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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is he loosing interest or just not enough communication?
Q. question: i'm starting 2 feel my boyfriend doesn't care about me well first off we are long distant relationship so i feel we should communicate more to feel closer to each other well he got me mad cause he was lagging it and than when i called ...
A. 19 October 2011: so you go to him.... hmmm... does he make an effort to make plans and contact you... does he ever ask you to come over or is it always YOU making the plans?... (read in full...)
How to win his heart back
Q. what do you do when he claims he doesn't like you anymore, but deep down you know he does...how do you win his heart back, or atleast get him to admit that he still has feelings for you, i've seen it in movies but movies lie :(...
A. 18 October 2011: movies lie.
FWB do not become married partners
Men cannot walk through fire
Men we love that don't love us do not magically realize they love us
Women who are fat do not look thin to men in love...
MOVIES LIE...
IF he claims he do... (read in full...)
How should I go about asking my ex when is he going to start spending night at home again
Q. How should I go about asking my ex when is he going to start spending night at home again: Hello me and my ex are friends be broke up 2 months this Friday well week before last him and his daughter fell out he has been staying with me ever sin...
A. 18 October 2011: I agree with Cindy.
he's an EX
so you say to him "listen billy-bob this arrangment is going to have to stop. I can give you unti XXX to get your stuff and get out. We need to move on"
... (read in full...)
I cheated on my g/f and the guilt is really getting to me
Q. i really love my girlfriend weve been together for about a year. but one day a couple months ago i cheated on her. with an ex. i went pretty far. right after it was done annd i went home i immediately cried. ive been crying since they day it ...
A. 18 October 2011: you're 15 you've been with your gf a year so since you were 14 and you have an ex too...
and you cheated... are you having sex with these girls???
since the guilt is killing you, you need to get it out...
why do you think you cheated?... (read in full...)
Was he cheating? What does this guy want out of the relationship?
Q. well, not sure how to start this question.. My boyfriend and I had ended our relationship. What happened the last time I went to his house, I noticed that everthing was password protected, when he never had it like that before, his laptops, his...
A. 18 October 2011: You really need to ask him to be honest. But I have a few questions for you:
1. Do you TRUST HIM? what will you do the next time he password protects his phone/email etc? what about when he can't be reached? Will you think he's cheating?
... (read in full...)
Online dating--I'm ok till they ask to meet and then I get scared!
Q. Hi guys, I am not sure if any of you have had the experience of online dating? I have recently signed up on OkCupid, and it seems to be a very polite and good site - people there are not particularly sketchy, and are fairly friendly. I have be...
A. 18 October 2011: it's a good jumping in point
a couple of ideas:
1. meet in a public place for coffee
2. make sure someone knows where you are going when you are going and that you will check in after the "date"
3. make sure the guy you are meeting kno... (read in full...)
Why is my fiance trying to look different?
Q. Ever since we got engaged, my fiance has been trying to look different. While I want her to have all the freedom she wants (I don't want to be controlling), She is no longer recognizable to the attractive, beautiful woman she was. She used ...
A. 18 October 2011: you should tell her... tell her the truth.
do not lie to her...
if she asks tell her.
as for her hair.. you need to let her know you think it looks better dark...
I'm very glad my boyfriend has no qualms about letting me know what's att... (read in full...)
He's been away for three months, now when he's finally coming back home-he tells me he's thinking of going back again!
Q. My guy has been gone for three months because of a work project in Costa Rica and he's supposed to come back in early Nov. Today, he told me he might have to go back again but it's voluntary-he wants to go back. Ok. But then he says he's missed me ...
A. 18 October 2011: OH yes you need to let him know that you can't do LDR with him any more and that when he's ready to move back and settle down if you are available you will be happy to pick up with him then but that the reason you are ending it is because of the ... (read in full...)
Not sure if she likes me?
Q. Hi. I'm a freshman at college and I'm not sure whether a girl likes me or not (I have quite a huge crush on her) - it's kind of depressing and driving me nuts. We're in the same course. She always uses my name in a conversation (after she found...
A. 18 October 2011: She talks to you.. step one out of the way!
Best thing... ask her if she'd like to get a coffee or soda with you and see what happens...... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my parents' reaction to this interracial relationship
Q. I'm a white girl who's developing feelings for a guy who's Cambodian. While our differences in race do not bother me at all, I'm worried about how my parents will react if anything truly develops between me and the boy I like. While I'm legally an ...
A. 18 October 2011: Do your parents even know you are friends with this man? Mayve they need to get to know him as a person first then later on could accept him being your life partner....
It's so hard for us to make our own choices when they go against everythi... (read in full...)
Is getting him back a realistic aim? My bf went back to his wife, will he ever come back to me?
Q. I am 29, 5 months pregnant. My bf left me after I called him COWARD because he was too afraid to show his face to my parents and stand up for our baby. After a day, his sister told me that he's gone back to his wife. I am in so much pain right no...
A. 18 October 2011: " what's the best thing to do to make him come back? I know he loved me and i loved him too much too. Please help me."
There is NOTHING you can do to make him come back. He's MARRIED. He went back to his wife. He's NOT going to leave her fo... (read in full...)
Was I hoping for more than my FWB can give? Should I wait or contact him to ask about his "no show"?
Q. Hi everyone my fwb was supposed to cook for me last night, and I was supposed to be staying at his. But I have not heard from him for over a week now, this is not unusual, though what should I do? should I text him? or should I wait for him to get ...
A. 18 October 2011: things are not getting serious.
he's been FWB with you since March. IF he was more serious you would know it by now...
When I was young my mother would say "why buy the cow when the milk is free"... he does not have to wine you, dine y... (read in full...)
After 10 years is a future with an ex worth hoping for?
Q. I have spent since February with out a woman. Dateless for the most part and am now wondering about getting back into the dating world. It's a funny thing that has happened to me. I am 33 years old now. I am told I have always gone for the woman who ...
A. 18 October 2011: Have a lovely meeting and go slow... feel her out... maybe you two can get together now.
there was a couple locally here they were on the news.. they met in the 50s in high school married OTHERs...and then later in life (like 40 years) they mar... (read in full...)
She says she wants to be friends, doesn't want to lead me on
Q. I was recently with a girl. It took me a lot to get her, she has committment problems because of a past relationship. She tends to push people that make her happy away, like me. All was going well until she ignored me for a week. When she did talk ...
A. 18 October 2011: What do you have to lose? you don't have her.. you can't lose what you don't have...
You can't make someone feel something they don't feel...... (read in full...)
Is he loosing interest or just not enough communication?
Q. question: i'm starting 2 feel my boyfriend doesn't care about me well first off we are long distant relationship so i feel we should communicate more to feel closer to each other well he got me mad cause he was lagging it and than when i called ...
A. 18 October 2011: I'm confused... (hence my name)... are you LD or not?
if you hung out twice in less than a week... how long distance can you be?
Folks need space... even folks that LIVE together need space...
You seem to have a bit of a temper (thro... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to tell him to stop induldging me in the details of his life? We cant be together because he has a child and a girlfriend....
Q. He's my X, and now we are just friends. we couldn't be together because his got a child and a live in girlfriend. so we decided to be friends. though we are still in love with each other. However when he calls which is often, he's telling me ...
A. 18 October 2011: You are 100% right to take care of yourself and if hearing details of his life upset you then you should not have to do it.
If you get so upset with the stuff... (which is what friends normally would talk about btw) maybe it would be better i... (read in full...)
Struggling to get my 14 year old to open up about her first love and first break-up, any other moms going through this?
Q. Hi...so, my 14 year old "little" girl has just experienced her first love and now it seems like her first breakup!..She is not allowed to go on dates yet, but the young boy often came to our house over weekends..and every now and then a group of ...
A. 18 October 2011: I promise that it's impossible for her to even think about the fact that you've "been there done that". Our kids cannot grasp that we were once their age and had all those heartaches..
I'd just let her know that you understand and that you are ... (read in full...)
B/f wants to give me oral sex but I feel insecure about it
Q. Hi :) So just wanted to talk about a problem im having and hope you guys can offer some reassurance.. Iv been dating a guy for about 3 months now and its all going great. we've been sleeping together for about a month now and really care about ...
A. 18 October 2011: As a woman who gives and receives oral I can tell you that if a person likes doing it they will do it... Many men and women LOVE to go down on women... (and vice versa)
be freshly showered (for your own peace of mind) and relax... just let it h... (read in full...)
do guys even want to be in a casual relationship with a girl who doesn't want to offer him sex?
Q. i've recently starting hanging out with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl. this works for me as i'm not interested in anything serious, i just enjoy the flirting and the company because we are both attracted to each other. the ...
A. 18 October 2011: Well yeah it's called FRIENDS.
but I'm betting he's going to dog after you till you relenet so it might not be the most comfortable relationship.
If you flirt and he's in an open relationship to him you are fair game...... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel good -- is there something I can do to fix it?
Q. Ok so im 18 i have been sexually active since i was 15 but sex has never once felt good. I have never had an orgasm from penetration. Its kinda like im not feeling anything at all when im having sex. when I was younger i did what i think every child ...
A. 18 October 2011: I think it's a combo of things...
1. I'm older now and for women age does has it's benefits in the bedroom... it leaves me more relaxed and since I don't CARE if I have an orgasm now it's easier to get there...
2. My partner is not as well e... (read in full...)
Are men okay with a bra on during sex?
Q. If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?...
A. 17 October 2011: well if that's how you feel... instead of a bra try a tank top or a camisole...... (read in full...)
My over-protective judgmental Mother makes it impossible to see my Bf. How do I make her see reason?
Q. My guy and I are in a difficult position. We're not exactly boyfriend and girlfriend but we've been dating for 4 months. I,ve met his family and I want him to meet mine. but because he works so hard and late we barely get to see each other Once a we...
A. 15 October 2011: while you are paying rent, there still are rules that are about respect. coming in after 1 am might disturb her rest. I can get that.
the curfew is only every few weeks.. why is that?
if you are paying rent to mom, why not move out and get... (read in full...)
We are virtual friends and Sext. Should I tell his new girlfriend about us? He says we do the things his Gf is too shy to do.
Q. dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pi...
A. 15 October 2011: not your place to tell her.. but i'd cut him off as a friend.... (read in full...)
Nine pm curfew still at almost 19! Is this reasonable? the restrictions are stifling me
Q. So, I'm 18 going on 19 and still living at home, trying to finish my freshman year of college and I have a 9'o clock curfew still. I don't know what to do. I can't even use my vehicle without their permission which means I can't go out with my ...
A. 15 October 2011: you live in their home
are they paying your bills?
do you pay rent?
is it THEIR CAR or your car?
who puts gas in it?
who pays the insurance?
were you a wild child in high school? perhaps they are worried about that?
I agree that ... (read in full...)
Medical reason? Or does excessive kissing or kissing too deeply make your lips a little puffy?
Q. Why were my bf's lips looking slightly puffy? i wanted to ask since i noticed my bf's lips like that when he came back from work. it wasn't thin and normal like its usually.that day it looked that his upper lip was slightly bee stung. i have n...
A. 15 October 2011: are you looking for clues that he's doing something wrong?
why?... (read in full...)
They are 'taken' So Why do people see married men/women in the first place?
Q. Note: if you honestly didn't know he/she was with someone, i undertand completely. I have seen so many questions on here about people being broken hearted about their lovers leaving them and all I can think is, what did you expect? I keep t...
A. 15 October 2011: Human nature is NOT monogamous. Seriously. It's a social convention placed on us by society. Our nature is to go out and populate the world. Hence why we see so many divorces and serial monogamy.
This is why folks who are married or partnere... (read in full...)
Do you think I was being manipulative?
Q. I'm moving to another city for nine months next November. I have talked about this to my boyfriend about a month ago. We are going to stay together while I'm away. I feel like we haven't spent quality time together lately because he has a lot of h...
A. 15 October 2011: you were not manipulative at all.
my ex husband used to hit himself with things when he got upset. It gets old after a while. and it's a clear sign of an unstable frame of mind...
I think that his manipulation of you borders on emotional... (read in full...)
I don't want a baby, but I really want to be pregnant!
Q. Hello! I just wanted to know if anyone has had these feelings before, and why you have them and how you've dealt with them/got rid of them. Recently I have been wanting to get pregnant, but before I go any further I am going to assure you...
A. 14 October 2011: Why do you think you want to be pregnant..
do you want to have to pee every 5 minutes around the clock? or wet the bed (yes I wet the bed once when pregnant)
do you want hemorrhoids that never go away?
do you want your inner thighs and v... (read in full...)
Is this enough to satisfy a woman?
Q. Women! your thought please.... Is it possible for man to satisfy a woman even if his penis is of the size of his middle finger in terms of legnth? I'm talking only about intercourse. Honest opinion please....!...
A. 14 October 2011: it's not the length that matters it's the girth
and it's knowing how to use it
AND it's also aboutthe foreplay the manual and oral stimulation... MOST women do not orgasm from intercourse anyway regardless of the size of the man's penis.... (read in full...)
My ex womanizing b/f keeps contacting me. Should I block his number?
Q. hi, I have this womanizer ex- fling boyfriend contacting me from time to time. he is not inlove with me, but seems to dial my number from time to time pretending to want a relationship with his charismatic ways, and i find him soooo attractive...
A. 14 October 2011: of course it's ok to block his number
I would block him if he bothers you so
who cares if he knows or not... and unless you think he will come after you who cares if he is pissed off...... (read in full...)
How to tell husband you are leaving him???
Q. Because of some horrible problems, that can't be worked out, I am leaving my husband. But how do I say it?? We (he) are/is purchasing a home, but the agent has been pretty rude to me, so I want out of the deal and the marriage. Should I just go ...
A. 14 October 2011: You must tell your husband you want out of the marriage and why.
As for the RE agent... why is their being rude to you a reason for being out of the marriage... or was it just the way you wrote it.
You should first tell your husband it's ove... (read in full...)
Will a man notice my lack of experience?
Q. I am 27 and I only had sex several times with one man 5 years ago. And he wasnt able to provide any orgasm despite his supposedly vast experience with women at the age of 45. Will it feel weird the first time i have sex with a man again? (i have not ...
A. 14 October 2011: It might feel odd... it might be uncomfortable... use lots of lube and go slow...
He may notice it.. he may not. feel free to let him know however since first time sex or something close to it is by nature different... it has to be slower a... (read in full...)
Wife's sexual past is tormenting me
Q. I was a virgin when I met my wife. More than that, I didn't even have another serious girlfriend before then. Meanwhile, she had a bit of an adventurous past. At the time we first dated I didn't really care. However, once we fell in love it reall...
A. 14 October 2011: If you feel this way about your wife. the woman you supposedly love.... you call her a slut.... you (and your wife) would probably be best served by ending the marriage.
What was in the past was not done TO YOU... it is what it is.
No I do... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: Wait wait wait.
adult friend finder
and
flirt4 free
and webcaming are all VERY different from WATCHING porn...
those are NOT ok in my book
and the FACT that he lied about joining is even LESS ok...
WATCHING porn is one thing
in... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 14 October 2011: "dont deny i was a fool also. but i never cheated as i said to her last night, if id stuck my dick in another woman or similar then fair enough got no comeback on that but i didnt. what i saw was harmless actions, obviously not on reflection, but to ... (read in full...)
Should I take a stand? It seems like she overreacted.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for three-years. Although about three-months ago, she had to move to Salt Lake City for her family (her mom is sick and she needed to be there for her). I was fine with it, even though I live in Portland ...
A. 14 October 2011: OH goodness I can see both sides. As the girlfriend I'd be mad and angry and devestated too. As the sick boyfriend I'd feel guilty and angry at myself for being sick and at her for not being understanding... she is under a lot of stress ... (read in full...)
I feel like we should be working on our sex life even if we're not having sex
Q. Me and my man been together for 3 1/2 years now and been having sex. Sex went from everyday, down to once every week, down to once every month, and down to 3 months passing no sex and then we decided to not have sex until we are married. We are not ...
A. 14 October 2011: Sadly I will warn you that sex decreases with marriage (and living together) and if you are not having sex now it's NOT going to get better after marriage This does not apply to folks that choose not to have sex on purpose.. but you guys sort of... (read in full...)
Should I be hurt by his ultimatum?
Q. My fiance' and I got into an argument bout his job and its influence. I feel like a dirty secret. He says he wants to keep his home life seperate from his work life, ok. Yesterday he was called into work, just to realize that they didn't call him ...
A. 14 October 2011: I'm sorry there is no way to keep home and work seperate. Even if you want to. I can see not discussing personal details but if you live with someone else they should be listed as your emergency contact and your co-workers should know about the ... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 14 October 2011: you were not a fool for believing her. YOU were a FOOL for CHEATING on her and LYING to her and breaking YOUR PROMISE to her. ... (read in full...)
Are the steroids the reason for him behaving like this?
Q. My boyfriend told me he was taking anabolic steroids after we had dated for about 4 months. Recently, he never talks to me, treats me like crap. Took back all of his promises he kept to me. I am moving 3 hours away in a few days and he used to ...
A. 14 October 2011: Steroids do more than mess with their minds.. it wrecks their bodies... But it does not make you lie.. 8 months is not a long time... 3 hours away at your age is going to be difficult and I suggest that since he's on the 'roids (my brother d... (read in full...)
He has made me feel so bad about myself I am considering breaking up with him. Help!
Q. I need to know the essence of our relationship and also the essential lacking. Following is the sequence of events: We met and he fell for me head over heels. Would keep complimenting me all the time, was happy with me. I did not very much ...
A. 14 October 2011: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" That was said by Eleanor Roosevelt many years ago and it's very very true. You've listed all the things that make you unhappy... now list all the things that make you happy about the re... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I don't want to be friends anymore or should I just ignore him?
Q. I have been friends with a guy for about 9 months and I don't think I can be friends with him any more and would like advice on whether I should say this to him or just ignore him. I have already tried to explain and been met with a very sarcastic ...
A. 14 October 2011: If you have already made it clear to him that you do not want a relationship and that his advances are not welcome I think you can basically let it go. Personally if he calls you can ignore his calls If he emails or texts to ask you out... reply ... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: ROFL... not laughing at you darling... My boyfriend only likes Asian porn... I guess I'm not enough for him because I'm not Asian. He also prefers them youngish and I"m 13 yrs older than he is....
I think it's just a type he likes. He loves me... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 13 October 2011: " ive got myself sorted out just and only for my family and Laura’s sake"
WRONG reason to get help. totally WRONG reason for seeking help and therapy. YOU need to go to therapy to FIX YOU and get help for you FOR YOU... NOT for Laura or the fami... (read in full...)
Are men okay with a bra on during sex?
Q. If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?...
A. 13 October 2011: Define messed up....
Mine WERE very messed up... years of gaining and losing weight... years of breastfeeding (what they were intended to do)... a couple of pregnancies.. and general AGE..left them sagging... Loss of 145 pounds left them deflated... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 13 October 2011: You really are NOT seeing the big picture are you?
this was not a fight that just happened... THIS WAS A YEAR AGO AND SHE HAS NOT CHANGED HER POSITION.
if you keep this up she may have the ability to get a restraining order... you need to let ... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 12 October 2011: so you were with your x and you met with Laura and plotted how to leave your current partners so you two could be together?
and I'll be you did that without permission from your first partner...
yeah... I think we are beating a dead horse here.... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 11 October 2011: " why would you wanna be apart from the man you loved, struggling with 5 children and being alone? "
because the man you loved CHEATED on you and LIED to you and BETRAYED your trust...... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 11 October 2011: "rude, ignorant and selfish towards me. she only contacts me when she wants something and makes me feel unimportant"
and yet you want her to mistreat you or else you would leave.
so do you think you deserve better?
even if she won't... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 10 October 2011: yeah it's in MY opinion WORSE than a physical affair.
You want to get back together with a woman you call SILLY COW??? Nice... so when you're mad at her what do you call her then.... ( I guess silly cow is a term of endearment)
She's N... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel good -- is there something I can do to fix it?
Q. Ok so im 18 i have been sexually active since i was 15 but sex has never once felt good. I have never had an orgasm from penetration. Its kinda like im not feeling anything at all when im having sex. when I was younger i did what i think every child ...
A. 6 October 2011: I didnt' like actual intercourse until I met my current partner...
I did not orgasm from penetration until I met him. I have learned that my orgasms from penetration are different from the orgasms I have when I masturbate... and at 18 I did not ... (read in full...)
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