Need a male's opinion, does my ex still have feelings for me?
Q. Okay, I was wondering if my ex still has feelings for me. We did not break up that long ago and there are subtle hints but I need other peoples opinion so I know if i'm just over obsessing or not. Firstly, his hotmail password used to be ilove and ...
A. 2 September 2010: people very oftenly
have feelings for thier ex's
we are humans after all,
try to make him see you chatting with another guy
if he got jealous than his feelings are still alive in some way as men get jealous only for girls who they have feelin... (read in full...)
I don't want to be just an experiment -- is he gay?
Q. Dear Cupid I need help. I have a boyfriend who lives with me. He and I met almost a year ago. We met on the job. He transferred from another store. When he first arrived at my store he was not very sociable and everyone thought he was gay. Perhaps ...
A. 29 August 2010: try to check his laptop or his computer at work,
if you find gay porn than the possibility of him being gay would be very very high,
also finding gay dating sites is a good proof about his sexuality... (read in full...)
I am in love with my deceased Uncle's wife! Is this wrong?
Q. hi everyone. i have previously posted my question but i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it. thank you very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single sin...
A. 29 August 2010: it is not wrong aslong as you are both of legal age
and this is not considered
incest by any mean,
you might expect some trouble from your mother and sisters regarding her the age gap tough
but mothers and sisters well always find something t... (read in full...)
Should I consider marriage to a woman if I'm probably gay?
Q. Hi I am a 23 year old guy and most probably gay. I am predominately attracted physically to men (like 90 %) with the rest for feelings for women :s I have not come out yet, and live in an indian, religous household where being gay is for...
A. 29 August 2010: you are free in your sexual life aslong as you are not commited in a relation with someone,
and when ever you make your mind about having a wife
i suggest that you see a specialest
as i personaly know many men and heared of many others whom ... (read in full...)
How do I know his mind and heart?
Q. Pls Any1 Help me to Know where my husband's mind and heart is?As he never give attention towards me not even touching me what will the cause be? Is he having other woman why dont he do sex with me now its almost 1 month or even more and he doesnt ...
A. 23 August 2010: if this only started one month ago
and he is caring for you and not being distant
than i suggest he might be facing some pressure in his work
as pressure in work well keep most of men form thinking about sex... (read in full...)
Am I gay or what?!
Q. I am a 15 year old male, and I am in high school. I think I am straight but I don't know. I have sexual attractions to males, and I think some males are hot. I look at it this way I would rather date a girl because I like the way a girl thinks, but ...
A. 16 August 2010: i am 34 and i am totally hetrosexual
but when i was your age i had some sexual feelings towards boys aswell..
as a teen such feelings are very common so dont worry... (read in full...)
I don't like sex at all!
Q. I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...
A. 12 August 2010: imo
your situation is quite tricky
because in a away you are lucky
as your saving your mind from running after women
and your mind is clear of thier mind games
but at the same time
you dont know what you are missing bub... (read in full...)
British women...
Q. Why are britsh women nearly always subtle... not like foreign women who dont beat around the bush (no pun intended) and get straight to the point.... would certainly make life a lot easier!!...
A. 12 August 2010: during my life i have met women from all over the world
and i can say that hitting around the bush is a common behviour in women just like blackmailing,
because women in general dont like confrontaions and theyd rather get you to understa... (read in full...)
I introduced a woman into our marriage and now my husband is in love with her!
Q. I'v been married to my husband for 15 yrs. Of those 15yrs we have had very few arguments. I thought that we had a good and happy marriage. Our sex has always been strong until a few yrs ago it started to get stale. I had befriended a woman 10 yrs ...
A. 10 August 2010: in my humbble opinion
get her closer to you and you well get them both
but if you continued nagging about her you'll find him running more towards her atleast in the begining... (read in full...)
What turn-on's do guys like most
Q. Whats the biggest turn on for a woman to do in the bedroom guys? (Wear sexy undies, nothing at all, get on top, take control, play the innocent virgin, scream... - ha u get the idea) ...
A. 9 August 2010: eveyry single man has his special truns on
some like innocense some like naughtiness soem like
a bet of roughness
try to find your Bf turns on and to it
because your the only one who can... (read in full...)
AIDS from Orla Sex?
Q. can u get aids from blowjob...
A. 9 August 2010: if you had an injusry in your mouth
and the guy had an injury then the possibility is higher
because semen and saliva and other body fluids doesnt carry the virus as much as blood
IMO you dont have to worry so much as i have seen couples whos... (read in full...)
Why would he keep pics of me?
Q. I know he still has pictures of me but told me he got rid of them all. Why would a guy randomly just tell you that he got rid of all of your pics and then only later to find out he at least still had one left?...
A. 7 August 2010: he is keeping the pics because you still mean something to him ... (read in full...)
Is his job affecting his libido?
Q. Hi Can you please help me win my husband back as we love each other a lot? but nowadays he is not with me totally lost he never keep attention on me nor he sleeps with me why? i know his work has alot of pressure as he is CEO of the transportation ...
A. 27 July 2010: from what you say it is very clear that his work effects his libido
you'd better talk about this wiht and arrange atleast a day or a half day in each week where you can be intimate and trust me he well try his best..... (read in full...)
Why don't guys reply when you text them????
Q. I dont get it. Why don't guys reply when you text them. He's my mate, we're good friends hes often said that to me but i sometimes wonder. We dont talk much online as i have to start the convo and when we go out together hes always really shy around ...
A. 23 January 2010: to make a long story short ;
Darling if he loves you he well text you back within seconds.. he well be the one starting the convo
it is as simple as that... (read in full...)
Married a year and only had sex twice!
Q. my husband and i have been married less than a year and im starting to regret marrying him, we rarely have sex in fact we only had sex twice last year and once the year before that. The thing is he spent the best part of four years cheating on me ...
A. 9 January 2010: there is a very important point that the guys didnt realy pass by..
you said that in the begining he was very interrested in you sexually and you had a great sex life..
what changed that ??
most of men loose interrest in thier spouses if they keep... (read in full...)
How do I stop this guy from texting me?
Q. So I just found out that this guy I've been talking to apparently has 4 other girls he texts just like me. I hate players and can't stand being just one of those chicks a guy can go back to. The problem is he won't stop texting me. And the texts are ...
A. 9 January 2010: tell him clearely to stop and that you arent interrested to him in any way,
and Ban his Number and let him know that his numbre is banned
but ignoring him well get him more and more excited... (read in full...)
I know all he wants is sex and I don't want to be thought of in that way!
Q. Seriously, I am not the type of person who comes off as being rude. I need to tell a married man whom I have been friends with for a year to stop calling me. I have ignored him but he just won't catch on. I've told him that the situation we are ...
A. 9 January 2010: ignoring him well get him more and more excited in you..
you need to talk with him clearly and honestly about exactly what you want from him and what you real expect form you friendship,
and during this talk you should be serious and put on cloth... (read in full...)
I want him so bad but he doesn't plz help :(
Q. My husband just can't get into the mood any more with me we have only been married for 7 months but b-cuz of my past and me being hypersexual (AKA nympho maniac), It just feel that because of our age difference (12 yrs) he want someone closer to ...
A. 21 December 2009: go and see a therapist
if he is in his thirties or his forties his sex drive wont go down unless he was suffering from a physical or pshycolgical illness... (read in full...)
I am taking too long to finish and it's making my partner sad
Q. Hi every one.. i am a healthy man and i love sex my problem is the time i need to ejaculate.. i have always been slow and it took me from 20-40 min of intercourse to ejaculte .. but since 4 months, the time has encreased to 50-90 min wic...
A. 17 December 2009: eyes wide open
it making both of us sad !!
i am not lieng some times it reahces more than 90 min... (read in full...)
I am taking too long to finish and it's making my partner sad
Q. Hi every one.. i am a healthy man and i love sex my problem is the time i need to ejaculate.. i have always been slow and it took me from 20-40 min of intercourse to ejaculte .. but since 4 months, the time has encreased to 50-90 min wic...
A. 16 December 2009: guy it is making my partnet sad more than me
i have always masterbated even in the early days when it was taking 30 mins..
... (read in full...)
Why is my wife not as tight as she was?
Q. I went away for couple of weeks to work, and when i came back, my wife was sort of lose, and before i went out, she was nice and tight. When i asked her why she got loose, she jumped and and chaged the topic and she did not want to talk about it...
A. 23 November 2009: as a man i know that most men penises have close widthes
but different lenthes
and because of this fact i think she was using a very big dildo for fun nothing more so dotn get worried
any ways if she was cheating (( wichi dont believe she did)) yo... (read in full...)
Is my female house mate just being friendly or is it more?
Q. Advice from woman please! female house mate! So here's the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key...
A. 22 November 2009: well my friend
she is beign friendly and i dont think she has any thing more for you..
because if she had some thing serious in her head
she would have out short skirts on or see through pajamas
while you are togeather in the house..
but as ... (read in full...)
Niece gave me BJ while sleeping
Q. I went to visit my sister while i was driving thru calif. We had a BBQ and lots of drinks. Well around midnight i went to bed and passed out. About 3 am i was woken up to a really good blow job but the lights were off. I was thinking it was one of ...
A. 15 November 2009: speak to your niece about what she has done in the right time
but dont ever tell any one else
and keep your mouth shut
becuase by telling people they might judge you for a sin you didnt make and they might judge your niece for a sin she is too y... (read in full...)
Help needed! How can I get over her past?
Q. I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now and everyhting was fine and dandy... We really felt we were in love with each other but we got into talking about our pasts and hers really upset me. She's young and has been with 7 ...
A. 8 November 2009: my friend you have to see this story from a different angle and what i mean is a girl with this past well mostly makes you feel great in bed because she has the experience for it. About her past... it doesn't belong to you and you can't change... (read in full...)
What do you think she's playing at?
Q. i am a man of 57years and work as a plumber and in the last 9 months have had a 21year old female working with me and we have been getting on like a house on fire but she has been constantly flirting with me ie touching my arms, gentle punching and ...
A. 7 November 2009: well it is obvious that she likes you and she is happy whith what you are both doing..
but if she'd wanted any thing more serious she would have got you to do it..
so dont put much pressure because many woman love to flirt, love the attentio... (read in full...)
I found out she cheated 2 years ago, now all she does is cry. How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi Guys, If your partner of 20 years cheated on you just once and you found out by chance would you forgive and forget. She is the love of my life and a great mother. Apparently it happened with a mutual so called friend. I confronted her with thi...
A. 30 October 2009: if you are sure she well not do it again
then just simply forgive her and let you life go on
but remember
you have to be very sure that it only hapenned in the past
and that she had stopped for good
because usualy when we catch people 1 time ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my mom sexually
Q. My parents got divorced 13 years ago, and so i was forced to live at my mums during the week and my dads at the weekends. About 8 years ago, i needed to get a glass from the cupboard, but my mum was standing on the worktop in the way cleaning the ...
A. 26 October 2009: what you are facing is natural but never try to get out of the world of fantasies.. many men had dreamed about thier mums,sisters,aunties during thier teens but dont try to excercise these fantasies in real life because it wel put you in allot of ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a broken heart to heal?
Q. im still not over my ex and its been nearly a year and a half since he dumped he i feel like im falling for him mre which is bad i no i cant he dont like me like dat. I've tried everything nothing seems to work. He cant understand why i got so ...
A. 26 October 2009: dont send no good bye texts or any thing else
just leave and leave for good... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a broken heart to heal?
Q. im still not over my ex and its been nearly a year and a half since he dumped he i feel like im falling for him mre which is bad i no i cant he dont like me like dat. I've tried everything nothing seems to work. He cant understand why i got so ...
A. 26 October 2009: it varies from person to person usualy arround a year or two..but nothing completely cures love like falling in love again... (read in full...)
How to revive a cold, evasive, and cheating wife?
Q. How to revive cold, evasive, cheating wife of 15 years? A little history. Been married for 15 years. Two kids 11 and 13. Wife 47, me 40. Marriage gone sideways/numb, now for the second time. Wife and I both grew up in environment where par...
A. 25 October 2009: you are blaiming your self too much my Friend
there is one word that explains it all
SHE ALWAYS AVOID KISSING WHILE HAVING SEX
this IS simply because she is thinking of someoe else during that !!
my dear friend i dont want to be harsh but
you h... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to love two women equally?
Q. My husband is an american soldier and I am an arabic women who he married and brought back from iraq. We have been married two years but have only lived together for 8 months before he was redeployed. I recently found out that he fell back in love ...
A. 14 October 2009: a man can love two women at the same time.. but isntead of bothering him with your jealousy try to make him come to you.. try to find what he prefers in bed and fullfill his sexual and emotional needs he well be back to you and might forget the... (read in full...)
How do I help him to bring this relationship to the next level?
Q. My problem is that i am 33 but i look like 20.it is strange because every one wants to look younger as i do but the problem is that i can't the guy of my age to marry him.i am very beautiful,successful and educated woman.till now i didn't date any ...
A. 14 October 2009: if you are beuatifull ,succesfull ,and sexy 8 years isnt a big gap infact i wouldnt date a woman 10 years older than me and i think allot if not most of men well share this poitn of view,just be honest with him fromt he very begining and be aw... (read in full...)
Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?
Q. My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear ...
A. 14 October 2009: if you bothered him he can easily hide what he doesnt want you know especially that the pretty woman and your husband are friends... but try to get close to her and assure that they are meeting only when you are present there withthem and speek fr... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my bestfriend, all his actions and friends, say he loves me too...all ..except him!
Q. Oh goodness, where do I start? So as the title states, I'm completely and honestly in love with my best friend. He and I have known each other since we were about 9 and there's nobody in this world that knows more about me than him. We're ...
A. 12 September 2009: tell him that you love him
and that all the signs shows that he loves you too
and if he denied try to get him A LITTLE jeallous once
i believe that would be enough to get him to the point !!... (read in full...)
My brother caught me masturbating, what to do about it?
Q. I was watching a quiet porn video on my laptop while masturbating on my bed with my hands down my pants (all clothes were still on). I knew that my brother would be coming home soon, but i still left my bedroom door open. When i heard him come home, ...
A. 31 August 2009: dont tell him any thing
just froget all about it, keep quiet and remember to shut the door next time... (read in full...)
Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise.
Q. I am a 45 years old and married for 8 years. My wife told me about her past affair when we were dating. She also told me that she is not a virgin. When I met her she was not that interested in me and after my persistence she started to get involve ...
A. 31 August 2009: dont bother your self with her past aslong as she is faithfull to you now wich seems true..,
infact because of her past you are innitiating a good sexual life !!,
soo look at the good side of the fact and throw the bad side of it behind your bac... (read in full...)
One night stand with someone I know!
Q. 3 months ago I got out of a 5 year relationship and he was my first and only. The other night I went out and saw a guy who I had gone on a date with once to a resturant. I will name this guy, guy B. Guy B had wanted to continue going out with me but ...
A. 14 July 2009: we all do mistakes Darling.. just release it and let it go for heavens sake !! and remember to keep your mouth shut ,be more cautious nest time and never do it again ... (read in full...)
Are married women more flirtatious than single women? This study has me confused!
Q. confused and need help.. lately i saw a video on the youtube showing a confusing study that says marreid women or those who are in a stable long term relationship are more flirtarious than sinlge women !! the study was made in a club and it ...
A. 13 July 2009: well thanks for reasonable illustration daneil Kc100 you have been discussing the video and not answering my question!! go to the youtube and search for the video your self it looked quite scientific to me and it used a computer to analy... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be bi?
Q. Ok i'm fairly young and for the past few month i have found myself being attracted to other men including some of my closest friends it becomes embarresing when we have to get changed after sports, i find my self starring and people often call me a ...
A. 12 July 2009: At your age most straight men have homosexual fantasies and feelings so think it is normal at your age to be a bit confused and I think your 100% normal... (read in full...)
Naked and cuffed to the bed and now wife won't talk to me!
Q. hello,I just got married few weeks ago we are on our honeymoon..one night I decided to be kinky after dinner and decided for bondage,my wife my against being tied;so I handcuffed my self to the hotel bed..she was downstairs for dinner,so I had the ...
A. 29 June 2009: you should speak to her and understand what is behind her strange anger,
you have planned and agreed on every thing and accidents do happen every now and then
and i beleive you dont have to be sorry for any thing... (read in full...)
What's going on in his mind?
Q. Hello all, I am having a long distant married friend.For the last 3 years he was insisting me for sex( We had kisses and oral, when i was in his city). After talking regularly with him i aggreed to meet him. he asked me to make his flight, hotel bo...
A. 29 June 2009: yes it is very clear that his wife came into his plans so he had to finish with her first... (read in full...)
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