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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Husband is in love with younger woman but want's to work on us.
Q. Help! My husband (22 years together, married for 18) recently confessed he had been having an affair for 18 months with a younger mutual friend. He says he thinks he had been suffering from depression for 2-3 years as he was unhappy with our...
A. 26 September 2013: To the anonymous OTHER WOMAN... sorry I disagree with your ideas based on my OWN knowledge of an affair held by a man with a long term marriage.
MY FATHER cheated on my mother after 25 years of marriage.
ONE affair... one woman... H... (read in full...)
Husband is in love with younger woman but want's to work on us.
Q. Help! My husband (22 years together, married for 18) recently confessed he had been having an affair for 18 months with a younger mutual friend. He says he thinks he had been suffering from depression for 2-3 years as he was unhappy with our...
A. 23 September 2013: OP what wonderful news. I am very glad to hear that he's making progress and you stuck by him.
may you two enjoy many years together.... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 12 April 2013: Ok so you answered the easy question and avoided all the painful stuff.
I would NOT marry this man at this time unless you want to always be the least important thing on his plate. the fact that he was there so long, came home and magically sh... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 11 April 2013: The daughter got suspended because he left... or so momma says. personally I find that to be a bit convenient and also a lousy excuse to get him back there.
I do not think he needed to return. that just feeds the whole dysfunctional relation... (read in full...)
Do I tell my girlfriend about my past?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it has been going great. I work in a different state but travel often to see her and will be seeing her in a month. In one of our recent conversations a topic i am not comfortable with ...
A. 18 March 2013: OH I really like this:
"The rules are: You have the right to refuse to talk about any/all of your past. But you don't have the right to tell lies or say misleading things. "
so true... you do not have the right to lie or mislead...
good... (read in full...)
Is this age difference too much?
Q. What is the biggest age gap relationship you have known of? I am 26 years old and massively attracted to a 45 year old man. I can't help it it's getting me down, my family wouldn't approve....
A. 16 March 2013: The age gap is the LEAST of your problems.
He's MARRIED. I'm betting his wife does not know they are unhappy. My EX husband used to do that all the time... tell girls he was married but we were not happy. It was a lie.
He's PLANNING to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not "the one". I don't even know if such a person exists for me?
Q. I'm 25, I'm in a relationship of 7 months and my boyfriend is not THE ONE. He does have some qualities I admire in a man, but there are some things missing. Most of all, I like men who are a bit "hard to catch" emotionally, who know how to puzzle ...
A. 16 March 2013: I agree with IamHereToHelpYou.
the type of man you describe is not one you will ever be able to settle down with...
part of love is catching and being caught Men that dont' want to be caught are not emotionally available and theref... (read in full...)
Is he being friendly, does he like me, or does he just want to sleep with me?
Q. One of the guys in my class is really nice and friendly, he keeps asking me to leave my hair out and always compliments me when I do. The other day, I had my hair out, and he complimented on it when we were walking down the hall together. His ...
A. 16 March 2013: well I have two thoughts here.
thought one is WHY does it matter what HIS intent is? Will it change how you behave or what you do?
The truth is... he may just be a friendly guy. He may like you as a friend. He may have a girlfrien... (read in full...)
My b/f doesn't want to go on facebook and say we are back together or give me his password to it. This troubles me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. A couple of months ago we broke up for about one month, then decided that wasn't the right decision and have gotten back together. Well, there is a problem that has been bothering me a ...
A. 16 March 2013: I'm going to be a dissenting voice here. IF like many people you are both very active on FB, then it's a problem.
I am an avid Facebooker. I use it to communicate with friends a lot. My husband does not have a facebook page and does not... (read in full...)
I'm tired of her crying and am losing patience!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years, and we live together. This has been a gradual process, of me losing my patience. She cries a lot, for many reasons. Not a ridiculous amount, but at least a once, maybe a few times a week. Often, it is ...
A. 16 March 2013: Honeypie and I are totally on the same page here right down to the book.
I do not think she's crying to be manipulative. I think it's who she is. I cry at the drop of a hat. I don't always need to be comforted when I'm crying. Sometime... (read in full...)
Wife re-added her ex-boyfriend on facebook. What does it mean?
Q. Dear Cupid, I would just like to know that what you guys make of when a wife adds her ex-boyfriend on birthday that some boyfriend that she used to say was not a good person and deleted him and now re-adding him saying he is a nice guy? When ...
A. 16 March 2013: I just re-added my ex husband to my facebook page... and I had lunch with him last week. Neither his wife or my current husband thought twice about it.
If it's after the relationship breaking up wounds have healed i see no issues with being f... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 16 March 2013: Ya know if he had a flight and she refused to drive him, he could have called a cab or car service. he probably still can do that and go to the airport and they probably will help him get a flight with the unused ticket. I've missed flights ... (read in full...)
What kind of a time frame should I give him in order to clear his head?
Q. The last time I spoke to him was about 5 weeks ago and he basically said he's loosed/confused/ frustrated on what he wants. So, I told him that he needs space to clear his head and figure things out because me being in the picture is not gonna make ...
A. 16 March 2013: After 5 weeks of no contact, I'd consider it over and done and move on.
If he changes his mind later on and your free... you can rethink it... if you are not free, well he will learn a valuable lesson.... (read in full...)
How can I move things along with this young teacher?
Q. we recently got a new teacher to our school, he's young around 23/24 and I'm 18. He doesn't take any of my classes but I really like him. When I'm in the corridor he always smiles and 'gives me the eye', even my best friend whom I never mentioned ...
A. 16 March 2013: he's a teacher at a school where you are a student correct?
in that case it's WRONG and I would not even attempt to move it along.
I was 17 when I had a crush on my 23 year old teacher..... this too shall pass. mine did although 35 year... (read in full...)
Is this age difference too much?
Q. What is the biggest age gap relationship you have known of? I am 26 years old and massively attracted to a 45 year old man. I can't help it it's getting me down, my family wouldn't approve....
A. 16 March 2013: doesn't matter the biggest gap I know. it has no bearing ON YOU or YOUR relationship.
you are a grown woman at 26.... he is 19 years older... has he expressed an interest or do you have a mad unrequited crush?
You do not have to nor shou... (read in full...)
Unexpected bleeding after sex...what could it be about?
Q. Slightly awkward question here but advice is appreciated. After about a year of being single and sexually inactive I've recently become intimate with a new partner. We've had sex a handful of times, always with a condom, and twice now I've noticed ...
A. 15 March 2013: IF you are bleeding so much during sex that it's messy I think that a visit to the doctor is in order.
I have bled from sex before but never enough to be messy usually just light spotting.
... (read in full...)
Is it possible for friends with benefits to eventually have a true romance and relationship?
Q. My best guy friend is also a friend with benefits. We started off as friends, and later I crushed on him. We talked and he told me that he was not looking for a relationship. He has a child with his ex and at the time he still had feelings for her. ...
A. 15 March 2013: Friends with Benefits one of my favorite topics. FWB is a nice way of saying “fuck buddy”. With all due respect to k_c100, I would amend her statement to FWB relationships RARELY turn into “real” relationships. I googled it to see if ... (read in full...)
I'm fooling around with my ex's friend...should I hide this?
Q. Okay. Basically I broke up with my boyfriend last week and I won't deny I have found it very hard. However I have a very close friend, who I have known for over a year, who revealed that he liked me and had done for...
A. 15 March 2013: First rule to learn about breakups... YOU NEVER OWE AN EX an explanation of what you are doing or why you are doing it once you break up.
He's an ex. He has NO say in your life. You can be friendly and civil but probably NOT friends. I rarely... (read in full...)
Do I tell my girlfriend about my past?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it has been going great. I work in a different state but travel often to see her and will be seeing her in a month. In one of our recent conversations a topic i am not comfortable with ...
A. 15 March 2013: yes you must tell her but you also should have handy your most recent blood work showing you are STD free.
I also think you need to tell her exactly how you told us
that your past was from a different time and you wish you could take it b... (read in full...)
What will happen next?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for about two and half month now. Earlier this week we have found out she is pregnant. We have become really close and are happy with it. Two days ago we had a bad argument which resulted in me taking her home but neit...
A. 15 March 2013: You're adult enough to have sex and impregnate a young lady who is not even of legal age.
You need to be adult enough now to man up and call her and say... hey we barely know each other but we have to figure out what to do about this baby NOW.
... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of getting back with an ex but he will not tell his FWB that its over
Q. I had been dating a guy from work for about 5 months when I broke up with him. I broke up with him because he wasn't treating me the way I deserved to be treated - lying to me, not making me a priority, not being there for me when I needed him, etc. ...
A. 15 March 2013: If you are not sure you can trust him ever again
and he has a history of not meeting your needs
and he's not meeting your needs now
I think you should just move on.... (read in full...)
Husband is in love with younger woman but want's to work on us.
Q. Help! My husband (22 years together, married for 18) recently confessed he had been having an affair for 18 months with a younger mutual friend. He says he thinks he had been suffering from depression for 2-3 years as he was unhappy with our...
A. 15 March 2013: I hope his medication continues to help and that counseling continues to improve things.
Thank you for updating us OP, I have been thinking about this question and trying to figure out what to say.
I know after 25 years together my mother... (read in full...)
Should I get everything off my chest or stay silent?
Q. Should I get everything of my chest or stay silent? I was friends with a guy a for couple of years and we had "kisses and cuddles" on numerous occasions, it wasn't anything serious, we were both going through some stuff and I thought we were ...
A. 15 March 2013: I agree with CIAR on this one… you want your say but what will it accomplish, other than to let him know he bugs you and that will feed his ego. I think ignoring him totally 100% gets the point across much better. He’s not worth the effort. Let ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to NEVER have fantasies about your partner?
Q. I have a question for all the people who are either in a serious relationship, or married. Is it normal to NEVER have sexual fantasies about your partner? The reason I ask is because while I am attracted to my husband, I find myself fantasizi...
A. 15 March 2013: You not fantasizing about your partner does not make you UNWORTHY of him.
I have to be honest in that I do fantasize about my partner but not about the things we do… rather about things I would like to happen that don’t and won’t. So it’s not... (read in full...)
I'm HIV positive, how do I tell my LDR guy?
Q. Hi guys I'm in long distance relationship.I love the guy with all my heart.We haven't had any sexual connection.My problem is that he is soo crazy about me and he wants to move to my city.How can I tell him I'm hiv positive.I'm afraid to lose him...
A. 15 March 2013: My brother's husband has HIV. My brother does not. My brother has HEP-C, his husband does not.
HIV is no longer the death sentence it was. And you can be in a committed loving physical relationship with a partner and still keep them safe.
... (read in full...)
Negative responses about breast implants have me questioning what I should do about my body!
Q. I've asked this question before and had some good responses, but I just read another reply to another post and this involved the respondent saying that "as long as she doesn't have breast implants"...in relation to her partner finding another women ...
A. 15 March 2013: I get what you are asking... you are asking about the type of surgery I had it is called a MASTOPEXY or breast lift.
I nursed my babies for years... then I gained a lot of weight and finally lost it and I had two sacks hanging on my chest. ... (read in full...)
Why can he talk to his ex and I can't talk to my male friends?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and He's a little Controlling. He asked me to stop talking to a few of my fella friends and I said no and he got annoyed! Anyway...we've started arguing over his ex. You see when they were going ...
A. 15 March 2013: I can see a woman who is in a live in relationship complain about a controlling man but IF you are LDR how can he be controlling without your consent?
He ASKED you to stop talking to your male friends. YOU can say NO. He can get annoyed all he w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend needs to fix himself?
Q. Hi, I have been involved with my BF for 3 yrs on and off. We started off as friends as when we met he was recently separated (moved out and living apart). I knew that he was not ready to be in a relationship and he was feeling v sad/guilty feeli...
A. 15 March 2013: He is in no shape to have a committed adult relationship at this time.
I would not consider him a boyfriend... ON and OFF for three years is not a good track record.
You can't fix him. He can't love you if he does not love himself and he ... (read in full...)
I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 15 March 2013: OP if you are so sure that it's OK to be doing what you are doing
why not just ask him when you two will be together?
... (read in full...)
He's been deleting texts to his ex wife, and I've found out she is going to the same yoga studio as him.....should I be worried?
Q. Recently, I was on my husband and I'd ipad, and I noticed that his text messages were syncing with his phone under Messenger. I went to look at them, and noticed that his ex-wife sent him a few texts. Nothing was sexual or suggestive, but I could ...
A. 15 March 2013: If I base your question on how I live MY life, I think you are over-reacting.
I text with my ex husband and sometimes I delete the text thread but only because they get long, not because I'm hiding anything.
I have lunch with my ex hus... (read in full...)
How do I get my manager away from the competition?
Q. I work in the restaurant business. My district manager comes to our store a lot He's been flirty with me until this new girl Got there she's not any hotter than I am. A co worker said we look like sisters. She's my competition.. he still flirts...
A. 14 March 2013: what are you winning him over for?
... (read in full...)
I ended our relationship because I feel g/f was a little too close to her trainer friend. Was I right?
Q. My girlfriend has a friend that is a personal trainer that she has known for 15 years. She states that she has no romantic interest or physical attraction for him. Yet she fields numerous texts, emails and phone calls per week. He is a confident ...
A. 14 March 2013: I don't see a problem with her friendship with this guy but if you do then you did the right thing by ending the relationship.
Anything that makes you uncomfortable is a good reason to end a relationship.
Do I think you over-reacted? Possi... (read in full...)
6 years and he has never seen me naked
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and I have never let him see me naked. As you can guess, it is starting to take its toll and it is seriously affecting our relationship. The reason for myself feeling this way is that I am completely ...
A. 14 March 2013: my husband is attracted to petite young large breasted Asian women. I am NONE of the above.
he likes long hair on those girls but when I tried to grow my hair longer he blew a fit. HE likes it ON OTHERS NOT ON ME.
your bf knows what's goin... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will not open up to me!
Q. My boyfriend of 14 months won't open up to me and it's getting me very upset. Last night I knew something was troubling him and he told me to leave it. I proceeded to question him and he says it's personal and he doesn't want me to know. This ...
A. 14 March 2013: Generally:
Women like to vent... we talk about things just to get them off our chest
Men like to problem solve and will not discuss problems just to air their feelings. For many men, they see talking about something as a waste of time if the... (read in full...)
My Gf has a friend. I'd like to spend cozy moments with her friend. Can I do this successfully and not hurt my Gf?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for two years. But I'm attracted to her friend and I feel like going out with her friend to share cozy moments. I don't want to hurt my gf but at the same time I want to spend time with her friend. Help!! What ...
A. 14 March 2013: Ask your girlfriend's permission to spend cozy moments with her friend.
IF she says yes... then you can do so
IF she says no... well then you can't.
You really can't have your cake and eat it too and be a moral ethical kind person. ... (read in full...)
Arrogant and cliquey young manager at work who thinks I'm beneath her! Advice?
Q. I work in a hospital and one of the girls I work with is 23, she is very good at her job, super confident and talented,and 3 months ago has been made one of the assistant managers, which is great for a girl so young.(Im in my 30s an have NO issue...
A. 14 March 2013: she was made a manager but not taught how to manage.... it's common.
I'd kill her with kindness.
be polite
be professional
get your assignments from her in writing if you can
seek all clarifications in writing if you can
keep her to... (read in full...)
A troubled relationship, I"m pregnant and scared. What do I do?
Q. In this moment I'm very depressed 5 month pregnant and I don't know what can I do....I move from uk in Italy at my Italian boyfriend left everything there and come here, we try from last august for a baby and in November I felt pregnant we were ...
A. 14 March 2013: Eventually even moms who are upset by something like this usually forgive and are great support
contact your mom, ask to come home see what she says.
you may be surprised. DO NOT stay with a man who abuses you... he will possibly also a... (read in full...)
Should I sue my US wife for defamation from Pakistan?
Q. 8 Months ago, I got married to a US citizen in Pakistan. While Spouse visa petition was in final stage. We picked up a fight and now she wants divorce. If she doesn't come to Pakistan and I don't go to US, me and my family will face embarrassing ...
A. 14 March 2013: Since this is a legal question you should contact an attorney. You married her, you had a fight, she wants a divorce. Possibly you can get an annulment instead of a divorce. That would mean the marriage actually never took place.
Based... (read in full...)
My ex tells people that we were just friends and not in a relationship but we were!
Q. I was in a realtionship for 8months we broke up about 1 1/2 month ago. 3 days later he was talking to someone else I just wonder sometimes did he care for me the way that he said he did. Its just strange how peole ask him about me and he say that we ...
A. 14 March 2013: It's over and done... maybe you felt more than he did.
it was 8 months and it ended for whatever reasons... clearly it was not enough for him for whatever reasons and he never considered it a full on relationship even if you did.
But it's be... (read in full...)
My wife is happier than she has been in years. But does her (male) co-worker need to be soooooo close to my wife? I don't know what to do.
Q. About a year ago my wife was disheartened because all her friends we're either pregnant or had kids and we we're not ready yet. She sort of had a mid-life crisis and befriended a co-worker who could talk to her. Since then they have become really c...
A. 14 March 2013: Why are you becoming a cuckold husband? Is this what you want?
Your wife is cheating on you in front of your face so that she can do it guilt free.
I'm sorry but there is no advice I can give you other than to leave your wife. She has to make... (read in full...)
His father is screwing around with visitation/custody
Q. Is there anything I can do to make this situation different? Husband and I separated about 7 months ago and have a 2 year old together. When he left, our custody agreement was to switch every week. That never happened for various reasons. A few m...
A. 14 March 2013: If you have not had written legal child support and visitation spelled out, now is the time to do it.
Having a 2 year old when you are daddy is HARD... they tend to scream for mommy a lot.
Him having the child 3 weekends out of the month may... (read in full...)
Is it selfish to remain single for life and not believe in love?
Q. I'm a 20 year old female who has resorted to wanting to remain a virgin and stay single for life. Although I've never been in a relationship, they just do not appeal to me. Because of my slight insecurities with myself (naturally lanky, no curves ...
A. 14 March 2013: Not being in a relationship for the RIGHT reasons is fine.
You list these reasons.
1. Insecurities
2. Body type
3. Mis-belief that you won’t be able to satisfy anyone
4. Lack of trust
I think that the reasons you list are not acceptable ... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 14 March 2013: I can see him wanting to spend time with his child and get to know her and make up for lost time
but I still am not comfortable with him going for a month and staying with her and her mother in their home...
staying with friends and seeing h... (read in full...)
I've decided I don't want to meet him. Not after his nasty remarks. How do I tell him this? And confirm that I only want to be friends?
Q. Ok, so, please don't judge. I've seemed to have gotten myself into a really bad situation. I want to give a brief story on how I met this guy, and what my problem is now. I met this guy online years ago. I was then 12, he was 13, and we became re...
A. 14 March 2013: I can’t see why you even want to have contact with this guy. He’s demanding. He’s trying to be controlling. He’s attempting to emotional blackmail you into “staying” with him.
THIS IS NOT HEALTHY for him or for you. He now is sensing ... (read in full...)
I like him but I'm older and in a higher grade. Should I date him?
Q. We have known for over 2years and hes 6months younger than i am,unlike other guys i v dated,he is lovely,sweet and caring,though he has asked me to date him i always laughed and waved it off but lately hes serious about it,he wants me to be his ...
A. 14 March 2013: 6 months is nothing even at your age.... if the only reason you don't want to date him is he's younger, then I'd not worry about it.
and height is not a reason not to date either.
... (read in full...)
I cheated, got back together with boyfriend. Does he need to know if I had used condoms?
Q. I recently got back together with my ex-boyfriend. We both realized that we loved each other and after trying to date other people we decided to give it another shot. The first time we broke up was because I had cheated on him, so he has been trying ...
A. 14 March 2013: Wow...
not sure he's asking the right questions.
to me the thing would be.... both of you have blood work with a full sexual panel (and a PAP to show the HPV)
both share the results with each other
what happened in the past is the ... (read in full...)
I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 14 March 2013: OP here where I live a woman teacher just got arrested and lost her job because in 2010 she had contact with a student... when he was 16. She was inappropriate in texts with him.
she waited till he was 18 to be sexual physically with him but ... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 12 March 2013: People can live without sex
IF she is trying to get with him, then it's on him to put her in her place.
If he had sex with her, then he was wrong and you have to make a choice
Personally I cannot understand why he's stayed a month with her.... (read in full...)
I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?
Q. Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...
A. 11 March 2013: He's not mentioning his girlfriend to make you jealous.
He mentions his girlfriend to let you know that he has one and YOU are not in the running to be his girlfriend. Clearly he knows you have a crush and he's trying to make it clear that it'... (read in full...)
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