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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Are men okay with a bra on during sex?
Q. If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?...
A. 17 October 2011: well if that's how you feel... instead of a bra try a tank top or a camisole...... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: Wait wait wait.
adult friend finder
and
flirt4 free
and webcaming are all VERY different from WATCHING porn...
those are NOT ok in my book
and the FACT that he lied about joining is even LESS ok...
WATCHING porn is one thing
in... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 14 October 2011: "dont deny i was a fool also. but i never cheated as i said to her last night, if id stuck my dick in another woman or similar then fair enough got no comeback on that but i didnt. what i saw was harmless actions, obviously not on reflection, but to ... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 14 October 2011: you were not a fool for believing her. YOU were a FOOL for CHEATING on her and LYING to her and breaking YOUR PROMISE to her. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I don't want to be friends anymore or should I just ignore him?
Q. I have been friends with a guy for about 9 months and I don't think I can be friends with him any more and would like advice on whether I should say this to him or just ignore him. I have already tried to explain and been met with a very sarcastic ...
A. 14 October 2011: If you have already made it clear to him that you do not want a relationship and that his advances are not welcome I think you can basically let it go. Personally if he calls you can ignore his calls If he emails or texts to ask you out... reply ... (read in full...)
We both have put on weight and I really don't like my wife's belly fat, should I take the first step in getting fit? Will she follow suit?
Q. Hi guys, i'm here to ask for help about something is bothering me to much. After my 4 years marriage me and my wife got belly fat. We are not fat, lean, but have it. My wife's belly bothers me to much, even if she's too hot and gorgeous. I keep ...
A. 14 October 2011: Sadly there is not much you can do to motivate her. You have to take care of yourself first.
Lead by example and she may or may not follow. It's much easier btw for men to lose weight than women... we are designed to hold body fat so we can s... (read in full...)
He seemed too good to be true and I don't want to lose him. But he hasn't contacted me since. What can I do?
Q. Last night I was standing outside of the bar and a very attractive guy approached my (guy) friend and me looking for a lighter. We both pulled out a lighter but I told him that he should take mine because it was lucky- and he did. After talking to h...
A. 14 October 2011: Nice update... let us know how the visit goes. ... (read in full...)
She had sex before we met, now I can't trust her.
Q. Hi everyone. I need some advise on what I should do. I have been with this girl for the last 5 years. The problem is that I cant resepct her or do anything nice for her. She has a past, she lost her virginity when she was 15 years old and stayed in ...
A. 14 October 2011: What should you do?
You should leave her... let her heal physically and emotionally.
move on and leave her be.... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: ROFL... not laughing at you darling... My boyfriend only likes Asian porn... I guess I'm not enough for him because I'm not Asian. He also prefers them youngish and I"m 13 yrs older than he is....
I think it's just a type he likes. He loves me... (read in full...)
My parents have refused my girlfriend who has been on wheelchair since birth, now I want to marry her without their assent, don’t you guys think I have taken the correct decision ?
Q. My girlfriend has been on wheelchair since birth but she's well educated and doing teaching . I think she's so pretty that one can easily compare her with Fairy. She's 5 years younger than me and I am her first boyfriend . We are in a relationship ...
A. 14 October 2011: I agree that you made the right choice. Do you work outside of the family business? Is your job secure? That would be my only concern that if you work with the family they will include your job as part of the cut off.
Hopefully your parents ... (read in full...)
Is getting turned on by his expressions normal?
Q. Heloo :) Just a short question, i was on web cam with a boy ive been dating for a while didnt like him at first but he had grown on me. When i was on web cam i got turned on just because he was raising his eyes at me and licking his lips. Is that ...
A. 13 October 2011: Yep.. my boyfriend is not all that attractive to most folks... and was not to me when we first started out.. now all he has to do is look at me or better yet I watch him when he sleeps and I just about melt...
just one look.... you are norm... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend doesn't like PDA but I'm the kind of person who loves being hugged!
Q. So i have a new boyfriend. We started dating last week, and theres a little something im curious over. How should i take it that he doesn't like PDA? I told him i understood, that i also didn't like making out n public (school). I talked to him for ...
A. 13 October 2011: yeah i'd be subtle... walk up to him and quietly take his hand and give it a little squeeze... no need to be so showy in public.... (read in full...)
Is my post-orgasm refractory period unusually long?
Q. When I have sex, I typically have no physical interest in sex again for at least half a day. And if I do try to have sex at that time, arousal is difficult unless my wife is wearing something particularly arousing. Also, the orgasm takes more time ...
A. 13 October 2011: C. Grant.. they do make the lovely testosterone patch. my dad had one for a while... I think his girlfriend liked it.... (read in full...)
Relationship of 12 years not going anywhere, so I'm cheating and want to be with that girl
Q. I,ve been in a relationship 4 12 years now but the relationship doesnt seem to be going anywere. recently i,ve been seeing someone else behind her back, shes allot younger than me, when ever i see her i feel complete, ive even risked a kiss and ...
A. 13 October 2011: why don't you end the first relationship? if' you are not happy then end it and go with the second girl as long as she's legal and available.... (read in full...)
I think his wife told him to stay away from me
Q. He and I are both married and were friends. I have a strong suspicion that his wife has told him not to see me anymore and has essentially cut him out of my life. She thinks I am a big threat and does not like the fact that he is attracted to me. I ...
A. 13 October 2011: Since you have already been told the truth which I know deep down inside YOU KNEW... I will asnwer your questions directly:
"What do I do?"
you focus on your marriage and your family and you slowly will let him go. He's not yours to have.
"Do I... (read in full...)
Feeling like I'm going in circles...
Q. My boyfriend want's me to spend the nite all the time now that's great but I can't and everytime I tell him why he thinks i'm lying. It's always the same fight why don't you spend the nite more or hang out. I work all kinds of strange hours and I'm ...
A. 13 October 2011: sadly all I can do is say best of luck
it's going to come down to a choice.
you may choose your animals... and he has to know this.
I know many people that have picked their pets over a potential life partner...... (read in full...)
B/f wants a foursome--3 guys and me! I kind of want it too!
Q. I've had the biggest crush on this guy for like a year now. He's super adorable. We flirt all the time. He and I have been "talking" for like two months now. I love when people give me attention and he gives me the most. Last month, we were at his ...
A. 13 October 2011: Here's the scenario:
you say yes
he says "goody"
he tells bf, and brother and they set a date and time when mom and dad will be out of the house.
they also TELL the entire football team, the band, and anyone else they can BRAG to about t... (read in full...)
Should I tell my b/f that I was raped as a teen?
Q. Should I tell my boyfriend that I was raped when I was in my middle teens? I've worked with this guy for almost four-years, but we just started going out a month ago. He is my first date since I was raped and I feel like I am having difficulty ...
A. 13 October 2011: if you continue to progress in the relationship yes by all means tell him. it will help him understand things about your behavior that might otherwise have him posting here.
and i'm sorry about your rape. I hope you have been able to get emoti... (read in full...)
College teacher taking it to far???
Q. *** of note:this is college not highschool. Thanks I'm currently taking a horticulture class and our teacher is pretty cool.Jokes around a lot and sometimes in the most ADD of ways.Class got out for lunch, and he, myself,two of my friends came alo...
A. 13 October 2011: sounds like an overly friendly person... and you mention ADD, that also adds a mess to the social skills mix...
doesn't sound like anything serious to me either but if it bothers you speak up... especially if he is ADD, he may not know he's ann... (read in full...)
Husband is pulling away from me!
Q. Hi I have been married for a few months and I feel like my husband is pulling away from me. He used to ask me if I wanted to go places with him and now he just gets up and goes without saying anything. I am going to admit our relationship went ...
A. 13 October 2011: Wow and I thought I was quick... 2 months is not a long time to know someone much less marry.
yes it can work out but it's going to take both of you to WANT to work it out.
Do you guys talk at all? Do you talk about the things that are botheri... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 13 October 2011: " ive got myself sorted out just and only for my family and Laura’s sake"
WRONG reason to get help. totally WRONG reason for seeking help and therapy. YOU need to go to therapy to FIX YOU and get help for you FOR YOU... NOT for Laura or the fami... (read in full...)
Is age really just a number
Q. Hello Cupids. Im a little curious about your opinions. Today I found out a boy I use to go to school with likes me, hes really nice and everything I don't know him all that well. He gave me his number today and well the only thing that is...
A. 13 October 2011: He's 3 years younger than you
are you 18 and he's 15... I have some concerns.
if you are 21 and he's 18 then I'm fine with it... although even then there are some big changes coming for him...
that being said.. my boyfriend is 13 years yo... (read in full...)
Is my female best friend falling for me?
Q. I've read questions on here about this type of situation before, potentially one or other opposite sex best friends falling for the other. The questions is how easy it is to tell without, if getting it wrong, making your friend feel awkward. I th...
A. 13 October 2011: I'm betting she just wants needs a bit more comforting/hugging/affection.. and you are the perfect mate to do it in her eyes...
but I also think that although it may upset her if you are not inclinded to think of her romantically at all you need... (read in full...)
Does my G/f want more from our relationship? Not saying full out sex, but maybe a bit more touchy feely?
Q. Me and my gal have been going out for 2 months today. She is my sisters friend, I am her first boyfriend, she is very innocent, and a virgin. We have neither talked about or been intimate. It stops at light kissing. What I am asking is ...
A. 13 October 2011: Sounds like she is receptive to more activity.
And you do sound like a gem... have you ever talked to her about it???
I would think that if you want this to be a long term serious relationship that the lines of communication need to be open ... (read in full...)
Sex has fallen off of the map for way too long. How do we bring it back into our lives?
Q. My wife and I have not made love in quite some time. Between the two kids, job stress, general tiredness, various health issues etc., it has just fallen off of the map for way too long. Now the question of how to bring it back - I think things ...
A. 13 October 2011: Hmmm...if you two are still affectionate then maybe a nice dinner out to discuss it (after a lovely time is had by all) is in order.
or you could just kind of snuggle up to her if that's normal behavior and maybe suggest that it's time for more... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is constantly questioning me about other guys.
Q. Hello! So I really need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. Living together for 2. I'm 20 he's 24. We just moved to another city because it's closer to my job. We pull in and I realize that this guy I work ...
A. 13 October 2011: His behavior is based on his own insecurity and not your behavior and nothing you can do will fix that. Therapy may be in order either for him or couples therapy.
No one person can be everything for everybody... does he have friends/... (read in full...)
If she's home alone I think she's cheating, if I hear guys around her I think she's cheating
Q. I always think my girl is cheating we haven't been together that long. she always talking about what side conversation her and her boss have like ( her being bet to run in the rain for extra money because they're bored at work). I knew her before we ...
A. 13 October 2011: so are you asking if she's cheating
are you asking if you are wrong for not trusting her
are you asking if you should end the relationship because clearly you don't trust her and are not happy...
how can we help you?
personally if you h... (read in full...)
Are men okay with a bra on during sex?
Q. If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?...
A. 13 October 2011: Define messed up....
Mine WERE very messed up... years of gaining and losing weight... years of breastfeeding (what they were intended to do)... a couple of pregnancies.. and general AGE..left them sagging... Loss of 145 pounds left them deflated... (read in full...)
Is this a normal FWB relationship?
Q. Hi everyone I was just wondering if this is a normal fwb relationship me and this man are having sex and we can't get enough of each other this has been going on since february we have a really good time together get on really well we are plan...
A. 13 October 2011: It's YOUR FWB currently...
perhaps this is one of the ones that has the emphasis on FRIENDS vs the ones where the emphasis is on benefits...
ENJOY...... (read in full...)
Will my husband soon feel we are ready to have children?
Q. my husband and i have been married for about a year and been together for little over a year now.i'm 22 and he's 30. we both want kids at some point but had said we aren't ready. i'm on the pill, but i am starting to feel ready for us to be ...
A. 13 October 2011: How in the world can HE tell YOU how you feel...
did he elaborate as to why he feels you are not ready?... (read in full...)
B/f wants a foursome--3 guys and me! I kind of want it too!
Q. I've had the biggest crush on this guy for like a year now. He's super adorable. We flirt all the time. He and I have been "talking" for like two months now. I love when people give me attention and he gives me the most. Last month, we were at his ...
A. 13 October 2011: NO NO NO do not do this...
please don't do this...
... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is not virgin! How do I forgive her?
Q. i have a relation with a girl since march 2011. after 2 months when she come to know that i love her, she told me that she is not virgin. she cried the whole night and told me that she was force by her ex-boyfriend when she was having a severe ...
A. 13 October 2011: What is it you want help forgiving?
what makes you think you have the right to JUDGE her?
there is NOTHING to forgive.
You were not part of the incident so how could you REMEMBER it at all.
as for forgiveness she did NOTHING wron... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship but said he doesn't want me talking to other men, what is that all about?
Q. Im so confuse the guy that im be have sex with that said he didnt want a realationship just told me that i cant talk 2 any other men what all that about i was talk to him and his workmate that is my bestfriend ...
A. 13 October 2011: It doesn't matter what he tells folks he works with who cares...
maybe for a few days you would be the talk of the town
just practice that blank stare that says "i have no clue what you are talking about" and move on...
push through th... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 13 October 2011: You really are NOT seeing the big picture are you?
this was not a fight that just happened... THIS WAS A YEAR AGO AND SHE HAS NOT CHANGED HER POSITION.
if you keep this up she may have the ability to get a restraining order... you need to let ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for getting a lawyer? His custody demands and visitation nonsense are a problem!
Q. Going through an divorce, and its killing me. the problem is we cant agree on visitation. He calls at the last minute or he dont show or call. If I agree, he doesn't wasnt to tell me where my daughter will be. Im eight months ptegnant. He is not ...
A. 12 October 2011: you were NOT wrong. getting a lawyer to protect you and the child is the best thing you can do.... (read in full...)
Don't want mum to know I'm on the pill - how can I fake a period?
Q. This sounds like a stupid question, but there is a reason behind it. I'm 16, so please don't lecture me on legality. Myself and my boyfriend are planning on taking our relationship 'to the next level' soon, and decided to take some precautions- nei...
A. 12 October 2011: personally as a mom I'd be very proud of a daughter who was taking this grown up step responsibly.
there are pills where you only get 4 periods a year...
but again I was the mom of a teen daughter and I never monitored her periods.. I knew... (read in full...)
Horrible long-distance story, cold feet, not enough love, no balls, or a combination of all three?
Q. My apologies in advance, for this is going to be a very long story. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year. He is a 29 year old German scientist and we met when I was there for a summer research program...
A. 12 October 2011: or like Chigirl said NONE of the above
it's not cold feet or no balls or not enough love...
you just have different ideas of how life should be lived.
Sadly the differences you have with him are fundamental differences and unless you a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a need to always comment on attractive women he sees!
Q. I have an otherwise great relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We have a lot of fun and have lots of things in common. My family and friends think he is a great guy too. However there is one thing that really bugs me. Whenever we are ...
A. 12 October 2011: My boyfriend does the same thing but his comments are things like "nice boobs" or "great shoes" or "gorgeous legs"... he's just got NO filter... and I've learned that he does NOT do it to cause a fight or make me feel bad about me.. it's just ... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 12 October 2011: so you were with your x and you met with Laura and plotted how to leave your current partners so you two could be together?
and I'll be you did that without permission from your first partner...
yeah... I think we are beating a dead horse here.... (read in full...)
No condom for anal sex? Is it safe?
Q. My boyfriend is my second boyfriend.. I am still virgin... and he is too. At this time, He wish something for his birthday. He wants anal sex :| at first I really do not agree about it but I love him I want to make him happy. I am a little bit ...
A. 12 October 2011: STDs are not the ONLY reason to use condoms during anal sex... you use them to protect from infection as well. E.coli lives in the rectum and anus and that can be a nasty infection for him.... Anal sex when you are not very experienced will NOT ... (read in full...)
What can I do besides kegels to stop this?
Q. omg. . .agony friends i need help. .its embarrasing though but you helped me before here.lately when i had sex my vagina farts when he pulls it out. It has never happened before.what can i do besides kegels?...
A. 12 October 2011: Keegles won't help this. It's often called a queef..
it's just air escaping from the vaginal canal after sex...
happens to lots of women...... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and planning on getting pregnant. How do I tell my dad?
Q. I'll be honest. I'm 14 and planning on getting pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend (19) for a while. He is going to propose and is okay with me getting pregnant. He wants a child as do I. I understand I am only a child. Yet I'm not. I...
A. 12 October 2011: Ok... so before I can tell you how to tell your dad I need you to tell me a few things (Aunties work with me here)
1. do you plan to drop out of school to have this baby? YES? if so how do you plan to support this child? and who will car... (read in full...)
I asked the guy I'm seeing what we were and he said he didn't know!
Q. I,m dating a guy but he doesn't want a relationship. But I don't understand it. He meets up with me when he can, we kiss, cuddle, trust each other, go on dates and we get on really well! I don't understand it to some people we're already in a ...
A. 12 October 2011: If he doesn't know and you don't know how are we to know?
He's told you that he does not want a commitment/relationship.... sadly no matter what YOU want and what OTHERS THINK has no bearing on this. HE is not going to do what he does not want... (read in full...)
Should I just stop talking to the guy I met online? I think he is talking to other women as well as me.
Q. Hello everyone, I used an online dating site for the first time. I met a man that I was interested in meeting. We have been emailing each other once a day for 1 week. He keeps pointing out how much we have in common and how great I seem. H...
A. 12 October 2011: You asked him to meet and he said let's talk but did not do anything to advance towards that (like ask for your phone number)
It's highly likely he's talking/emailing with others and you are not his only one. It's also likely that since you made... (read in full...)
Does alot of nagging lead to cheating?
Q. Do all guys cheat? Could a lot of nagging lead him cheating? Long dinstance? or what are some things that may lead a boyfriend to cheat?...
A. 12 October 2011: Cheaters will cheat and give you whatever reason they need to give.
1. he's too far away (long distance)
2. she nags me too much (and this makes me UNHAPPY)
3. he ignores me too much
4. she's cheating on me with her online friends
5. his sex ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship but said he doesn't want me talking to other men, what is that all about?
Q. Im so confuse the guy that im be have sex with that said he didnt want a realationship just told me that i cant talk 2 any other men what all that about i was talk to him and his workmate that is my bestfriend ...
A. 12 October 2011: WHO Is he going to tell?
and why does THAT matter?... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship but said he doesn't want me talking to other men, what is that all about?
Q. Im so confuse the guy that im be have sex with that said he didnt want a realationship just told me that i cant talk 2 any other men what all that about i was talk to him and his workmate that is my bestfriend ...
A. 12 October 2011: Ah so what he's saying is "I want to have sex with you and have you at my beck and call while I can do what I want"
He's not your boyfriend or even a friend he's just a guy using you as a handy penis holder... why does what he want matter? ... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 11 October 2011: " why would you wanna be apart from the man you loved, struggling with 5 children and being alone? "
because the man you loved CHEATED on you and LIED to you and BETRAYED your trust...... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 11 October 2011: "rude, ignorant and selfish towards me. she only contacts me when she wants something and makes me feel unimportant"
and yet you want her to mistreat you or else you would leave.
so do you think you deserve better?
even if she won't... (read in full...)
Emotional affairs...
Q. via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an ...
A. 10 October 2011: yeah it's in MY opinion WORSE than a physical affair.
You want to get back together with a woman you call SILLY COW??? Nice... so when you're mad at her what do you call her then.... ( I guess silly cow is a term of endearment)
She's N... (read in full...)
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