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writes: How do I go about fulfilling my fantasy of watching another guy do my wife? We do roleplay this, but I wonder if she would ever actually do it for me. Reply to this Question
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (3 October 2006):
 My bf has a similar fantasy, the problem is I would feel like i would be cheating and I sometimes think maybe he only wants me to do that so he can blackmail me into letting him sleep with another women. doing that sorta thing will change the relationship, just keep fantasy's a fantasy.
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reader, nigel knows!!!! +, writes (3 October 2006):
 well i wouldnt even go down that road thats why there called "fantasys" because they just can not become real your wife loves and respects you so do the same for her respect her and even if she did agree your relationship will proberly drift apart after a couple of times if you want to stay in the relationship then do not even sugest it other wise your wife will start to have doubts such as "does he not fantsy me anymore?" "am i getting to old?" "am i putting on weight?" etc...
so lets hope you do the right thing dont worry no one is judging you well all have are lil fantasys!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Remember who`s fault it is if you get jealous.Stick to fantasy,its often better than reality.What next? 2 men doing your wife? Then a bukkake? Imagination in love making is very exciting,to turn it into reality would be dangerous.
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reader, fallenman  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 I honestly suggest you review your marriage vows. Sexual fanasty is where it should be keep. If you are plagued by these fanasties I suggest you go talk to counsellor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Have you tried asking her?......If she's willing to "role-play" with you during sex, or as part of your sexual culture, perhaps an honest question is the best way to find out. But the real question is -- what if she says no. Can you accept that, or are you going to drive yourself nuts, wanting something she is not willing to fulfill? And is this going to change the dynamics of how you feel about her over time?....Could it possibly lead you to infidelity.
Each of us are entitled to our own fantasies. But as individuals, we are also entitled NOT to be forced to cross lines we don't feel comfortable crossing. And if you love your wife, you have to respect her answer no matter what it is.
I hope that helps you out.
Cinderella
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 I think the answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO if she really loves you but maybe you can buy the Spanish book Lulu's Ages by Almudena Grandes and then ask her if she would like to so the things in the book, you have some to choose, yours included
good luck
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (2 October 2006):
 lol, thats a bit of an extreme fantasy, i really doubt alot of women would want to do that, you might come off a bit weird asking her, but i guess it all depends on what sort of person she is. but if i was you, i would keep it a fantasy. just what i think, i guess if she would be up for that sort of thing then go for it lol
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