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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 23 November 2011: if your doctor diaganoised it then she can prescribe the dilator kits...perhaps insurance will cover them..... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 3 November 2011: OH trust me I know all about forgiving mistakes. And I have no problem with it. But my concerns for you are on a slightly different level.
1. you started with "my boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow" you posted as if you were both com... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 2 November 2011: THE OP SAID:
“Well my take on these ways of men is that they need time to really be committed.”
I totally disagree. Men when they are ready to be committed fall at the drop of a hat. MY LDR guy is 38, never married… never wanted to get marri... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 2 November 2011: "But he'd still love me regardless of scars...so I can still go through with it & if he can't accept me for me then he isn't the one."
OP, this is a cover. Clearly it's NOT about what any given MAN wants. This is clearly about what YOU want and... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: "But if a guy loves me, he'd had to love me even if I have scars..."
or larger areoleas!... (read in full...)
Early stages of ED, what can I do to combat it?
Q. for the past one week my penis doesn't get erected,i was very much worried about it,i consulted my doctor he says it is a starting stage of ED, what exercises will help me to eradicate my problem, i have discussed with my girl friend , she ...
A. 1 November 2011: oh goodness.. the extra info just reinforces that there is something wrong and a doctor is needed.
good luck.... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: I have scars. I asked 38 yr old boyfriend last night for you and his comment was SCARS are worse than anything.
so there you go.. the scars will be a bigger turn off than the pancake areola.... (read in full...)
Technically speaking was it not cheating? since we had had a break up. Am I right in my assumption?
Q. My girlfriend dumped me and after three months she came back . We were together for 2 years before I picked up fight with her over small issue which resulted in a being dumped in the last week of July this year. During those three months, I was ...
A. 1 November 2011: agreed if you were broken up you were not cheating...
what i think you should look at, however, is the fact that, your GF came back, AFTER you went after someone else.
seems to me to be a case of She wants it so no one else can have it but... (read in full...)
We plan to meet for the first time soon but he is very ill and I'm worried if I see him it will make it harder. What should I do?
Q. im 22 years old and been in a relationship with this 46 years old canadian guy online,there no exact words to express how happy i am to have him. I know deep inside my heart that i do love him more than anything in this world..and he also does for ...
A. 31 October 2011: Sweetie, I'm an old veteran of ONLINE dating and scaming...
idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis is interesting
1. it usually occurs in people 50-70
2. lung transplants are last resort and rare
3. BIG HUGE RED FLAG to me that he has 'not told... (read in full...)
I'm bored and frustrated with my relationship! Help!
Q. I've just divorced my husband of 20 years then met this man 16 years older than me. Im attracted to him because he's more caring and understanding than my ex-husband. He has no kids and has his own home and car and still working with a good ...
A. 31 October 2011: IF you are bored now and unhappy it will only get worse.
I suggest that you build a nice life with your friends and end this boring dull relationship so you can leave yourself open to new ones should the happen.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I want an abortion? Or just go ahead and do it anyway?
Q. Well... I am 28 years old and have been with the same guy for 10 years... Yes, 10 years. We're not technically married, but do plan to stay together for the long hall. And, I just found out I was pregnant. Obviously we've been being careful over the ...
A. 31 October 2011: you have to tell him. it's his child too and he should have a say in how you deal with this....
Personally I think that at 28 and having been in a relationship for ten years the choice is not as cut and dried as you would like it to be and you ... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 31 October 2011: Oh Dear OP...
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Well first of all I know he was in an hotel because I called and asked for him and he answered but I did not speak.
***************
what made you even bother to check to see if he was in a hotel? TRUST? do you T... (read in full...)
I wouldn't act on it, but am I attracted to her?
Q. I'll get right to the point here... I'm 16 and have been talking to this girl of 13 for a few weeks. It is purely chit chat, the simple hello and few questions, but as of late I have been noticing myself staring at my phone waiting for her reply. Is ...
A. 31 October 2011: ah so you know her... that's better to some extent in my opinion.
do her parents know?
sounds like you are being respectful and I like that.... (read in full...)
What is your opinion about one night stands?
Q. What's your opinion on One Night Stands? Would you do it? Is it bad? I like one guy. We are just friends and he want to have sex with me. I'm confused. I don't know if I want to do it or not. I'm attracted towards him and I like him a lot. He is 23...
A. 31 October 2011: not good for you!
do not at 16 sleep with a 23 yr old EVER...
when you are 23 and he is 30 then maybe....... (read in full...)
Worried about my sexuality!
Q. I think i am bisexual or i could even be a lesbian. I do think i lean more to be bisexual as i do like men but as time has gone on ive been getting more and more put off them. The only problem is, i don't want to be bisexual...
A. 31 October 2011: i wouldn't fret about it.
I am a bisexual woman but I prefer men to women. I'm comfortable being sexual with women but can't see building my life with a lesbian partner so I've limited my girl on girl contact to just fun and games with o... (read in full...)
Should I add a one night stand to facebook when I would like him to be a FWB?
Q. so I slept with my friend's friend yesterday and would like to be fwb with him. I didn't know why, but I didn't give him my number when he asked to exchange numbers.. probably too drunk.. anyway, the only way I could contact him is through ...
A. 31 October 2011: what sexual needs does this man meet for you that a good vibrator can't?
I'm not judging you but I gotta tell you many will, including this boy you want to sleep with and he will tell his friends and they will tell their friends... etc.. etc et... (read in full...)
We have decided that we will go back out with each other in 2-3 years. Should I just move on now??
Q. Well me nd my bf (now ex) decided to break things off when his baby momma threatened to put him on child support if he didnt go back.And im only 16 and he is 21 so we decided it would benefit both of us if we waited a few years to go back out. Well ...
A. 31 October 2011: MOVE ON.
he has a baby and a baby mama drama going on
you have your whole life ahead of you.
if after college you are still interested in him get in touch with him then.
... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Will I ever find a guy who really truely cares about me?
Q. I'm 15 I had a boyfriend before, and many "things" with guys but it seems that after a period of time they stop liking me for no reasons, please don't give me answers like "your 14 your too young, and you'll find someone your only young." maybe its ...
A. 31 October 2011: yeah you will find a guy that truly cares about you... when you are old enough to date adults.... right now you are only old enough to date boys...
the best thing to do..
live your life FOR YOU not for anyone else
make friends
get some go... (read in full...)
Is she already interested in another? I like her. but now I feel lost and have a sickening feeling inside
Q. ok, here is my problem. I started college just over a month ago and in my first week met a really attractive, smart girl who happened to be doing the same course as me. We exchanged phone numbers and got on really well together, often chatting f...
A. 31 October 2011: you have nothing to lose by asking her out... the worst thing she can say is NO... and that might sting but it won't kill you and if she is interested she will say yes...
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She wants me to stop taking the pain killers after I hurt my knee otherwise she will leave me! Should I just leave her?
Q. hi guys ive been dating a woman for almost 2 years shes spoiled and is just a baby i dont make a lot of money but i do pay bills, take care of laundy, cook, clean i do it all.... recently i got hit at work in july by a truck so ive been in therapy ...
A. 31 October 2011: why does she want you to stop?
my bf had knee surgery last month and he's still in pain but the doctor won't give him narcotics any more. IF a reasonable doctor still feels you need narcotic pain killers and you are taking them as prescrib... (read in full...)
I really need a male's perspective on this question...
Q. This has been bothering me for months now... I am in a great relationship with this guy for almost 6 months now ( we are both in our 30's) and we are very happy together. We were on our first vacation together and it had been only 2 months that ...
A. 31 October 2011: not a guy but i know enough of them and I can tell you simply... he has NO FILTER and feels safe discussing it with you.
my boyfriend always mentions sexual things with other women and I just look at him and go "ummm NO" and he gets this overly c... (read in full...)
How can I break up with my boyfriend? I'm not in love with him anymore
Q. How can I break up with my boyfriend of 2 years and 4 months? I love him but I'm not in love with him anymore. This year was his 1st year of college but I could feel us drifting sorta. He even told me that for the past 2 weeks he's been wanting to ...
A. 31 October 2011: I like what K_C100 said.
he is blackmailing you and bullying you into staying.
Sadly when they get like this the only thing that works is to walk away. It hurts them and us but we have to say "NOT MY PROBLEM"
when they try to get us... (read in full...)
Seeing the guy I like again soon.....what should I do?
Q. I'm 18, and I've known this guy for almost 2 years now. I have of course liked other guys before him, but this was totally different. I pretty much feel like he's the one (in the back of my mind at least) but we go to different colleges now, and ...
A. 31 October 2011: when you see him just be yourself.
to be honest hon, a text now and then is NOT a relationship.
IF he liked you and wanted to date you, you would know it.
look around and see what's at your college... LDRS suck as adults out of school and... (read in full...)
Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex
Q. Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...
A. 31 October 2011: men fall fast then crash and burn...
you met him two weeks ago and say "this is just so not him" but yes yes it is him.
2 months is not a long time to know someone... 2 weeks is NOTHING.
he wants sex.
... (read in full...)
Guys don't mention rings this casually, do they? Why would he do this at the wedding?
Q. I was relaying things that happened at a wedding I attended Saturday to my boyfriend via text. The bride and groom entered the reception hall on a Harley. My boyfriend sent a joking text asking if the bride's wedding ring was chrome. He then...
A. 31 October 2011: mine does...
I personally think you are reading way too much into it.
why wasn't your BF with you at this wedding???... (read in full...)
I wouldn't act on it, but am I attracted to her?
Q. I'll get right to the point here... I'm 16 and have been talking to this girl of 13 for a few weeks. It is purely chit chat, the simple hello and few questions, but as of late I have been noticing myself staring at my phone waiting for her reply. Is ...
A. 31 October 2011: the difference between 13 and 16 is HUGE! HUGE
the difference between 16 and 19 is not so big but still big enough (and here in the states potentially a problem for the 19 yr old if the couple is sexually active)
Personally I woul... (read in full...)
Early stages of ED, what can I do to combat it?
Q. for the past one week my penis doesn't get erected,i was very much worried about it,i consulted my doctor he says it is a starting stage of ED, what exercises will help me to eradicate my problem, i have discussed with my girl friend , she ...
A. 31 October 2011: do you drink alcohol or smoke? either of those things need to be stopped right away as they strongly affect your ability to get and maintain an erection.
have you been sick?
one week you are fine and now all of a sudden you have ED?
what... (read in full...)
Have I done the right thing?
Q. Hi. Been in my relationship with bf for 4yrs we have a daughter together thing is since the start of r/ship he has lied about certain things, he has an alcohol problem so he has lied about drinking. For some time I thought he was t-total! I told him ...
A. 31 October 2011: IF you told him if he lied to you again you would end it and he lied to you then you are right to end it.
IF you do not end it he will know he can lie to you and get away with it. IF you want him to move out and work on his problems (lying a... (read in full...)
Are my concerns about my daughter's mental health valid? How do I suggest she get help? She wants a sex change for vocational reasons
Q. My 16 yr old daughter told us she wants a sex-change. She said it's the solution to all her problems - she wants to work in the motor industry or the logistics industry, and said both those industries aren't really accepting of women working ...
A. 31 October 2011: Yeah I'd be concerned too. A sex change operation female to male is very difficult and not something taken lightly.
Personally I think she needs some personal one on one counseling and you are wise to be concerned.
What I would do as a sn... (read in full...)
In Turmoil. How can I resolve my Commitment issues? my girlfriend has given up on me :(
Q. Hi Folks, Commitment issues of my own have caused my girlfriend to give up :(! I'm after some advice, not sure if anyone can help, but basically the story goes like this: My girlfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We had a long ...
A. 31 October 2011: The kids will grow and mature and move out...
have you told her all the stuff you've told us?
if you are both together every weekend and that's working out ok for you why not do that till the kids are older? just maintain two homes..... (read in full...)
Should I choose to not marry him? And take action to get him to give me my money back?
Q. ive done something really stupid and need some advice as to what i should do. My boyfriend who i havent known all that long is from a diferent country. Possibly quite jealous and possesive. He works and so do i, but i make more money than him. he ...
A. 31 October 2011: He wont' give you back your money?
DO NOT marry him
DO NOT give him any more money
MOVE back with your mom...
Read what Abella said... and paste it here... I agree 100 percent with her.... (read in full...)
I have pain when I'm finishing urinating. Anyone know what it might be?
Q. I have pain when im finishing urinating. My first pee of the day is the worst because i get really uncomfortable after the pee and i have pain for hours. What could it be? Im sexually active but i make sure the guys use a condom all the time so i'd ...
A. 31 October 2011: While Chigirl suggests heat... I always found ice packs helped more than heat...
so very glad you went to the doctor and got meds!
thanks for letting us know!... (read in full...)
Can I have a good life with my controlling man who also tells me lies?
Q. Hi, The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not. He was married and even lied about his exes age to me until divorce papers arrived and I seen her age. He's got a tem...
A. 31 October 2011: The OP said:
"The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not"
THIS is a deal breaker for me.... my last husband lied about everything. it's a self-esteem issue fo... (read in full...)
Mom knows! Isn't she in the wrong for listening to my B/f and I 'dirty talk'on Facebook?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a while, and we're sexually active. We're both 16, it's legal, I'm on the pill and we use condoms. Until today, neither of us had issues with our parents because we just hadn't told them. Today, my mom saw that ...
A. 31 October 2011: maybe then if you weren't doing anything wrong you shouldn't have kept it a secret from your mum?
here in the USA it's not really legal for kids to have sex till they are 18... but smart parents know better.
at 15 my daughter came to me and a... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 31 October 2011: did you expect him to admit to cheating?
of course he denied it.
what did you expect.
EVEN if it's NOT true, you don't believe him. YOU don't trust him... there is no relationship without trust.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him
Q. Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...
A. 31 October 2011: oh well as long as we are stating what the boyfriends/husbands like
mine prefers:
young
light eyes
asians
long dark straight hair
large breasts
I'm
old (13 years older than he is)
dark eyes
NOT asian
short curly hair that I do str... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 31 October 2011: To the OP... if the point of the question was not to help you improve your body image and point out the insanity of an unnecessary surgery what was the point?
truly?
I mean we WANT to help you (and yes folks talk about this off the board too...... (read in full...)
I have pain when I'm finishing urinating. Anyone know what it might be?
Q. I have pain when im finishing urinating. My first pee of the day is the worst because i get really uncomfortable after the pee and i have pain for hours. What could it be? Im sexually active but i make sure the guys use a condom all the time so i'd ...
A. 30 October 2011: I agree it sounds like a UTI or a bladder infection.
either way you need to see a doctor.... (read in full...)
Does he have masturbation issues?
Q. I am 16 and me and my boyfriend are very much in love and are seirous about our relationship. We haven't had sex but that not an issue, we'd both rather wait till we're older. He said that recently he's been sexually frustrated.- he feels horny all ...
A. 30 October 2011: What does he mean he doesn't like masturbating if you don't know how he's feeling... you know perfectly well how he's feeling.. he feels horny and that's normal and natural.
Personally if it was me I'd say "have fun".... and let him have at it.
... (read in full...)
LDR--we were to get married but now he's always ill. I just don't see things happening
Q. i'm gonna have to say sorry in advance cos this may be a long read. I'm 30. He's 31. We been in LDR for 3 years. Different countries. We met while he was working in my town for a few weeks. I was in a mess trying to end my then relationship. He was ...
A. 30 October 2011: OH sweetie.... so many things here scream married man to me it's not funny.
1. you have not met his family
2. he always comes to you
3. you could not see him in the hospital he was in quarantine... did you verify this with the hospital?
4... (read in full...)
He doesn't get in touch with me the way he was with is ex
Q. Hey, I was wondering if you could all give me some advise as im in aid of some :( Ive always had two main issues with my bf. Firstly, His EX and secondly when he texts me. But, Ill chat about the texts first as the ex will fit in... When i am with ...
A. 30 October 2011: ya know, he told you he doesn't like to text. my bf hates to text or email and that's how we did most of our early relationship (email) he still hates texting.. some folks just don't like it.
you say he calls at night... well you can call him... (read in full...)
Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing
Q. I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...
A. 30 October 2011: I do not like shaved men... except their faces please.... and a bit of "bonsai trimming"
shaved legs on men is a bit much even for me.... I Know that racers do it... and cross dressers... ... (read in full...)
How do you go about talking to the "other" woman?
Q. How do you go about talking to the "other" woman? I am not a exploding/crazy person and I was thinking that I would talk to her calmly but what to say? I don't know how I would start. But I really do want her to know that she's talking to my ...
A. 30 October 2011: Yes he is carrying on with both of you.
You know about it but he will deny it.
And he will deny to her that you exist.
I was the local woman to an LDR relationship with my last husband and I was so blinded by love I looked the other way to his... (read in full...)
My periods are still irregular, any advice?
Q. Hi. I'm 13 and I'm on my third period. The first two were relatively light and I could use the Always pads with the three or four absorbency drop thingys. But now, on my third, it's been sooooo heavy and the Always pads with the four drops get full...
A. 30 October 2011: yep you are perfectly normal. all of it is normal. heavy vs light flow, 28 vs 35 days... normal normal normal!
to be honest my periods did not get regular till after my children were born and I was done nursing them I started my periods ... (read in full...)
True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?
Q. I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...
A. 30 October 2011: Far from a girl right now but I have to say that I did leave a marriage recently and one of the things that was the problem was that the husband while a very nice guy (when he was not having temper tantrums and breaking things (i.e not predictable ... (read in full...)
IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!
Q. I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...
A. 30 October 2011: OH seriously?
Please if that was the case in the last year my butt would be ten times the size it is now...
your older friend is either pulling your leg or a moron.
... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: I get hating your body or parts of it.. I do. BTDT.
I get being excited to be able to afford to change something you hate...
What I don't get is how maybe ONE stupid boy said something ignorant and you adopted it as your anthem.
I ask... (read in full...)
Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 30 October 2011: you really should see a doctor about it.... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: Chigirl took the thought from me... This is NOT a cheap surgery and insurance does not cover it.
The surgeon's fee for me was 9k. that did not cover the tests (pathology was nearly 800 dollars alone) or the hospital (another 5k) yes this sur... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: I agree with what Cindy said. And I gotta tell you most men in fact ALL the men I've ever been with (and that's more than I care to admit as I was a swinger and attended orgies etc in a previous life).... had ONE reaction to breasts... large or ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: I had a reconstructive breast lift and as part of that an areola reduction in June.
HORRIBLE surgery. The areola are now misshapen (not the surgeon's fault it takes MONTHS to heal properly and reset the shape)
My boyfriend could NOT touch ... (read in full...)
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