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writes:I tend to be quite stubborn about my life goals and consider anyone who may be causing hurdle in the path to be my enemy. As if achieving goals was the only thing that mattered for me in life. I sometimes spend too much effort in sorting out my accounts with whoever that person may be and no matter what, it is extremely hard for me to forgive someone. This has led me to live a solitary life, but i find it hard to change. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (12 October 2007):
You should start out by making just one friend and see how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): You're way to young to be this rigid!! Some of it could be coming from your upbringing, especially if your parents were perfectionists that set unrealistic goals and then insisted you meet them. Were you an only child (not used to sharing, and forgiving)? You need to work on your human side. Perhaps counseling would help you learn how to be more accomodating to others and less rigid, regardless of your life goals. Life was meant to be shared. Consider exploring spirituality. Centering yourself with God, sometimes helps us deal with the balance of life. Good luck.
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