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writes: i have a big problem when i was 16 i fell in love with an armyboy we would spend all our time together when he was on leave he was 3 years older then one week he never came back and stopped answering my calls i found out he had got married 6 yrs on i am in a relationship with two kids but the relationships not going well and out of the blue this bloke has come back into my life telling me what a big mistake he made in leaving me and a day hasn't gone by when he hasn't thought about me what do i do i suddenly have all thes feelings back for him but at the same time still love my partner please help
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (1 November 2006):
 Most of us have Wonderful, Warm memories of our First Love, or a "True Love", which is nice, but we have to remember that, as we`re not with that person, IT WASN`T MEANT TO BE! ! I think, because this has cropped up, out of the blue, warm feelings are coming back, especially since your current relationship is not quite as you`d like it to be at the moment. Please put your efforts and time into your children, and the father of your children; and see this guy as what he is ..... IN THE PAST .... Sent with Love, Heather.
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reader, Pammie73 +, writes (1 November 2006):
You would need to ask yourself would it be worth leaving your husband and father of your children for this man...?
I agree with the previous response, in the fact that he is proven to be unreliable. To cut you off is inexcusable. And, if he thought about you every day, why did it take him 6 years to get back in touch?
Maybe you should try to work on your relationship - it could be that the old feelings for your ex are clouding your judgement on your current relationship.
Good luck X
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (31 October 2006):
 Try to save your mariage who can guarantee that your army bloke won't do the same thing again? I woul not forget what he did
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