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Role playing...
Q. can you help us by suggesting role playing ideas! me and my wife are looking for some. some thing that is not off a filthy porn style, but of a nice fantasy....
A. 23 January 2010: You don't have to 'role play' per say if you want to use toys on each other. If you want to play the submissive... you could have her tie you up on the bed... and then she can do whatever she wants to you. Even stopping, leaving the ro... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a "straight" guy.
Q. Hey everyone, I’ve been debating where I could actually post this and get opinions and thoughts on it. I’ve tried typing out the situation I’m about to explain many times, but I often lose focus and tend to just stop writing… This is kind of lengt...
A. 23 January 2010: I recall being in an almost similar situation when I was in college and I concur with the last anonymous male poster.
You never mentioned whether he _knows_ that you are gay or not. You are not out, but if you've told ANYONE he might have fou... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with another man to make my husband happy?
Q. We are a happily married couple with a healthy sex life. My husband has mentioned during almost every love making session that he would want me to have sex with another man. He expresses an interest in threesomes (DP), watching me have sex with ...
A. 23 January 2010: Look at it from a different angle. Stop thinking so much about if HE will enjoy it... as how much you may or may not enjoy it. Something else to consider is sex clubs (if there are such things in your area) or 'swapping' with other couples. ... (read in full...)
Help needed choosing camera for my gf please
Q. Hi all, I am stuck between buying my gf a fujilm finepix J28 and a Fujifilm finepix J37. The J28 (10 mega pixels) has loads of reviews saying how great it is but I cannot find any for the J37 (12 mega pixels). However I can get them both for th...
A. 23 January 2010: You should SERIOUSLY check out www.dpreview.com before purchasing any camera.... (read in full...)
Will my teacher keep our conversation between us?
Q. If I tell my history teacher that I have been having trouble concentrating in school because of problems with my friends and at home, will he keep it between us or tell my head of year. Please help I don't know what to do ...
A. 23 January 2010: Unfortunately, teachers - unlike doctors, priests and the like have no obligation to grant you any sort of confidentiality. With teachers - it generally depends on your relationship with them.
If there's a school counsellor you might be able to ... (read in full...)
What can I do so she doesn't think I'm boring?
Q. i have been talkin to a girl that my friends girlfriend told me about and when i was talkin to her on the fone she said i was boring? wat can i do for her not to thank i am boring...
A. 15 January 2010:
The key to getting ANYONE to really like you... is to LISTEN!!!
Listen to what she has to say.
Question things, so that she has to give you more detail. Find out what SHE LIKES and then get information about that stuff. If she likes... (read in full...)
Is it possible to stop masterbating and other qestions
Q. Ok dumb qestion but what ever really its a guy question. Is it possible to not masterbate, after the first time you masterbate it seems like its imposible not to do again. also is masterbating a good alternitive to sex if you have had sex befor...
A. 15 January 2010:
If you DO stop masturbating... you'll probably end up having wet dreams. It's not unusual.
If you masturbate it excessively though you MAY (or may not) find that once you DO have sex with another person that you won't be able to cum while be... (read in full...)
Erections around guys!! Am I gay?
Q. Does getting erections more often around guys than girls mean I'm gay. Or am i getting all worked up about nothing...
A. 13 January 2010:
Guys ur age get hardons when the wind blows. Don't worry about it.
Now, if you start fantasizing about guys - more than girls (especially when you're masturbating)... I would say that you are at least bi... if not gay.
In any event... t... (read in full...)
Betrayed by a friend I fancied
Q. Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told m...
A. 13 January 2010:
DiamondGirlx is CORRECT! That was really inconsiderate of him to have sex in your brothers bed... even though (I'm assuming) you told him no sex in the house.
Not much of a friend, and I'd guess he wouldn't be much of a boyfriend either.
T... (read in full...)
Why can't my boyfriend ever cum?
Q. My boyfriend has never cum from a blowjob or handjob from me or anyone else. He also has trouble cumming during sex if the girl is on top (I am the only person who's ever made him cum in this position, but it's only happened once). The sex is ...
A. 13 January 2010: Honey... don't worry. I too, (usually) can't cum while being stimulated by a partner. I don't know what it is... it's just that way. I've only been able to do so when EXTREMELY relaxed. It's commonly known as 'Performance Anxeity'. This ... (read in full...)
Help... am I gay?
Q. im 17 year old male. i perfer watching gay porn thinking of boys and penis and using anal toys. i think that this makes me gay so i decided to watch straight porn and i didnt get erect or feel anything, but when i watch gay porn it really turns me ...
A. 13 January 2010: I went thru this very thing when I was younger. I went to school at an isolated school in the mountain states in the US. There MIGHT have been other gays on campus... but I couldn't tell who they were. A bit about coming out. 1 - If your... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but will need to go to toilet first and I can't do this!
Q. i am gay and am ready to receive anal sex with my friend but im to embarrassed to ask to go to the toilet when at his house,so we never end up having sex cus I dont want to. He never asks me if we will have sex, but i know he wants to. So I have to ...
A. 13 January 2010:
You don't have to tell him WHAT you're going to DO in the bathroom... just that you need to go.... (read in full...)
Are we moving too fast?
Q. Hi Aunties! How are you? It's been a while since I've been on here, a lot has happened since last time I came on here. I broke up with the boyfriend that had me dazed and confused. But moving on to my question. I have been single for probably ...
A. 13 January 2010:
Hey... if you both think that it sounds like something that you WANT to do... why not? I mean the only way you really find out if he's someone you really want to date... is by meeting. I would invite him for just a weekend though. You may find... (read in full...)
Do I tell him I enjoyed it?
Q. A few nights ago when my mate slept over, him on the floor and me in my bed, he made a move on me while he thought l was asleep, l felt him play with me only for a couple of minutes l got an errection but pretened to stay asleep. I am not saying l ...
A. 12 January 2010: If ya want to be somewhat sneaky about it have him stay over night again... but this time let him sleep in bed with you. Tell him you felt bad about making him sleep on the hard floor or something like that. Then, while you're both in the same... (read in full...)
If I'm bi... can he?
Q. i am a straight guy with bi tendancys... does that make me completly bi? i have made love to both man and woman and like it equaly. so why is it when i kik it with one of my guy friends i feel a strong pull twords this person then nrmal?? he is a ...
A. 12 January 2010: I would say that if you enjoy it equally you are bi. As for your feelings for the (male) person... sounds like it's just an extension of your strong friendship. Nothing to feel bad about. Remember, MANY bi people have extended - even monogamo... (read in full...)
How can I accept that I might be gay? Or should I continue to try and hide my sexuality?
Q. Greetings from an Asian teenager.. Few questions before I begin to tell y'all my lifestyle.. #1 - Am I Gay? (even tho I may already know what I am) #2 - Should I continue being gay? #3 - How can I accept what I am? #4 - Where could I go...
A. 11 January 2010: Try to find resources in your city/country for LGBT youth. Many Universities, at least in the US, have an LGBT Alliance organization. If a local university has such an organization, call them. Explain that you are a high school student and that... (read in full...)
Should I say yes and go out with him?
Q. Hi im a 16 year old boy from england and i recently gor asked out by another boy. He is gay, i am not. It started with a talk on MSN and he asked me if i would go out with him i said no, but then i kept on thinking that gay sex might be ok and i sh...
A. 11 January 2010: Ditto all that everyone else has written. Sounds like you have a pretty open minded - especially for someone your age. You just need to make your friend understand that you're being open to exploring your feeling... and it might... or might not ... (read in full...)
B/s doesn't know I"m gay!
Q. Im 17 guy n im in love with my best freind whos also a guy but dosnt no im gay but has suspitions i dnt no wat to do at all i tell him i love him but he thinks im messin we spend every day togeather n i flirt n cuddle n watch him sleep n cuddle him ...
A. 11 January 2010: It's really hard to advise on these types of situations because so much depends on your history between you two. Given what you've written I would guess that either your friend isn't sure of his orientation yet, or he's bi. High School and into ... (read in full...)
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