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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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How can I make this playboy fall for me?
Q. How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing ...
A. 8 June 2011: Please say NO... PLEASE!
You have to remain a virgin but he can sleep with anyone? and you are ok with this? JUST SAY NO
He has told you he won't love you JUST SAY NO!
If you say yes just for sex he will have sex with you and le... (read in full...)
Is it possible he acts this way because he's a shy type of guy or that he's just not that into me?
Q. We talk often enough. We go to the same college but right now are in different cities because of internships. The only thing is is that I don't know how much he is into me because we'll have long conversations that can last hours but for the most ...
A. 8 June 2011: you can stop initiating the conversations and see if he starts them.
in the beginning of my LDR I was the one who nurtured and started all the emails etc. I was the primary phone caller for a long time... he was receptive however... it was just... (read in full...)
I think I am a bit young to deal with this relationship, need advice??
Q. Hello everyone, I am 15 and this story if someone was to tell it to me 2 months ago I probably would of said 'how pathetic and ridiculose' but now I am in a silly situation and need some advice and guidance from someone older. Basically I was on h...
A. 8 June 2011: I think you are responding to his actions towards you. it's very intoxicating even at my advanced age when a man you find attractive pays attention to you....
tell him you would love to be friends and chat and maybe even visit in August when he ... (read in full...)
I want to get back with him, just not yet!
Q. To cut a really long story short, my ex recently started talking to me again after 6 months saying he still loves me and wants us to try again? - (We split because of distance) I said no, because the distance is too far i would rather wait then get...
A. 8 June 2011: What do you mean you want to get back with him just not yet.
I'm in an LDR and OMG my BF and I had a HUGE fight last week that lasted almost a week... it almost killed me. I did everything I could to fix it and get us back together...
I agree... (read in full...)
How can I make this playboy fall for me?
Q. How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing ...
A. 8 June 2011: Personally I think you did wrong. I do NOT think he will change because you want him to or because of anything you will do for him.
You are in and LDR and he's a bit older than you at your current ages... 7 years when you are 23 and he's 30 is no... (read in full...)
Trouble with my boyfriend and thinking about breaking up......
Q. Dearcupid, I am at the most confusing stage. I love my boyfriend a lot. We met online. He is 26 and I'm 16. I have asked this question before,please check. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-torn-between-my-ex-and-my-friend.html He disappeared...
A. 8 June 2011: if he's being a jerk on facebook hon, you gotta block him and get on with your life. it hurts and it sucks but it's the best way.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why my friend still texts him
Q. My best friend met this guy who she thought was 23/24 and he thought she was 26. So they both assumed without knowing. When really he is 28 nearly 29 and she is 18. Does anyone else find it weird that someone his age and hers are texting each other? ...
A. 7 June 2011: what's so sick about 2 adults having fun?
11 years is not a big deal
my last husband was 11 yrs younger than I am and my current boyfriend is over 13 years younger than I am ... age is just a number... (read in full...)
We're in a finite relationship due to our age gap, what should I do?
Q. hi, i'm 18 and live in the uk. I have been in a relationship with a man who is now 50 for two years. My question is regarding what to do because we're in a finite relationship due to our age differences yet i have really fallen for him and he has ...
A. 7 June 2011: then don't end it... go for it full bore.... (read in full...)
How do you walk away from someone you are madly in love with?
Q. Hey How can i walk away from a relationship thats broke down and is unfixable or isnt getting any better even though it kills me to think i wont be with him anymore coz i am absolutley madly inlove with him? Any help will be very appretiated Tha...
A. 7 June 2011: it sucks totally. if you know you can't fix this you need to go NO CONTACT.
in my world we allow SIX WEEKS of mourning then on with your life... so six weeks of eating ice cream and crying and wailing about him... then off you go with the girl... (read in full...)
Does all of this sound reasonable? I no longer know what's right or not....
Q. I have a few questions: Whenever we argue, my boyfriend refuses to make up. When I offer affection, he refuses it. He says that offering affection doesn't change anything and in fact makes him angry because it's a sham - i.e., affection doesn'...
A. 7 June 2011: so if you fight you owe him chores or sexual favors?
what does he owe you? what happens if you refuse to fight.
sorry not normal sane or rational in my book
my bf and I are very volatile. we fight... HARD... he's asked me to get private... (read in full...)
Can a man really be too sore for some "morning loving" after an evening of sex?
Q. So last night me and my boyfriend (together a few months) had a date, came back to mine ended up in bed and had some really great sex. Super! This morning when we woke up I was still feeling horny and started nuzzling in, stroking him and being af...
A. 7 June 2011: almost all men have morning glory (an a.m. erection) it does not mean they want sex.
my boyfriend has informed me that there are time he's no interested in sex but his penis is... he has an erection and no interest in sex.
... (read in full...)
Which is worse, her cheating or my looking at her email?
Q. Long story short, girl I was seeing I found out was having sexy liaisons on the Internet with a couple of guys she knows. They didn't have sex or were intimate (I don't think, anyway) but exchanged a bunch of messages like "I miss you" or computer ...
A. 7 June 2011: you both cheated.
anything you can't won't or don't tell your partner is cheating.... (read in full...)
I found some texts to his ex that have made me worried...what should I do?
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. When we got together his ex fiancé was pregnant with his child, she kicked him out not long after she found out. Recently they have been getting on better, for their daughters sake. I don’t k...
A. 7 June 2011: 2 hours is nothing, i've driven that to have dinner with my boyfriend.
are you strong enough to leave?... (read in full...)
Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?
Q. im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...
A. 7 June 2011: it's a terrible horrible no good very bad idea.
Ask your mum for help with this one and see what happens.... (read in full...)
Should I let him move in with the hope that we will get married in a year or so?
Q. Hey Cupids! So, my bf and I have been together for 5 years now and he's thinking of moving in with me. I'd love to get married cos I love the guy and I think living together is just not enough of a commitment. He says he doesn't believe in marriage ...
A. 7 June 2011: ugh i don't like it... i don't like the vibe of "if it works in 1 1/2 years I'm WILLING to marry you"
can I take a bet on the fact that he won't?
IF marriage is that important to you then NO i would not let him move in and play house in th... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend dearly, but the sex and chemistry with my other man is amazing! What should I do?
Q. I don't want you to judge me here. Please, only reply if you have something to say which could help me out of this mess. I've had a bf for over 5 years, started an affair with a sexy man who's in a relationship too 5 months ago. We made it pretty ...
A. 7 June 2011: and this is how my marriage died...
i loved my husband and sex was actually good... i met a man my now boyfriend... and the brain chemistry rocked my world. I let my husband leave me and I am with my boyfriend now.
it was supposed to be N... (read in full...)
I don't need Viagra but I want to try it, would anything bad happen?
Q. hey everyone..im just thinking about taking a viagra once..just for fun and see how it feels lol. i never had problems with my sex life but i just want to take a pill and see how it feels..but im worried about what could happen to me after i take ...
A. 7 June 2011: ask your doctor.
there is no reason for a healthy person to take medications and I would not recommend it.... (read in full...)
I don't care if LDR fiance smokes pot...I just don't want to be lied to about it. How do I approach this?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 6 months. But he's been lying to me. Leaving him is out of the question; he's a great guy and I love him with all my heart. He doesn't want me to smoke weed, and he ...
A. 7 June 2011: "but I love who he is. "
ok who is he? if you say you don't love what he does but you love who he is... tell me what you love about who he is...
he's a pot smoking, non-working, liar that you don't trust...
and if you are not ge... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to love multiple woman the same way?
Q. I love my boyfriend of 10 months and we are in a long distance relationship. After two months dating he left for overseas. Before he left I saw emails between him and two other girls. Supposedly they use to date. I questioned it and he said it means ...
A. 7 June 2011: ONE of the things that wrecked my last marriage was my husband's inability to NOT have emotionally intimate relationships with other women. He had to have other women stroke his fragile ego, I was NOT enough. It was wearing.
he would tell the... (read in full...)
It's like I'm allergic to my girlfriend! Has anyone else experienced anything like this? Or does anyone have any advice?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts I wonder if you could help me please, I’m so confused and upset over what’s going on. Before I go into detail I hope the following background to me/situation may help. I have two very stressful roles that are high profile and ...
A. 7 June 2011: yep I have IBS and my flares are very emotionally related.
sounds like nerves.... it might get better... can you try an anti-anxiety medication?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not know how to comfort me?
Q. I love spending time with my boyfriend, and when I'm in a good mood (which I usually am) I am very happy with him. Lately however, I've been really stressed, sick, and having a lot of depressed/feeling down issues. I've told him I find it hard to ...
A. 7 June 2011: I agree with Chigirl you need to teach him...
tell him
I feel such and such
when I feel such and such I need you to say/do such and such
and then I'll feel better...
and add
this is not about you not being good enough
it's about you le... (read in full...)
We're in a finite relationship due to our age gap, what should I do?
Q. hi, i'm 18 and live in the uk. I have been in a relationship with a man who is now 50 for two years. My question is regarding what to do because we're in a finite relationship due to our age differences yet i have really fallen for him and he has ...
A. 7 June 2011: have you guys met in person? IF NOT, i think that has to be an important step SOON if you wish to see if this can work.
if you were 16 and he was 48 when you met online that is a bit disconcerting to me due to legalities of age... but at 18 you a... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a much younger woman......
Q. Let me start by saying that I'm not a native English speaker, so, I'm really sorry if you find some spelling/grammar mistakes. I hope you can at least understand me. I'm 30 and I'm in love with a 19 years old girl. She studies medicine and she is a...
A. 7 June 2011: no biggie to me.
my husband was 11 years younger than I am
my current boyfriend is over 13 yrs younger than I am
numbers are just that if at 19 and 20 you guys fit... it's GREAT... (read in full...)
I don't care if LDR fiance smokes pot...I just don't want to be lied to about it. How do I approach this?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 6 months. But he's been lying to me. Leaving him is out of the question; he's a great guy and I love him with all my heart. He doesn't want me to smoke weed, and he ...
A. 7 June 2011: I am not telling you to leave him. I can't make that choice for you. I would just like you to list all the pros vs all the cons of the man and the relationship and determine if it's worth staying
think of this:
a year from now.... he's st... (read in full...)
I get frustrating waiting for my LDR guy to sign in. Am I being too needy or is my attitude reasonable?
Q. I am in a LDR My boyfriend spends a lot of time doing things online, like reading articles, playing games, etc. etc I am fine with that, but it bothers me that I know he's online the whole time but usually doesnt sign in till the evening, at a specif...
A. 7 June 2011: i am in an LDR and so is close GF of mine.
my BF and I have two scheduled calls per day... my morning wake up call to him and my bedtime tuck in call to him. all other contacts are unscheduled.
my friends.. they have no contact all day ... (read in full...)
I don't care if LDR fiance smokes pot...I just don't want to be lied to about it. How do I approach this?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 6 months. But he's been lying to me. Leaving him is out of the question; he's a great guy and I love him with all my heart. He doesn't want me to smoke weed, and he ...
A. 6 June 2011: "Idk if I'll ever be able to trust him again, but I love him and that's what matters."
ummm NO I"m sorry. I Just ended a marriage to a man I could not TRUST. LOVE without TRUST will not work.
TRUST is one of those damn critical things.... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship, and we won't be able to meet again until 2012!
Q. i am in a ldr committed relationship since 2 years. last time i met my bf was december 2010. now my bf said that he will meet me on may 2012!!! this is because he has to study hard this year to go to a good college next year.he's taking one yea...
A. 6 June 2011: sorry I don't buy that it's a relationship either. I'm LDR and we fight tooth and nail to be together ever second we can.... (read in full...)
I don't care if LDR fiance smokes pot...I just don't want to be lied to about it. How do I approach this?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 6 months. But he's been lying to me. Leaving him is out of the question; he's a great guy and I love him with all my heart. He doesn't want me to smoke weed, and he ...
A. 6 June 2011: If you marry a man who lies to you, will you ever trust him?
you are LDR how often do you see each other?
do you wonder what else he is lying to you about
why can't you leave him? what is so magical about a man that has no ambition, no job,... (read in full...)
How often do you give your boyfriend oral sex?
Q. Hi, just wondering how often all you ladies (or gay guys too!) give your boyfriend oral sex? (or guys, how often does your gf give you a bj?) I was talking to a girlfriend about this and she said she gives her boyfriend blow jobs every day whereas ...
A. 6 June 2011: I'm 51 and I give my guy a bj every chance I get. when we are together (we are LDR) it's at least once or twice a day... (read in full...)
At times I want him back, and then other times I'm hesistant.....what should I do?
Q. Heyy guys i have been having a tough time as of late and i've had so many opinions on this i'm feeling a bit stuck so i'm hoping i can come to some conclusions on here. I broke up with my boyfriend of five months about a month and a half ago because ...
A. 6 June 2011: how will you feel if you get back in his life as just a friend?
I know with me I could never at first be just friends with someone who broke up with me and i wanted to be with. it hurts too much and i keep thinking and hoping we can be more tha... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't return the favor?
Q. Hey, So basically what is happening is that my girlfriend won't return the favour. I go down on her to please her whenever he asks, but when I ask her to return the goods she says, I don't feel like it, or, when it's dark. I know penises aren't t...
A. 6 June 2011: Truthfully I don't buy into the tit for tat mentality about oral sex.
My current bf does not do oral. He has his reasons and he told me that he did not do it prior to us being intimate on that level so I do not expect it. I respect his "limitat... (read in full...)
He now hates me and wants nothing to do with me, even though I didnt do anything!
Q. Hi guys... here's the deal... I believe this guy was looking for a reason to blow me off... we made plans on Friday to hang out and then he switches up at the last moment...as a result I got mad and turned my phone off and went to sleep. When I ...
A. 6 June 2011: i had to read your age several time you sound 13-15 not 30-35.
clearly he just wants a booty call
i'd put him on permanent ignore.... (read in full...)
If he was not interested...then why would he keep contacting me?
Q. 8 months ago I started chatting to a man on the internet. I am 23 he is 35. We have become good friends during that time and did admit our attraction to each other. At fisrt he would contact me almost every day, and then it slowly died down to a...
A. 6 June 2011: honey he's playing you
using you to stroke his ego
he's interested in your attention as long as it's nothing serious....... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 6 June 2011: Your arguments are not quite up to snuff sir.
In the state i live in there is no curfew for under 18. never has been. there are driving curfews but that's not the same thing.
Since I do not know what state you live in I cannot comment o... (read in full...)
I want to break up easily
Q. Hey guys I really need advice on how to break up with my girlfriend, I'm going to try and ease her down but I need help on exactly what to do. I need tips on everything Where What to say Should I tell her and leave Should I tell her and walk her...
A. 6 June 2011: i too vote for walking home after school on a friday
AND not spreading it around with the friends...
keep it quiet... calm
read what Dmartin89 said over and over... it's PERFECT!... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I don't want to have sex with him! Help!
Q. my boyfriend loves me but he wants to have sex with me and i don't want to, what should i do with my boyfriend? although we can't break up because I LOVE HIM...
A. 6 June 2011: you must tell him that you are not ready. He should respect that.
IF He insists that you do something that you do not want to do you must accept that he does not love you back the right way and must consider ending the relationship
... (read in full...)
We're planning to get married, but he wouldn't put me up for a few nights??
Q. I need help! I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 25 and he's 32. Recently, we have been looking a houses and setting plans (in the belief that we would be getting married in the near future). We went ring shopping almost a ...
A. 6 June 2011: makes no sense to me.
have you been to his home?
I'm sorry I agree that this is unacceptable behavior.
he owes you a detailed explanation but I am not sure I'd consider buying a home with him or getting married at this point... leaving you "out... (read in full...)
Should I check he doesn't have regrets?
Q. Me and my bf broke up about 3 weeks ago, to cut a long story short he didnt know what he wanted and i gave him 4 days to think about things and he still didnt know what he wanted. He was just generally confused, he lacks confidence at times and i ...
A. 5 June 2011: While I totally get your need for information or closure you really can't check on him at this point. I agree with Aunt Honesty...
set yourself a deadline such as "if in 4 weeks he has not contacted me I will know we are done" and then move on.... (read in full...)
Found a lump in my right breast, but I'm too scared to go to the doctor!
Q. i know this might seem a bit weird, but iv noticed a lumb in my right breast, at first i just ignored it as i thought it may just be beacuse i lost weight and they are changing, but know i am a bit worried. i am to scared and ashamed to tell ...
A. 4 June 2011: why are you ashamed? what did you do that would cause you shame?
most women have lumps... as someone said you need to know yours...
that being said... it can't hurt to see a doctor and that is what they are for and they are used to all sort... (read in full...)
Should I pay my boyfriend or should he work for free?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and six months. He has a handyman business. I need electrical and plumbing work done should i pay him to do the work?...
A. 4 June 2011: I would tell him what i need to have done and ask him how much this will cost me... and go from there.
... (read in full...)
How do I get my man to be more romantic without outright telling him?
Q. Is it bad to have a list of things in your head that you wish your man did?? Like i wish he gave me foot massages and brought me flowers out the blue and things like that, but my thing is i don't want to have to mention to him and then he does it ...
A. 4 June 2011: he's not a mind reader. I love a foot massage and my deal with my bf is that if i wear high heels to go out with him he has to give me a foot massage.
you need to tell him there are the things you want.
if he does it fine
if he does not, d... (read in full...)
It's my party and I can cry if I want to! Would you cry too if this happened to you?
Q. It was my birthday last week and I arranged for friends and some work colleagues to go out for a meal. In total there was 19 of us and I just feel the evening was a disaster! Because we were such a large group the restaurant asked us to all ...
A. 4 June 2011: so often work interferes with life and life interferes with work...
the issue is that only the folks truly committed will make the effort to show up
any time I plan a party I assume that SOME of the invitees won't come. I"m never disappoint... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 3 June 2011: I never said you punished her why are you constantly defending yourself about that?
The statement I made was the assumption that if you are this upset about this event that the parenting of your child has been this strict and controlling ... (read in full...)
Trouble with my boyfriend and thinking about breaking up......
Q. Dearcupid, I am at the most confusing stage. I love my boyfriend a lot. We met online. He is 26 and I'm 16. I have asked this question before,please check. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-torn-between-my-ex-and-my-friend.html He disappeared...
A. 3 June 2011: he is a player and I'm sorry but NO 26 yr old MAN should be dating a 16 yr old GIRL...
he's playing you sweetie...
get on with your life and let him go.
It's hard I know... but it's better for you.... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 3 June 2011: Or maybe she knows that your behavior, OP is a bit over the top and a bit too controlling for someone who in less than a year is going to legally be an adult?
Again she is 17 and the hardest thing we do as parents is give our kids wings. it's eas... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 2 June 2011: nothing for me to say now Tisha-1 said it all beautifully. please listen to what she said...... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 2 June 2011: you are right SHE SHOULD have CHECKED with you and she did not.
I would be concerned about that... more so than the sex that probably did not happen. I would also mention lightly to her friend's parents that you take your responsibility as a par... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 2 June 2011: I agree with K C 100 truthfully I'm 51 I have an almost 19 yr old daughter a 27 yr old son and a 24 year old son.
There is no need to yell at us (use CAPS) just because we did not give you the info or support you wanted/needed.
17 is a har... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: I'm a parent. I was a 17 year old girl and I don't think they had sex.
I think you are looking for a way to punish your daughter. you even said
"A female's opinion would be even better as long as she doesnt sound like she is defending my dau... (read in full...)
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