Since my wife's breast implants she has changed
Q. I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...
A. 14 January 2011: I smell something fishy
And I suggest that keep an eye on her until you are 100% sure of her faithfulness... (read in full...)
I am not sure if I can deal with her sexual history, should I cancel my marriage plans?
Q. I recently got engaged with a girl that i love, she is about 35 and i am 30, during our initial dates she did tell me that she had many ex-partners and also a lesbian sex with as many as 5 girls, everytime we make love i have to use my fingures ...
A. 14 January 2011: If she is honest to you marry her without hesitation
Be aware that her experience well often spice your sexual life
And tou well have loads of pleasure that many aren't having
Keep looking at the good side and remember that we live in the present ... (read in full...)
He got married! Is it wrong to still care about him?
Q. Years ago I meet this man that I was afraid to approach, over the years I never forgot him and he has never forgot me. When I finally got the courage to tell him how I felt and I always wanted him I found out he was a newlywed. But since that day ...
A. 14 January 2011: Being continuously in touch with some one you have a crush on well eventually envolve emotions and well leed towards an affair or at least an emotional affair with all the agony,the pain and the mysery in that path i say don't go through it because ... (read in full...)
Mutual attraction with brother in law that never seems to go away.....
Q. I have been married for just 2 years and I am absolutely in love with my husband. He is the most important person in the world to me. He still turns me on, makes me laugh, spoils me, and looks at me like I am the only thing in the world. He has been ...
A. 10 January 2011: see a counsellor ASAP
and make an agreement with you bil that you well cut ALL the conection with him once and for all
if you continue this emotional afair it well most probably lead to cheating and then eventually it well destroy the whole fa... (read in full...)
My cousin and I have secretly been together for several years!
Q. My cousin and I have been secretly together for seven yrs off and on,I tried to stop several times,but I can't Im in love with him and, he knows it. When i try to leave him alone he becomes so angry and mean,it makes me cry! I dream about it when I ...
A. 10 January 2011: imho
in many countries and cultures arround the glob it is very accepted and common to marry your cousin
if you love him this much and he love you this much
and IF IT IS LEGAL where you live get married to him
the community blames ever... (read in full...)
I'm best friends with a man who's wife is an adulteress!
Q. My best male friend’s wife has been cheating on him for years. I have not said anything because I don't want to get in the middle of it with them. I have remained friends with his wife up until she accused me of messing around with her husband just ...
A. 10 January 2011: if you have evidince about her cheating let her know that you well blow the situation against her if she didnt stop harrasing you
and if she didnt stop or threatned you in any way
do what you watned her about with outany hezitation
be aware th... (read in full...)
Is there any chance for me with women?
Q. I’m 24 year old and still a virgin and therefore I don't any experience of sexual relations with women. However I do masturbate occasionally. My worry is that, I cannot last long for more than 2 minutes while I masturbate. So, would it be same with ...
A. 8 January 2011: i got married on my twenties and i gave my virginty to my wife ,before marriage i used to masterbate several times each day and after marriage i never had problems in lasting long. In fact i last up to 40 minutes sometimes i have intercourse so i ... (read in full...)
Signs a guy is into you?
Q. How can you know that a guy is into you? I don't mean in love, just that he's interested (and not only because of the sex). I would really appreciate male answers. Thanks!...
A. 8 January 2011: the most imporant signs are the following
1-) gazing and staring
so he keeps checking you up when ever he sees you
2-) if he is not from the shy type he would try to start talking to you
3-) he shows jeallousy when he sees you talking to ... (read in full...)
Major mind games. Plz help!
Q. Married guy flirts with me at work. I am married too. He tells me he can't get me out of his head and that he has erotic dreams about me. He calls me, emails me and text me all the time. I would leave for him in a minute if kids weren't involved. We ...
A. 5 January 2011: he is not feeling guilty or hesitating atall
he told you that he deosnt want to affect your family
because he wanted to releif you from any pressure he'd might put you in and he wants you to react the way you realy feel
imho and from my ... (read in full...)
I left my wife for another woman but she chose to get married, what do I do next?
Q. This is a story about doing everything wrong....it is a story about two people and their partners. One of those people had a new marriage which is now at an end. The other was engaged and is now married. The story begins at the place where I wo...
A. 5 January 2011: again and agian in this forum i find allot of people suffering from their relations with people who has personality disorders like the b#tch you have at work
visit this site
www.psychforums.com
i think it well help you allot and i believe ... (read in full...)
Living with and loving a married man, how do I leave him?
Q. i'm in a relationship with a married man, and currently living with him. He is seperated from the wife,yet he communicates with her daily. he says we're just friends and he has several other sex partners. i caare for him deeply but I can't deal with ...
A. 5 January 2011: all of us feel pain when leaving our loved ones
so if you decided to leave him there is no way to fully avoid the pain, tough there are things that can make you deal with it like travelling abroad with a good group of freinds and getting your self... (read in full...)
He's a nice guy, but there's no chemistry. Am I allowed to be picky at my age?
Q. I am 50 years old and I met a very nice man online dating. We went on two dates and he's done everything right. He is nice, has a good career and great kids. But there is no spark. It's so frustrating. He's asked me to go on a day trip this ...
A. 4 January 2011: try to give it a try with him for a date or two
but if you didnt love him dont marry him
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I am falling in love with my dead boyfriend's brother
Q. I think I may be falling in love with my deceased father of my children / boyfriend's brother. It's been 2 months now and we have this connection where we both can't stand going a day with out speaking to eachother. He has been great with me and the ...
A. 4 January 2011: why not ?
in general he would be more good to your children
than any other man and i t seems that you are starting to love each other,
is there any thing sweetest than love to obey?
Good Luck
... (read in full...)
Expensive love!
Q. dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend....
A. 4 January 2011: imho
if you impressed her from the the begining by expesive gifts
you well have to continue this behaviour for the rest of your relationship time because first impression is a lasting impression..
so i suggest that you try to get to know w... (read in full...)
I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves
Q. Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...
A. 3 January 2011: imho
if you are not commited to any one else
have fun with her untill you find a real relation
then cut up with her
... (read in full...)
Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link
Q. Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...
A. 1 January 2011: as a male
if a woman sent me a PORN LINK
i would assume that she wants to have sex with me
because there are millions of ways to teach sexual positions with out sending porn links
infact if a woman was concerened about my sexual behaviour i w... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?
Q. Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republi...
A. 1 January 2011: it seems that there is a cultural gap between both of you and i feel that you are starting to like this girl more than a friend and this is the problem
because people tend to do what they are used to do
lets say she stopped her life style ,loved y... (read in full...)
People are spreading rumors about my fiance cheating!
Q. Other people are spreading rumors and accusing my fiance of cheating,They have also told him negative things about me. He said that he isn't cheating and it is causing a great deal of stress within the relationship. What do I do?...
A. 1 January 2011: many people are victimised by rumors
and the world is full of crazy people who'd love to hurt others
to be sure you must have some rational indicators and edvidence about his faithfullness
rethink his behaviour and hopefully you well f... (read in full...)
I said I missed him and he blocked me!
Q. I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely. I really liked tal...
A. 30 December 2010: i beleive there are two possibiliteis
1-) he is maybe thinking that you like him more than a friend and by his unnecassary rudness he is trying to back you off
2-) "and i do personally beleive that this is the real reason for his rudness"
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with other men and now I can't touch her without seeing them...
Q. I met this girl back in March of 09. We had a lot of fun and built a relationship for a month before having sex. Over the next year and a half we fell apart and a lot of it was she has a lot of problems with her self esteem. I really love this girl ...
A. 29 December 2010: you are leaving after 4 weeks only and regaining your trust in her well take much much longer your trust issues well put you in allot of agony and jeallousy during your deployment while you need to concetrate on allot more important issues... (read in full...)
Why do some men play games???
Q. why do some men play games?? they say they like you, u say u like them now the more u try to talk to him, the more he baks away but the more i bak away the more he acts interested...im tired of the circles..he knws i like him..we miles away right ...
A. 29 December 2010: this man seems like he has some psychological problmes he deosnt woth your time or attention get rid of him and find someone who knows what he wants and behaves like a man... (read in full...)
Hooked on these great feelings of desire.
Q. I am a married woman having a emotional affair with a single man 8 years younger than me. I met him on a social network. I told him in the beginning I was not leaving my husband cause he loves me. However, I have grown to really like him and think ...
A. 28 December 2010: This sort of feelings well most probably Leed you to cheating
If you didn't take a quick action against it instantly
Think of a way to withdraw from him if you don't want to suffer from the feeling of guilt and if you really care about your mar... (read in full...)
I caught her looking at me. What does it mean?
Q. Hi everyone I don't know if this is the place to ask this question or not but i'm going to ask any way I have just come back to the London for Christmas and new years and i meet up with a old friend of mine who was out with his FB (not face...
A. 27 December 2010: Eye contact = she is interested
And starting unnecasarry conservation is another sign that she likes you... (read in full...)
How much is to much orgasmic juices?
Q. When i have sex i tend to get the bed and the man i am with all wet.Is this normal.I mean its like i am urinating but know its not, especially if i am on the top in control.How much is to much orgasmic juices?...
A. 25 December 2010: Well
I don't know if it normal or not
But i am sure that it is very very hot
And the who is with you is a very lucky one... (read in full...)
Is it cheating to self masterbate in front of a massage parlor attendant?
Q. Is it cheating to self masterbate in front of a massage parlor attendant? She offered to do it but I wasn't comfortable with letting her. She encouraged me to finish myself. I enjoyed the experience, but i'm feeling the guilt....
A. 24 December 2010: well think it the other way
if your wife/GF got someone to rub her gentials
wouldn't that hert you and let you feel played on !
simply dont do it again and dont tell any one about what you have done
Good Luck... (read in full...)
My wife can't have children so she told me to marry her sister!
Q. 1 am 30 years man . I am married with good wife of 28..we have no child ... we consulted a doctor , there is some problem in my wife , so there is no chance of child .. my wife has one sister of age 23 ,my wife ask me marry her , whether i can ma...
A. 24 December 2010: if it is ok with your wife
and it is legal where you live
and you sister in law (wife to be) have feelings for you and love you
GO FOR IT !
you re such a lucky guy
infact i wish i were you :-)... (read in full...)
When your friend does something you think is wrong
Q. I have a problem. I have a friend who does things I feel are wrong, but when I discuss it with her she lies about it or says it is none of my business. But it bothers me so much, I have begun to ignore her. I feel guilty about it, but don't know ...
A. 23 December 2010: I personally think that you are starting to like this girl more than a friend
And i warn you she sounds like nothing but trouble
And again i feel like she suffers from hpd "histrionic personality disorder"
So try to get her of your head mate
T... (read in full...)
She cuts short her time with me (her friend) to see her boyfriend...
Q. Hi, Short and simply, I am a man and I have a friend who is a woman. She says I am her close friend, but she also has a boyfriend. Now, sometimes we are out together and she says she has to go because she has to meet her boyfriend. Or she cuts sho...
A. 23 December 2010: What she Is doing is %100 normal
And you should accept and understand it
Good Luck... (read in full...)
My Cousin's seduction strategies are working, now I want it
Q. I met my cousin for the first time a year and a half ago during the summer. She moved down to my state to attend college in the city. Long story short i realized that she has been trying to make attempts to seduce me. Trying to undress in the same ...
A. 22 December 2010: if you are interrested
it well show in your eyes
and i think when she undertands this eagerness within you
she well do all the necassary steps
... (read in full...)
Is my wife having an affair
Q. Hi, I'm married with 2 children(2 and 6) and have been together for seven years, we met at college when I was 16 and didn't get together till I was 21. Anyway in august I came home from work and my wife told me she didn't love me, but agreed t...
A. 21 December 2010: Her lunch with her boss without telling you
And her sudden change in behaviors like being so attached to her mobile can make any one suspicious about her though there is no enough evidence yet
If you know any one from her work try ask them abo... (read in full...)
Am I a Heartbreaker?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with a man who continuously tells me that he loves me. I put in a whole lot of effort to keep this long distance relationship work. I make sure that I am looking good and well taken care of from my hygiene to what I ...
A. 21 December 2010: If you love him why would you leave him
It sounds that you both are having healthy
Relationship and I don't find any reason to break up with him ... (read in full...)
Why would she say she loves me and then walk off with another guy?
Q. i dated a girl for about a 1 1/2 years, then for the next year it was like we were dating but without the title. She recently has broken up with her bf of 10 months in october. We started talking and hanging out over thanksgiving. She goes to school ...
A. 20 December 2010: with the sort of behaviours you are saying about her
flirty,manupilative,seeking attention from guys
she sounds like that she suffers from the hestrionic personality dissorder
i have personally had and emmotional affair with a woman who'd suffer... (read in full...)
Why would she say she loves me and then walk off with another guy?
Q. i dated a girl for about a 1 1/2 years, then for the next year it was like we were dating but without the title. She recently has broken up with her bf of 10 months in october. We started talking and hanging out over thanksgiving. She goes to school ...
A. 20 December 2010: she sounds like another manupilative b@tch
so get rid of her
you sound like a good man and you deserve better... (read in full...)
She is married but said she wants to marry me and have children with me, but now she has told me she needs some time! Why the change of mind so suddenly?
Q. Hi everyone, please help me clear out my thought. I'm apologize for it kind of long. here is my situation. 7 years ago, me and this girl were really good friend, always hangout together and shared all our up and down with each other. we both have ...
A. 20 December 2010: maybe she is going into mood changes due to her recent divorce
and maybe she found someone else
try to think the whole idea and try to watch her behaviour
so you can have a better idea
and to be honest with you
what she did with her 1'st husban... (read in full...)
Trying to date a real life celebrity... Advice desperatly needed. I think she is playing me!
Q. Hi guys, I'm in desperate need of advice, so please can everyone write a response... i'll be forever greatfull! My question is... am i being played?! And is it desperate to take the earliest date she is free? How should I play it? Back Stor...
A. 19 December 2010: This girl is playing on you
It is very obvious
Thatu
She is from the sick type who love to keep men running after her
While her mind is set on something or someone totally different
So let her keep the watch as a souvineir and let her out of y... (read in full...)
What is the price to pay for an affair when there are children involved?
Q. I have been married for 20 years. A month ago i found out that my husband is having an affair with my best friend. My friend stood there and let me confide in her while she was having an affair with my husband, in fact she was treated like family by ...
A. 17 December 2010: It's a new old story
The wives friend gets secretly jealous from her and chase her husband using the information that she knows from the kind hearted woman
I think you'd better leave him for good
He can come and see his children no problem with... (read in full...)
Is this guy trying to ruin our relationship?
Q. Hey all, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and then broke up for less than a month, and now we're back together. While we were not seeing each other, she met another guy and started talking with him. Even after we got back toge...
A. 16 December 2010: she is playing on both of you
get rid of her,
if she had feelings for you she wouldn't have fallen directly with new guy in less than a month from your breakup !
and besides the kind of jealousy that she had put you in
well always affect an... (read in full...)
He won't stop cheating and he won't leave either!
Q. I'm so exhausted, my marriage has been terrible for years but I am trapped in it. I cannot leave due to our 3 children (if I left we'd be homed in another town, I cannot uproot my children like that) and financial circumstances, whereas he could ve...
A. 16 December 2010: despite your whole story witch i sempathize
and feel for you
but i am 34 and i often find middle aged and even older women
very sexy
i have seen sexy women in their 50's and 60's
so age doenst realy matters these days
dont loose your confi... (read in full...)
While dancing with another woman, my boyfriend got an erection. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend needed to attend a formal dinner/dance event. Though I was the partner of choice, I could not get out of work on time to make it to the benefit. Instead, My boyfriend invited a friend to be his partner. Later that night, he told me that ...
A. 16 December 2010: you dont need to worry
sudden erections are very common in men
infact we can have an erection while praying !
in other hands a man who is honest and totally in love with his patner might have an erection wen seeing some thing good
or feeling... (read in full...)
B/f said he thought anal was gross and only did it because I liked it
Q. My boyfriend of 1.5 years and I decided to try anal a few months back. It hurt in the beginning but once I saw through the pain, it became very enjoyable to him. We were talking the other day and he accidentally said that he thinks anal is "kinda ...
A. 15 December 2010: if you are enjoying it he must be enjoying it aswell
keep doing it together and i think hell get over this gross thing for sure... (read in full...)
I don't trust my online girl with all of her story changes
Q. ok to try to make this as short as possible I am going through a divorce met a girl on myspace who is 19 Im 34. She lives in the next state over well we talked online and on the phone for a few months. And I have fallen head over heels for her. The ...
A. 15 December 2010: BE CAREFUL
she sounds like a manupelative attention freek
infact you remind me of a story i personally lived
and ended by putting me in depression
and finding out the the girl i liked
had a histrionic personality disorder
try to visit this sit... (read in full...)
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