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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..

Ciao

Cindy

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He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

A.   29 August 2011: @krit: I suspect you are pulling my leg and benevolently making fun of me :) - but tks any way for the appreciation. No, I don't have all these PHDs but- the best teacher is always hands on life experience and , having a Muslim ex , and quite ... (read in full...)

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

A.   3 July 2011:  You are asking the wrong question. The right question is not "What does he want from me ? " but, " What do I want from him ? ". Think it over , then you decide. Do you want a platonic penpal ? Do you want to play Romeo and Juliet for a... (read in full...)

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

A.   26 May 2011:  He wants to waste your time and make a fool out of you. He wants to have his cake and keep it too. He may have real feelings of love for you, perhaps , ( I doubt it, because true love is not so selfish ) but he knows he is not going to marr... (read in full...)

Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?

Q.   Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...

A.   23 May 2011:  Then I guess you'll just have to be patient, stay positive .. and be yourself. Don't shove your Americanity down people's throat like those girls whom Cerberus mentioned, but don't feel embarassed or apologetic about your ethnicity / nationality. ... (read in full...)

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

A.   23 May 2011:  He is not committment phobic in general, I think- he is just being practical and sensible and knows that in these conditions he cannot commit and your relationship cannot work. LDRs only work if they are temporary , and there is a precise , feas... (read in full...)

Her told her to go hide in the basement! Does he have a girlfriend?

Q.   I am asking this question for a friend of mind and she was at this guy house whom she sorta likes and he was about to take her home when a car pulled up. He then quickly told her to go wait in his room and then he was like no, go in the basement. ...

A.   22 May 2011:  Well, normally two plus two makes four so I'd assume it makes four this time too. Obviously, he wanted to hide you friend from somebody's eyes. And if this somebody was not supposed to know about your friend 's existence it makes sense she ... (read in full...)

5 months of dating and he won't introduce me to his family!

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother ...

A.   22 May 2011:  Uh what a mess. Short and simple advise : avoid it. He has a child, the child and his mother are close to his family so probably they interact often... and he, not only "forgets " to tell you about that, but even DENIES the existence of this kid... (read in full...)

I have too much hair!

Q.   Every since I was about 11 or so, I've been ridiculously hairy. Kids used to tease me about it but I wouldn't let it get to me. It wasn't until I reached high school that it really started to bother me. I have hair on my upper lip, chin and breasts ...

A.   22 May 2011:  This is a problem for your doctor, not for your beautician. What you describe sounds like "hirsutism ", and may be due to different causes , but most often to an hormonal inbalance. See your physician and / or an endocrinologist. ... (read in full...)

Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?

Q.   Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...

A.   21 May 2011: @Cerberus : I don't mean to turn this into a political debate, but I'd like to suggest that perhaps the 3 idiots you've met weren't idot because they were Americans, but just because they were idiots. Some things you mention are typical of various ... (read in full...)

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

A.   21 May 2011: It would only mean something if his parents or yours would strongly believe in Astrology , but...do they ? Listen, leave astrology or destiny alone - our destiny is 90percent shaped by what we do, or omit to do. He told you already- he is not goin... (read in full...)

Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?

Q.   Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...

A.   21 May 2011:  I am not a guy, but , as far as I know, I don't think your nationality can be such a big handicap in finding a mate, either American or foreign. Not all,or even most, American guys prefer foreign women, as shown by the millions of all - Americ... (read in full...)

Do I make him chose me? or his girlfriend?

Q.   Heres the story. He is my best friend but he has a gf that he has been dating since April 2007. We met in November of 2008. March of 2009 we were best friends and by June 2009 I was deffinately in love with him. We had always been close and he used ...

A.   21 May 2011: Hard maybe, impossible no. All you'd have to say at his next: " I miss you and I need you " is: " Not my problem ". ... (read in full...)

Just found out I am 4 months pregnant--and I had no symptoms! Is this unusual??

Q.   So, simple question to all the couples/moms out there. My boyfriend and I just found out I am near four months along, I had NO idea, just 2 random positive pg tests! So my question to you all, has this ever happened? An undetected pregnancy, or a ...

A.   21 May 2011:  I am not sure I understand what you say, if you took 2 pregnancy tests then you must have had an idea you could be pregnant, skipped your periods or have bled in a different time and quantity than usual, nobody takes pg tests just for the fun of ... (read in full...)

Revenge...

Q.   I read a question early today where somebody asked 'is revenge worthwhile' and the answers on there were very interesting! The main thing everyone said was that 'ignoring them and showing that they didn't effect you, or that they aren't a part of ...

A.   20 May 2011:  Yes, I experienced this and it feels good. Revenge is about power. When someone dumps you in bad way or betrays you, you feel bad because you have lost their love or friendship or what else is your relationship is about, but also because you have... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with me in not wanting a boyfriend?

Q.   I want to stay out of trouble,not having relationship with someone,and focus on my things. I do like chatting with friends and hanging out with them but not the kind of boyfriend and girlfriend. Sometimes it makes me mad that some of my friends ask ...

A.   20 May 2011: You seem to have a peculiar vision of relationships, a couple is not a prison, and not every man or woman is intrusive or controlling. Of course if two people care about each other, they'll be interested in each other's life,they'll want to know ... (read in full...)

Should I appologise or leave it glossed over?

Q.   Hi everyone, hopefully you can help me out! There is an awful lot of background information here but I think it’s necessary for the ultimate question which is whether I should revisit a dark time in my life to apologise, or leave it glossed over. ...

A.   20 May 2011:  Frankly, the best for you would be to snap out of this romantic reverie , stop gazing at your navel, and focusing more on your stUdies, friends, hobbies, because if you can devote so much thought to this episode , it means you've got too much time ... (read in full...)

I want her so crazy it is driving me crazy. Should I go after her?

Q.   Ok I am an 18 year old male, and met a hot 16 year old female. She is super sexy, and fiesty, and the chemistry is on between us. I accidently saw a pic of her nude, and it turned me on out of this world. Should I go after her and have wild sex all ...

A.   20 May 2011:  I would not do that. If nothing else because she is under age and you are not. Suppose something goes wrong ( she gets mad at you, her dad gets mad at you ...) they can press charges and it can get real ugly. ... (read in full...)

Our stormy past has isolated him from my family!

Q.   I have been with my partner for two half years,we are both fifty,we are very young looking and young minded. We get on so well together, we never argue, he is my true soul mate,before me, he was single for 14years, so his life has been women and the ...

A.   20 May 2011:  Wow wow wow. A KNIFE to your throat ? A black c**t? Girlfriend, put your head under the cold water tap and come to your senses. Physical violence should be a relationship deal breaker on principle, and in this case how do you know that next tim... (read in full...)

Does love trump progression in a relationship?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we are now 27 years old. We currently do not live together, I live at home because I just finished university, and since he dropped out of highschool, the job he has does not give him enough money to ...

A.   20 May 2011:  I am afraid that you'd better move on. The problem with ultimatums, is that you have to back them up, otherwise you are making the situation worse ,not better. He was supposed to do certain things by May 24th ,he didn't and said "sorry". If now ... (read in full...)

Would you rather like someone too much, or have them like you too much?

Q.   A hypothetical question: Would you rather date someone who you really liked but they weren't so into you? Or someone who you weren't really into but they really liked you? This is a real life situation I'm in right now, so thanks so much fo...

A.   20 May 2011:  I've been in both situations and since the first can be really painful, I'd say the second, at least you get your ego stroked a bit. But, since neither is a good situation, if this is a choice that you have to make between guy A and guy B, I'd ... (read in full...)

Do I make him chose me? or his girlfriend?

Q.   Heres the story. He is my best friend but he has a gf that he has been dating since April 2007. We met in November of 2008. March of 2009 we were best friends and by June 2009 I was deffinately in love with him. We had always been close and he used ...

A.   20 May 2011:  Are you sure you can make him choose ? You haven't been exactly subtle so far, you have abundantly made clear your love for him, by letter and in person,and.. nothing has happened. In fact, he told you he did not want to throw away 2.5 years with... (read in full...)

My ex's daughter wants to live with me

Q.   My partner and I have split up amicably. I have just heard from her daughter that she wants me to live with her. I do know now that she wants me as a sexually active partner. It transpires that we have the same needs and desires. The age difference ...

A.   19 May 2011:  You could try writing to Woody Allen, he will know for sure. I remember Mia Farrow was not so happy about it, though.... (read in full...)

She refused to shave after eveything I do for her...

Q.   Dear fellow readers, I have found myself stuck in a very fragile situation and I am in need of some serious, thought out advice. I am 16 and have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and I have hit a brick wall. A few weeks ago I ask her to ...

A.   19 May 2011:  What do you do now Josh ? You pray, LOL ! You pray that your gf is not proud, touchy , vindictive or one that does not suffers fools gladly, because if she is, your " the next time we do sexual things is when I think you deserve it " is more... (read in full...)

Ideas for new things to do?

Q.   im 18/f hes 19/m well i have significant feelings for my bestfriend and were hanging out at his house again tomorrow, except this time we have no idea what to do. everytime i go over his house we play video games, watch movies, go for walks, pl...

A.   19 May 2011: - buy a dance DVd and learn the steps - salsa, tango, ballroom dancing, anything ! - if you like animals go to see a dog breeds exhibition, or a cat exhibition, or horses. - Vintage fairs and garage sales - take your camera with you and hunt... (read in full...)

Friends and drinking?

Q.   This may seem like an odd problem but...no matter how much I drink I just cannot get drunk! I started university last year and before that thanks to the friends I had and a fairly strict upbringing I'd never really drank alcohol in large amounts. My ...

A.   19 May 2011:  Funny, that's precisely what made me a non drinker. I don't see it like a bad thing at all. When I was younger I'd try to keep up with, in fact to outdo, my drinking friends. But there must be something strange in the way I metabolize alco... (read in full...)

My husband dictates how I'm to dress

Q.   my husband and have ben married year. for as long as ive known him hes been concerned with the way i dress. he dictates how i dress. im not allowed to wear short dresses or hot pants or low cleavage showing tops. he expects me to dress like...

A.   19 May 2011:  While I would not like , or tolerate either, on principle, a partner that wanted to decide what I can wear or not, I can understand how your husband may be surprised and annoyed by your need to constantly propose yourself as an object of desire ... (read in full...)

Don't women like to receive oral sex?

Q.   Me and my partner are in love for a long long time. The thing is that my partner gives me wonderful blow jobs but when I go down on her vagina to lick it she gets reluctant. She doesnt want me to lick her down. I wanna know the fact - dont girls ...

A.   18 May 2011:  Not every woman is the same. Some women do not find receiving oral particularly stimulating or pleasurable and can easily do without it.... (read in full...)

I am overcome with rage and anger at other women!

Q.   This problem is breaking my heart and I know that I'm risking being judged by writing this, but I don't have anyone to talk to about this! I'm originally from Spain but working in Cuernavaca, Mexico right now. I have a friend, and I had this b...

A.   18 May 2011:  OP, how come you are so mad at the undeserving tramp and are not mad at him ? If she is an undeserving tramp, he, who likes her so much, should be an undeserving womanizer or an undeserving pig for having chosen her, right ? How come you only ... (read in full...)

Is it a good thing or a bad thing to just have one child?

Q.   Im 25 with a 6 year old son, i always dreamt of having more children however i am adamant the next child will be born inside marraige. The problem is i am still single and worry about my son being an only child. By the time i find someone to settl...

A.   18 May 2011:  I had an only child and no, he is not a spoiled brat, nor selfish nor a mama's boy. If a kid is given ample possibility to socialize, and spend time with kids his age, he won't feel lonely , he won't grow up " strange" and he won't miss having ... (read in full...)

How do I go about finding a therapist?

Q.   So often the advice on here involves seeking out counseling or therapy. My wife and I have some sexual issues dealing with her lack of desire that she is not comfortable talking to me about. She sees herself as completely asexual at this point an...

A.   18 May 2011:  Check the APA ( American Psychology Association ) website. http://www.apa.org/ They have a Psychologist Locator service that lets you consider many factors in your search, location,type of your problem, spacialization, gender, age, and more.... (read in full...)

Is revenge worthwhile or just a waste of time?

Q.   I would like to know what you think about this question.. Is revenge really worth anything, or it is just a waste of time? ...

A.   18 May 2011:  Still mantaining my opinion about revenge, but certainly, hats off to you for creativity and initiative :)... (read in full...)

I am overcome with rage and anger at other women!

Q.   This problem is breaking my heart and I know that I'm risking being judged by writing this, but I don't have anyone to talk to about this! I'm originally from Spain but working in Cuernavaca, Mexico right now. I have a friend, and I had this b...

A.   18 May 2011:  You have already posted about this problem and all the Aunts advised you to seek professional help for getting rid of this warped, dysfunctional way of thinking. Until you don't change your way to perceive and evaluate what happens in your life, ... (read in full...)

Would a happily married woman want to know that she has an admirer? Or would it complicate her marriage?

Q.   Does a woman who is happily married want to know if she has a harmless 'secret admirer'? Does it flatter her, or complicate her marriage? If someone has fallen for her, but has no intention of ever pursuing her, does she want to know?...

A.   18 May 2011:  I'd say no, if she is really happily married she could not care less about admirers and she could even be annoyed that he's got the cheek to approach her.... (read in full...)

I read her diary and found out she was bi-sexual! Should I confront her about this?

Q.   I've been dating the girl of my dreams. I have been over the moon for the last 5 months because I have finally met someone who I feel real love for, and who loves me back just as much. She is gorgeous and kind and I truely have fallen head over ...

A.   18 May 2011:  Maybe it was a phase, but , if it's not, is that so terrible ? It's not like you found out she was a Satanist drinking babies'blood. Maybe are you thinking that she has double chances to cheat on you as compared to a heterosexual woman ?... Mathe... (read in full...)

Is revenge worthwhile or just a waste of time?

Q.   I would like to know what you think about this question.. Is revenge really worth anything, or it is just a waste of time? ...

A.   18 May 2011:  Waste of time. It can give you a short, temporary high, but basically it backfires because it only keeps your energy and attention stuck in the past and over what went wrong, fueling your bitterness and preventing you from totally moving on. ... (read in full...)

My LDR boyfriend is not paying any attention to me!

Q.   i m in committed ldr relation since 2 years. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me. At the night he calls only if i will msg him something. he...

A.   18 May 2011: Sorry, but then it's not a relationship, it's fantasy. You saw him 6 months ago, and have no idea when you'll meet again. How long can you keep this up ?... Have you got any realistic, workable plan to be reunited within a reasonable time fra... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

Q.   I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...

A.   18 May 2011:  Iknew That ! "Friends " is never wrong :)... (read in full...)

Can you really ever stop loving someone?

Q.   Can you really get over someone and love another person? I ask because I am in my first relationship with a man, and I love him SO much I cannot imagine loving anyone like him ever again. However, he i much older and has had a long term relationship ...

A.   17 May 2011:  Of course they do ! With divorce rates over 50%, what do you think, that all these divorced people still carry a torch for their ex spouse, or that all of them got married the first time just for practice, without feeling love ?... The trut... (read in full...)

Can I trust his feelings or does he propose just to make me happy?

Q.   I've been living together with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other and are very serious with this relationship. Last christmas I asked him to marry me and eventhough he said yes, he later the same week didn't seem comforatable with it. ...

A.   17 May 2011:  This poor guy, he can't win . If he says he does not want to marry you , you get upset, if he says he DOES want to marry you... you get upset even more :) So, what do you want him to do ? I know , you wanted him to propose AND you wanted i... (read in full...)

When a girl stops giving oral does it mean they are no longer into you?

Q.   Hi Just looking for some advice really Ive been with my partner for nearly three years now, things are great except for one aspect. We still have sex regularly, but the oral sex (from her) has gone from frequently to hardly ever- even as...

A.   17 May 2011:  I would not call it a bait-and-switch...if it is , it is in good faith. At the begininning of a relationship, whatever geneder you are, you always want to impress your partner and show them how great you are and all the cool things you can ... (read in full...)

Is there any point in telling these roommates just how inconsiderate they are?

Q.   sp im at uni in london living with my boyfriend and another couple who were once good friends to us. They have become un-friends because things just change when you live together. We have had arguments throughout the year on pulling weight and how ...

A.   17 May 2011:  No. No point at all. You can say of course, hey guys, keep the noise down, I am studying here . But save the speech aboung being considerate and pulling their weight. If you haven't convinced them in a year !...... (read in full...)

My mum split us up, but I still love him one year later! Should I go to see him?

Q.   I fell in love with this guy that changed my entire life! he made me believe my dreams were going to come true he made me the happiest girl in the world hes something god brought me!(tears) he loved me too I felt it deep in my heart !we lasted 8 ...

A.   17 May 2011:  You are contraddicting yourself. You say that your mom lets you do all you want, but in fact she does not, she separated you from this boy and prevented you from seeing him. That , IMO, means A) that she does not want you to be with this boy so s... (read in full...)

The weight and height difference is getting in the way of us being together!

Q.   ok so im a freshman in high school so is he. we text a lot it seems like he likes me. the only thing holding me back is my weight. im 5'2" and 115lbs. hes 6'3" and so tall and skinny. what do i do?...

A.   17 May 2011:  I strongly doubt that , at 115 pounds, you have a big fat round belly. I doubt that your little tummy fat is anything more than a NORMAL fat layer between skin and bones. But supposing you do have a bit of fat belly - then ? Why , is he abso... (read in full...)

The weight and height difference is getting in the way of us being together!

Q.   ok so im a freshman in high school so is he. we text a lot it seems like he likes me. the only thing holding me back is my weight. im 5'2" and 115lbs. hes 6'3" and so tall and skinny. what do i do?...

A.   17 May 2011:  Why, what's wrong with your weight ? it's perfect for your height ! or do you think he won't like you because he's tall and you are not ? ... Naaaah..lots of tall guys actually prefer small girls. ... (read in full...)

I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!

Q.   I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love ...

A.   17 May 2011:  Women can be as bad :) As for infatuation vs. love, we could debate for hours and we could not convince each other,lol. My point of view is this : you can't say you "love" a person that you know basically nothing about - except that he has a ro... (read in full...)

Does it sound like my ex is accusing me? And what should I say when I respond to his text?

Q.   Right, so I went through a break up with someone called, lets call him D, I was heartbroken because I really did like him a lot, I was actually properly upset for a few weeks, like to the point where I stopped my studies and just stayed home in ...

A.   17 May 2011:  To me it does not sound like you think, at all. He is simply saying : life is a bitch, not only my parcel has not arrived yet, I also am without a camera now. Just text him back his tracking number. ... (read in full...)

I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!

Q.   I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love ...

A.   17 May 2011:  Repeat with me : he has a girlfriend and does not intend to leave her. Of course he "seems to like you too " , even a guy in a relationship still has eyes and, mostly, still is receptive to the flattering sensation of being drooled over. If he i... (read in full...)

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

A.   5 May 2011:  This guy is meesing up with your head. Maybe not on purpose, maybe just because he is so in love with you that wants to see as possible the impossible. The fact, is , he can't marry you and he knows it very well ( And, living in India, I am surp... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

Q.   I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...

A.   1 March 2011: Again, it's early . You only met in November ! He can't consciously and purposefully mean something by offering you a drawer - yet, it's a sign. Small but interesting. A sign of what ? Well, that he wants you to be a recurring , frequent gues... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

Q.   I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...

A.   22 February 2011:  I am more optimistic than Swiftone, who is probably too young for having watched "Friends " the first time around, or for wanting to watch the re-runs now, so she does not know about the well known episode where Chandler gives Janice one of h... (read in full...)

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