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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...
A. 29 August 2011: @krit: I suspect you are pulling my leg and benevolently making fun of me :) - but tks any way for the appreciation. No, I don't have all these PHDs but- the best teacher is always hands on life experience and , having a Muslim ex , and quite ... (read in full...)
He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
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A. 3 July 2011: You are asking the wrong question.
The right question is not "What does he want from me ? " but, " What do I want from him ? ".
Think it over , then you decide.
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A. 27 May 2011: You were right to be honest- and he was honest too. He told you what he feels, i.e. that he is fine with the casual way things are between you and, probably, also with the amount of time you spend together.
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A. 27 May 2011: Sorry, OP, I did not mean to sound judgemental. Just curious, honestly. Because ,like I said, I too was raised not in the most enlightened,anything -goes of times and places, - and still a bra strap was definitely not enough to make any waves. I ... (read in full...)
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A. 27 May 2011: Maybe I am going to sound rude, I assure you I am just curious : WHY do your parents love him ?
Lack of ambition, no education, no job, sleeps all day, xbox as only interest... he sounds like the typical future son-in-law from hell !,the nigh... (read in full...)
How do I deal with being unable to see my boyfriend??
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A. 27 May 2011: Wait a minute, wait a minute. Did you say " police tag " ?
Meaning that he is a juvenile , charged with a serious offence, on bail waiting for trial ?...
That's quite more than " a bit of trouble ".
A bit of trouble would be, like, he's b... (read in full...)
My conservative wife wears low-cut tops that show her bra?
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He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...
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He may have real feelings of love for you, perhaps , ( I doubt it, because true love is not so selfish ) but he knows he is not going to marr... (read in full...)
Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I stil...
A. 26 May 2011: Let's get this out of the way first, :
of course your body reacts to your "aggressive " ex , but, I suppose, you have a brain too to control your inappropriate impulses.
Do you know that you have just used the typical rapist's excuse ?:) " He... (read in full...)
Why does ex still message me after all this time?
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A. 26 May 2011: Oh sure he can, some people like their ego stroked for the rest of their life, they keep flirting with their high school sweethearts 30 years later , while babysitting the grandchildren.
You are "the option ".The "just in case ". He has no inte... (read in full...)
I thought I could deal with the break-up, but knowing now that my BF is moving on and I'm not, is killing me!
Q. hey, me and my ex bf split up about 3 weeks ago, although i wasnt full over him i was getting there, but then today he came to pick up some of his things, as he finished me over text, we was talking about it, as i just wanted to know answers. he ...
A. 26 May 2011: 3 weeks is nothing, the wound is still fresh, give yourself time. You'd move on much faster if you'd cut contacts. Do not call him, do not talk to him, do not ask info about his private life, as you have seen, that makes it worse. If you bump into ... (read in full...)
We're both happy with the FWB scene, but not knowing wen he'll drop me, is scary...
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A. 26 May 2011: You are fooling yourself.
You DO have expectations. You expect it may last, you expect there is a next time, and if you are anxious about the when, and always afraid there may NOT be a next time, then no, you are not happy with FWB. He may be, ... (read in full...)
My GF thinks I cheat on her and is subjecting me to immense physical and mental abuse!
Q. hey guys n girls, longer story....help me.... im sorry if im not typing correctly to be honest im so depressed and sad. ok 3 yrs ago me and my gf got into a very big fight and she smacked me in my face then later she hit me with a bottle. I left h...
A. 26 May 2011: Long post short answer : Move on ! let her be ! Kick her ass out of your life for good !
All you have written about her past, the other girl, blah blah is irrelevant. What is relevant is :
- she smacked you in your face
- she hit you with a b... (read in full...)
Can a woman give herself completely to a new love, despite having had many lovers in her past?
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A. 26 May 2011: Of course she can. Otherwise no widow or divorced woman could ever have a happy second marriage. And only virgins could ever hope to have committed, loving, lasting relationships , all the others would be deemed to have their relationships forever ... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the help!
Q. This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought wo...
A. 25 May 2011: Hey, thanks to you for actually following our advices, it's not that it happens so often, you know ?, lol.
Best wishes to you and your mom.
... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?
Q. Okay, so this weekend is a bank holiday, my guy is off work Saturday and Sunday (he works a lot of weekends) and basically he has been invited to go camping with his two best mates. I’m pi***d off. I don’t have a problem with either of these gu...
A. 25 May 2011: It may be healthy for couples spending a lot of time together, but it's unhealthy being overly anxious or concerned or devastated when this cannot happen ( because of reasonable, acceptable motivations, not because he signed up for a week ... (read in full...)
Can a narcissist and a co-dependent person have a relationship that works?
Q. Hi. I am a co-dependent person. For those who do not know what this is, it is a person who feels the need to please other people in order to get his own validation. I have had treatment for this but still ahve strong codependent tendencies. Last...
A. 25 May 2011: Last, it can last, because both parties have an interest in making it last. The narcissist taps freely into the narcissistic supply that you provide her, and that is necessary to her functioning in daily life and social interactions . The ... (read in full...)
Just how likely is my penis size going to be a problem when I do become sexually active?
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The answer is both NO and It depends.
No, because : would you be cruel to a girl that takes her stiletto heels off and it turns out she is shorter than she... (read in full...)
If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???
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A. 25 May 2011: Pretty girl can't ever win :)
This girl gives her phone number to any guy who'd ask it respectfully, maybe just out of courtesy, maybe to get them off her back, maybe to be friendly and meet new people, maybe to give them an honest chance, who ... (read in full...)
He gives me mixed signals about having a baby but I really want one!
Q. Hi any and everybody... here is the deal... I've been seeing this guy, I'm in love but I can't tell if he is... he hasn't told me but when I'm around I can feel it... my biggest problem is I want a baby, he talks about it..."we gonna make a baby" "I ...
A. 25 May 2011: It's time to go on the pill, because I notice that while this guy occasionally mentions making a baby, he says absolutely nothing about committing to you, sticking around, helping materially and morally to raise your kid, and being a good, present, ... (read in full...)
Is is ok for married people to be physically attracted to others?
Q. Is it acceptable or not for a married person to have sexual attractions to other people? I have been married to my wife for about 7 yrs. and she told me that although she is COMPLETELY happy with me sexually and I treat her right AND I give her ...
A. 25 May 2011: Is it Ok to have to empty your bladder every few hours ? Maybe it's not, in fact it is rather bothersome when you travel, but..that's the way it is.
It is natural to be attracted by what pleases your senses : landscapes, art, perfumes, and when... (read in full...)
Should I be me or the dancer?
Q. I am an ex dancer so used to have a good body and be considered attractive. I got treated really badly by an ex boyfriend who I lived with for 2 years, he cheated on me with about 8 of my friends and ended up becoming violent. My self esteem ...
A. 25 May 2011: As I absolutely recognize the authority of Jmtmj, as a young male, on this subject, and I accept that he must know more than us female Aunts about it, there's a twist to his reasoning.
Because, while it is true that a lack of erection does not ... (read in full...)
My wife's sex life before she met me, and her attitude towards sex now have left me shattered....
Q. This seems to be a big topic here. I have read a lot of the responses from people and they are helping. What I notice is that there are two categories of people suffering from this. One is people who have had a lot of partners (maybe even more tha...
A. 25 May 2011: OP, both your question and update covered so much ground and touched on so many issues, that's very difficult to stay on track, so I hope you'll alow me too a few " disjointed " comments.
- Sorry, no ,
you can't have it both ways. Either retroact... (read in full...)
Isn't it time for me to be happy and move on?
Q. Me and my best friend have been in love with eachother for 2 1/2 years but he has been with his gf for 4 years. I never ever ever had any intention of trying to break them up! Infact two years ago when we confessed we were in love with eachother, I ...
A. 24 May 2011: That's so easy to answer :
because he wants to get laid.
And because by now he knows you are a sucker for sweet words , so he'll drown you in I miss you I love you , being reasonably sure that this will always get him what he wants from you... (read in full...)
My wife's sex life before she met me, and her attitude towards sex now have left me shattered....
Q. This seems to be a big topic here. I have read a lot of the responses from people and they are helping. What I notice is that there are two categories of people suffering from this. One is people who have had a lot of partners (maybe even more tha...
A. 24 May 2011: I am a bit disappointed. After reading all the long, intense, and detailed first part, the end is a bit of an anticlimax , to me. I can't shed the suspect, that , basically ,you just want someone to tell you : Sure, you poor lamb. You got ill ... (read in full...)
I think I may have PCOS. Does this make me unattractive?
Q. I think I may have PCOS. I seem to have many of the symptoms, including unwanted facial hair, hair on my nipples and I struggle to loose weight. I first noticed them when I came off the pill a few years ago. (The pill was making me crazy and tur...
A. 24 May 2011: Excuse me but this frankly is one of the silliest thing I have ever heard. Having an hormonal imbalance does NOT make you a freak , or a half woman, it makes you a person with a condition that needs to be taken care of, and you 'd be neither the ... (read in full...)
Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?
Q. Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...
A. 23 May 2011: Then I guess you'll just have to be patient, stay positive .. and be yourself. Don't shove your Americanity down people's throat like those girls whom Cerberus mentioned, but don't feel embarassed or apologetic about your ethnicity / nationality. ... (read in full...)
My lover said its none of my business if she's cheating on me!
Q. Have been dating my lover for the past 11mnths and i discovered about 2 weeks ago that she is having afair with another guy. I accused her for this yesterday night and she said it is non of my business if she is cheating on me then she slapped me. ...
A. 23 May 2011: You call her your " lover" so I assume you are married or anyway taken. In this case, technically she is correct. You do not offer her an exclusive relationship, so why should she offer one to you.
I don't like the slap though- raising hands on y... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?
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A. 23 May 2011: If your relation is overall good, you meet regularly for QT, 2 or 3 times a week, and last time he went on his own was a year ago, yes , definitely you are a bit obsessive, you need to relax your grip .
It wouldn't be bad to accept that invi... (read in full...)
I want to talk to my mom and bdsm but when I tried she said she'd send me to a therapist!
Q. I am a masochist and I learned that I like bdsm. I mentioned the subject to my mom and asked what she thought and she told me that if I liked that stuff she'd send me to a doctor to get checked out. I dot think there's anything wrong with me. But I ...
A. 23 May 2011: I totally agree with Chigirl.
You seem to be confusing being close to your parent with crossing healthy boundaries unnecessarily.
It's good that your mom knows you are sexually active and that you could ask her advice about sex and relation... (read in full...)
Retro-active Jealousy With A Difference
Q. I know that this topic has been covered but not from my situation so I would genuinely appreciate any help. I had a healthy sex life up until 27. about 12 partners, lot's of fun, innocent enough sex. Nothing out of left field as it where. I woul...
A. 23 May 2011: Obsessive ,irrational thoughts that keep showing up consistently and over which your logic has no control ARE a big symptom of OCD. As for anxiety,...you sound pretty anxious to me. It's not wise or healthy ,feeling like you do , just to "get ... (read in full...)
I'm in frustrated love!
Q. I'm "still" in love with my friend who is kind of still my boyfriend except we don't have sex now. I think he thinks we might not be quite right for each other in the long run, and so doesn't want to. But we spend endless hours together and he ...
A. 23 May 2011: Confusing story, we'd need a bit more details to say something useful.
You say that you sleep in the same bed and hold each other without ever having sex. You feel frustrated by that- so it sounds that this abstinence is HIS choice. Because he i... (read in full...)
He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...
A. 23 May 2011: He is not committment phobic in general, I think- he is just being practical and sensible and knows that in these conditions he cannot commit and your relationship cannot work.
LDRs only work if they are temporary , and there is a precise , feas... (read in full...)
Why do guys get handsy in a bar when a girl is JUST talking to them!?
Q. I don't understand why when i'm at a bar and a guy approaches me he seems nice, funny and pretty respectful at first. But then he'll start getting handsy whilst we're talking, such as putting his hand on my waist or bum and it's like they do it ...
A. 23 May 2011: Because if they were interested in conversation, they would not look for it in a bar to begin with.
Like the other posters say , it's simply a pre-screening process of your availability. The fact that you don't dress provocatively and you don'... (read in full...)
He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?
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A. 23 May 2011: LOL, you remind me of once when I was riding a crowded subway car full of male teenagers all sitting- and I was standing up. I asked -politely- one of them to give me his seat, and he said : Oh,ok- I had not realized you were THAT old.
C... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my co-worker but I know he would only be in it for sex
Q. I don’t know what to do. I don’t have any friends to talk to about this, so I’m coming here to get help before I make a fool of myself. There’s this guy (I know, so typical) anyway, I’ve been working with his for the past 2 ½ years. I’ve liked him ...
A. 22 May 2011: Forget about labels, the only labels that count are those that you give to yourself, and I am pretty sure that, after the deed, you'd label yourself as a damn fool.
You don't sound comfortable at all with no-strings attached sex, so far you 've ... (read in full...)
B/f wants me to give up job to be with him
Q. Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. B...
A. 22 May 2011: My advice is to stay put, don't go anywhere , and fulfill your committment with the government. First, because it's a good habit to take, when you commit to do something, then actually doing it, it's a matter of integrity . Second, because it makes ... (read in full...)
What can I wear for swimming? I have huge legs!
Q. I would love to go Swimming this summer and my Best friend just put up a swimming pool in her backyard and invited me but my big problem is i don't do the whole swimming suit thing not at all, My issue is my Huge legs and i won't even consider ...
A. 22 May 2011: For lounging poolside you could wear a pareo, or a sarong, you know, those long wraparound skirts that you can tie in many different ways , they look so pretty.
But ... do you actually think of entering in the pool all dressed and swimming with... (read in full...)
Her told her to go hide in the basement! Does he have a girlfriend?
Q. I am asking this question for a friend of mind and she was at this guy house whom she sorta likes and he was about to take her home when a car pulled up. He then quickly told her to go wait in his room and then he was like no, go in the basement. ...
A. 22 May 2011: Well, normally two plus two makes four so I'd assume it makes four this time too.
Obviously, he wanted to hide you friend from somebody's eyes. And if this somebody was not supposed to know about your friend 's existence it makes sense she ... (read in full...)
Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?
Q. Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...
A. 21 May 2011: @Cerberus : I don't mean to turn this into a political debate, but I'd like to suggest that perhaps the 3 idiots you've met weren't idot because they were Americans, but just because they were idiots. Some things you mention are typical of various ... (read in full...)
He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...
A. 21 May 2011: It would only mean something if his parents or yours would strongly believe in Astrology , but...do they ?
Listen, leave astrology or destiny alone - our destiny is 90percent shaped by what we do, or omit to do.
He told you already- he is not goin... (read in full...)
Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?
Q. Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...
A. 21 May 2011: I am not a guy, but , as far as I know, I don't think your nationality can be such a big handicap in finding a mate, either American or foreign. Not all,or even most, American guys prefer foreign women, as shown by the millions of all - Americ... (read in full...)
He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...
A. 5 May 2011: This guy is meesing up with your head. Maybe not on purpose, maybe just because he is so in love with you that wants to see as possible the impossible.
The fact, is , he can't marry you and he knows it very well ( And, living in India, I am surp... (read in full...)
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