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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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What was the point in doing the right thing?
Q. When my ex betrayed me and dumped me callously for no reason, he somehow managed to turn everyone against me aswell. I don't know how he did it. I was shocked and devasted when we brokeup, it was completely out of the blue. I thought these people ...
A. 9 June 2011: You mean if you tell them how you felt about them not being there for you after the break up ?
Uhm... not sure it's a good idea.
Sure, you'd get things off your chest, you'd feel better and maybe you'd be able to move on faster.
But, if you ... (read in full...)
I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!
Q. I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love ...
A. 17 May 2011: Women can be as bad :)
As for infatuation vs. love, we could debate for hours and we could not convince each other,lol.
My point of view is this : you can't say you "love" a person that you know basically nothing about - except that he has a ro... (read in full...)
Does it sound like my ex is accusing me? And what should I say when I respond to his text?
Q. Right, so I went through a break up with someone called, lets call him D, I was heartbroken because I really did like him a lot, I was actually properly upset for a few weeks, like to the point where I stopped my studies and just stayed home in ...
A. 17 May 2011: To me it does not sound like you think, at all.
He is simply saying : life is a bitch, not only my parcel has not arrived yet, I also am without a camera now.
Just text him back his tracking number. ... (read in full...)
Is it selfish that I don't want my boyfriend's 2 kids to live with us?
Q. My boyfriend has two kids from a previous marriage. One is 7, and the other one is 5. They are two very hyper boys. We have a 9 week old together. I never knew his boys were living with their mothers grandmother. So, not too long ago, she told my...
A. 17 May 2011: I know I am gonna sound like a total bitch, but tbh Iit's beyond me how women get involved with men who have kids without even bothering to know what is what, who is the affidatary parent and why, and what happens just in cse. Like, let's say the ... (read in full...)
I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!
Q. I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love ...
A. 17 May 2011: Repeat with me : he has a girlfriend and does not intend to leave her.
Of course he "seems to like you too " , even a guy in a relationship still has eyes and, mostly, still is receptive to the flattering sensation of being drooled over. If he i... (read in full...)
Taking a one-month long holiday and leaving my daughter with my mother, is it ok for me to do this?
Q. Dear Agony aunts, Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I have an inner conflicts that is troubling me. Me and my husband are planning a one-month trip to the USA, and i have a two year old which i will leave back home with my mother. Is it ri...
A. 16 May 2011: Not such a great idea. She is only 2, and 30 days are a looong time at her age. If it were maybe a weekend, or 3 days... but starting with one month if she has never been separated from you- no, it's too much.
Between 2 and 3 it's when the kids... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to catch up with the ex from time to time?
Q. I sometimes catch up with my 1st love..like we talk a few times in a year... I'm no longer in love with him. But the fact is,i always feel happy when i talk to him. A few days ago, i thought about catching up with him after almost 4 months...
A. 16 May 2011: It's wrong that he makes you feel happy and calm. Or, in fact, it's wrong that you need to be in touch with him to feel happy and calm, and that you don't feel happy and calm enough with your boyfriend.
You are obviously not just getting in touc... (read in full...)
Falling for the guy I am having casual sex with.....what should I do?
Q. so, there is this guy that i am sleeping with at the moment and he is amazing. we started sleeping together under the condition that our arangment is purley just sex.. so we have been spending every weekend together for a while now and i have fallen ...
A. 16 May 2011: Lovey dovey does not mean anything in this context. Zero. Some guys are naturally affectionate and demonstrative during and after intimacy, and, God bless them, always better than a guy who rolls over and snores the moment he's done. But, if he ... (read in full...)
What really happened here? He said he was leaving her for me and would step up and be a man, but I have not heard from him in a month!
Q. Hello, My question is, I'm confused about my x, we broke up about a year ago...we didn't see each other for the whole year, we were under strict rules not to, after the year was up he came right to me, told me how much he had missed me, loved me...
A. 16 May 2011: Life is tough, and it's so nice to have a sugar mama that makes going to work an optional, since you can always fall back on her. For some people, it's even nicer than "true love ".
Mind you, not that I believe he loves you, he's just good at tell... (read in full...)
Do I dump him and stop putting up with him hurting me over and over? Or do I just get over it?
Q. My boyfriend never invites me out with his friends. They are people I know, so they are not strangers and a separate bunch of people from me. I have brought it to my bf's attention after he upset me once night by not inviting me out somewher...
A. 16 May 2011: Either one, but just pick one and stick to it strictly.
If you told him repeated times what you don't like, and the changes he should make, and what you'd like to see happening, then he says yes, yes sure my darling and keeps doing what he want... (read in full...)
Little things playing on my mind....is this an issue or am I being silly?
Q. Hello- I hope someone can give me some good advice...I don't know whether this is an issue or whether I'm just being silly. I've been with my boyfriend for 3months and its been going at a really fast pace- he's 42 and I'm 39. We are in love and ...
A. 16 May 2011: To tell you the truth , if it were me, what would play in my mind is his casual attitude toward this child, in case it was his. As it is surely possible, because almost 7 lbs at 7 months it's a big baby but not humoungous or off the charts . I'd ... (read in full...)
In-laws control my wife and are ruining what could be a good marriage!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married for 2.5 years. Before the wedding we had a great relationship. I just recevied my Masters Degree and started a great job after being jobless for 2 months. The wedding was beautiful. Ok now imagine the sound ...
A. 16 May 2011: Strange story, frankly, and tbh I fell you must have left out something , or be seeing things from a very personal perspective.
For instance, it seems that your wife and in laws feel a violent dislike toward your father. Likes and dislakes are ... (read in full...)
What was the point in doing the right thing?
Q. When my ex betrayed me and dumped me callously for no reason, he somehow managed to turn everyone against me aswell. I don't know how he did it. I was shocked and devasted when we brokeup, it was completely out of the blue. I thought these people ...
A. 16 May 2011: From your examples it does not show they took his side.
The first girl said a politically correct platitude, as in theory everybody should take the moral high road and let the bygones be bygones, but, like you said, she never went through a simi... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife wear makeup?
Q. Hello there, Can you please advise me on what to do with my wife who doesn't like make up at all. We have been married and everything is great except that I would love my wife to put on a bit of make up. She tried it one time and she looked g...
A. 16 May 2011: Btw, how's everything in your wife's life ? is she stressed out , worried about something ? Does she act as usual or did she get less active, less social..?
Could she be mildly depresswed ?...
Since you say she used to wear make up then she stop... (read in full...)
Do rebound relationships work?
Q. My ex girlfriend broke up with me a month ago after 2 years together...and now she already likes someone else, and i have a feeling that this is her rebound relationship. We're still friends and talk every once in awhile and I think that that she's ...
A. 16 May 2011: Rebound relationship have slim chances to work.
But frankly, it's the same thing for going back to your ex whom you broke up with recently. An ex is an ex for a reason.
The wisest thing is to give yourself time to process your loss, then mov... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife wear makeup?
Q. Hello there, Can you please advise me on what to do with my wife who doesn't like make up at all. We have been married and everything is great except that I would love my wife to put on a bit of make up. She tried it one time and she looked g...
A. 16 May 2011: While I feel your pain, and while in my country ,opposite to yours, it's unthinkable that a professional woman ( doctor,lawyer, etc. ) shows up at work without any make up, it would be like showing up at work in your pajamas , or with rollers in ... (read in full...)
Should I complain about my treatment in the store?
Q. Hey guys. This is not a relationship question, but more a question for your view point. Im 18 years of age, and suffering from a condition that my doctor is not quite certain of yet. I also have crohns disease. My condition is something to do ...
A. 15 May 2011: No. She was off duty . She was the same as any other customer on the premises. If another client had refused to help you, you would not be asking for the tape so you can snitch to this other client's employer, right ?
There is no legal "duty of r... (read in full...)
Do sociopaths attach strongly to their victims--even if they don't feel empathy?
Q. I was with a girl for a long time who I believe was a sociopath. I dont wanna go into the details, but she had all the characteristics: she lied constantly, said very sweet things to me--as well as a bunch of other guys, was promiscuous and viewed ...
A. 15 May 2011: I happen to have heard the story of this particular OP with some background info, so I feel confident in saying no no, this is not simply a spoiled little princess or a pretty girl who likes attention, there is more to the story .
None of us i... (read in full...)
Am I wrong not to want to take my husbands child on our Holiday?
Q. A couple of years ago my husband and I went on holiday and took his child from a previous relationship with us. During the holiday my husband did absolutely nothing with the child and I ended up doing everything for him so it was no holiday for me. ...
A. 15 May 2011: Good for you,op, and this was exactly what I meant : you don't have to " punish " the child for something that 's not his fault, you just have to make your husband get off his lazy butt :)... (read in full...)
Why has she turned cold on me? I thought we had possibilities.
Q. Im just curious. why is it that a girl i have been friends for quite some time (appx 6 years) is all of a sudden cold towards me. She would rather be a groupie and chase musicians to various states, then have the nerve to say that it was just ...
A. 14 May 2011: Nobody can make you feel ANYTHING that you are not already willing to feel. Nobody can convince you that you are stupid if you know you are smart, nobody can convince you you have no talent if you believe in your talent. . It's for the things ... (read in full...)
The girl I liked ignored me, so I moved on to someone else, and then again to someone else. And now I'm wondering if I should let my current girl go and pursue the first one I wanted instead.
Q. Ok here's the deal I have a gf and I really like her but there's someone else I like even more. In January I really liked this girl (the one who isn't my gf) but she ignored me so I moved on to another person. And after that other Person I moved to ...
A. 14 May 2011: You are confused because you are too young and immature to be dating to begin with.
Typical " kid in the candy store " syndrome.
When my son was 3 or 4, our trips to Toys R Us often would end in tears. I would tell him , OK, you can pick one... (read in full...)
I can't live without him but can't live with him either!
Q. Me an my bf been having alot of problems. Im super jealous but i have reasons to be. He has been caught talkin an texting other woman in the past but i never saw anything crazy. About two weeks ago i saw a number with no name in a text an asked him ...
A. 14 May 2011: He has been caught in the past and he has been caught in the present. I am inclined to think he'll give you many other chances to catch him in the future ( unless he becomes much better at covering his tracks ).
I am afraid that if you are tire... (read in full...)
Why is it bad to lose your virginity to a Prostitute?
Q. I'm a 28 year old male virgin, who has never had a girlfriend. I have asked dozens of women out in my life though I was always rejected. There were plenty of women that I liked but did not approach them because I knew they had boyfriends already. I ...
A. 14 May 2011: Anon male reader of May 14th : your comment is so neither here nor there , that I think you got into the wrong thread by mistake . But in case this is really where you want to post :
- how do you know that all the female respondent here have or h... (read in full...)
Why has she turned cold on me? I thought we had possibilities.
Q. Im just curious. why is it that a girl i have been friends for quite some time (appx 6 years) is all of a sudden cold towards me. She would rather be a groupie and chase musicians to various states, then have the nerve to say that it was just ...
A. 14 May 2011: I don't think she is taking it out on you.
She just does NOT want to take your friendship to a nicer level, and wants this message to be inequivocable, loud and clear.
Could she have handled the issue in a more sensitive , delicate way ? Yes.
T... (read in full...)
Is anyone else annoyed at Facebook?
Q. I hate Facebook. There, I said it. I hate the way most people use text messaging, too. I do not participate on Facebook, but most of my friends and family do. That's fine. It's a nice way to connect with a lot of people at once and share thos...
A. 14 May 2011: I don't have a Facebook account, and I don't want one. I am one of the "oldies" too, but I don't think it's age related- I know people way older than me who are on Facebook.
I just don't get it. I have the phone and e-mail contacts of anybody I c... (read in full...)
What's a good size diamond for an engagement ring?
Q. What is a nice size solitaire diamond for an engagement ring to a tall, slender lady who has a ring size of 5.5? I am looking at just over 1 carat. The quality is impeccable, so I'm not looking for comments on clarity and color...just size. I kn...
A. 13 May 2011: No, you don't sound pompous , OP; but just for the record, carats do not say particularly anything about a ring price, and viceversa. Since what makes the price of a diamond is not only the carats but also the other "3 Cs", so a big 3 carats ... (read in full...)
I don't like the changes my body is going through!
Q. I have just turned 30 years old six months ago and I am worried because my body is changing in ways I do not like. My breasts are shrinking and it is not because I am losing weight because I have gained 10 lbs in the last six months at the beginning ...
A. 13 May 2011: Honeypie is right when she says you are way more than your rack, on the other hand losing two bra sizes in 6 months at 30 years , and without weight loss , is not normal IMO.
And such a noticeable volume loss might ( not MUST, luckily ) appe... (read in full...)
What's a good size diamond for an engagement ring?
Q. What is a nice size solitaire diamond for an engagement ring to a tall, slender lady who has a ring size of 5.5? I am looking at just over 1 carat. The quality is impeccable, so I'm not looking for comments on clarity and color...just size. I kn...
A. 13 May 2011: Just my personal opinion- 1 carat is far from gaudy !- in fact, if you choose a solitaire cut there's no point in going under 1 carat. If a good sized stone is too expensive, then choose a diamond "riviera" - or a less expensive coloured ... (read in full...)
Please give me suggesstion what shall I do?
Q. i am female of age 20. i am in love with man who is married and has three kids. he love me first and put proposals. i refused and said its not good. then he said me he cannot live without me. he will die, but still he says me he wants his family as ...
A. 13 May 2011: Nonsense. Of course he will NOT die if you leave him- which, in a way, it's sort of a pity, because the planet would be a better place without sleazy married men taking advantage of the inexperience of girls like you.
And of course you CAN leav... (read in full...)
Why wont he tell his family about me?
Q. Can someone please tell me why my boyfriend of 7 month would not tell his family that he is going with me. He hasnt nothing to be ashamed of about me. I just dont understand him. My friends and family know about him and have met him. We even live in ...
A. 13 May 2011: All the reasons Abella quotes are valid, but I'd vote for 8 and 9.
Maybe you two see your relationship differently. For you he is a serious boyfriend, for him, from the way he acts, you may be a nice , fun girl whom he is temporary dating - a ... (read in full...)
Do I come to grips with losing everything I know?
Q. My girlfriend lives 8 hours away. I want to move down there with her but would prefer her to move here, it is so far away from everything I know. I am a country guy bread in full; she lives in the big City L.A. It feels strange to think I would be ...
A. 13 May 2011: I think you are being just a bit chicken : )
You are not selfish... you are scared. Which is normal.
But, it's good to challenge ourselves. Particularly about opening our minds , trying new places, new styles of life, seeing new things. ... (read in full...)
He will not share the computer fairly. How do I get almost equal time?
Q. My boy friend and I share the Internet. He lives in our home as his Dad is away working where he can get work, and his mother left them a long time ago. We both paid for it, but he did put in a little more for the computer as he wanted a better ...
A. 13 May 2011: I am afraid the only solution is to have your mom put her foot down. Her house, her rules , and you both are kids, so she gets to decide computer access , same if you were siblings. Ask her to talk to him and tell him clearly that he can't live in ... (read in full...)
How many friends do you have?
Q. OK I am wondering how many friends--and I mean real friends--can a person honestly have. I am not counting Facebook friends, but real friends. To me a real friend is someone you feel a kinship with, someone you identify with and who identifies w...
A. 13 May 2011: I guess it depends from your definition of friendship.
Some people , as a sort of shorthand , use " friend " to indicate any acquaintance whom they spend time with , or talk to, reasonably often. These are " friends" in a social, recreational sens... (read in full...)
My husband is buying a flat and puts it in his name. If he dies, who will get it, me or his son?
Q. I have question about the law in Europe ( Germany ). I'm come from Asia but married to a German. My husband wants to buy a flat here in Germany. He said he will put the flat only to his name. But he said he will make also another paper that when he ...
A. 13 May 2011: @ Sparta . No, actually it's exactly the opposite. The guy can write all the wills and the papers he wants, in GERMANY there is no legal way he can give less than 50% of his property to his son and legitimate heir.
What you say may perhaps be t... (read in full...)
If we're just friends why does he kiss me like this?
Q. i am not sure if this guy likes me we been talking and he says that we are friends but we do kiss. he says he dont want to lead me on but than again he still kisses and flirts with me?...we both got out of relationships so we ended up talking to ...
A. 12 May 2011: No, OP, disabuse yourself of this silly notion that if he kisses you , then he must have feelings for you, otherwise you'll grow up to be a woman who thinks : gee, if he f**ks me he must have feelings for me , and then : well, if he got me ... (read in full...)
My husband is buying a flat and puts it in his name. If he dies, who will get it, me or his son?
Q. I have question about the law in Europe ( Germany ). I'm come from Asia but married to a German. My husband wants to buy a flat here in Germany. He said he will put the flat only to his name. But he said he will make also another paper that when he ...
A. 12 May 2011: No, in Germany 1st grade heirs ( sons and daughters ) have the right to a statutory quota ( " not less than.. ")of their parent's property , whether the parent leaves a will or not, and this quota is 50%. In other words, your husband can write ... (read in full...)
No one else will make me feel this way. How can I get him to notice me as a girlfriend?
Q. I've fallen for someone and I know that no one else will ever be as special to me. I'm originally from Ireland but live in Mexico City, and I have no one to discuss this with and feel desperately lonely. He's dating some whore right now, and...
A. 12 May 2011: Why is she a selfish whore ? why is not he the one who is a selfish prick, for instance.
He knows you . If you have so many things in common , he must have noticed. If you are positive you'd be a great gf for him, you are probably sending out ... (read in full...)
How do ladies who need a larger bra size cope with finding the sizes they needs?
Q. ok so my bra cup size and overall size is a little larger. Would a push up bra make me look too much? And bigger than they really are? Does anyone know the largest size that Victoria's Secret make in bras? Or any other bra company that makes br...
A. 12 May 2011: How large are we talking about ?
Up to a 38 ,maybe 40 , DD / E cup, buy Chantelle , Simone Perel and Felina. These are European brands but are imported in USA in big department stores, I found them at Bloomingdale's and Macy's for inst... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend buy me presents? I do it for him!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I had learned that I had been so selfless in relationship. I had always bought him stuff, when I go to the mall, see something he would like, I buy for him. But he has never did anything like ...
A. 12 May 2011: Personally I think your bf is a horrible cheapskate. Never a gift in two years because " he has not got much money "? Nonsense ! when there's a will there 's always a way. Failing all else, he could have skipped dinner once or twice in two years - ... (read in full...)
Should I stop replying to my ex's texts?
Q. It's been two months since my ex and I broke up. We broke up because we had some communication problems which we both believe we could fix, though we decided we both don't want a relationship right now. He has said he wants to give us another ...
A. 12 May 2011: He's on drugs. He does not want a relationship with you. You ( wisely ) can't handle being around him.
So, what's the point of exchanging texts ?
Don't reply. Ever .
Not because if you don't reply, he will understand or realize this and tha... (read in full...)
Does he not care any more? Should I try to mend fences, or is it too late after two months?
Q. Ok, I dated this guy for a few months. Things got off to a slow start, but then they started to pick up and I really thought that he liked me. Our last date was probably the best...but that's just it, it was the last one. We just stopped talk...
A. 12 May 2011: Have no regrets, darling. It's not something you did or omitted to do. I can't be totally sure based on that little you told us, but it sounds like a very frequent, common story.
You thought he liked you, and he DID : to some extent. He liked you ... (read in full...)
Other people have good relationships. How do I get over a relationship that I ruined, learn from my mistakes and move on?
Q. Over 5 years ago the relationship with my then girlfriend of 3 plus years ended very badly and I have still not been able to put it out of my mind and move on. Before I go on I would like to make it clear that I do not want to get back together with ...
A. 12 May 2011: I think so, OP.:) Exactly. "Up to your standards " does not mean as good,honest,intelligent, caring,baggage-free etc.etc. as you RATIONALLY think your perfect mate should be. It means the kind of woman that makes your heart beat fast and stirs ... (read in full...)
How not to be jealous and insecure when my wife works with a lot of single young men?
Q. My wife has a job in a male-dominated field. I would say it's about 85% men. It also tends to skew young. We are in our 40's, but most people she works with are 25-35. That means that the great majority of them are single or have girlfrie...
A. 12 May 2011: OP, thank you for your detailed explanations and update. Very helpful to understand your original post.
In my case, no, my fiance' was not jealous, he was often annoyed, yes , because my long working hours and rather whimsical scheduled inte... (read in full...)
How not to be jealous and insecure when my wife works with a lot of single young men?
Q. My wife has a job in a male-dominated field. I would say it's about 85% men. It also tends to skew young. We are in our 40's, but most people she works with are 25-35. That means that the great majority of them are single or have girlfrie...
A. 11 May 2011: I am insanely curious what's your wife's field : clandestine bets ? I don't know of any snazzy dressed , yacht owning serious investor who'd entrust his money to a company whose people operate from their living rooms.
Be generous and pardon me t... (read in full...)
Other people have good relationships. How do I get over a relationship that I ruined, learn from my mistakes and move on?
Q. Over 5 years ago the relationship with my then girlfriend of 3 plus years ended very badly and I have still not been able to put it out of my mind and move on. Before I go on I would like to make it clear that I do not want to get back together with ...
A. 11 May 2011: Because you haven't met anybody yet interesting enough to get your mind off the past.
You say : I have not fallen in love again and I don't think I will until I can come to grips with what I did.
This is possible, I can't sort it out.
B... (read in full...)
Does he not care any more? Should I try to mend fences, or is it too late after two months?
Q. Ok, I dated this guy for a few months. Things got off to a slow start, but then they started to pick up and I really thought that he liked me. Our last date was probably the best...but that's just it, it was the last one. We just stopped talk...
A. 11 May 2011: I would not waste my breath.
Everybody is " busy " in our society, and the truth is the busiest guy of them all will MAKE some time for you if he is really interested.
I also don't think that he after two months he has not approached you bec... (read in full...)
Am I wrong not to want to take my husbands child on our Holiday?
Q. A couple of years ago my husband and I went on holiday and took his child from a previous relationship with us. During the holiday my husband did absolutely nothing with the child and I ended up doing everything for him so it was no holiday for me. ...
A. 11 May 2011: I am a woman,but I think too she needs to " suck it up ".
That's precisely the reason why I always shunned like the plague men with kids. I know I don't have the patience and generosity to deal with other people's kids.
But you married a man wi... (read in full...)
Why is it bad to lose your virginity to a Prostitute?
Q. I'm a 28 year old male virgin, who has never had a girlfriend. I have asked dozens of women out in my life though I was always rejected. There were plenty of women that I liked but did not approach them because I knew they had boyfriends already. I ...
A. 6 May 2011: More than good or bad, it's futile. What do you hope to solve or to accomplish ?. Sure, you would loose your virginity- and ? It's not like you'd get a girlfriend or a lover, you'd still be partnerless, and if you want more sex you'd have to keep ... (read in full...)
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