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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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How do you cope with an annoyed partner?
Q. How do you cope with an annoyed partner - he's annoyed basically because his brother in law (my brother) has not yet bought his Christmas present (yes, Christmas just gone). I'm fed up with hearing about it - although I do agree with him to an e...
A. 25 February 2013: oh please,
you teach YOUR CHILDREN manners, etiquette and politeness... not other adults.
your OH wants to say something because he's pissed. Too damn bad. Adults learn to live with annoyance and disappointment.
sounds to me like... (read in full...)
Desperate - wife found a pic and says she is leaving
Q. My wife and I have had a very close relationship - and we have both been known to get a little freaky regarding sex. We both use porn (me more than her), but she has never had any issues w/it at all. I recently created a "locked" folder on my pho...
A. 12 February 2013: It sounds like you have major power struggles going on with your wife:
"If she pulls this again it's going to be me who does the booting"
So if she gets upset and over reacts to something again you are going to kick her to the curb kids or ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong? This girl looked so irritated when I looked at her
Q. I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away, like she didn...
A. 7 February 2013: I googled “symptoms of depression” for you:
You said:
I got really moody
I got ugly (opinion)
Got depressed
I’m always tired
Bad memory
Don’t find things fun…
That’s YOUR list (I left out the got acne… that will pass and you can see... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong? This girl looked so irritated when I looked at her
Q. I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away, like she didn...
A. 7 February 2013: OP you asked: “How can she like me if she knows nothing about me? I'm decent looking but some ppl think im cute”
And then you say “But I notice her and I find her really attractive”
So you can think you want to get to know someone based on... (read in full...)
I really care for my boyfriend's little boy, but how does he feel about me?
Q. This might seem like a strange question but here goes, I have been dating a man for nearly 7 months. I met his son more or less straight away. He is a gorgeous 10 year old boy who is polite, non-demanding, intelligent, quiet and just an all roun...
A. 6 February 2013: OP I am sure he is fond of you.
and I know that it's hard to be in a mother role and not be mother... to have to set an example for a child that is not yours...
sounds to me like everything is going to be fine...
he has a good mom
he has a g... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong? This girl looked so irritated when I looked at her
Q. I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away, like she didn...
A. 6 February 2013: she may like how you look and want to get to know you to see if she likes YOU
why are you overthinking this so much?... (read in full...)
He re-arranged my furniture because his kids wanted it that way! They were guests, surely they should have left it alone?
Q. Please help. I have stayed over at boyfriends place before, when his two kids of 9 and 7 were visiting as well. (They live with their mum.) There were no real problems. He had some time off to look after them when they had a couple of days off ...
A. 5 February 2013: Yes had the dad said NO it would be a non issue... I do get that...
but:
he only sees the kids with visitation....so he probably did not want to say no on something that was not life threatening.... (i remember letting my kids eat pizza for b... (read in full...)
Am I with him for the wrong reasons? We are in a LDR
Q. I have been dating my long distance boyfriend , X, for 3 1/2 years now but im afraid im with him for the wrong reasons. He lives in one place, and i live in a state far away. Ive met his parents, hes met mine and its gone really well. His parents ...
A. 5 February 2013: two years is a long time....especially at your age..
I'm sensing that the relationship may not last that long...
BTW one of the best places for Computer jobs is mid-atlantic east coast.. (Virgina, Washington, Maryland, New York)
... (read in full...)
He re-arranged my furniture because his kids wanted it that way! They were guests, surely they should have left it alone?
Q. Please help. I have stayed over at boyfriends place before, when his two kids of 9 and 7 were visiting as well. (They live with their mum.) There were no real problems. He had some time off to look after them when they had a couple of days off ...
A. 5 February 2013: THEY are the children of your boyfriend… if they wanted to move things around it was because they felt comfortable doing so and were trying to feel like it was more “a family” IF he is your boyfriend and you are serious enough that his kids are ... (read in full...)
If you are friend with benefits, does it make the guy lose respect for you?
Q. Does sleeping with friends work what i mean is when your friends with a guy and you start sleeping with him do you still have his respect. Or does he start to lose respect for you as if he would if you were a one night stand.? So if you have been...
A. 5 February 2013: I think it's going to depend on the guy and the situation.
I mean if you are using a friend for sex and they are willing to sleep with you, do you have respect for them? why or why not?
and as folks have pointed out... there is respect.... (read in full...)
Does low self-esteem lead to infidelity?
Q. Just trying to make sense of something that probably isn't easy to make sense of. I recently broke up with my longtime gf of nearly 6 years after catching her in an inappropriate text/email/Facebook "flirtation" and the subsequent lies she made in ...
A. 5 February 2013: I do think that a low self-esteem contributes to EMOTIONAL cheating... not always physical cheating.
my last husband had no self-esteem.. and he could NOT accept that only one woman wanted him and loved him so he would go online and flirt an... (read in full...)
Does he like me more than I first thought?
Q. Hey. I'm confused. On a night out, a friend of mine told me he fancied me. We haven't known each other long but have spent quite some time together. I was shocked when he told me he liked me. I didn't know how to respond. He could see this and said...
A. 5 February 2013: I THINK it means that he'll wait for you to get over your shock and figure out if you like him back the same way.
why don't you ask HIM what HE meant... as it may be different than what we think as we are not in his brain.... (read in full...)
Should I keep my ex as a friend or not?
Q. Hello, my ex broke up with me last summer and we spent quite a while not speaking to each other! I really want to get over him now we speak as "friends but I still have feelings for him and feel very sensitive and jealous as we speak I realized...
A. 5 February 2013: You still have feelings for him.. I'd not be friends.
I don't really see the need to be friends with an ex unless you have children with them and then you only have to be friendly and civil not FRIENDS.
I would not only stop talking to him,... (read in full...)
We've just got back together but he's changed his Facebook to 'Seperated'!
Q. dear cupid, this may seem a trivial question but is really bugging me. Why would your partner who ive have 2 kids with and have recently in the past 6 mths gotten back in a relationship with change his relationship status on facebook to seperated? ...
A. 5 February 2013: did you ask HIM?
what is the status of your current relationship?
if you are not happy (you say you have no closeness and are not sexual and he's befriending women on facebook and lying about his relationship status) why are you staying?... (read in full...)
I'm not convinced the girl I'm dating feels the same way about me.....
Q. Been seeing this girl for the last two months and even though we get along very well and I am quite fond of her, I'm not that convinced that she feels the same. She always tells me her troubles or drama going on in her life and I patiently listen as ...
A. 5 February 2013: I would interrupt a dying pet story if something popped into my head. I have ADHD... my interrupting drives my non ADHD hubby bats. It's not done to be rude or cruel... it's how my brain works.
As for the hug as she was leaving... you may have... (read in full...)
He's awesome. But would never date a HIV positive woman. Should I break up with him, or tell him I'm HIV positive?
Q. I am Hiv positive and have been positive for 10 years now I recently met this nice and awesome guy whom iv dated for 2 months now he always says he’s afraid of Hiv and he would never date a positive woman(he has never tested in his life) I don’t ...
A. 5 February 2013: You must tell him and be prepared for him to end it. It's not fair but it's the way it is... some folks can cope some can't... and his choice is not a reflection on your worth as a person.
FWIW, my BIL is HIV positive and has been for many man... (read in full...)
Desperate - wife found a pic and says she is leaving
Q. My wife and I have had a very close relationship - and we have both been known to get a little freaky regarding sex. We both use porn (me more than her), but she has never had any issues w/it at all. I recently created a "locked" folder on my pho...
A. 5 February 2013: you had a locked folder on your phone that your wife could not access... not cool or a good idea especially if there are prior trust issues in the relationship.
YOU are at fault for having a locked folder that she did not have the password... (read in full...)
Were we right to breakup? Should I try to get back together with my ex? We broke up after Christmas.
Q. This is kinda long ... thanks for slogging through it. My bf and I broke up right after Christmas. It was a mutual decision after several years together. He's kind, funny, generous (would give the shirt off his back to a stranger who needed it), ...
A. 5 February 2013: I think you did the right thing....
your list of what was wrong with the relationship is a rational list
his choice to not change or seek couples counseling is the final nail in the coffin of the relationship.
Are you missing HIM or wh... (read in full...)
Was he just being polite? Or is a second date possible? He didn't seem settled during the date
Q. Went out to a bar with this new guy, I was late so I insisted on paying for the drinks. He didn't seems "settled" during the date as he's always playing with coaster, wine glass, smoothing out his hair etc. we were out for about 3hours and HE deci...
A. 5 February 2013: I agree with Honeypie... if he was not interested he would not have texted you.
see what happens when he gets back...... (read in full...)
Am I with him for the wrong reasons? We are in a LDR
Q. I have been dating my long distance boyfriend , X, for 3 1/2 years now but im afraid im with him for the wrong reasons. He lives in one place, and i live in a state far away. Ive met his parents, hes met mine and its gone really well. His parents ...
A. 5 February 2013: You are very young for an LDR…. And 3.5 years is a long time for an LDR… usually I find when LDRs are with folks this young and this long, it’s being used as a way to avoid real life.
If you are happy why are you even worried about breaking up? Wh... (read in full...)
Was it appropriate for my Gf to start giving my (male) visitor a body massage while I was absent from the room?
Q. I was getting my phone the other night and it turned out to be a long call from my daughter. when I came back to the living room my girlfriend had my friend's shirt off and was giving him a thorough massage. my friend had told me earlier he gets...
A. 5 February 2013: I think there is more to this story than posted.....
so he gets off on professional massage... he had his shirt off (not his pants right)
was he sitting up or laying down and was he face up or face down?
couch or bed or massage table?
... (read in full...)
Is it or is it not disrespectful to a wife when a man chats it up with some strange woman and ignores you completely.
Q. I do not know how to add my age to my account but I am 43 years old and my husband is 49. My husband was single for many years after his divorce. I was single for a 2 years before we met, then we were together 4 years before getting married. Yet ...
A. 5 February 2013: Since it bothers you that he is being rude... I would say to these women as soon as you can "my husband is so rude, he forgets to introduce me, hi I'm XXXX, we got married last year... "
that way you get a nice dig on him and
pee on tha... (read in full...)
I can't get over that my husband was in love with his best female friend
Q. I cannot stop being so terribly sad. My husband was in love with his best friend (female) for a ways into our relationship. When I found out, we were already engaged, and had been together for a couple years. I was crushed, but so in love with him ...
A. 5 February 2013: He married you. Feelings fade. I’m on my fourth husband. I can’t even recall my life with the past husbands. What’s in the here and now is my reality not my past.
He has no contact with her so he’s clearly moved on…. You need to move on too.... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong? This girl looked so irritated when I looked at her
Q. I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away, like she didn...
A. 5 February 2013: I think you are being paranoid. You say yourself you have low self-confidence. IF she was watching you and looked away when you made eye contact, that’s NORMAL.
STOP saying how she looks hard and stubborn… if you like her smile at her a... (read in full...)
How do you cope with an annoyed partner?
Q. How do you cope with an annoyed partner - he's annoyed basically because his brother in law (my brother) has not yet bought his Christmas present (yes, Christmas just gone). I'm fed up with hearing about it - although I do agree with him to an e...
A. 5 February 2013: Your husband is annoyed with your brother because your brother promised something and did not come through.
While you agree with your husband you are tired of hearing it… have you told your husband this exactly? “honey I agree my brother did ... (read in full...)
First date and I got really nervous. Should I skip class so I don't have to see the guy?
Q. So I've been (sort of) talking to this guy whose in one of my classes a little bit and recently we had our first 'official' coffee date after already having made out/ hung out at a couple of parties before and having class together. Weeelll, ...
A. 5 February 2013: So you have been talking to him… not nervous then… and have hung out with him and even made out with him at parties…. BEFORE YOUR FIRST DATE…. And yet when you had a formal “date” you clammed up?
Why did a “formal” date make you so nervous ... (read in full...)
Please help :( I love my boyfriend, but could he be gay?
Q. Okay guys, I really need your help. I am such a mess from worrying about this. I've explained a lot below...read it and let me know what you think? I am 22. I've been with my boyfriend, who is 23, for about a year, and I love him to death. We get...
A. 5 February 2013: my husband is not gay but he's not interested in giving oral sex. Just because a guy does not like giving oral sex does not make him gay. My husband is very sensitive to taste and smell and texture. He even has food issues due to it. The whole ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend to work weekends so he can earn money even though I don't like the idea?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating in September..everything has been going pretty well..we both love each other and constantly tell each other, he is very sweet, i have met his friends and family. So far, he is the best guy i have been and can see ...
A. 5 February 2013: Wanting to work to better yourself is not him being tired of you.
He's thinking into the future. You are right who knows what can happen in two years... but there is a need now to prepare for that whether or not you are in the picture.
you are... (read in full...)
Why am I not feeling stronger but worse now?
Q. I'm 18 and I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend . He is 34 . We are both very happy . We only met for the first time Saturday and had an online relationship previous to this . Every night for three months solid we had 3 hour phones ...
A. 5 February 2013: It sucks to want to be with someone and you can’t due to distance.
How far apart are you two that you spent just 7 hours together? I know that my now husband and I were 2 hours apart by car and I had been known to drive up for dinner now and agai... (read in full...)
I don't want to be my boyfriend's doormat but I am!
Q. Hi My bf of 3 years didnt contact me for a week, tod he called me and said he was busy. Thats it no explanation watsver for his behaviour and no aplologies and now he is not picking up his call again. I know he is not treating me right. I want...
A. 5 February 2013: He’s already left you dear one. NO contact for a week, and then a phone call to say he’s busy.
It’s clear he broke up with you and is too chicken to say so. He’s hoping you will just fade into the woodwork. That’s going to be painful ... (read in full...)
Since we took the distance out of the relationship he's been treating me badly
Q. I was in LDR for past 3 with my bf and since I came back my bf is acting weirdly. He is treating me like shit all the time, forgets to call me even for a week. Never goes out with me anymore, doesn't want to break up also. What should I do, pls help ...
A. 5 February 2013: You were LDR for three years... did you know each other before hand? You say since you came back...did you see each other at all during the three years apart?
He doesn't want to break up.... but what do YOU want?
what do you love what he ... (read in full...)
We're waiting until we're married -- but what if he doesn't have enough to satisfy me?
Q. Dear Cupid I am a 30 year old female due to get married in a few months. My fiancé and I are both virgins, we decided to wait till marriage. It's never something I regretted. We have spoken about sex and I have friends who are sexually active ...
A. 5 February 2013: most women do not even orgasm from penetration (less than 30%)
Once you figure out how you best reach orgasm (if you haven't already) you will have to teach him... there is nothing wrong with that.
Personally I find a small penis much bet... (read in full...)
I found out the guy I'm dating was posting for no strings sex on Craig's List! What should I do?
Q. I started dating this guy who's really sweet and nice but I found out that before we met he was posting looking for no strings sex in the casual sex ads on Craigslist which I'm a little freaked out about. (he didn't tell me, I kind of stumbled on it ...
A. 4 February 2013: if it's the past I'd let it go.
... (read in full...)
Her past relationships haunt my thoughts but so does my mistrust for her. Is there hope for our relationship?
Q. Hello, I am currently in a major dilemma. My fiancé and I are close in age. Until I met her and never had a serious relationship. I saved myself for the person I honestly thought I would marry. She told me her past a month into the relationshi...
A. 4 February 2013: I'm no good at telling folks how to accept the past.
search for retroactive Jealousy and the poster YOS who has the best info on that....
for me personally, I think you need to consider ending it sooner rather than later. you don't tr... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend over this situation. Was I wrong?
Q. If you get confused about the situation, please ask me to clarify. I need as many opinions as I can get. My boyfriend's aunt never met me before, so she told him to invite me over to her house for the super bowl. When we went to her house, they ...
A. 4 February 2013: I'm sorry but you were wrong.
YOU told him the smoke bothered you... he asked if you wanted to leave because of that (note he was willing to leave a family event FOR YOU) and you said NO
then you "stepped into the hallway" what you needed ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex want to be in contact and then change his mind?
Q. I was in love with my ex. As are most people. I would like to think that he was in love with me too. He broke up with me on Halloween. I suppose out of fear, because he has never seen a relationship work. Not with his parents or with his own ...
A. 4 February 2013: “I was in love with my ex. As are most people”
Mistake 1… most people who are healthy are NOT in love with their ex. IF you believe that to be a healthy normal way to be, you would be mistaken.
He broke up with you 3 months ago… not long in... (read in full...)
My husband is constantly making jabs at me
Q. I have been with my husband for 9 years, married for almost 5. I'm so tired of our relationship as it seems things are never changing or they will get better for a little bit and go right back to the way they were. My husband grew up in a family w...
A. 4 February 2013: Arggghhhh what a power struggle you two have.
He is the way he is because that's what he saw growing up and over the years you have accepted it.
You are angry and withhold sex as a form of punishment.
I think that marriage counseling m... (read in full...)
What should I do if my boyfriend asks for sex?
Q. Dear cupid, am 16 and a virgin i love my b/f very much but what should i do if he ask for sex?...
A. 4 February 2013: if you are not ready (and clearly you are not if you are asking) you say "i'm not ready"
if he pushes you or tries to force you, he does not care about you and you should end the relationship.
if he truly cares about you he will say "ok I'... (read in full...)
If the Past is the Past with regards to Sexual History, why do some keep in touch
Q. Hello, this site has been great for me and my relationship over the past months. Been reading many other post over many months and one thing seems to stick out or contradict each other. So just wanted to hear some thoughts on this. My ques...
A. 4 February 2013: I do not see a need to remain friendly with ex-partners unless you have children with them. I have never been in a long term relationship with someone who had ex partners as friends. I have no ex partners as friends. I am friendly with two of ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best female friend's daughter, Help?
Q. Help! I am falling in love with my best friends 23yr old daughter. My best friend is female. Her daughter and I are really close. I am WAY older than her daughter, but I am falling in love with her. We sometimes hold hands or put our arms ...
A. 4 February 2013: Are you married or partnered?
Does your friend know how you feel about her daughter?
If you are 35 and the daughter is 23 that gap is not too bad. When my hubby was 23 I was 36.
The issue is your friend may not be happy with you datin... (read in full...)
I really care for my boyfriend's little boy, but how does he feel about me?
Q. This might seem like a strange question but here goes, I have been dating a man for nearly 7 months. I met his son more or less straight away. He is a gorgeous 10 year old boy who is polite, non-demanding, intelligent, quiet and just an all roun...
A. 4 February 2013: Gawd you are so over thinking this.
do you want a ten year old boy to fawn all over you?
he's a ten year old boy.. the fact that he acknowledges you is awesome.
so he didn't do what you wanted/expected and you got your things to go ho... (read in full...)
'Grass is always greener' syndrome in my relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three years. Currently, I am 23 and she will soon be 22. We met in college and were friends for a year before starting to date, so we had an established friendship beforehand. She's perfect;...
A. 4 February 2013: She’s perfect says the OP… in one paragraph… in the very next there are things that are NOT Perfect… but you are willing to accept… because she’s working to improve them for herself…. So if she stopped trying to improve those things would it ... (read in full...)
I'm 16. Is it wrong for me to have unprotected sex, already had a miscarriage and want to get pregnant?
Q. ok so heres the deal...me and my bf have been dating for almost a year now...we stated having sex 5 months after we began dating...but we NEVER used condom...we are 2 highschool students and he is to graduate this year...i have suffered a miscarrage ...
A. 4 February 2013: being pregnant while you are still maturing (and your body is not done growing at 16/17) is not healthy for you or for the baby.
That alone is enough of a reason to not get pregnant
then there are the issues of:
how much does a baby co... (read in full...)
Her past relationships haunt my thoughts but so does my mistrust for her. Is there hope for our relationship?
Q. Hello, I am currently in a major dilemma. My fiancé and I are close in age. Until I met her and never had a serious relationship. I saved myself for the person I honestly thought I would marry. She told me her past a month into the relationshi...
A. 4 February 2013: You have issues with her past (strike one)
She lies to you (strike two)
You don’t trust her (strike three)
She breaks promises (part of lying but it’s a big issue)
You don’t ask a question… you just list all the things that are wrong.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes much younger women and I'm worried about him leaving me for someone younger than me
Q. I have two problems which are really causing me a lot of stress. You see, I am a 22 years old and looking to get married. I've lived in 4 countries, speak multiple languages, don't drink/smoke/go clubbing, and am almost finished with university. I ...
A. 4 February 2013: OP thank you for the update…
I totally understand going against the advice… sometimes we need to be in just enough pain to do what is necessary even if it hurts us.
A man that calls you names (slut and cheater) does NOT love you.
You sh... (read in full...)
I got drunk and missed my personal tranining session, how do I apologise to my trainer?
Q. What have I done? I've really hurt him:( how do I apologise? So I got drunk last night and I'm the kinda girl that never drinks. (I'm a good girl, i dont party or anything) But I was bored so I drank last night and woke up with the biggest...
A. 4 February 2013: I agree with Cerberus, Cindy Cares and Honeypie.
You are making a huge mountain out of a molehill. YOU Pay him to work out.
If you showed up and refused to work out, it’s HIS JOB to work you out. YOU PAY HIM to be your trainer right? Therefor... (read in full...)
I'm almost certain my partner is planning to leave me and our son, how do I get him to come clean about his intentions?
Q. All I want is the truth I'm almost certain my partner is planning on leaving me and our son. He has left before 4 years ago and is starting to act in the same manner he did the last time. Clothing/belongings have started to depl...
A. 4 February 2013: You can't make him tell you anything.
you do not trust him.
you want to plan for your child.
why not take the bull by the horns and since you don't want to live with the uncertainty that is this tenuous relationship that clearly borders on ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my married female pastor and I think she knows it. Now what?
Q. I'm attracted to our female church pastor. She's married. I took her for coffee, but I think she picked up my motives cuz she won't email me anymore. I couldn't stop thinking about her, but it's getting better now. It was terrible! I was waking ...
A. 4 February 2013: switch places of worship would be the best advice...
baring that... not much you can do.
you have a crush... it will pass...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes much younger women and I'm worried about him leaving me for someone younger than me
Q. I have two problems which are really causing me a lot of stress. You see, I am a 22 years old and looking to get married. I've lived in 4 countries, speak multiple languages, don't drink/smoke/go clubbing, and am almost finished with university. I ...
A. 31 December 2012: he punched her till she bled...
he's in HUMAN TRAFFICKING.....
He TARGETS YOUNG WOMEN
I'd say RUN! RUN hard and run fast and do not look back.
He's bad news honey on so many levels.....
NONE of it having to do with your age... (read in full...)
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