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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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4 yrs with my bf who still married but separated..still no sign of filing for divorce!
Q. hi everyone, I needed help and advice as I'm in so much pain.. I love my bf so much.. i am single mum and currently in a relationship with a man whos 18 yrs older than me and still married. were in a long distance relationship for 4 years now ...
A. 24 October 2011: here's an old cliche.... "that which does nto kill us makes us stronger"
it is hard.
be strong.
be brave.... (read in full...)
Being ignored by the first guy I ever loved, how can I fix things?
Q. I am 15 and i am a bisexual, a year and a half ago, i told a boy in my year, that i was convinced was also gay/bi, that i liked him and he cyber bullied me. It has been a year and a half later and he hasn't spoken to me at all, he has unfriend...
A. 21 October 2011: I apologize.. i didn't even take into consideration that he may be denying his sexuality... and that does add a component to it that makes it murky...
I still think you need to let it go for now...... (read in full...)
Is this even worth it anymore?
Q. Hi everyone and thank you for your help! My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. Started off nice as all relationships usually do. He was sweet, listened to me, complimentive, and very caring. He still has many of those traits but there...
A. 21 October 2011: The best way I can help you is to tell you how it is in my relationship with an angry controlling man.
If it was JUST the temper I would be more inclined to tell you to work it out but the checking up on you and the accusations of cheating... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still have sleepovers at 19?
Q. This isn't a relationship question but is it normal or ok to still have sleepovers at 19? My friend and I always stay in each others place and have a few drinks is it normal that we still have sleepovers?...
A. 21 October 2011: I'm 51 and we still have sleep overs sometimes... ... (read in full...)
If you are with a divorced man does that automatically mean I have to have a second best wedding and a second best life?
Q. My partner of 3 years is a nice guy, he makes me laugh, he’s good company, he cooks me dinner, we share interests. Intimacy is great. He got divorced 6 years ago. I have never been married. The problem is he has so many problems and we cannot ge...
A. 21 October 2011: Nope you do not have to have a second best life or wedding when you married a divorced person. HOWEVER, you do have an ex wife and kids that will be part of your life. it's a given.. even after 18 they will still be there...
You said: "We have... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 21 October 2011: "is that the right choice"
we don't know. only YOU know if it's the right choice
but for YOU... I think that playing the field a while is the right choice... just DATE (not SEX) these boys...
when the "right one" comes along you won't h... (read in full...)
Was he just really enjoying it or should I go easy on him next time?
Q. While recently giving a blow job to this guy, I felt he started to tremble and shiver vigorously. After he came in my mouth and we were done, he did exclaim that he could hardly stand then and sat down. Wanted to know if it is because he is ...
A. 21 October 2011: you could ASK him....... (read in full...)
22 year old girl with confidence issues
Q. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I have always had huge problems with confidence. My main problem is that i get embarrassed and shy and my cheeks go red. It bothers me so much. Especially when i have to make contact with people or i...
A. 21 October 2011: Tisha said "I'll tell you a big deep dark secret of life: most people who seem super-confident are faking it. You just have to learn to do it in a convincing way yourself."
Yep she's 100% correct.
you walk the walk and talk the talk even i... (read in full...)
Was he just really enjoying it or should I go easy on him next time?
Q. While recently giving a blow job to this guy, I felt he started to tremble and shiver vigorously. After he came in my mouth and we were done, he did exclaim that he could hardly stand then and sat down. Wanted to know if it is because he is ...
A. 21 October 2011: umm can I just point out only women have answered... I'd love to hear from some of the guys too...... (read in full...)
How does a large guy make himself more attractive to women?
Q. As a large guy at the 18. (6'4 and 17 and a half stone) How can I make myself more attractive to the opposite sex? I'm got quite a round face and although I can hide my stomach and that sort of thing I do struggle to look 'attractive'. I feel my ...
A. 21 October 2011: at 6'4" 17.5 stone if I figure correctly I think you are around 250 pounds... that's not horrible and I bet I'd find you very attractive...... (read in full...)
Can it really be so weird for a guy to sleep with his pregnant woman?
Q. I am currently 26 weeks pregnant. I have not gained any weight but my belly has grown seeing how there is a baby in there lol. I've been with my boy friend who is the father for two years. Over the past couple weeks I've noticed our sex life is ...
A. 21 October 2011: oh well if he's afraid of belly to belly contact then there are other postions to use...
check out scissors (dovetail) or use rear entry (not doggy style but side by side like spooning with him behind you...
no baby belly in the way!... (read in full...)
I'm contemplating leaving her and moving out to live on the streets!
Q. I absolutely love my fiancee and I want only good things for her. Our dilemma is that we live in an RHCF (we both have depression) and needed services and treatment. We no longer need to be here and I have been working as a freelance writer. She is ...
A. 21 October 2011: I have to disagree about it being a rip off Bernard. Their money goes for rent and services. My son lives in a group home and his SSI is not even enough to cover his rent...
IF you are unhappy OP and you no longer need the services of the grou... (read in full...)
I need help, my family treats me badly!
Q. I feel trapped in my life with my dysfunctional family treating me badly. My 3 siblings have shunned me and always scheme things to get me in trouble. I'm always being yelled at and blamed for things that I didnt do wrong. I'm always being pulled ...
A. 21 October 2011: If your family mistreats you and makes you unhappy and are toxic you have every right to cut them out of your life.
My bf does NOT speak to his family at all.
just because they are blood related does not mean you owe them anything (does N... (read in full...)
What should I do about this guy my girlfriend is hanging out with?
Q. So my gf meet this guy on a dating sight just like she meet me. But this guy is 30 and says age is just a number. He buys her whatever she wants and she hangs out with him i know she hates this guy. SO DO I. But he keeps touchin her and picks her ...
A. 21 October 2011: Sorry to say I agree with the previous aunties...
Your gf is no gf to you.. she's using another person and lying to them... if she lies to him, she lies to you. maybe she's using you too.
we either lie or we don't. it's a personality thin... (read in full...)
I don't want to get feelings for somebody who really doesn't want a relationship.
Q. I've recently developed a sort of fuck buddy type deal with a guy who I started out dating. Not serious dating or a relationship,but just dating as in going out for dinner and what not. I kind of got pissed off because he would want to make plans ...
A. 21 October 2011: "I was thinking if it's only going to be sex for us, there should be no cuddling,no hand holding,no being sweet or romantic,and definitely no sleep overs!"
Personally my opinion is if it was just about orgasms you guys don't need each other. ... (read in full...)
When will I feel comfortable with a guy, enough to overcome my fears?
Q. I'm 16, he's 18. I'm still a virgin, and he wants to have sex. I know I'm going to get a lot of answers saying that I'll find the right guy, and that I should wait til I'm ready, but I really haven't done much of anything,in fact I've only kissed ...
A. 21 October 2011: agreed that at 16 in the US with an 18 yr old he could be in trouble if you have sex...
but that's not your question.. you want to know when you'll feel comfortable around guys... and the answer is a very non-specfic WHO KNOWS... Sorry but it... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my FWB about my feelings for him?
Q. Hi everyone here is my problem me and this man are fwb, I wanted more and I told him but he didn't say anything back. he treats me quite badly, we arrange for me to stay at his and then he forgets all about it. we arrange a night out then when the ...
A. 21 October 2011: Well my suggestion is to end it. You are hurting. You love him and want more and all he wants is sex. He's not going to change that because you are putting out for him.
You gave us a list of what's wrong..
he treats me badly
he cancel... (read in full...)
Being ignored by the first guy I ever loved, how can I fix things?
Q. I am 15 and i am a bisexual, a year and a half ago, i told a boy in my year, that i was convinced was also gay/bi, that i liked him and he cyber bullied me. It has been a year and a half later and he hasn't spoken to me at all, he has unfriend...
A. 21 October 2011: He cyber bullied you and you want to be friends with him? WHY?
he does not talk to you
he unfriended you on facebook
he does not answer your texts or attempts to contact him
LOUD and CLEAR he's making it known he wants NOTHING to do with... (read in full...)
He won't let me see his facebook page because I snooped when we were broken up!
Q. I snooped in my boyfriends facebook account months ago when we were broken up.we're back together now but he wont add me back on his friend list.he said i dont deserve it because of when i snooped.he said he will put that he is in a relationship as ...
A. 21 October 2011: IF he won't let you see it it's because he's hiding something. you have every right to be concerned.
I personally have an issue with anyone in a relationship that says "you need to be punished" and means it.... he is not your mommy or daddy it... (read in full...)
What advice do you have for an ugly girl?
Q. What advice would you give to an unattractive girl? Not beauty advice but life and dating advice...
A. 21 October 2011: who said you are unattractive?
if you think you are ugly and have low self-esteem or body dysmorphia I can and will STRONGLY recommend counseling to work through the feelings.
I have body dysmorphia and think I am fat. I'm a size 6 and I'm T... (read in full...)
Sex with my younger boyfriend sucks. How much time should I give him to improve?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost a year. He is a very lovely and caring guy. He is also tall, handsome, dark hair, and muscular (ok he's really my type). He just moved from Poland to US when we first met. Since I came fro...
A. 21 October 2011: Have you talked to HIM about it? Asked him what he thinks he needs? Tell him what YOU need?
With partners that ejaculate quickly I always had oral performed first on me... then he'd get his bj and if he wanted to finish with penetrat... (read in full...)
My Friends with benefits relationship has gone wrong because now he has feelings for me. Should I break up with him?.
Q. Hi everyone! For a while now I've been sleeping with a guy who I'm friendly with. We both agreed it would be a no strings attached relationship, which I'm completely happy with. You see my life is pretty chaotic I'm up in college during the w...
A. 21 October 2011: If you continue to sleep with him and he has those feelings for you they will grow and he will continue to think that eventually you may just maybe let him be your boyfriend.
IF you are very very sure that you could never have him as a boyfrien... (read in full...)
Can women really be addicted to a man for the sex?
Q. Okay ladies, this is pretty sexual. What do you think of a man that is a, for lack of a better word, GOD in bed. Can women really be addicted to a man that can basically just give her absolute pleasure anytime, anywhere, all the time? Would cheating ...
A. 21 October 2011: Did you write this question just for me? :-)
Let's do the easy stuff first.. yes we talk about sex with our close friends but not in detail... we don't disect (at least I don't) but in general terms.. and not like we get up the next morning ... (read in full...)
I feel completely addicted to my fiance, is this healthy?
Q. i feel completely addicted to my fiance. we have been together coming up to 4 years and since the very start of our relationship almost we have pretty much lived together. we do almost everything together besides work. normally in relationships i ...
A. 21 October 2011: If you are asking if it's healthy I suspect you know that it does sound a bit excessive.
Part of being in a relationship is being apart now and then. I think that having other friends and a few outside separate activites is healthy.
For exa... (read in full...)
Leaking bladder problems
Q. Ever since i was little, i always had a bladder problem. Where I accidently leak in my underwear and no matter what I do, it always happens...i can hold my bladder and tell when to go, but i "tinkle" and it is quite embrassing, especially when I'm ...
A. 21 October 2011: you must see a doctor.
there are several kinds of incontince and most are fixable.
stress incontince is when you sneeze or cough and tinkle... very annoying...
URGE incontince is when you get the urge to go and you can't stop it... usually... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl smiles at you?
Q. Hi, I am 24 years old and never had a girlfriend before. I just had a question, sometimes when I'm out I see girls smile at me when they see me. Like this one time I was out running at the park and I made eye contact with a girl while we were ...
A. 21 October 2011: It could mean they think you are attractive.
It could mean they just smile at folks in general (that's me)
It could mean a million things.
Girls BTW put their pantyhose on sitting down hon... they are just people... they are as scared of boys a... (read in full...)
Why did he not want me when I was his girl but now he wants me ?
Q. Hi I have a question about a guy I met online. We met on a dating site and really hit it off he lives in another state but we kept talking exchanged emails and after about 6 months phone numbers We eventually decided to meet I was so crazy about hi...
A. 21 October 2011: It's just a guess here but often people want what they can't have. And then there's the whole "men love a good chase" thought.
OTOH, he could just be playing games with you.
Not sure how far apart you two are but if you are within say a 3 o... (read in full...)
4 yrs with my bf who still married but separated..still no sign of filing for divorce!
Q. hi everyone, I needed help and advice as I'm in so much pain.. I love my bf so much.. i am single mum and currently in a relationship with a man whos 18 yrs older than me and still married. were in a long distance relationship for 4 years now ...
A. 21 October 2011: sometimes OP we have to suffer pain to get to the good stuff.
I believe that yes in the LONG run you will be happier without him.... (read in full...)
Why don't the question askers read their mail?
Q. Hello all, From time to time as a regular Aunt on this site, I receive messages in my mailbox from people needing a personal reply to their problems. I am more than happy to help if I can and I do reply to all messages with help or information w...
A. 20 October 2011: oh yes a WALL Of TEXT is not going to get a response....
I had someone today ask me if they could ask me a question (I thought that rather polite actually) and said yes but asked them to please use lots of paragraphs and white space.
... (read in full...)
Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?
Q. This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...
A. 20 October 2011: I don't look down on prostitues I feel sorry for them. they are making a living the only way they can. they are mistreated and poorly paid.
Actors... well treated.... over paid... catered to... worshiped....
can't even see a compariso... (read in full...)
She moved in with me after her divorce, am I being used?
Q. Well I'm at a real loss here About a month ago I moved in this girl I met online like 6 months ago,because she is getting divorced,and was kicked out of her place,along with her 2 kids both under 2,anyways during the course of our short "friends...
A. 20 October 2011: I don't think you are being used. I think she genuinely likes you but I don't think you should hold your breath waiting for her to change her mind about a full blown romantic relationship.... (read in full...)
I found my old crush on facebook and now I feel like I am in love with her again
Q. This may sound weird because I am talking about someone I have never dated. There is this girl I was in love with as a child. We were just class friends but in my heart she was more than that. We studied in the same class for 3 years which was enou...
A. 20 October 2011: you do need to find a therapist and work this through... and maybe a bit of anti-depressant will help you cope better.
you don't have to tell your friends if you don't want to you just say "I had something to do" if they keep on you just ref... (read in full...)
34 year old Saudi woman dating a 50 year old American man for 9 years.
Q. iam 34 years old woman dating 50 years old american man for 9 years,i met him when i was 26 and he was 42 and we are completly commeted to eachother. we are trying to be married 5 years back but my family refuse him for 2 reasons,one, he in not saud...
A. 20 October 2011: can you move to a different country?
... (read in full...)
Can it really be so weird for a guy to sleep with his pregnant woman?
Q. I am currently 26 weeks pregnant. I have not gained any weight but my belly has grown seeing how there is a baby in there lol. I've been with my boy friend who is the father for two years. Over the past couple weeks I've noticed our sex life is ...
A. 20 October 2011: Why do you think that your entire relationship is all about sex? do you really think that a man can't go without sex for a while?
yeah it might be weird for him to have sex with you while you are "heavily" pregnant.
I never had that with my... (read in full...)
Scared and confused, should I marry him?
Q. hi cupids, ive been with my guy for 3yrs.we have a boy of 2yrs.he's been divorced from a previous marriage.he wanted to marry me last june which i refused.because of the way he treats me.i am very confused.i still stay in his house.i cry almo...
A. 20 October 2011: He is abusing you.
silent treatments are abuse
hitting you is abuse
why are your parents agreeing to this marriage?
can you take your child and go home to your parents.... (read in full...)
How do I get closure, heal, move on?
Q. I'm struggling to move on from my "first love" ...and its been almost four years. So it happened a month before my 15th birthday. I was so stupid and naive, I thought this guy really loved me and wanted to be with me. In hind sight everything...
A. 20 October 2011: What answers do you need from him?
what closure do you need?
do you want him to know how he "ruined" you? because the fact is, it happened. It's over it's done he's moved on and you need to move on emotionally as well.... (read in full...)
Can't find the perfect woman (or near perfect woman).....
Q. I'm quite a perfectionist, granted. I've had several girlfriends throughout my twenties so far but I can't seem to find the 'complete package'. My ex girlfriend was perfect in respect to the fact that we had an amazing physical connection from ...
A. 20 October 2011: Sure I'm great in bed, I'm smart, I'm funny and I'm kind. I'm also taken.
Have you considered NOT hinting to this woman that you need more in the sexual arena? Have you considered actually discussing it with her?
If you are in a relationshi... (read in full...)
He's 21, but still has tantrums. Do I tell him? Does he need counselling? or what? It affects me, but he never thinks about that.
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years (best friend of 5 years) has a BIG problem that I don't know if I should bother dealing with any longer, so I need your advice. We're both 21. I love him to death. But he just cannot handle problems he comes across, no...
A. 20 October 2011: My boyfriend is 38 and still had total breakdowns when stressed. It's how some folks cope.
Your BF is probably NOT going to change how he copes with stress.... he needs to learn coping mechanisims
You need to learn to say "you're over rea... (read in full...)
He said if I ever fell pregnant he would leave me if I didn't get an abortion.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we plan to have a future together, have even spoken about marriage and kids, but kids would be at least 10 years away. (I know sometimes relatioships don't work out, but we do have a good ...
A. 20 October 2011: I agree with Chigirl here.
he is being immature about it but then that's due to his age.
personally if you are both that afraid of a pregnancy (and BCP with condoms is more than enough) I think perhaps you guys are not ready to add sexual ac... (read in full...)
When can I openly Cross dress? I am not gay. I just want to Cross dress. In what countries is cross dressing most accepted?
Q. Women can wear men's clothes then why can't men wear women's clothes? like saree and salwars and all? why is there not support for men to wear women's clothes? I am a 15 year old , almost 16 year old male and i love cross dressing since i wa...
A. 20 October 2011: nope there is nothing wrong with you. Sadly society is not going to accept you publically cross dressing...
and since you live with mum and dad you can't do it at home...
my bf dresses up at home now and then... complete with high heels.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cant stop looking at porn and explicit pictures, and lies to me about it! How should I handle this?
Q. Okay, so in the recent past I've had some troubles with my bf of nearly 2 1/2 yrs looking at porn and having explicit pictures of girls on his phone. For ages I knew and didn't say anything. Until one day I asked does he watch porn and he said no. I ...
A. 20 October 2011: you are asking him to change something rather fundamental to him. Men are visual. Most men I know look at porn, even very religious men are known to do it...
I would not ask my man to not look at porn. There are women that it does not bother. ... (read in full...)
Are we FWB or something more? So confused!
Q. Hi everyone here is my problem its a bit complicated. I met this man in march this year, we started having sex. I went out one night, he got jealous he thought I'd met someone else which I hadn't I told him I only wanted to be with him cos I thought ...
A. 20 October 2011: THE OP ASKS: "Do you think we are together but he has not mentioned it as he is taking this slowly with me?"
no honey I don't think that at all.
you are his F*CK buddy... or as they call it now FWB.. sounds so much nicer and makes it so much... (read in full...)
I just had a baby - I wonder why my relationship is falling apart ever since having it?
Q. I just had a baby boy two weeks ago and my bf is not pulling his weight enough around the house to which he is the father of this one. I already have an 18 month old (not his - her father didn't want to know her nor has he ever tried to see her once ...
A. 20 October 2011: your hormones are at an all time high right now..
he's a first time dad...
personally if someone asked me to do a favor for them (i.e. change a dirty nappy) and then CRITCISED how I did it or the speed I did it... I'd not be inclinded to do A... (read in full...)
Was he just really enjoying it or should I go easy on him next time?
Q. While recently giving a blow job to this guy, I felt he started to tremble and shiver vigorously. After he came in my mouth and we were done, he did exclaim that he could hardly stand then and sat down. Wanted to know if it is because he is ...
A. 20 October 2011: oh heck no don't go easy on him... you knocked his socks off and I'm betting he loved it.... (read in full...)
Why don't the question askers read their mail?
Q. Hello all, From time to time as a regular Aunt on this site, I receive messages in my mailbox from people needing a personal reply to their problems. I am more than happy to help if I can and I do reply to all messages with help or information w...
A. 20 October 2011: I too amazingly get private messages asking for help... it amazes me. I try to answer but soemtimes i have no words for them. I do read everything
Truthfully I'm usually the one that ends the communication... my stuff seems to always be re... (read in full...)
How does a large guy make himself more attractive to women?
Q. As a large guy at the 18. (6'4 and 17 and a half stone) How can I make myself more attractive to the opposite sex? I'm got quite a round face and although I can hide my stomach and that sort of thing I do struggle to look 'attractive'. I feel my ...
A. 20 October 2011: I prefer big guys.. big thick guys...
dress well
groom well
speak well
be yourself.
well groomed men no matter their size are always attractive.... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: What does this promise ring signify?
you should be aware that it's RARE to meet Mr. Right at 15 or 16 or even 17 18 or 19.
Yes it happens but not as often as 15 year old young ladies would like...... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: You did not make the right choice.
clearly if you are not sure it's not the right choice.... (read in full...)
4 yrs with my bf who still married but separated..still no sign of filing for divorce!
Q. hi everyone, I needed help and advice as I'm in so much pain.. I love my bf so much.. i am single mum and currently in a relationship with a man whos 18 yrs older than me and still married. were in a long distance relationship for 4 years now ...
A. 4 October 2011: so when you met him he lied and said he was single.
now he lies to you
he lies to his wife
he lies to his friends and family
and you are so hurting. for so many reasons. and I am sorry.
I wish I could say he's not using you.
I wish ... (read in full...)
4 yrs with my bf who still married but separated..still no sign of filing for divorce!
Q. hi everyone, I needed help and advice as I'm in so much pain.. I love my bf so much.. i am single mum and currently in a relationship with a man whos 18 yrs older than me and still married. were in a long distance relationship for 4 years now ...
A. 3 October 2011: In my experience, a man will move heaven and earth to be with the one he loves. IF he is with you for four years already and you only see him sporadically, you can pretty much bet that what you currently have with him is all he wants to have with ... (read in full...)
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