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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I don't want kids!
Q. I'm a 23 year old male with a 23 year old girlfriend. We have been together since we were 17ish, had 1 or 2 breaks, but now were serious and committed. I live with her mum dad and sis, and have done for a couple of years now. We are happy and ha...
A. 18 February 2013: "I don't think I want them " is very different from "NO I DO NOT WANT KIDS EVER!"
reluctantly agreeing to one child is NOT saying "NO I DON'T WANT KIDS EVER"
go to her and say "ya know you are bullying me... I DON'T WANT KIDS EVER and t... (read in full...)
I have a BF. Yet I'm seriously questioning my sexuality. What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone, So here is my problem. I am in a happy, loving, stable relationship of 2.5 years with the man of my dreams. I really, truly can't picture myself not being with him. He feels the same, but... something isn't quite adding up. Ever...
A. 13 February 2013: OP if it helps I can tell you how I define cheating...
CHEATING is anything you can't won't and DON'T tell your partner.
so if you go to your bf and say I would like to try this on my own with your permission and blessing and I can't... (read in full...)
Should I postpone our wedding? Things are so tense at the moment with his kids and I don't want to move into that kind of environment....
Q. Hi there. I'm engaged, my boyfriend is a bit older with sons of 14 and 12 who live with their mom and visit at weekends. Everything was fine over past 2 years, but recently he has huge rows with kids, I guess their age etc. Things get so tense it's ...
A. 12 February 2013: FA brings up a great point.. if you are willing to bail ("maybe I should leave") based on a bit of strife with the kids who will be your stepchildren... perhaps you are not as committed to the relationship as you should be.
Yes kids are hard wor... (read in full...)
He makes me feel secondary to pornstars. Is it a stupid reason to dump someone because they don't make you feel sexually desirable enough?
Q. Right my situation might be perceived to some as someone who has got their priorities wrong but I will continue.... Is it a stupid reason to dump someone because they don't make you feel sexually desirable enough? I am sure that he cared l...
A. 11 February 2013: Female anonymous said:
"I am sick of people comparing porn use to a vibrator, a vibrator is a piece of plastic, porn is a picture/video of a real person who exists somewhere. Porn is alot more offensive than a vibrator."
well to some peop... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to him, but now it seems he's ready to move on. Do you think he is breaking up with me?
Q. My boyfriend and dated for two and half months. I loved him and thought he loved me and I lost my virginity to him the second month and three weeks later he sends me a message saying he hasn't been feeling hisself lately and that he is overwhelmed ...
A. 11 February 2013: He's done with you. Even as adults "a break" is usually the precursor to a break up....
Here's the key to knowing what to do,
you accept the break (and assume it's a breakup and get on with your life)
IF he comes back to you and says h... (read in full...)
I went on a few dates with a girl, but nothing panned out...however I really hit it off with her friend. Should I pursue this?
Q. A while ago I went on a few dates with a girl but before anything got started we both realized we weren't each other's types and so broke it off. She's now become romantically involved with a friend of mine - which is absolutely fine by me but it ...
A. 11 February 2013: I can't see any reason not to pursue it.... (read in full...)
Are there men who voluntarily don't look at pornography?
Q. Is there any women here whose boyfriend/husband doesn't look at porn? If they don't do you know for sure? Where did you find them? Did you have to tell them to stop? Are there any men here who don't use it in a relationship? If they d...
A. 11 February 2013: As far as I know my first husband did not look at porn and probably still does not. I may be wrong. If he did he kept it very very quiet. We never even talked about it.
IF I did not ask my current husband I would never know he looks...... (read in full...)
I just noticed my exgirlfriend got very thin and I think she looks amazing...is it because she broke up with me?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend just over a month ago and I saw her last night and she's always been a skinny girl, nice weight and her figure in all the time i've known her was just perfect. But last night I saw her out and i noticed she look...
A. 11 February 2013: when I am very upset I can't eat and I lose weight quickly.
If she was upset about the breakup she probably is not eating as much as she should... if she was thin to begin with she needs a decent amount of food to keep her weight up (lucky h... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm too clingy and he might end the relationship
Q. Hi, wondered if anyone could help me? I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and i love him to bits! There's just a few problems... Whenever I am not with him, i get really worried and feel sick to my stomach, i don't want to eat, dr...
A. 11 February 2013: If you are having horrible mood swings... I wonder if something has changed... did you start on hormonal birth control recently...that could be causing the mood swings...
as for the anxiety when he's not with you, that's also something th... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend of 7 years hasn't given me a promise ring yet
Q. Hello all! Let's see if I can sum this up and make it short and sweet and to the point. I am 22 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 7 years. I am ready to take the relationship to the next step. Unfortuntely, because of financial ...
A. 11 February 2013: Ah young love…
Ah young love in an LDR… not so nice.
I’m sorry to say this but you will not be getting any sort of ring from this boy/man. If he wanted you to have a ring he would have gotten it for you. And a “promise ring” is for teenager... (read in full...)
Should I postpone our wedding? Things are so tense at the moment with his kids and I don't want to move into that kind of environment....
Q. Hi there. I'm engaged, my boyfriend is a bit older with sons of 14 and 12 who live with their mom and visit at weekends. Everything was fine over past 2 years, but recently he has huge rows with kids, I guess their age etc. Things get so tense it's ...
A. 11 February 2013: I agree with CindyCares (as usual)
You agreed to take on a man with children. 14 and 12 are very hard ages for kids in general…
Putting of the wedding till the kids are happy is not the thing to do. If you are unable to be a full time m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't drink, how do I handle the alcohol issue in his birthday party invitation??
Q. Hey y'all ! So I've been in a LDR with my awesome boyfriend for a year now. He comes to see me often, so he's met my friends. this time, i want to throw a birthday party for him at my apartment...and all *my* friends will be invited obviously since ...
A. 11 February 2013: just one word of caution.
I can see telling them "no alcohol as gifts" but if your crowd is used to alcohol at parties.. having a party with NO ALCOHOL will be difficult for many and may reduce the attendance at the party.
I know for me when... (read in full...)
My wife watches porn when I'm away!
Q. Im in desperate need of help and advice, i checked our pcs history the other day for wedding venue sites that i was interested in. I stumbled onto a porn site and one of the viewed searches was "f***ing while on the phone with your husband"!!! I was ...
A. 11 February 2013: so what's the problem? that she lied or that she watches porn?
the lying would upset me but I can see why she did it...
it's supposedly understood by many (erroneously) that porn is the male realm... that women don't watch porn.
I am ... (read in full...)
I shared intimate pics with a woman on FaceBook, and now her boyfriend says he'll post them on the Internet. Worried sick ... what can I do?
Q. Hello I recently found a group on fb called [name removed by mod]. I thought it would be a bit of fun and added a girl I thought I liked the look of from the page. Without prompting she started telling me all kinds of sexual things and was as...
A. 11 February 2013: what's done is done...
even if they post your face pictures with your penis pictures they are not the same picture and it's supposition on anyone's part if it's really you...
and if someone says something at least then you know where to go to g... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf that a mutual gay colleague tried it on with me?
Q. I work with with my girlfriend but at a work party last night our gay colleague tried it on with me. he told me he'd had a thing for me for ages and said he wanted to touch me. I told him I was flattered but that I am very close with my girlfriend. ...
A. 11 February 2013: you didn't do anything wrong... if it's bothering you tell her what he did. you did not do anything wrong...
He came on to you and you told him no you had a gf...
supposing what you would have done if you were not with your gf is useless..... (read in full...)
I'm torn.. my heart wants this baby, but my mind says to get an abortion
Q. I've been through a lot of stress and heartache, shame as well as guilt, and more. I will try to make this as short as I can. I'm 23 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I got married when I was 21 and I was with him for 6 years..right now ...
A. 11 February 2013: Honey, it's a very hard decision but you are thinking of what he COULD BE if he was in RECOVERY... and that's actually not a common thing....
I have friends in recovery and they have been in recovery for 17 years.... every day is still a strugg... (read in full...)
Boyfriend now seems more interested in his XBox than me
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 year and 10 months but for the past month or so he has been really distant. he always plays his xbox and always ignores me. im not to sure i feel the same way i have before. were in a long distance ...
A. 11 February 2013: your age says it all.... you are very young to be in an LDR... and also a boyfriend who would rather game than spend time with you will not be a boyfriend for long....
have you told him it bothers you? If you have told him and he still does i... (read in full...)
Is he worth my time, he is sending me mixed signals and driving me mad!
Q. So basically, I've been seeing this guy (let's call him C) for 2 and a half months now, I've been keeping count! I don't know about anyone else, but I think 2 and half months is a while to be "seeing" someone and acting like a couple in public and ...
A. 11 February 2013: Ok let me get this straight… you have been “seeing” him for 2.5 months. You act like a couple, your friends view you as a couple… he introduces you as his girlfriend… you sleep together at least once in a while (not sex but sleeping over like a ... (read in full...)
Online dating -- I'm an idiot...
Q. I met a man online, I haven't dated for a while by choice...but we seemed to have a lot in common. I spoke to him via the site for a while and then we moved on to phone and text and we texted back and forth all day everyday. We agreed to meet and ...
A. 11 February 2013: stop feeling rubbish about yourself.
use this to live and learn.
you liked him and made a judgment call... and it didn't work out the way you wanted.
Here's my take on online meetings...
you meet online and that's fine
but if wi... (read in full...)
I have a BF. Yet I'm seriously questioning my sexuality. What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone, So here is my problem. I am in a happy, loving, stable relationship of 2.5 years with the man of my dreams. I really, truly can't picture myself not being with him. He feels the same, but... something isn't quite adding up. Ever...
A. 11 February 2013: Well if he knows you question it, wouldn't it be best to figure out what's going on?
If you are bisexual (I am) then you have some choices to make...
I am monogamous so while I miss my girl play, I am now with a man and will not (even with ... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong? A friend had feelings for him. But he wasn't interested. Months later I went out with him. Now everyone is mad at me.
Q. I am 22 and in my final year of university. I have been living with the same group of girls since first year, and one of them had a crush on a guy who lived in our halls when she first met him. He didn't return her feelings, which she knew. ...
A. 11 February 2013: I don’t think you should stop seeing this young man because one of your flatmates who has had a boyfriend for 18 months had or has a crush on him.
You were going to tell her the next day but clearly someone else needed the drama in their lives of t... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to be turned on by a girl because she did porn or sleeps with men for money?
Q. hi, i was talking to a friend of mine and he was saying how he was interested in this girl, and said that she once performed in a few adult videos and still does some escort work. Its a little beyond my stuff I'm used to so i was pretty surprised...
A. 11 February 2013: It's healthy.
He not only accepts her for who she is and loves her for who she is he embraces her for who she is.
That's the epitome of healthy... you love your partner for who they are and where they are.....
... (read in full...)
Am I deluding myself or could this just be a phase?
Q. I watch shemale porn and I have to say that I do enjoy it. I first found out that I liked it when I first discovered it in comics when I was a teen. At first, I found it wierd and beyond the norm'. But over time I found that it was something that I ...
A. 11 February 2013: You find it arousing because you do.... it does not make you gay or bi...
my husband is all guy.. and he watches it... I've seen it and I can see why it could be arousing for anyone...
lots of heterosexual folks watch gay porn and it do... (read in full...)
I'm torn.. my heart wants this baby, but my mind says to get an abortion
Q. I've been through a lot of stress and heartache, shame as well as guilt, and more. I will try to make this as short as I can. I'm 23 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I got married when I was 21 and I was with him for 6 years..right now ...
A. 11 February 2013: I know you want this baby but I really think that if you are not opposed to abortion, that with some proper counseling that would be the best option for you.
your Soon to be x is a deadbeat dad already. you need to get court ordered chil... (read in full...)
My girlfriend held me while I cried...I'm embarassed, How do I show her I appreciate what she did?
Q. To start off I'm using my girlfriend's account. Here goes: yesterday my girlfriend and I were really bored and looking for something to do. We started looking around. I opened my drawer and then I saw a photo of my father (he died in 9/11) an...
A. 11 February 2013: do not be embarrassed....
you say to her when you see her 'thanks for the other day. It meant a lot to me that I can be myself with you."
it's what you do for your partner... you comfort them when they are down... and they in turn can be ... (read in full...)
It's not as easy to talk now as it was the first 3 months
Q. I am in a 5 month relationship and i'm young so i don't know very much about what to do at this point. I love my boyfriend very much but its not as easy to talk to be together as it was during our first 1-3 months. I'm in the stage where you have ...
A. 10 February 2013: Sadly you are learning that this is what dating is about
you meet someone, they attract you, you get to know them (the first few months of the relationship) and then real life settles in and you find out you really don't have much in common..... (read in full...)
Afraid I may have led him on -- how to I gently make it clear that I just want to be friends?
Q. Hey I'm a 16 year old girl and in need of some advice, I think I may of lead on a guy, I really like him as a person and we have been flirting but I don't want it to go any further, even if I did like him I wouldn't want it to because there's a lot ...
A. 10 February 2013: you may not be able to be subtle now.
especially if he has it in his brain that you want more already.
you must stop flirting all together...
never touch him...
and if he asks outright you must tell the truth... that you just don't see... (read in full...)
He makes me feel secondary to pornstars. Is it a stupid reason to dump someone because they don't make you feel sexually desirable enough?
Q. Right my situation might be perceived to some as someone who has got their priorities wrong but I will continue.... Is it a stupid reason to dump someone because they don't make you feel sexually desirable enough? I am sure that he cared l...
A. 10 February 2013: I'm wondering how he's making you feel this way
does he say to you he would prefer to watch porn over being with you?
does he tell you your not as hot as "so and so porn star"?
does he say he prefers porn to you?
everything you say is... (read in full...)
Is this normal for a couple to have a sexual relationship in this way? And am I turning gay?
Q. HI I have this question that I hope will not be taken the wrong way. My wife and I don't have sex very often but she watches me masturbate myself. It's come to the point that I like to masturbate in front of her rather than have sex. When I'm r...
A. 10 February 2013: I wish my husband would masturbate in front of me... he won't... he views it as very private
I on the other hand will masturbate in front of him...
if it's the ONLY sex you have then yes it's not average...
if it's part of a more robust s... (read in full...)
Do you think it's my place to tell a woman whom I do know that her husband is cheating on her?
Q. Recently, I've developed an unusual hobby of seeing how many married men in the area I live are cheating on their wives. I have always been a really great snoop and considered being a private investigator at one point. There is a site I found which ...
A. 10 February 2013: It's really none of your business to be honest.
and if you feel a compulsion to tell complete strangers something that they may or may not already know I think that this may require some professional intervention.
to these women you are no... (read in full...)
Did he really break up because he has to wait for texts?
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months dumped me because he said I don't care about him as much as he cares about me, he always waits for me to text, etc. but I don't and it's tearing him apart. But I don't get that? I showed him I loved him in a multitud...
A. 10 February 2013: if that's his only reason then I think it's an excuse and he's hiding some other reason.
either way, he broke up with you because he was not happy... I'm not sure there is anything you can do to get him back.... (read in full...)
I don't want kids!
Q. I'm a 23 year old male with a 23 year old girlfriend. We have been together since we were 17ish, had 1 or 2 breaks, but now were serious and committed. I live with her mum dad and sis, and have done for a couple of years now. We are happy and ha...
A. 10 February 2013: while you may change your mind.... I know my husband never wanted kids.... he never had any... and his two stepsons by me were in their 20s when he got them... no parenting....
I know of two couples who never wanted children and never had them... (read in full...)
Do I settle for what I have with my ex now? He says he's not ready to settle down. What's the best way to deal with this?
Q. I never stopped seeing my ex after we broke up. It has been over a year and we never stopped hanging out and sleeping together, we just eliminated a title. It all gets confusing because for the most part it seems like we are together still but we a...
A. 10 February 2013: If you believe he is the right guy for you, (and to be honest I do not) you must take a leap of faith and the risk to force his hand.
You say NOTHING changed but the title... so he still takes you out and buys you things and does nice things f... (read in full...)
My husband respects my bisexuality. How can I repair the rift, now that my daughter knows the truth?
Q. I'm bisexual and have been married to an amazing man for 19 years. My husband respects my sexuality and has always been supportive of my need to also have a significant woman friend. It is never a threesome situation. We have kept this private from...
A. 10 February 2013: Oh OP I"m so sorry for you and your daughter.
She just needs some time to adapt to this as it's a huge change for her... she spent the first 19 years of her life thinking she had the "norman rockwell" family...
now without warning she ... (read in full...)
Why does this man adhere to what his Mommy says, always? Why is my mother in law so resistant to allowing her son to grow up?
Q. Dear Cupid ,I am love with this guy that I have known for many years. We have a daughter together. I broke the relationship off and moved to another state. We talk to one another on the phone from time to time and every time I hear his voice it mak...
A. 10 February 2013: Is it possible he's using his mom as an excuse because he does not want to come himself and is not willing to tell you this?
... (read in full...)
Why does she take days to respond to my texts? is she playing hard to get or is she disinterested?
Q. There's this girl I really like whom I met about 4 months ago. We see each other only once a week along with a group. I am friends with her sister but not too close to her (although we get along great). At first, she use to reply to my texts in a t...
A. 10 February 2013: are you sure she got the text? texts are sent as piggy back packages on other data on the network... that's why texting is so cheap.... it's not a primary important item for most cell phone companies... therefore you can't always count on texts ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a type... and it's not me?
Q. Hello. I am a lady in desperate need of hearing some truths. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five years now and we're doing great except for a couple reoccurring issues. Our relationship started in early college and therefore suffer...
A. 10 February 2013: OP the slope at the top of a breast is NORMAL. My plastic surgeon told me it's always the BRA that makes the cleavage not the breast....
we as women have such a false idea of what a natural breast should look like.... it does not look at ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to give up her sex toys? And consider a real guy like me for sex?
Q. I a year a 25 year old male with a new girlfriend who is 21 years old. We have been going out for about three months. After the first week of dating the subject of sex came up She told me that she had bad sexual experiences with her last boyfrie...
A. 10 February 2013: one does not preclude the other...
masturbation does not take away from intercourse or being sexual with your partner.
when she is ready to have sex with you she will. that does not mean she has to or should give up her toys.
wou... (read in full...)
He's married. We're strongly attracted. I even told his wife nothing was 'going on'. I want to have sex with him, should I?
Q. Hi...this is my first time seeking advice through the internet. I'm almost 20 years old. I applied for a job at a restaurant and I got the job and the general manager is 37. During the interview we made deeply eye contact and then once he...
A. 10 February 2013: your question was simple "should I have sex with him?"
the simple and easy answer... NO
now comes my rant:
and you know this.... it's wrong to take something that is not yours.
He is married. He probably has done this with ot... (read in full...)
Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.
Q. So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to ...
A. 10 February 2013: Ok I won't address his chronological age.... his maturity level is low. His emotional age that of a toddler.
DO not get a tattoo for him or anyone else. and NEVER ever put someone's name on your body. (a child of yours is different to some)
... (read in full...)
How do I get him to take me on an actual date without sounding rude?
Q. Hi, 3 days ago I met a man at my friend’s birthday party and we hit it off immediately. :) We talked the whole time, and he asked for my number and we've been texting and calling a lot. The day after we met, he asked me to please come over, it wa...
A. 9 February 2013: Say to him...
"how about we plan something for saturday when your not so tired"
... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting when I notice my Bf likes pics of other women on his Facebook?
Q. This really bothers me. My boyfriend is always on Facebook liking pics of other chicks. They're not like sexy pics or demeaning pics or anything. But it's a constant thing that a chick who he may or may not know puts up a cute pic of herself and ...
A. 9 February 2013: is it just pics of girls or does he like other things too?
I am on facebook a lot and I like something to let the person know I've seen it.
it's not about flirting or disrespecting anyone... to me it's an "acknowledged" button.
if he is ... (read in full...)
He wants Anal and I do not. Should I stay with him, or just consider us as not compatible as a couple and move on?
Q. hi, this is my query, i have been dating my new guy for 6 months now, things WERE going well, but know there are problems in paradise, ( i know some of you are gone think this is silly). But he likes anal sex, i have never tried it never had th...
A. 9 February 2013: I do anal with my partner now and again.
IF you do not want to try it DO NOT.
even with a smaller penis and a well educated man on how to do anal it's not the joy men want to think it is for us women.... i was taught well and my partner ... (read in full...)
We want to wait until next year when we are both mature to be a couple...but how should I act until then?
Q. High school-junior Male-16 Me and this girl have silently liked each other for almost 2 years now, but we didn't tell each other how we felt until a few months ago. We decided that this is something we both want (a relationship) but we wan...
A. 9 February 2013: Sounds to me like an excuse...
what do you two think will change in a year?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a type... and it's not me?
Q. Hello. I am a lady in desperate need of hearing some truths. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five years now and we're doing great except for a couple reoccurring issues. Our relationship started in early college and therefore suffer...
A. 8 February 2013: Well since I never said “5 years of being cheated on and disrespected” I’m not sure who you are actually addressing.
What I said was being with a man who cheats on you and disrespects you and doesn’t even want to be with you full time after 5 year... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a type... and it's not me?
Q. Hello. I am a lady in desperate need of hearing some truths. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five years now and we're doing great except for a couple reoccurring issues. Our relationship started in early college and therefore suffer...
A. 8 February 2013: OP, a 5 year LDR is HIDING from real life…. Why haven’t you guys made this a regular relationship… who is not moving this forward? Why do you think that being with a man who cheats on you and disrespects you and doesn’t even want to be with ... (read in full...)
We want to wait until next year when we are both mature to be a couple...but how should I act until then?
Q. High school-junior Male-16 Me and this girl have silently liked each other for almost 2 years now, but we didn't tell each other how we felt until a few months ago. We decided that this is something we both want (a relationship) but we wan...
A. 8 February 2013: are you not permitted to date till you are 17? is she not permitted to date till 17?
if you are both PERMITTED to date then why wait?
in addition what do you think changes when you date?
or is this just about sex?
because if yo... (read in full...)
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