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I got drunk, was told of my behavior, now worried I may ruin trust.

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Question - (12 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A male Zambia age 36-40, *eej writes:

Hai aunty

i have a little problem that i need you to help me with.last weekend my friends tolk me for a drink,we hard a nice time there,but as we were comiming back i just herd some rumers that my brother in-laws young cousin was with my friend with one of my friends.as i riched home i found them and i was drunk by that time so i started insulting both of them and grabed her by the hand tolk her inside thje house still insulting.ealy in the moning the folowing day i was told how i behaved the previous night.aunt i dont know what to do coze if my in-law hears that it will be very bad.he trust me and he thinks i dont take alcoho.help me plize.

LEE

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

Say nothing and never do it again. If something is ever said, say it was something you regret and will never do again.

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

The best thing I can suggest is to talk to both of them.

Apologise (a lot) for your behaviour and ask them to forgive you and keep it quiet. I expect your cousin will be more than happy to keep things quiet as I don't think she will want your uncle to know that she was with one of your friends anyway.

We all do things we regret when drunk so perhaps it's best to limit the amount you drink next time. That way there's no hangover and you get to remember the fun you had!!

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