respect about your self.
save it for the right man in your life so you won't have any regrets to look back on.
you can only give it away once. looki... (read in full...)
How can I know is my husband cheating on me?
Q. How can I know is my husband cheating on me? Some advices, hints? I don't have money for a private investigator, though that would be the only thing that could pacify me. I feel something is going on, but he is too clever to leave the 'proofs'. What ...
A. 14 May 2012: if he has a pattern of coming home late, making, small trips using as excuses for coming home late ,you could get a rental car or ( get a friend to drive you ) and follow him on a day or two that you would suspect him.
why i say a rental c... (read in full...)
Why do men marry women that aren't anything like what they look at in porn?
Q. Well i have been confused about this for years. My husband dose this and other guys do this and i believe other girls do this. I have put on some weight through the years after i have had my kids and even before then i wasn't skinny but i was mu...
A. 12 May 2012: personally i like real women, real women that are not fake, made up, silicone boobs, fake acting, ect.
i would rather have a real woman that is real, good character, personality , nice body ( not perfect )curves, honest (true heart).
the ... (read in full...)
Should I call the wedding off?
Q. My fiance and I are to be married in 3 months, 7 years together and 3 children later but I have this nagging feeling of should i be doing this. We argue alot, more then ever since we have been planning our wedding. we cannot agree on anything and I ...
A. 11 May 2012: a relationship is built on trust , its a foundation.
you should marry the person you can't live without , not the person you might be able to live with.
you should know that you don't want to live your life apart from them.
you may need ... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend understand that my no means no. I am not ready. What should I do?
Q. I think my boyfriend only wants to have sex with me and im a virgin and he is very sexual and all he wants to talk about is sex I told him im not ready but I don't think he understands what should I do?...
A. 4 May 2012: sounds like he is out for one thing, and after he gets it from you he may " more than likely will dump you " and be off to the next girl.
you can do better than him. don't give in to him, and don't give yourself any regrets to look back on.
a guy... (read in full...)
Are men put off by women who have given birth?
Q. question for the men on here.. Are men put off by women who have given birth? either because they watched their partner give birth which has put them off sex and can't get the image of their head of seeing partner being stretched and watching som...
A. 4 May 2012: as with me i am not put off by a woman that has given birth. after my wife gave birth to our kids, i desired her just as much as before the births.
i think it effected her more so , she was not willing to let me give her oral for a long time afte... (read in full...)
Do all men think about is how to get a girl into bed?
Q. I'm just wondering if all men's goal is to bed a female when they approach them? I feel kind of silly asking this because I know all men want something from the girls that they date... Many of the men that I've dated actually let me know that all ...
A. 3 May 2012: ( wondering if all guys not all men goals is to bed a female when they approach them?) i can't speak for all other guys but i have been married close to thirty years, and we did not have intercourse until we was married. but i look at it i m... (read in full...)
I cheated for 10 years. Is our relationship going to get better?
Q. I am really baffled. See I cheated on my boyfriend over 10 years ago. This man I cheated on him with was well in doubt. Now since I finally came clean about all the sexual experiences I have ever had that I can honestly admit to. Now it's like our...
A. 3 May 2012: cheating is cheating no matter who does it. it hurts trust in a relationship.
nothing good comes out of mistrust. cheating counts if it is the man or woman doing it. damage is done to trust and respect in a relationship by cheating. ... (read in full...)
I cheated for 10 years. Is our relationship going to get better?
Q. I am really baffled. See I cheated on my boyfriend over 10 years ago. This man I cheated on him with was well in doubt. Now since I finally came clean about all the sexual experiences I have ever had that I can honestly admit to. Now it's like our...
A. 3 May 2012: you have done a lot of damage in your relationship by cheating on your B/F . there is trust,and respect damaged by your actions of the past.
it will take time to heal these wounds , it will not happen over night.
a relationship is built on tru... (read in full...)
Be honest: would you date a 24-year old virgin or would you pass her up?
Q. To start off I want a completely honest answer from you guys. Don't tell me what I want to hear, but your real opinion. So, here goes: I'm a 24 year old virgin. Would you be open to dating one? Or would it freak you out? I'm not looking for ...
A. 2 May 2012: would i be open to dating a virgin, 24 year old virgin?
personally i would be delighted, it would be a plus too me . it would say a lot to me, that this girl saved her virginity and did not throw it to the wind. she saved her virginity for the ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 but I still have to ask my mom if I want to go anywhere! How do I get more freedom?
Q. I'm 21 but I have to ask my mom whenever I want to go somewhere. Whether it's going out with friends, to a school event, or even going to the library after class. Although they usually say OK, she will sometimes pester me about where I'm going. I ...
A. 30 April 2012: she (your mom ) still sees you as her little girl. its hard for her to see you grow up, she wants to be apart of your life. she does this out of protection ,and love for you, even tough she is wanting control over you.
she does not see you as 2... (read in full...)
She used to talk to guys in the past and knowing this is killing me! How do I forget her past?
Q. guys pls help me out..i hav a g/f and we are in a serious relationship from 7 yrs...but recently some incident took place by which she told me everything about her past...i thought that she would not talk or meet with other guys but i was completely ...
A. 26 April 2012: you need to be less controlling, and jealous of her talking to other guys. she did not give herself ( sexually ) to them right, she just has talked with them.
her heart belongs to you my friend , and if you keep up the controll... (read in full...)
I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!
Q. I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one ...
A. 24 April 2012: you need to let your b/f know what this guy has done to you , and the emotional pain he has caused. you need to set down and explain how you can forgive him, but the memories of pain he has inflected on you.
your b/f should want to protect ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of feeling like guys just want me for sex. Should I take a virginity pledge?
Q. I've never slept with anyone before (or even had a boyfriend); I'm currently in my first year at uni and a lot of my friends are sleeping around and such or in relationships. I was considering getting a boyfriend because I feel really inexperie...
A. 20 April 2012: my view is you should not throw it away " virginity" like a lot of the young women are doing today. women today are making them self cheaply available to many guys, and it comes with a high price. they are limiting the prospect of finding a good ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my breasts and prefers smaller ones!
Q. My husband does not like my breasts. Whilst I am a dd cup he prefers smaller breasts. I am not prepared to undergo surgery however this is really undermining my self confidence with him as I feel self conscious. Knowing that he loves me and marr...
A. 19 April 2012: your husband is being thoughtless saying that to you. their is more to a woman than just boobs. her heart, her emotions,her smile, the whole package.
"how do i over come these feelings of self consciousness" you can think of things t... (read in full...)
She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?
Q. Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...
A. 19 April 2012: well basically you two have a relationship built on mistrust. you are cheating on your wife,and she is cheating on her husband. relationships built on adultery, and hiding the truth from your spouses.
wh... (read in full...)
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