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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 12 April 2013: Ok so you answered the easy question and avoided all the painful stuff.
I would NOT marry this man at this time unless you want to always be the least important thing on his plate. the fact that he was there so long, came home and magically sh... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 11 April 2013: The daughter got suspended because he left... or so momma says. personally I find that to be a bit convenient and also a lousy excuse to get him back there.
I do not think he needed to return. that just feeds the whole dysfunctional relation... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 25 March 2013: I think you guys are just flying too fast and too intensely.
just don't overthink it...... (read in full...)
No sex, because he's disinterested? My husband regularly masturbates but our sex life is non existent. What are my options?
Q. My husband regularly masturbates and our sex life is non existent. His explanation is that he is not at all interested in sex, but masturbates when he has a bodily pain and can't concentrate anymore on anything else. We spoke several times ab...
A. 21 March 2013: OP if you say you are hurt by his “insensitivity ” and are just trying to find the words to communicate that fact and understand how to personally deal with it, you are saying you are trying to find a way to tolerate it.
NOT tolerati... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 16 March 2013: Ya know if he had a flight and she refused to drive him, he could have called a cab or car service. he probably still can do that and go to the airport and they probably will help him get a flight with the unused ticket. I've missed flights ... (read in full...)
I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 15 March 2013: OP if you are so sure that it's OK to be doing what you are doing
why not just ask him when you two will be together?
... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 14 March 2013: I can see him wanting to spend time with his child and get to know her and make up for lost time
but I still am not comfortable with him going for a month and staying with her and her mother in their home...
staying with friends and seeing h... (read in full...)
I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 14 March 2013: OP here where I live a woman teacher just got arrested and lost her job because in 2010 she had contact with a student... when he was 16. She was inappropriate in texts with him.
she waited till he was 18 to be sexual physically with him but ... (read in full...)
He let my family and I believe for 3 years that his parents were dead!
Q. I'm not at all sure what to think about this, and would like some opinions. Here it goes: I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's been studying hard and is aiming for his masters, I support him fully and I know he does the same for me. We ...
A. 14 March 2013: He always changed the subject about his parents. He never said they were dead or that he was estranged from them. He just never said. To me this would possibly be a deal breaker. Is he an only child? Are there siblings? Is he estranged from them ... (read in full...)
Sleep deprived boyfriend has money for everything except an engagement ring. Should I cut my losses?
Q. My boyfriend is sleep deprived. He gets about 4 hours of sleep per night. It's almost like a badge of honor for him that he works nights. He often talks about "day" people who get up in the morning, go to work and come home and eat dinner like ...
A. 13 March 2013: If in the first two years you have issues, these will be the issues you will continue to have, only they will be magnified and become even more intolerable as time passes.
And the fun stuff (if there is any) will continue to fall by the wayside.... (read in full...)
Help! I need some support and advice about the actions and behaviour my boyfriend's sister. Is something going on or am I too suspicious?
Q. I started dating my boyfriend (age 21) around 5 months ago. At this point, his sister (age 24), lived with his parents and he lived out of home. Within the first months of dating, his sister's behaviour was a litle questionable, and quite frankl...
A. 12 March 2013: with your update, you have an issue. if your boyfriend is not standing up to her and trying to get more alone time with you, then you have to wonder why?
... (read in full...)
My friend had a break up and now won't eat. I'm really concerned about her health!
Q. What do you do when your best friend wont eat after coming out of a bad break up? I've never seen her this sad and hurt before, it's horrible to watch and i've noticed she hasn't eaten much since, in fact barley anything! She is refusing to eat and ...
A. 12 March 2013: my hubby and I have a deal when I don't eat that's to make sure i"m well hydrated and that I drink a protein shake....
as long as she's hydrated she's going to survive.
breakups are painful...... (read in full...)
Will my feelings for my teacher ever fade?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 12 March 2013: Oh so in your book it's ok to go after a man with a girlfriend but not a man with a wife. Nice morals there.
how long did you go no contact before... less than 6 weeks of living NO CONTACT means NOTHING
if after 6 weeks of NO CONTACT at all... (read in full...)
Ever since I lost the baby he has lost his sex drive. He will not tell me why he's feeling this way. What should I do?
Q. Hi i am going through a really bad time and need some advice me and my boyfriend decided to try for a baby i fell pregnant but miscarried at 10 weeks 2 days. Later my partner started arguing with me and wouldn't tell me how he feels. How can i supp...
A. 12 March 2013: I am sorry for the loss of your baby.
Not sure how long it's been but if it's been more than a few months... it may be time for him to seek therapy.
it may be that he's afraid to let you get pregnant again.
sadly 50% of all pregnanc... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says four is too many guys to have been intimate with. He broke up with me
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. Few hours later we decided to make it a short break of 2 days or so just to take some time off. The reason why that happened? I told him that I have been intimate with four guys before we met(We are in a ...
A. 12 March 2013: If he can' cope with you having a past, I would suggest that you move on. All the guys I see here posting about retroactive jealousy are mostly unable to deal with a woman having a past... they want pure and virginal girls so they don't feel so ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't stop looking at younger girls
Q. My fiance can't stop looking at other girls. we have a great sex life and we are really happy but he cannot keep his eyes off of girls. especially high school ones. he's 22 and I'm 20 and most people think I look younger but he doesn't and these ...
A. 12 March 2013: when you say he's looking at 13-16 year old girls...
is it a glance or is he perving on them?
because if he's staring at them or drooling over them, that's not cool...
where are you when he's looking at these girls?... (read in full...)
Why does he still have his mail going to his mom's house?
Q. Why does he still keep his mothers adress on everything when he's been living with me for almost 3yrs already? Its my house yes we are both divorced yes he's commited 2me...but why won't he change his address now? Please give me some feedback...!...
A. 12 March 2013: I'm sorry but I don't buy that... he lives with you and is committed to you but won't do a change of address? it's not that big a deal.... if he's lazy about that, what else is he lazy about?
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My girlfriend is too innocent and it is causing problems
Q. Hey everyone :) I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and things are going alright. i have a slight dilemma though. My girlfriend is really innocent and she says she prefers being innocent than anything else. The thing is, i love bei...
A. 12 March 2013: Sadly I think you have done everything you can to try to get her to try more things...
i'm sorry but I'm betting that she's not receptive to this and won't be even after marriage... I personally think that some folks are just not comforta... (read in full...)
Is it OK to love my first cousin? He's told me he feels the same about me.
Q. So I love my first cousin, we met five years ago and i fell in love with him but it wasn't on purpose. We first met at my house when they moved over here. We always talked, played video games, and we each helped each other out. I started to notic...
A. 12 March 2013: it's not normally acceptable but in some states it's legal
http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/human-services/state-laws-regarding-marriages-between-first-cousi.aspx
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Husband paid for entire bill on a big night out. How to ask the others to pay their share?
Q. I have A little awkward situation and need your advice on it. We went out with with 2 couples and a single friend out to a club on Friday nite for women's day. We live in US but everyone came originally from Eastern Europe so we still celebrat...
A. 12 March 2013: you all went out
you all agreed to split the cost
everyone has to pay their fair share
those that live close can give you cash or hand you a check
those that live farther can mail you a check or if you all have paypal they can transfer th... (read in full...)
I love a married woman who wont leave her life to be with me
Q. I am in love with a married woman. I love her so much and she also. She is married about 9 year and have daughter of 8 year. But now i want to quit from this situation because i have got so much pain in this relation. She love me but not want to be w...
A. 12 March 2013: If you truly love her you will respect her wishes and leave her alone.
if you say you can't then it's not truly love and you are being selfish.
When you truly love someone you want them to be happy even if it's without you.
... (read in full...)
Help! I'm confused - have I done the right thing? If I call him again what should I say to him?
Q. I recently met a guy from a dating site, we hit it off straight away. He lived in another state but was moving home to my state within a week. We spoke in the phone for about 9 hours in the first 3 days and the day he came home we caught up tha...
A. 12 March 2013: How did your colleague know he did not meet his uncle?
my take: you guys are flying way too fast... SLOW DOWN
if you really like him, slow down and give him a second chance... but know that maybe he had this date with the other woman pl... (read in full...)
No sex, because he's disinterested? My husband regularly masturbates but our sex life is non existent. What are my options?
Q. My husband regularly masturbates and our sex life is non existent. His explanation is that he is not at all interested in sex, but masturbates when he has a bodily pain and can't concentrate anymore on anything else. We spoke several times ab...
A. 12 March 2013: you have several options
1. live with it the way it is... (not one I advise)
2. take a lover on the side in secret (again not what I'd advise)
3. tell him you will take a lover on the side to make up for what's lacking in your marriage... (read in full...)
His interest in me has waned. Why is he avoiding giving me a clear answer? How do I get an answer from him?
Q. Hi all, I need a lot of help: I was dating this guy for about 4 months. During our relationship he was great, except he would never compliment me much. However I was really happy with him and started to fall for him badly. He broke off o...
A. 12 March 2013: he's giving you a very clear answer you are just not listening
first after four months he reduced you to FWB... and yet you took it and accepted his crumbs.
so step one he weaned you from girlfriend to fuck buddy.
step two... ... (read in full...)
Am I A Shoulder To Cry On? Or does this employee have a crush on me?
Q. I have an employee who I think may have more than a crush on me. He is going through a divorce and I have helped him to seek professional help, including family and friends. We have known each other for 3 years prior to me becoming a boss. We...
A. 12 March 2013: why are you asking?
it's not appropriate for a boss to date an employee.
... (read in full...)
What can I say when boyfriend jokes that I should get pregnant? I feel pressured by his words.
Q. My boyfriend sometimes makes jokes that I should get pregnant. Eg rub my stomach or put his ear to my stomach. Even though I'm not pregnant. He also days things like " if you got pregnant then I'll have to take this new job. I'll support you no ...
A. 12 March 2013: Tell him you have as much chance of getting pregnant as he does.
with all due respect I disagree totally with Cerberus on this one...
Why are you not on birth control pills or other regular hormonal birth control? why is not using protection... (read in full...)
Do I put up with her behaviour? I don't know what to do as I've never experienced such behaviour before.
Q. I am a guy in a 1 year 2 month relationship with a woman with 2 kids 15 and 18. My GF is 42 yo. We are in love and have talked about getting married and having a child although recently she shared that she wont be able to have child after bein...
A. 12 March 2013: “why does she not trust me when I go to my own home?”
Livesinwinnipeg, only she knows why she does not trust you, have you asked her?
“how long is acceptable to not speak to me when we have a disagreement?”
Again this is a perso... (read in full...)
Help! I need some support and advice about the actions and behaviour my boyfriend's sister. Is something going on or am I too suspicious?
Q. I started dating my boyfriend (age 21) around 5 months ago. At this point, his sister (age 24), lived with his parents and he lived out of home. Within the first months of dating, his sister's behaviour was a litle questionable, and quite frankl...
A. 12 March 2013: I'm with CMMP, just because she's comfortable being nude around her brother does not mean something sexual is going on...
IT's her house, if she wants to walk around in her undies that's her choice especially if she's always done it.
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I'm turning down other boys because I'm so in to this teacher
Q. So I am 17 and I like a teacher that is about 26 (I think.) I think he is really cute and just wonderful. However, I do not think that I fell in love with him because of his exterior beauty but because he has a beautiful personality. In a sophomore ...
A. 12 March 2013: Help you and be nice are mutually exclusive in this case.
YOU have a mad crush. It's very common and normal.
He's your teacher and he's ten years older and he has a girlfriend. If she was a wife would you still think you had a shot? Y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a baby and I already have 2. If he spends time with my kids will he get over this?
Q. We have been together for 9 months and now my boyfriend has confessed that he wants a baby. Problem is, I already have 2, and have no inclination to have any more. My kids love him to bits. We don't live together, but do u think if he spent more ...
A. 12 March 2013: if you don't want more kids now, what do you think will change your mind in two years?
and what happens if you "try" for a baby and don't have one?
will he always feel the loss of not having his own children?
Men thankfully for them c... (read in full...)
Looking for advice ... am I bisexual?
Q. Okay so I'm a bit confused would you say I'm bi or not. My close girl mate told me the other week that she fancied me I've been friends with her for ages. I didn't know how to take this as I thought she was straight. Anyway she took my hand and took...
A. 12 March 2013: what advice would you like?
you may be bi
you may have been bi-curious and if you liked it and want more, well maybe it's time for you to reciprocate and give her oral and finger her...
this time, get permission before you do it,... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 12 March 2013: I think that he's backed off and that's good.
Offer to pay at least your half for the next date, especially if he offered to cook at home and you suggested out.... I agree that out for the first few dates is better.
Also it could be a cheape... (read in full...)
My own GF won't give me a blowjob and I feel she's not really in to me.
Q. Hi, I know this is a touchy subject when it comes to women. I've read previous questions about this issue and I've witnessed how the female answerers pounce on the male poster as if he was asking something so vile and disgusting. Let me start b...
A. 12 March 2013: she's into you. her sexual style is different than yours that's the problem.
My husband loves getting blow jobs... I love giving them... it works out well for us. I love getting oral. He can't/won't give oral and he was upfront about this fro... (read in full...)
Could I actually be held accountable for her ending her life by her own hand and free will?
Q. Hello everyone. Well I've been getting close to a woman online for about 5 months, we got along great and were planning to continue getting to know each other and see where things lead. However, last week I found out she is married with 3 c...
A. 12 March 2013: There is nothing she can say or do that would hold you responsible for any behavior that she chooses to perform. Her threats are just a way to hold you to her. I think your update saying you are going NO contact is best.
She is making these th... (read in full...)
Am I Bi? Is it possible to become straight?
Q. So I'm a 15 year old male. I've always considered myself straight and have been oddly sexually-obsessed before I even knew what sex was. I've always been very into girls. (That still weirds me out.) But recently I realized that I used to enjoy ...
A. 12 March 2013: you sound perfectly normal and healthy to me
at your age you are supposed to question your sexuality and figure it out... that's what being a teen is all about.
... (read in full...)
I thought I was gay but I'm attracted to this girl..is it just a one time thing?
Q. I'm a 19 year old guy. I've assumed I was gay since I was about 13. I tried to fight it at first because there was a stigma to being gay, but eventually I grew to accept it and had gay relationships and it really wasn't an issue anymore. But ...
A. 12 March 2013: person12345 is exactly correct...sexuality is fluid.
while I consider myself bisexual I have not had any female sexual contact since December 2010. Not because I'm not attracted to women, but because I'm currently in a monogamous marriage... (read in full...)
I gave my ex another chance and he cheated on me again! I don't know how to get through this
Q. I know what everyone will say while reading this, but please, please, pleasssse keep an open mind... Basically last year me and (my now ex-boyfriend) broke up as he cheated on me with a girl that we both knew, apparently it was only a kiss. Any...
A. 12 March 2013: I can't ever see a reason to be friends with an ex
friendly maybe.
best thing to get his things back to him is have someone else do it for you or mail them.
and this too shall pass... the pain lessens and you move on...
there is an OT... (read in full...)
Will my feelings for my teacher ever fade?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 12 March 2013: Summerbliss,
You have posted about this a few times and I know you don’t see what we see. I know you don’t think we understand but we do.
Your question is this “does he know how I feel” and my answer is YES he knows but HE DOES NOT CAR... (read in full...)
No flowers on Valentine's day, but flowers for his ex's birthday??
Q. this past valentines day was the first me and my boyfriend spent together, I was going to buy him something, but we talked about it ahead of time, and he said he didn't really subscribe to the idea of valentines day, and so i shouldn't expect a gift ...
A. 12 March 2013: He gets her flowers for her birthday but none for you? He buys her a massage and a manicure for mother’s day but nothing for you on Valentine’s day? Did he do Valentine’s day with her when they were a couple? (ASK HER IF YOU CAN)
Somet... (read in full...)
Why does this man chose to stay around? I'm having hard times and I'm not especially nice!
Q. I have a great guy I have been seeing for a year. He has a job, a gorgeous daughter and is very responsible. He is caring and very good to me and tries to help and support me in everything he can. The problem is I lost my house, my job and now rece...
A. 12 March 2013: My husband is an abusive alcoholic and I stay with him. I love him. when he's good he's very very good...
perhaps part of the issue is that you are turning to alcohol for comfort. STOP IT. Alcohol detox is the ONLY detox you can die from. A... (read in full...)
His actions are not what I would expect from someone who claims to love me
Q. During my freshman year at college i met a guy we are from the same country, we were friends but not that close we just greeted each other when we met in the collidors, and then a year passed by without seeing him or hearing from him and then last ...
A. 12 March 2013: there is no way he loves you or you love him... folks that throw "I love you" around like that can't really understand what love means...
you like him... but the first time you met with him you were physical... not a good move for a woman who want... (read in full...)
Could he possibly be saying the truth about condoms in his school bag?
Q. Hi, Ive been here before for different reasons. Now I have a new question. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We live together and we have a box of condoms next to our bed. Well, yesterday I was cleaning up and when putt...
A. 12 March 2013: If you have to ask strangers on the internet what to do, then there is a major trust issue here.
Are you unable to take hormonal birth control? That to me would be the only reason after a 2 year committed relationship you would still be using co... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 12 March 2013: People can live without sex
IF she is trying to get with him, then it's on him to put her in her place.
If he had sex with her, then he was wrong and you have to make a choice
Personally I cannot understand why he's stayed a month with her.... (read in full...)
He's becoming too "friendly" for comfort!
Q. Dear all, I have a problem and would like some advice. I am a mum of 2 and have been with my partner for 15 years during this time I have also had a male friend who I met through my sister. Even though we are the same age I have always thought of...
A. 12 March 2013: He's not joking and he's gunning for you. I'd cut off the friendship if he can't be appropriate. In order to test his ability to be appropriate you say to him before the next visit (either while in the phone with your partner there or in an email ... (read in full...)
Fiance did something stupid to "intentially hurt my feelings?"
Q. I've been with my FI for 4 years, newly engaged about a month ago. Living separately with our families for now, until I finish school next month. My FI is usually very sensitive and never did anything in the past to intentially hurt my feelings...
A. 12 March 2013: I agree with Chigirl. He handled this badly, like a child and you are being mature about it...
... (read in full...)
broke up with my boyfriend but he is still acting like one.
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago. He was jealous, controlling, he was lazy and lives with his mother. I was young at the start of the relationship so I was spoon fed everything he told me. I was young and silly so I flashed ...
A. 12 March 2013: OP you ask: "Am I doing anything wrong?"
the ONLY thing you are doing wrong is thinking you need to be friends with your ex boyfriends.
there is no need to be friends
with ex partners that you do not have children with you do not eve... (read in full...)
Why does this guy and his friends watch me all the time?
Q. Why does he and his friends watch me all the time? So there's this guy that I really like and he doesn't speak to me much. He's friendly and chatty with everyone but acts so quiet and so calm around me. I asked him a few questions the ot...
A. 12 March 2013: I think he really likes you back.
the dance of two shy people.....
be brave, ask him to go for coffee just the two of you...... (read in full...)
How do I handle this? My sister's husband hits on me!
Q. I don't know if I'm seeing too much into things but please do tell me if I'm wrong! My sisters husband has been hitting on me lately and he has been doing this ever since he became my sisters boyfriend,at first I thought it was harmless flirting...
A. 12 March 2013: OP this is NOT YOUR FAULT.
Personally I think you need to tell him the next time he says this to you "IF YOU DO THIS AGAIN I AM TELLING MY SISTER WHAT A DOG YOU ARE" if he says "but I have to speak my mind" then go get your sister right th... (read in full...)
Why does he still have his mail going to his mom's house?
Q. Why does he still keep his mothers adress on everything when he's been living with me for almost 3yrs already? Its my house yes we are both divorced yes he's commited 2me...but why won't he change his address now? Please give me some feedback...!...
A. 11 March 2013: have you asked HIM? what does he say?
Around here it's cheaper for car insurance depending on what your address is.
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I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 11 March 2013: He's not mentioning his girlfriend to make you jealous.
He mentions his girlfriend to let you know that he has one and YOU are not in the running to be his girlfriend. Clearly he knows you have a crush and he's trying to make it clear that it'... (read in full...)
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