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Advice please... Does size matter?

Q.   Do good looking guys fancy plain looking girls? Do tall thin guys fancy small heavy girls because I am 5ft2"....

A.   2 April 2009: 5ft2" is fine for a girl and from my experience as a man who travels a lot all over the world, I find most of men internationally prefer a bit over weighted girls to thin model like girls, because honestly those little extra pounds make a girl looks ... (read in full...)

Is he still physically attracted to me?

Q.   ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am but after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an effort with him so ...

A.   1 April 2009: i am sure he likes you physicaly, but he might have been buisy with another girl the last days, but i think your better rethink your relation with him becasue he doesnt seem to be serious any how ... (read in full...)

Any advice I can give my friend about her stupid man?

Q.   my mates fella realy gets up my nose. It sounds realy silly but her fella talks to her like poo if she forgets the potatoes or forgets his mouth wash when shes been shopping. he once never spoke to her for four weeks because she forgot the ...

A.   1 April 2009: sorry my dear but unfortunately it is not of your business, you never know if she was happy with that or not, usually when a woman loves man even if that man was trash she will back off any one who wants to help her ,and she would blame who want... (read in full...)

He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

Q.   My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...

A.   31 March 2009: it should cherish you that he keeps pictures of his decaesed wife, becaused it simply shows devotion,and it doesnt mean that doesnt love you?? but it is realy hard and devistating for a decent man to loose a good wife, he well never forget her a... (read in full...)

Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?

Q.   I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic m...

A.   31 March 2009: thanks to all those who repleid to me your advice cherished me and helped so far all the best and GOD bless... (read in full...)

3 guys but don't want to hurt any of them... Help!

Q.   I have major situation! I was fine, I had everything friends, family etc. I was single and have been for over a year but I was happy just being me and having fun. However, 1. My ex text me saying that he is being sent to Afganistan for 6 mouths, ...

A.   30 March 2009: obey your heart and dont forget your brain, in other words, hang up with whom you love or have unless he was unworthy "alcoholic,drug addict..ect" and tell the other guys the truth that they are fine but that you are already inlove with somone e... (read in full...)

Question for the guys: How long do I wait to give him a blowjob.

Q.   Ok so for sex, you wait about 4-8 months if you are looking for something serious. Hopefully by that time you have developed a close attachment to where the sex would add to the relationship. What about for oral and other kinky acts?? Do yo wait...

A.   30 March 2009: i agree on kellyxxx , and i would like to add, dont let any guy feels that you are easy because, no man wants an easy girl to be his wife because hard girls usually dont cheat ... (read in full...)

I lied to him and told him the baby was his... when it wasn't!

Q.   There is a guy that I met 7 years ago and we were never in a relationship.. but occasionally slept together. We had that "understanding" with one another I guess. Well to make a long story short of course I secretly had more feelings for him than...

A.   30 March 2009: love cures love, i feel sad for the messcarriage but it sounds like a good start for you, change your life,it sounds that you are beautifull because no guy would spend seven years having sex with a girl that he doesnt love unless she was gorgious... (read in full...)

Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair

Q.   Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is w...

A.   30 March 2009: though i wish that you would stop cheating on your husband, but afterall, the problem seems to be between your boyfreind and his ex-mistress and not between you and anyone, if your boyfreind wants to stop her it is his duty and not yours atall ... (read in full...)

Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?

Q.   I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic m...

A.   29 March 2009: emily.. she is not only teasing in that way that mostof women do when seeing a goodlooking man i know when a woman bend over infront of me for some time to catch my attention or when she shows her legs in away that appears inncocently in inttend t... (read in full...)

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