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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 23 November 2011: if your doctor diaganoised it then she can prescribe the dilator kits...perhaps insurance will cover them..... (read in full...)
Stealing someone out of a relationship
Q. okay now I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship. I wanted this guy first and he got with his ex and still showed signs of interest in me. Seeing as at one point I was there first but may have messed up, pretty sure I did ...
A. 4 November 2011: just continue to be yourself and not try to steal him or make him want to leave his current partner.
as far as leaving him, you ARE just friends so handshakes or light hugs are appropriate...... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 2 November 2011: "But he'd still love me regardless of scars...so I can still go through with it & if he can't accept me for me then he isn't the one."
OP, this is a cover. Clearly it's NOT about what any given MAN wants. This is clearly about what YOU want and... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: "But if a guy loves me, he'd had to love me even if I have scars..."
or larger areoleas!... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: I have scars. I asked 38 yr old boyfriend last night for you and his comment was SCARS are worse than anything.
so there you go.. the scars will be a bigger turn off than the pancake areola.... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 31 October 2011: To the OP... if the point of the question was not to help you improve your body image and point out the insanity of an unnecessary surgery what was the point?
truly?
I mean we WANT to help you (and yes folks talk about this off the board too...... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: I get hating your body or parts of it.. I do. BTDT.
I get being excited to be able to afford to change something you hate...
What I don't get is how maybe ONE stupid boy said something ignorant and you adopted it as your anthem.
I ask... (read in full...)
Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 30 October 2011: you really should see a doctor about it.... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: Chigirl took the thought from me... This is NOT a cheap surgery and insurance does not cover it.
The surgeon's fee for me was 9k. that did not cover the tests (pathology was nearly 800 dollars alone) or the hospital (another 5k) yes this sur... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: I agree with what Cindy said. And I gotta tell you most men in fact ALL the men I've ever been with (and that's more than I care to admit as I was a swinger and attended orgies etc in a previous life).... had ONE reaction to breasts... large or ... (read in full...)
After 6 months of friendship, are his feelings changing?
Q. hi all, I met this guy and we got close then lost contact for a few years. We got in contact again about 6 months ago and have been talking and occasionally meeting up because we live a long way from each other. There is a lot of flirting involve...
A. 28 October 2011: Thanks for the update.. this got posted when i was not able to help on the boards so I had missed it...
congrats on your relationship... I too am LDR... or i was LDR... he just moved in with me... after a year of commuting so hang in there!... (read in full...)
Should I go into marriage without financial stability?
Q. Should i go into marriage, even though i'm not finish my College degree and only earn $120 a week? I would also be going against the better judgment of my Whole family, who thinks i should finish school and get a decent job before i marry. My ...
A. 28 October 2011: I disagree that the man has to provide.
if you and the GF want to marry and you two as a team can afford it then go for it.
FWIW I am way more established then the fiance. He just moved from his home in one state to be with me in another. I ma... (read in full...)
Should I tell my B/f about my dream?
Q. Last night, I had a dream about me and my boyfriend making out. It was obvious we were going to do more in my dream, but I woke up before we got intimate. I need my fellow ants and uncles to give me their opinion. Should I tell my boyfriend abou...
A. 28 October 2011: I would not tell him. it's a tease. and it's not only poking a bear with a stick.. it's waking a sleeping hungry cranky bear with a stick.
you even say you want to tell him to tease him and turn him on... that's just cruel.
its' being a ... (read in full...)
He has promised history won't repeat itself, but it is already!
Q. I am 43,very very un-happily married and have been suffering due to lack of true love since 1987 i.e. from the age of 19.....I met this guy on the internet about a year back who is 25 years old.....He asked me to be his Lady Valentine on the eve of ...
A. 28 October 2011: Please tell you to do what you already know is the right thing..... CUT HIM OFF NO CONTACT.
he's using you sweetie...
I"m so sorry you are on the pain and suffering diet... no eating, no sleeping... crying... all for someone you've never met... (read in full...)
He has been violent to me in the past but now is being a dedicated husband. Do I believe him?
Q. So I sit here in what is seemingly the "good times" I should see,"the changes he's made",but I cant help but feel,just stupid for believing him. This started 7 years ago although I didnt realize it until it was too late. He was so charming he ...
A. 28 October 2011: did he get counseling? what has made the change? a man that hits ONCE and never does it again made a mistake. he has attacked you at least 3 times. he left you and manipulated you and he's emotionally bullying you... just like he did wh... (read in full...)
How do I make sure I'm not the rebound when her divorce is finalized?
Q. Hello everyone! A female acquaintance that I've known for years has been separated from her husband for almost two years and just recently going through the actual divorce. So as of last month we have started seeing more of each other as friends. ...
A. 28 October 2011: as a divorced woman I can tell you that if she has been seperated for two years and gotten on with her life, there is probably no concern for rebound...
just keep playing by the rules (as her husband could use it against her in the divorce ... (read in full...)
Will there ever be a 'right' time to be a mom?
Q. Okay so I have a question about life regrets. I was thinking what would mine be right now if something was to happen to me? It came down to two things. Seeing the world and having a baby. I have done a good bit of the first! You see, havi...
A. 28 October 2011: if you ready then it's time to bring it up with your partner... I loved being a young mom...... (read in full...)
Qeustions for the guys ...do you prefer bigger women ?
Q. Qeustion for the men. What do you think about bigger women ? Would you ever date one, or do you prefer smaller women, do you find bigger women attractive or do find slim women more attractive ? I ask this because well im trying to start dating and ...
A. 28 October 2011: Some men will prefer slim women
some men will prefer chubby women
some men want women with blonde hair
some like redheads or brunettes
some like small breasts
some like large breasts
some like big butts (they cannot lie)
some do not... (read in full...)
The baby mama of my husband is making our lives a living nightmare!
Q. Hi, Hope someone can help - i am going out of my mind. My husband of 17 yrs had an affair with a girl nearly half his age, bad enough but after he told me it was over he had to admit that she was pregnant. Now i am sure that in the beginning she di...
A. 28 October 2011: I get it.
she's playing a game.
I love the advice unmeidaagonyaunt gave you. I think it is spot on.
She knows that she can tug at him because while he may no longer be attatched to HER he is being an adult and being responsible for his chil... (read in full...)
Trying to make a teenage LDR work....
Q. ... So I have a girlfriend she lives in Texas and I live in Illinois were both very young and were in an LDR , it's gonna be like that for at least 3 more years . Longer for her I should say since she's graduating next year as to we're I have two ...
A. 28 October 2011: Deep Sigh... one of the posts I make where the OP will grade me negatively....
LDRs suck.
they are HARD
they are HARD at MY AGE... I have the time and the money and the means to see my LDR partner every weeekend and LDR still sucks.
LDRS... (read in full...)
A good friend of mine likes the same guy I do, and he asked me out!
Q. Hi, I am in quite the predicament! i'm 15 years old, and me and my friend both like the same guy, M. My friend, T, doesn't know I like M, and I liked him for awhile before she told me she had liked him for a week. It made me miserable, knowing that ...
A. 28 October 2011: you can't control who likes who.
M likes YOU not T. this is NOT your fault.
You like M too...
I think you should say yes and I think you should gently tell her... but M is right DO NOT ever live your life to make other people happy.... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on?
Q. I'm wondering if I should be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on. Here's the background: - We've been dating for almost 6 weeks - We live two hours away from each other - He told me...
A. 28 October 2011: It's only six weeks.
I think you guys went to exclusive awfully fast especially for being 2 hours apart.
FWIW I logged on to a dating website after my bf and I were formally committed but not to look at men... to see who had looked at my pro... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a timing plan set out for when we should have sex but I'm worried I wont be ready by then!
Q. I am worried my boyfriend is going to get tired of waiting to have sex. We are both 16. Both capricorns ;) . I love him n he says he loves me but i know how fast feelings can change so far we have been together for 2 months but we have known ...
A. 28 October 2011: Ok it's November of 11th grade... you have a year before this might even happen.... I hate to say this but you guys might not even be together by then...
AND if you have NOT told him you are not ready to discuss having sexual relations wi... (read in full...)
Married man is trying to break the no contact rule
Q. I have cut off a friendship with a married man because we are both attracted to each other and we both realized it should not go any further. We have had no contact for two months now. It has been hard but in that time, I have been trying to move on ...
A. 28 October 2011: he's trying to get you back. tell him to go away (in your brain) he needs to be a non-entity to you.
continue no contact and if he continues to try to bother you tell him you will get a restraining order. (this will alert his wife to his beha... (read in full...)
Six years and I'm no longer sexually attracted to my boyfriend
Q. Hi! Okay. I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of all of high school, we are 3rd years in college and 700 miles away. I have come to the recent revelation that I am no longer sexually attracted to him. I have told him this and he still wants to try to ...
A. 28 October 2011: do not drag it out. be kind end it as soon as you can.
please do it nicely
do not do it by text
or email
if you can see each other over the thanksgiving holiday do it then...
do not lie to him now... ... (read in full...)
Stealing someone out of a relationship
Q. okay now I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship. I wanted this guy first and he got with his ex and still showed signs of interest in me. Seeing as at one point I was there first but may have messed up, pretty sure I did ...
A. 28 October 2011: THE OP ASKED: "I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship"
no it's NOT ok.
1. he's not yours to steal
2. to plot to do this is not nice. it's totally different if it happens (my current bf "stole" me from my then ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: I had a reconstructive breast lift and as part of that an areola reduction in June.
HORRIBLE surgery. The areola are now misshapen (not the surgeon's fault it takes MONTHS to heal properly and reset the shape)
My boyfriend could NOT touch ... (read in full...)
I want my wife back from this other man!
Q. My ex wife and I were together since we were 20. Got married at 21 and had our first kid at 23; each proceeding child is 1-3 years apart from the last. (We have 5 kids.) We got a divorce 4 years ago because, somewhere along the line, we stopped ...
A. 28 October 2011: Four years ago you divorced and all of a sudden NOW that she's moving on with her life you want her back?
where where you during the divorce process why didn't you fight it then.
WHY NOW do you want her back all of a sudden that she's got s... (read in full...)
First time sex...what can I do so that it wont hurt?
Q. I'm a vigin and me and my partner want to have sex I'm scared that it might hurt from other girls I've heard it hurts I need to know what I can do so it won't hurt . ...
A. 28 October 2011: first question:
do YOU WANT to have sex with this boy? if yes then great.
if you are doing it because HE wants it and you just want to please him please don't.
Sex will hurt if you are tense or not well lubed
so best advice:
be v... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been ignoring me for 4 days and I don't know what I have done wrong! What should I do in this situation?
Q. Hi, I really dont know what to do and would appreciate some advice. For some reason over the past four days, my boyfriend has decided to ignore me and wont contact me for no reason. I dont know what Ive done wrong, we haven't argued or even said a b...
A. 28 October 2011: Are you sure he's ok?
if you had no fight and have had NO contact I would verify with someone that he's ok...
or are you contacting him via phone and he's blowing you off???
I would not use texts or emails you can' verify they are received... (read in full...)
Is this world only for beautiful people with good fortunes?
Q. I am not good looking and have no confidence in myself at all. When I was 14, pimples started appearing on my head and lost my font hair. Since then, I have been shaving my head to make it look decent but I know girls get turned off my look a...
A. 28 October 2011: Your life is a mess because you let it be a mess.
Sounds to me like you have no self-esteem. I think that some counseling one on one to work on your self-worth and self-esteem will be a huge help to you.
What people find attractive is no... (read in full...)
Is it wrong I want more time with him outside work?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We work at same place and up until 2 days ago together. Because we are dating I was made to change areas. Before this we saw each other at work and maybe 2 nights a week. Which I was trying to get ...
A. 28 October 2011: Two nights a week? what about weekends?
I love my bf but he just moved in with me and now we get no down time alone from each other... it can be stressful for folks that need alone time to recharge...
I love him and want to be with him and wan... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying to contact him or just cut him out of my life?
Q. I've been having trouble with my LDR boyfriend lately. We've been together for 3 years, things haven't been easy lately but I didn't think they were this bad. He was supposed to visit me two-weeks ago for my birthday, but he couldn't because...
A. 27 October 2011: Yes dear, I'm sorry you are broken up.
1. he's smoking and you hate that. and he knew it. THE very first thing I did when my first marriage ended was buy a pack of cigarettes. I had not smoked for over 7 years but I quit FOR HIM not for ME and t... (read in full...)
How do I get him to overcome this frustration and hostility about the commute so that we can really enjoy being together?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together (happily) for four years. We have occasional conflict, and we both have our quirks, but after so long together I generally feel like I know ways to effectively defuse my boyfriend's issues in the rare instances ...
A. 27 October 2011: leases can be broken. MY formerly LDR fiance just signed to break his yesterday... 90 day notice but we will live.
I had to give 60 days notice many years ago on a brand new lease because I bought a house that fell into my lap at the time... ... (read in full...)
I wait for her to be online but she rarely contacts me. We love each other. How can I make this Long Distance Relationship work?
Q. My girlfriend,studies in india,and she is now here back to own country.. Out of thirty five days vacation now only ten days remain. Recently we 've not met much.. Don't know what I shall do. We love each other, but i'm not satisfied with her. She ...
A. 27 October 2011: LDRs are hard. very hard.
you need
trust
communication
honesty
meeting in real life time
and most of all
an END to the distance gap...
I'm also going to say that LDRs at your age are often destined to fail...
you are not having... (read in full...)
My casual LDR is becoming too serious, how do I let her down gently?
Q. Heres the situation: i met this girl on holiday back in the summer and we hit it off straight away. With regards to looks she isnt what i go for, but she makes me laugh and we got on well so i just went with it. We stayed in contact and have visited ...
A. 27 October 2011: I just ended and LDR.. HE MOVED IN WITH ME... we started as FWB... yah that worked well for us.
LDRs are hard. they are doable but both parties have to want them. LDRs with younger folks (UNI age and younger) are harder than hard.
You kee... (read in full...)
What do women feel when they are horny?
Q. hi !! if a boy or man gets horny he gets a erection !! what a girl or women feels when they are sexually aroused !! hope u wil answer my question ????...
A. 27 October 2011: hmmm a tingling down in my lower belly area....
... (read in full...)
He wasn't hard! Was I just not turning him on anymore?
Q. usually sex is not an issue with my boyfriend and i. this last time we were at it for a while and he still had not finished and was not even hard anymore at the end and i was not wet after a while either. as much as we tried he wasnt getting hard ...
A. 27 October 2011: it's normal.
sometimes the spirit is willing and the flesh is weak...
they could be tired
they could be sore
they could be drunk or high
they could have had an orgasm earlier in the day and not have had enough recovery time.
my boyf... (read in full...)
Does she need extra attention?
Q. Does she love me or what? she spend most of her free time on social sites flirting with guys and when i bring it to her attention she acts like omg its just tumblr. wtf u doing rbloggin these guys pics? does she care or whats going on...
A. 27 October 2011: she may love you she may not...
:::::::digs around looking for that darn crystal ball::::::
if she is your girlfriend and she is online flirting then this is my take on it:
she is insecure with herself
she has no self-esteem and NO... (read in full...)
He seems really interested in me, yet looking at his Facebook account, there are many signs pointing to the fact that maybe he already has a girlfriend!
Q. I met a guy at a club last night and we were interested in each other so we swapped names and numbers (I didn't kiss him or go back with him or anything, just talked). This morning he added me on facebook, has been texting me LONG texts all day, and ...
A. 27 October 2011: sounds like she is more than a casual friend...
ask him. right now all you two are is friends... can't hurt. see what he says.. nice test of mettle and if he lies you you and you find out later on... well there you go.... (read in full...)
How can I make my wife accept financial help?
Q. I am 33 right now and my girlfriend is 23. 8 years back, when she was 15 , I fell in love with her and within 2 weeks she accepted my proposal of being her Boyfriend but I acted more like a friend than boyfriend since she was too young th...
A. 27 October 2011: you should let her know the money is there if she wants it and then love her enough and respect her enough to let her make her own decisions on what she wants to do.... (read in full...)
Should I contact him or wait till he does ? was I wrong ?
Q. was i wrong, should i contact him or just wait ? so yesterday me and my boyfriend of 3 yrs. got in a arguement he was mad cause he came 2 visit his grandma and do some business but my boyfriend wanted me 2 take him home he lives an hour awa...
A. 27 October 2011: he was unreasonable if his request for you to take him home was at the last minute.
his leaning in to kiss you goodbye was his way of saying he was done being a pissy boy... but that wasn't a good thing. he needed to use his words...
persona... (read in full...)
He was cheating on me so we broke up, but then he contacted me again. Why?
Q. hi,i am 19 yrs girl.i was in a relationship to one guy.he is my senior in my college.i love him a lot.i was in a relation only for 1 month..i understood that he was cheating me.his friends told that.and i heard from his mouth that he was cheating ...
A. 27 October 2011: you say "i love him alot" why? what does he do that makes you love him alot.
he cheated on you
he therefore LIED to you...
I'm betting the regret he feels is not at what he did to you but at getting caught...
he is not taking your calls... (read in full...)
First (proper) date. A kiss - yes or no?
Q. Essentially, I met a girl a few weeks ago who I took to straight away. We text every day - pretty much all day (with a few exceptions). We've also been out for a drink (just the two of us) and even though I wouldn't have classed it as a date, I ...
A. 27 October 2011: I think you will be able to tell if you should go for the kiss so my advice is "don't plan but don't not plan"
go with the flow
it should be quick and light and gentle if you do kiss her unless she clearly wants more.
I remember the first ... (read in full...)
Is it right for my husband to leave me despite having a high risk pregnancy to go on holiday?
Q. i have been married for a few months. i am 34 weeks pregnant, with a history of heart disease, and classified high risk pregancy. my husband lobied for a paid for 2 months vacation out of the country with his employers and really excited about it. i ...
A. 27 October 2011: I don't think you are asking too much.
you are 34 weeks you are high risk the baby could come at any time.
you need help... if he does not want to be there to help with his baby then he should be making arrangements with his family or someone t... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong by refusing to pay for my wife's new dress?
Q. Hi, I really got to get this out as I don't know what I am doing wrong, maybe there are some factos which I am not taking into account. My wife and I are both young working professionals, my salary is higher than hers by around 30%. We bough...
A. 27 October 2011: Did she need the dress for something special???
In our household now.. we combine our salaries. I make way more than the boyfriend/fiance (nearly 25k more) and yet nothing is purchased with my money or his money but it's with OUR money.
... (read in full...)
Online dating - no-one replies to my messages! How do I make girls interested in me?
Q. I have been using dating sites for quite some time now but no one seems to be interested replying me. I might not have look of Tom Cruise but I am not that bad either. So What I need to do to make girls interested in me and finally get a ...
A. 27 October 2011: ok first of all I would not find tom cruise attractive.
secondly what do you send them as a message?
if you send a message that appears to be a cookie cutter message it will be ignored.
if a man sends me a message it better show:
a. you r... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I met this guy online and when i asked him if he lived in Singapore, he told me no, but he would be back four weeks later. I waited for a month and during that month, I spent my time talking to him. I am impressed and instantly know I love the ...
A. 27 October 2011: He says he is working on relocating... have you asked him for exactly what he is doing to relocate?
IF he gets pissed at you this early in the relationship and online what's to prevent him from being more angry when you are together in person. ... (read in full...)
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