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I like to watch her masturbate, is this normal?

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Question - (23 September 2011) 10 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2011)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

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I like to watch my wife masturbate and she likes to watch me. I'm very small in size, maybe 6 inches hard.

She tells me it doesn't matter. It bothers me and I just hope she's truthful. I perform oral sex on her. She doesn't too much on me. I find myself masturbating while I watch her. Is this normal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011):

And make sure you don't get detected by the police.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011):

No, absolutely not. Not only is it immoral, unethical and evil, I'm also sure the criminal penalties for this sort of behaviour are extremely severe.

Relax. You're fine. Have fun.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (23 September 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntYes.... it's borderline normal....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011):

rofl. 6 inches is NOT small. 1-3 inches is. 6 inches is average and often considered the perfect size due to the average length of the vaginal canal. also, often super big penises are actually scary to women because they limit sexual opportunities (in the opposite way of super small ones) and can be VERY VERY painful. To answer your question, its all good. As long as both partners are happy, its normal.

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A male reader, dougbcoll United States +, writes (23 September 2011):

dougbcoll agony auntyes it,s normal i like to watch my wife masturbate, and she likes to watch me masturbate.6 in. is average not small. you are letting things bother you that should not.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (23 September 2011):

Honeypie agony auntDoes it matter if it is "normal"? And when it comes to sex, what IS normal? :)

If you both like it, I can't see the problem.

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2011):

If you are both completely comfortable with this then yes it is completely normal

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011):

Sounds normal to me. As long as whatever you're doing is consentual and not hurting anyone, it's not bad. And you don't sound small, more average actually. I wouldn't worry about that.

Some women have trouble with oral for men depending on how they view it. I would ask her about it and ask if there is anything she dislikes or if there is anything you can do to make her more comfortable.

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (23 September 2011):

RedAthena agony auntIt sounds like it is normal for you and your wife.

If you are both mutually ok with the situation-what is the problem?

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A female reader, butterfliesarefree United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2011):

Yes you're normal and 6 inches isn't small its normal and trust me when I say bigger isn't always better

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