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anonymous
writes:I was in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years. Very suddently my girlfriend broke up with me. When she did so she was balling and could only tell me that somthing was missing. I treated her so well, and am what I consider a great guy and very desirable. Everyone keeps telling me that she is going to regret her decision. I want to know if anyone has ever had any experience with a similar situation, and if they ever got back together with their ex.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
She decided that she could do better. Let her go.
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reader, elitzabeth +, writes (12 October 2007):
 You have to talk to her and ask he what really bothers her. You deserve an explanations. I would advice you to think back and remember a time when you were together and she may had mentioned something. Other than that , just give time to the relationship. Maybe it is for the best.
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 October 2007):
 You would think in 2 1/2 years there may have been plenty of time to discuss issues if something was missing. It sounds like something else may be bothering here. Stress, being overwhelmed, many things can cause this, but normally with other sources as well, you'd have at least some warning or signs leading to issues that may need tended to.
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 October 2007):
You would think in 2 1/2 years there may have been plenty of time to discuss issues if something was missing. It sounds like something else may be bothering here. Stress, being overwhelmed, many things can cause this, but normally with other sources as well, you'd have at least some warning or signs leading to issues that may need tended to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): How emotionally stable is she? If this is the first time you have seen her really lose it then I would say she is serious. However, if she usually seems depressed or prone to mood swings then she might be in a down swing right now. If that is the case she may change her mind. In any event, I would say you should give her some space to sort it out. At most you could write her a letter outlining how you feel about her, but leave it at that. She may need to figure some stuff out, but if she does and she wants you back then she will let you know.
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