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I feel he played games and is not supportive.

Q.   There was a guy that I liked on my course who is in his 40s. After getting to know him more recently, I have found he is quite anxious. Last week he messaged me as he said what is going on at the moment in the world had scared him. I replied and ...

A.   2 April 2020: If anyone notice you aren't speaking and ask you, just tell them that life is busy. You don't owe them (or him) an explanation. As for when you get back to the course, it's easy enough to be polite but also avoid spending time with him, if he ne... (read in full...)

Could you date a social media addict?

Q.   Could you date someone who spends a lot of time on social media or is a socialite? I met a guy who is nice but he seems to have a social media addiction. He comments and likes lots of posts on his friends profiles and public pages. He seems to like ...

A.   1 April 2020: Absolutely with Auntie Cindy here. Wouldn't dream of having anything to do with someone who is OVER-INVOLVED with social media. I think some people do it to feel less lonely, not because they are "addicted". It might SEEM like a nice way to ke... (read in full...)

Do I end our friendship because I don't like his female friend?

Q.   I have a male friend who I trust completely, he has a friendship with another girl and the two of them are friends, but I don't trust her. I prefer to keep my distance from her and try not to follow her on social media. She appears to rub off on him ...

A.   1 April 2020: Well, either you trust this friend or you don't. You claim you trust him, but you also claim that he seems to be changing because of her. Which in turn might mean that you CAN'T trust him as much as you thought. If you never hand out with ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't like me posting bikini photos of myself on the internet

Q.   My bf is throwing a fit about me posting bikini pics on Instagram . I really enjoy doing this and don’t feel I should have to explain myself to him. This is something I have done since before we met but recently with mire time in my hands I have ...

A.   1 April 2020: I agree that it IS a huge double standard, but I also agree with CodeWarrior that SOME men divide women into groups (some women do that too, so nothing new there). Your BF probably even saw and enjoyed your picture before you dated as he seems to... (read in full...)

My father moved on very quickly after my mother died and I don't like his partner

Q.   Dear Cupid. So my mother passed away almost a year and a half ago, (November 2018) I’m an only child and still very hurt over it for reasons. 4 months after my mother moved out of the family home in 2016 he met a woman and she moved in quit qu...

A.   31 March 2020: I what it is like to lose my mom and my dad moved on fast too afterwards, however, I was much older than you and my dad was too. You dad moved on because he HAD a good wife, good life, and didn't WANT to be alone. He knows what it's LIKE to have ... (read in full...)

I'm considering what I want for my wedding considering everything going on in the world

Q.   Hello, Where to start? As we all know the world is in the middle of a crisis pandemic. It has really made me reconsider how much money we're spending on our wedding in 2022. We've only booked the hotel but this alone is £7000. This crisis has...

A.   31 March 2020: What does your future husband say? This is something only you and your husband can decide. But being more frugal might NOT be a bad idea. The NOTION of marriage is to celebrate the union between two people in front of family, friends and for ... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   30 March 2020: Again, control is a thing for him. He waited 3 days to say hi back to her. So that HE didn't look interested. He OBVIOUSLY wanted to engage her in conversation but AT his terms, which is also why he did a voice mail, maybe also because you coul... (read in full...)

I was hoping if we couldn't date at least we could be friends. I'm not sure we are even that

Q.   I met her at uni. I wasn't in her class for the first term, so she added me on Facebook and we started messaging each other. It wasn't every day or anything, but often enough. Not long after, I met up with her at a student pub. I was out with...

A.   30 March 2020: Sounds like she sees you as a friend more than a romantic option, maybe because she has too much on her plate as things stand with her anxiety etc. So if I were you, I stop trying so hard to be anything else but classmates and friends. She does... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   29 March 2020: Pleasure? No, it's not about pleasure, it's control. I mean look at how much time you ponder and wonder about things that have nothing to do with you? If he makes you feel insecure, you will try harder to convince him that you will stand by hi... (read in full...)

Should I answer this guy after promising my boyfriend I wouldnt have any further contact with him.

Q.   I met a guy two years ago who I started to fall for, despite me being in a relationship. I confessed to my boyfriend and he was very upset. He wanted me to stop contacting the other guy, so I did. I told him that I had chosen to stick with the life ...

A.   28 March 2020: Keep your promise to your BF. You can't do faithfulness half-asses. Either you ARE or you are NOT. Which means ignore the e-mail. You ALREADY told the guy that you wanted no further contact. Set his e-mail up to go straight to spam or trash. T... (read in full...)

I feel he played games and is not supportive.

Q.   There was a guy that I liked on my course who is in his 40s. After getting to know him more recently, I have found he is quite anxious. Last week he messaged me as he said what is going on at the moment in the world had scared him. I replied and ...

A.   28 March 2020: Well, now you know. You tried to move the conversation to a more personal level and he CHOSE to ignore you. Which means he isn't a guy for you, sounds like he has a lot on his plate as it is. Probably the kind of guy who shouldn't even be on datin... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   28 March 2020: You ask, "how can I make him do this?" The answer is, YOU can't. You can't "make" him do anything that HE doesn't want to do. He is partly content with living with one foot in the past. Maybe to soothe this guilt, maybe to make himself look mor... (read in full...)

Would you stay with an insecure partner?

Q.   My man and I have been together for almost 4 years he recently just accused me of cheating which made me very upset because I’m not the type of person he has a lot of insecurities from when he cheated on me which is something that I forgave him for ...

A.   27 March 2020: I also agree with CodeWarrior. 1. while I think giving a partner a second chance can sometimes be warranted I think there are certain things that should JUST be total deal breakers, CHEATING is one of them. 2. HIM accusing you of cheating, is ... (read in full...)

After 3 years together how do I improve our sex life?

Q.   How do I improve our sex life? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have been living together for one year. I have noticed that our sex life is slowing down. I feel like my partner's desire has dropped completely. When we ...

A.   25 March 2020: I think you need to just sit him down and be honest. If he gets angry or defensive, I'd reinforce that you MISS the intimacy and that is why you are bringing it up. We can not guess WHAT is going on with him. You will HAVE to talk to him, gro... (read in full...)

What is everyone doing with their free time being cooped up?

Q.   Hello again! I've posted several times and everyone's been very helpful and empathetic. Thank you! I hope all you aunts and uncles are safe and healthy (and your loved ones too)! I'm under the impression that at least one of the aunts here is ...

A.   25 March 2020: Addicts often swap out one addiction for another. So you DO need to be mindful of new habits that may not be the best (like online shopping). I am not an addict or former addict, but I have OCD which means I have obsessive behaviors which can easily ... (read in full...)

It seems this friendship has run its course.

Q.   Long read, thank you for reading Hi everyone, I’ve had a friend, Serena for a while. I noticed we definitely have grown apart but I thought it was normal until... I asked her to hang out and she told me she couldn’t that she promised a relative...

A.   25 March 2020: OK whatever is going on with Jenn has nothing to do with your friendship with Serena. If Serena likes her, then she likes her. YOU don't have to. I think, (REGARDLESS of your previous abusive relationship) and how you had to cancel on her a ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's health worries me. Should I break up with her?

Q.   Been dating a woman 10 years younger than me for almost 9 months. We are in love but her health really concerns me. I have a job which requires me to maintain my fitness and I work out several times a week. My girlfriend is overweight (not an ...

A.   25 March 2020: Pregnancies can be dangerous for her health if her diabetes is not under control. However, is she going to the hospital monthly to get help to control her diabetes or because she has no control or doesn't take proper care of it? Does she WANT... (read in full...)

I don't want my partner back but he says he cant live without us.

Q.   I split up with my ex after discovering his infidelity. We have 3 children together who he still sees every other weekend and we have stayed amicable. 2 weeks ago he went silent for about a week. He told me yesterday he is struggling with his ment...

A.   24 March 2020: Well, I understand why you feel sorry for him. But I also think he is being unfair is trying to emotionally blackmail you into getting back together. I would suggest you talk to him about seeking help from a doctor/therapist so he can does wit... (read in full...)

How can I work out what I am doing wrong on dates?

Q.   I haven’t been in a relationship for eight years, my last date was December and it was the only time I’d gone on a second date and I haven’t heard from him since. I’ve only been on a handful of dates on the past couple years, and I don’t get a lot ...

A.   24 March 2020: I think using "hook up apps" to look for long lasting relationships might be your first mistake. Bumble is a same-sex app (primarily) so women looking for women and men for men. If you are looking for a guy, well you are more likely to find som... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   23 March 2020: You got him and yourself this far, keep it up. But you also have to decide, are you willing to keep pushing or pulling him to go do this. Having a crap childhood is something he should have dealt with a long time ago, giving his age. Same w... (read in full...)

Could we ever work out again?

Q.   I was in a relationship for a year with my ex. We lived together and were deeply in love and had a crazy sexual connection. However - he was very insecure and possessive and the relationship became quite toxic with frequent crazy arguments (was ...

A.   22 March 2020: The likelihood of him doing a total 180 is low, he might become more mature, grow up some, but the thing is, what he did to you and the relationship can NEVER be erased. IT will ALWAYS be in the back of your mind and... his, though he might over ... (read in full...)

My parents keep pushing for me to communicate with my abusive sister

Q.   My sister has never been my friend. She’s about 8 years older than I am. Even as children I mostly recall her being verbally and physically abusive towards me. Honestly I have few good memories aside lectures from her as well as guilt trips. Any ...

A.   21 March 2020: Do they hound your brothers to keep in touch with her too? If not, I'd ask your brother how they told your parents they want nothing to do with "big sis". Get some advice from them. And if they ALSO cut your parents out, well maybe that is so... (read in full...)

I thought my Mom had enough on her plate.

Q.   So, I am a 19 year old college freshmen who has a mom who got mad at her. Did I do wrong? I am the 2nd oldest of my mom's 7 kids but the 1st one she gave birth to. She adopted my older have brother and kept him after she and dad split. My parents ...

A.   21 March 2020: Just tell her that. I think she was more worried than mad at you. If you just verbalize that you FEEL she has plenty on her plate that that you wanted to get this done and do it an adult manner so SHE didn't HAVE to worry about it. And te... (read in full...)

I apologised but customer wants me fired.

Q.   So I work in fast food and our drive-through is open. I work as a cashier and drive-through. I don't know how to make food here as I've only been here seven months. Anyway, I accidentally misgendered a customer and now he/she won't stop at anything ...

A.   21 March 2020: Because if identity politics, OP Some people want it to be a "hate-crime" to use the wrong pronoun, even if it was a mistake, some claim it invalidate their existence (not sure how) and other, PROBABLY like the person you are dealing with now, for... (read in full...)

Wife asked best friend to help me recuperate at home. I enjoyed being naked in her care

Q.   I came home from the hospital and needed help with bathing and dressing. My wife needed to work so her best friend Sue offered to help me shower and dress. . My wife agreed so Sue came and helped ungress and shower. She was professional about it...

A.   20 March 2020: Honestly? I think you are taking advantage of your wife's friend and her willingness to help you and your wife out. You made this into some sexual or taboo, whereas I think the friend did this to HELP. I think it's a bit on a creepy side, OP... (read in full...)

Man I'm dating still lives with his ex and won't tell her about me

Q.   I have invested time in a man but I can’t work out whether I’m being too trusting or whether I’m being naive. We’ve been seeing each other about 5 months. He lives in another state and is in my area 4 days a week for work. When we first started ch...

A.   20 March 2020: I have to agree, bullshit alarm bells going off! She can't just run off with their kid, IF he is smart he will make a visitation schedule and a shared custody that works for the two of them. He CAN NOT make plans with a future with you, when h... (read in full...)

My parents keep pushing for me to communicate with my abusive sister

Q.   My sister has never been my friend. She’s about 8 years older than I am. Even as children I mostly recall her being verbally and physically abusive towards me. Honestly I have few good memories aside lectures from her as well as guilt trips. Any ...

A.   20 March 2020: Sounds like they worry about her, maybe because she has some mental issues? When they are gone will she be able to have a "normal" life? I think you have every right to not want to be around her, and I think you need to just tell your folks EV... (read in full...)

I kicked the cheater out, but miss what we once had.

Q.   I kicked my boyfriend of 10 years out 6 months ago because I found out he’d been having an affair with someone from work. It wasn’t just an affair. He had been leading a double life for the 5 months that the affair went on for. Everyone in their wo...

A.   19 March 2020: I agree with Cindy, I'm dumbfounded that you you thought you had a GREAT relationship when he was getting involved with people online. That is what people call EMOTIONAL affairs. He might not (as far as you know) have met up with them for sex but ... (read in full...)

Would it be stupid to move across the country to be near in-laws?

Q.   Hey I believe my mother in law doesn't like me even though my husband says she does. We were supposed to move across the country to live closer to them but now I'm not so sure I want to. Some background info I'm white my husband is Mexican,...

A.   19 March 2020: Um, Mexicans aren't a race, OP. That is a nationality, and widely ethnically diverse one. https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2014/06/16/321819185/on-the-census-who-checks-hispanic-who-checks-white-and-why Should you move to his home tow... (read in full...)

Why has my ex suddenly blocked me on social media?

Q.   Hi my question is why has My ex of 6 years ago suddenly blocked me on social media even though we were not even following each other what does this mean? ... We haven’t spoken since our breakup 6 years ago..I had seen his name pop up in my ...

A.   19 March 2020: Why care? He is an ex from 6 years ago, he is obviously married too, so really... WHY care? Some times people like to "clean the clutter". In real life and on their social media. Like removing people they don't talk to anymore or blocking peop... (read in full...)

I'm having therapy but feel I can't be fixed no matter what I try.

Q.   I was in a long-distance relationship for a year. I found out he had 4 other long term girlfriends. The whole process was very traumatic. I trusted him as years ago we were together for over 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. During this lon...

A.   19 March 2020: I agree with WiseOwlE You need to stop beating yourself up for having chosen a guy who was not worthy, who cheated, lied and gave you a STD (which I hope you have been treated for?) I have been in your shoes, my last BF before I met my husband... (read in full...)

How would I go about finding a lady to help me dress up?

Q.   as a boy I was fond of silky dresses my mother wore. when I was 6 I dressed up in them and also my two sisters clothing.i loved the feel of smooth fabrics. I wore my sisters school knickers and the feelings as I pulled them up.as an elderly man I ...

A.   19 March 2020: You know you can buy silk/satin boxers for men these days, right? So it doesn't HAVE to be women's clothing. Unless it's more the fact that it IS women's clothing rather than the actual fabric that turns you on. If it IS the latter, there ar... (read in full...)

Things have gotten rough since we had the baby. How do I save us?

Q.   I’ve been with my partner for 6 and a half years and 9 months ago we had our first child. Since our little boy has arrived we’ve argued more than we have in the 6.5 years we’ve been together. I knew it would be hard and challenging but I didn’t ...

A.   19 March 2020: Maybe a thing to consider is telling your partner that YOU rather he goes and takes a walk or a drive when the noise level gets too high. My oldest had colic and it was like clockwork. 5 pm EVERY day. Nothing I did would soothe her, I would st... (read in full...)

Sister Keeps Guilt Tripping Me Into Visiting Dying Formerly Abusive Dad

Q.   I grew up being abused by my dad on a regular basis (physical, emotional and he once also attempted sexual but then had to leave suddenly. If not I would almost certainly have been molested). He also however gave us all a great expensive education ...

A.   18 March 2020: This is a hard one because your sister CHOSE to forgive him and you didn't, so there you are already on two different path and places with your relationship with your father. Do I think you should drop everything whenever you sister think he might... (read in full...)

A former friend has cancer, should I reach out to her?

Q.   Hello, I've just found out an old friend has terminal cancer at 41years old, however we haven't spoken in over 10 years. We didn't fall out but i just decided at the time that due to feeling like her and her boyfriend (now husband)  regula...

A.   18 March 2020: You don't have to become a close friend to reach out. You can definitely determine how much interaction you want with her. It doesn't sound like she was a good friend to you back then, but I think giving her the benefit of the doubt, that she has ... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   17 March 2020: If nothing else OP, YOU go find a counselor and talk. And then you go from there. ... (read in full...)

I thought we had a great date but he's went totally cold on me

Q.   Afew days ago, I went on a fantastic date with a guy I have been talking to at my local gym. His 20 and I am 22 years old, so he doesn't have alot of dating experience. We had dinner, went to golf, drove around town and went to the movies. We ...

A.   16 March 2020: What you CAN do it call him (or text) and ask him hey, what up? Or a are you still up for seeing XYZ movie? If he doesn't respond or turn it down, then take it as he has no longer any interest in dating you. Why that might be? Who knows? And it's... (read in full...)

I'm falling for my FWB guy and trying to decide how he feels

Q.   This may come across sounding very strange, I met this guy through a friend, we only started talking via text last year as a friend gave our numbers to each other, this year we have met three times only for sex, but we seem to get on well, we...

A.   15 March 2020: Again, I have to agree with N91 Rip that bandage off. Tell him you want to get to know him better or whatever it is you REALLY want. The whole hinting and hoping he will "catch on" is not realistic and it's wasting your time. BE honest. ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend and catch myself thinking of someone else

Q.   I have been in a relationship for a few years and now I'm thinking about someone else I have been in a relationship for a few years and I'm at university. I don't see my boyfriend that much but we talk everyday. Recently I have been thinking ab...

A.   15 March 2020: I agree with N91, DO you want to be with your BF? If you do then limit the solo hang outs with this other person. I think it's common (especially given your age as well) that when one go off to university and the other either stay behind or g... (read in full...)

I'm a married woman crushing on an old friend

Q.   Hi I am married with a child but recently added an old online friend on social media and we have been chatting .. exchhnGed numbers and all..we flirt a lil but I decided that I won’t speak with this guy after we meet.. it’s been about 10years since ...

A.   14 March 2020: So if you husband is OH SO OK with this why are you asking total strangers on the internet? Makes no sense.... (read in full...)

How do I tell a co-worker that I misunderstood them and that I don't want to date?

Q.   So recently I've had a coworker ask to go out. However, I didn't realize that he was probably asking me out on a date. The day that it happened, he had clocked out for the day and followed me around for a good hour and a half before asking if I'd ...

A.   13 March 2020: It's not your fault or problem that he has never asked anyone out before. That doesn't mean you OWE him a date. He obviously have so issues with social cues if he was "hounding" you to ask you out. NEVER be vague. It doesn't help you. Or them. ... (read in full...)

I'm a married woman crushing on an old friend

Q.   Hi I am married with a child but recently added an old online friend on social media and we have been chatting .. exchhnGed numbers and all..we flirt a lil but I decided that I won’t speak with this guy after we meet.. it’s been about 10years since ...

A.   13 March 2020: I suggest you ask your husband what he thinks you should do? Come on, lady USE some common sense here.... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   13 March 2020: I'm sorry he isn't really willing to work WITH you on fixing what's not working. To think that counseling is about "letting someone in your head" is silly. Yes, a counselor can make you "see" or understand yourself AND your partner, their wishes a... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   12 March 2020: Start with a marriage counseling therapist. If he truly needs a sexual addiction counselor too, then hopefully the therapist can point that out and suggest someone. I can see why your husband is not wanting to do counseling. It's not in his favo... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   11 March 2020: So far so good. You did what you set out to do, calling him on his BS. And ASKING him to go to counselling to save the marriage. The thing is he refused and will continue to DENY that what he did is what destroyed your faith, trust and love i... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   9 March 2020: See, this is where I think he is embellishing... "So this is the crazy part ,I remember clearly that he said to me that she had told him that since she did not want sex , that he could go and do it with other women, but then when she found ou... (read in full...)

How do I tell a co-worker that I misunderstood them and that I don't want to date?

Q.   So recently I've had a coworker ask to go out. However, I didn't realize that he was probably asking me out on a date. The day that it happened, he had clocked out for the day and followed me around for a good hour and a half before asking if I'd ...

A.   9 March 2020: Just tell him you want to clarify what kind of outing he is talking about, because going out as friends sounds nice but you are NOT looking to go on a date as you have no plans to start dating at all. And that you do not want to string anyone along ... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   8 March 2020: Many people have a lot of guilt after someone dies. Whether they are family, friend or... foe. Because there is ALWAYS things that were unsaid, left open, regrets perhaps? Self examination? And don't forget, he probably holds on to the GOOD m... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   6 March 2020: Talk to a divorce solicitor BEFORE leaving your shared home - IF you own it. As that can be used against you, as in "abandonment". Not sure on the UK laws, which is why I think it's SMART to talk to a lawyer/solicitor before making big choices.... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   6 March 2020: You say "he MUST have ulterior motives"... must he though? I'd say probably, because most GROWN people know this is not exactly proper behavior to do in front of a partner. It shows a lack of common sense, common courtesy and well.... lack of ... (read in full...)

Husband's fascination with another woman upset me. How do I start over after 40 years of marriage?

Q.   My husband has been sending private messages to a woman via Facebook. We knows her as she used to date a member of his family a few years ago. She got married to another man and had a child, they have since split up. She has an adult only accou...

A.   5 March 2020: I would definitely talk to a solicitor, and I would also think about finding a place YOU can afford on your own closer to work, you don't HAVE to live right next door to family, right? Figure out what you are financially entitled to and then dec... (read in full...)

What the heck is wrong with this man and his comments?

Q.   Hi guys, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 2 months, but there is something that I cant quite wrap my finger about and it’s the fact that my boyfriend every time we see a movie, show or whatever on tv and theres a pretty or ...

A.   2 March 2020: Maybe he knows that HE is the guy with the GF who is "too pretty for him" and yes, he might be insecure because he probably knows you could find someone YOUNGER, more successful and more handsome. I think most people think that if they have a p... (read in full...)

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