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anonymous
writes:When love enters the heart and it won't let go sometimes we look for every moment to rekindle the fire. When I man who has thought it best a relationship breaks it off with you and you are devastated. You wonder when he suddenly begins calling again using every excuse in the book to call . What is he thinking? If he believes he just wasn't loving you with a whole hearted love but more than a friendship love and notices you when the one he believes he loves with his whole heart. Do you believe that he really might love you but has a confused feeling of love for the other woman? His smiles in your presence, his warmth with his conversations with you, the calls that are so unexpected could it be he is feeling regret? Does he now feel that he made a Big Mistake and doesn't quiteknow how to make it right again? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
You are right, he wants to get back with you. Don't rub his nose in it. Be kinder than him.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (12 October 2007):
 Well, I know from experience; than men, (more specifically my self) tend to be confused, and not sure of what they want. However, if the man is closer to your age, that might not be so true.
I myself, even though the one I loved was right there, waiting for me (we're together now, and happily staying that way) I would always jump at any oppurtunity that was shiny enough to catch my attention, you know? I always felt bad, and always wanted to come back. Maybe it's the same with him? Don't take it to heart though, I'm only basing this on relative experience.
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