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Erections around guys!! Am I gay?

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Question - (25 November 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2010)
A male Canada age 30-35, *oldstove writes:

Does getting erections more often around guys than girls mean I'm gay. Or am i getting all worked up about nothing

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (13 January 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

Guys ur age get hardons when the wind blows. Don't worry about it.

Now, if you start fantasizing about guys - more than girls (especially when you're masturbating)... I would say that you are at least bi... if not gay.

In any event... there's nothing WRONG with it. It's just who you are.

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A male reader, david ~gay~ United States +, writes (30 November 2009):

dude im gay look hang out with some of ur guy friends one night and some girls another and see witch ur more attracted to

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A male reader, coldstove Canada +, writes (25 November 2009):

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coldstove agony auntnope im ushaly thinking about things like music or something when we are jamming. but i gass sometimes one or two of us take of our shirts. but generaly i dont think of naked people that often.

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A male reader, coldstove Canada +, writes (25 November 2009):

coldstove is verified as being by the original poster of the question

coldstove agony auntnope im ushaly thinking about things like music or something when we are jamming. but i gass sometimes one or two of us take of our shirts. but generaly i dont think of naked people that often.

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A male reader, moomba38 United States +, writes (25 November 2009):

Although erections DO occur at random due to hormones, for me they are generally do to some sort of THINKING about something. So are you thinking about what the guys would look like without clothes? Or do you just so happen to be thinking about naked women when guys are around?

Be more specific and maybe I can assist. I've been through what you're dealing with.

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A female reader, dairyqueen Canada +, writes (25 November 2009):

my bf told me he gets boners randomely whenever. with no association to what's going on. so i dont think your gay. i think your body is just random.

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (25 November 2009):

MonksDaBomb agony auntCan you be more specific? Like is seeing a guy do something specific give you an erection? It's tough to tell cause at your age, it seems you can get an erection by the way the wind blows!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009):

Do you find that you would rather be with men then with women? If you find that you would rather be in a sexual relationship with men then your gay. If you want sexual relationships with both men and women your bi. Only you can answer this question. Either way, there is nothing wrong with you. You are who you are. Just concentrate on being a good person! Your sexuality does not define your overall character. Good luck.

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