What's going on in his mind?
Q. Hello all, I am having a long distant married friend.For the last 3 years he was insisting me for sex( We had kisses and oral, when i was in his city). After talking regularly with him i aggreed to meet him. he asked me to make his flight, hotel bo...
A. 29 June 2009: yes it is very clear that his wife came into his plans so he had to finish with her first... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my "monster in law?"
Q. My mother in law hates me, though i am the best son in law, (she even made some comments in the past). None of my brothers in law treated her daughters like I treat my wife and I was so kind with her as well. In the beginning she started the blac...
A. 27 June 2009: thank for the answer... (read in full...)
Supernatural experience
Q. I wonder ,if anybody ever had any very strange supernatural experinces? I had one, and it is weird to have someting like that, and not be able to know if it happened to someone else too. I had a strange 'visit'' in my sleep , when I woke up with a...
A. 26 May 2009: it doesnt sound crazy darling i had such exeriences my self,
but remember it is you who make your distany by GOD'S well and no one else,so just keep the memory of it for fun or it might help to understand something on day on your life,
but never ta... (read in full...)
He was staring at my butt
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster's age is 19, this is highly unlikely after reading the post. Hi.I know this kid he's rides my bus.And I want to know if you guys think he likes me so here it is.My story.The kid who rides my bus is soooo cute.He sits just across...
A. 24 May 2009: well if he is staring at you and especially at your butt
then i stronlgy beleive that he likes you,
no one would keep looking at a thing unless he/she likes it so much,
Good Luck... (read in full...)
10 year sexual affair with my cousin...
Q. My second cousin and I have been having a secret sexual relationship for about ten years now. The first time we had sex is when I was 14 and she was 13. Now I am 24 and she is 23 years old. We usually used birth control (Condoms) but ab...
A. 23 May 2009: to avoid any unwanted drama,
just tell them it was a mistake and it was done only once while you were drunk,
telling them hole truth well put in a big blame and well cause allot of rumors and well cause allot of trouble between both families... (read in full...)
Help!!! Confused about my sexuality...
Q. i've been getting erections when i see pics of men naked and when i see girls naked, i took a gay test and it came out that i might be bi-curious, then i was surfing the net and come upon this gay club in my town, i looked all over the website and ...
A. 20 May 2009: i have nothing agains gays
and i consider my self 100% hetrosexual
but when i was your age i had some homo fantaseis and enjoyed those fantaseis and as far as i know almost all hetrosexual men have been there in thier teens aswell
so for me you... (read in full...)
What does he want for God's sake?
Q. please help me with this, i have known this guy for a good while and l liked him from the start, we talk to each other almost everyday for hours, the thing is that.. i know that he is trying to make me jealous; talking about other girls to me. he ...
A. 19 May 2009: he surely likes you,but you have to be sure that he is serious and you aren't just a number..,he might be chasing other girls aswell
if you want to him to come for you make him jealous
look at his reaction and ask him what her realy wants from you... (read in full...)
Why has he lost sexual interest in me?
Q. What are the causes for a husband to lose sexual interest with his wife? Any opinion is appreciated....
A. 18 May 2009: to be more specific
there are two chnaces the first one is the total loss of the sex drive and that is usualy easy for the wife to nottice and htis problem has been answered in the previous answers
the second reson is the continuos rejectio... (read in full...)
What is wrong with sex between brothers and sisters?
Q. Ok I know sex between brothers and sisters is considered wrong by most people. Why? I mean if they love each other and make sure they don't have any children, what is wrong with sharing that love physically? ...
A. 17 May 2009: many people do have sexual attraction to their siblings
brothers having crush on their sisters or vice versa
but aslong as it is just fantasy and some teasing and flirting it is ok,
but if it evolved to something more serious it could be a very da... (read in full...)
Why do people stare at me wherever I go?
Q. When I go out with family or by myself, people look and stare at me like i'm an museum exhibit. This really irritates, upsets, and angers me. They stare at me for more than 3 seconds. When i'm at a restaurant with my family people just stare at me ...
A. 17 May 2009: to make long things short darling
you are extreemly gorgeous
no one would gaze and stare impretionless unless he/she is seeing something breath taking and very beautifull
good luck.
... (read in full...)
What does his body language reveal?
Q. When a guy can't make eye contact with you, what does it mean? If i try to make eye contact with him he just looks straight ahead and wont look at me when he talks to me or he'll look at me for a split second then look down quick. Then if i'm not ...
A. 13 May 2009: it seems that he likes you very much,
but he is very shy and waiting for you to make the first move... (read in full...)
Seriously guilty over having cheated
Q. I love my fiancée very much. Last month I went out with some buddies and cheated on my girlfriend with not 1 but 2 girls I met at the bar. I was really drunk and started flirting with a girl thinking it would never amount to anything, next thing I ...
A. 7 May 2009: if you are 100% sure that you wont do it again
and i think you should be sure of that !!
then never ever tell her any hint about what you did,
because there is nothing good about telling her,
she well hardly regain trust in you
an... (read in full...)
Email from the ex!
Q. Hi I just got this email from an ex bf from 2 years ago, a guy I cheated on then dumped, but later wished I was still with. I'm not sure how I feel about him today as I am seeing someone now. Some of his email seems like it is in code. Can you ...
A. 6 May 2009: he missed you darling,
and he must still have some feelings for you,
and he well continue to have these feelings untill he falls inlove agian with someone else,
trust me because i have been there... (read in full...)
Do guys date fat girls?
Q. would guys date fat girls. because i am short and fat and i just can,t get boyfriend they want thin,tall,cheeky girls not like me...
A. 5 May 2009: well the situation is a bit tricky
and to be honest with you i have seen many over weighted and fat girls who were very very sexy and atttractive and i loved to date them
,but we havent seen your physical apperacne so far darling
and therefor the... (read in full...)
Should I go to Singapore for my future or stay in Spain with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I live in Spain, am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 17. My father lives in Singapore, where I want to live, because I want to be an air traffic controller. My boyfriend is going to be an electrician and does not speak English. In Sing...
A. 4 May 2009: boy freinds can be changed,
but you got only one future and one life so live it right,
if he realy loves you he can wait for you to meet in vacations,
but dont ever let any one come between you and your ambitions and you uture,
i did it once long... (read in full...)
She's been through alot, I know she doesn't trust me
Q. My wife has had alot of problems in her life. She's been raped, sexually/emotionally/physically abused, was kidnapped by her father and put up for adoption, been in really bad relationships, and now has a lot of trouble trusting me. She loves me ...
A. 2 May 2009: as long as you love each other things can get better,
because love changes people
but you have to go counseler ,and get help because her previous problems may hardly effect your relation
and you have to be honest to her,
because she seems to be ... (read in full...)
He wants anal without a condom
Q. Me and my boyfriend have recently had anal sex for the first time(with condom). It was great, i felt no pain at all and he enjoyed it alot. We are gonna do it again this weekend, but he wants to do it without a condom and i dont want to. What can i ...
A. 1 May 2009: darling,both of you make a STD test and if both of you were ok and std free ,have all anal sex that you want with out the condoms,
because as every one knows bareback is more fun,
and i dont think this guy is desrepecting or anything because ... (read in full...)
He begged me to be his girlfriend but now I'm not what he is looking for!
Q. Hey you guys, Just a week ago, I went on a date with a guy that I had met on a dating website. He convinced me to meet him a Saturday evening (9:30 pm- which is quite late for me normally). Anyway, I made it safely and we met. We hung out with hi...
A. 28 April 2009: you want the truth,
by claiming that the sex that you had was good
though you didnt have any sex, clears many things
u c all what this guy was after was sex,
and he left you because he thought that you are hard and far more better than him ... (read in full...)
Attracted to older women... is that a good idea?
Q. I'm a 21 year old guy, who's attracted to older women. My past relationships never worked out since I was dating chicks my age. So at this point of time I'm thinking of going for women older than me. Is this a wise choice to make? MOD NOTE: US...
A. 28 April 2009: well as you long as you both like each other and understand each other there is no problem about it, and it is better to let your parents know about it because some parents want their sons to marry younger babes (( incase of you relation with the ... (read in full...)
A YEAR and I'm still not over him. Please help me on new ways to try?
Q. Hi, i need help. I am so love sick. I pine for the man that i love. We were together for 6 years. My heart was his the moment i 1st saw him. For me i could never love another the way that i love him. It consumes me. He does love me but not in the ...
A. 27 April 2009: dont worry darling you well get over it as soon as you fall inlove with someone else as love cures love i passed the same situation when i broke up with my cheating ex, thought it was very hard and i continued lvoing her untill and never forgot for... (read in full...)
Is it my personality they are attracted to?
Q. hello all, well i will have to explain first before my quesiton so please follow :), okay im 18 guys with normal face and a nice body (178 cm,75kg). there are many girls in school who are attracted to me and not to anyone of my group or...
A. 27 April 2009: went throught the same problem when i was at your age,
especially that i am overweighted and therefor at that time i never saw my self as good looking or handsome
and infact i was and still very shy..
but later on i found that girls think that... (read in full...)
He is addicted to drugs but I still fancy him!
Q. Hello, I have posted a similar question asking for advice but this is what has been happening lately. Please feel free to read and tell me what your honest advice is because I am stuck and soon I don’t know what to do. Thank you. How...
A. 24 April 2009: honey you are only 16-17
as young as a blooming rose,
life is still ahead of you with many many beautifull choices.., starting or even continuing any relation with a drug adict is extremly dangerous...
rethink about your situation and hopfully you... (read in full...)
HIV test tomorrow and I'm really scared....
Q. im going for an hiv test tomorrow and im so scared i might test positive.my x bf was a player and he slept around,i found out he tested positive and ever since i have been scared.i have never had sex with anyone but him he is my first.please give me ...
A. 24 April 2009: congrats,
and never preform unprotected again unless u r sure of your spouse... (read in full...)
Unusual armpit fetish!
Q. About 9 months ago when I woke up in the morning my face was buried in my wifes armpit.I loved it since then I do it everyday.why do I do it or is this normal...
A. 24 April 2009: if you are having fun doing it and it doesnt harm your wife
continue doing it and have fun,
but be sure she has the right deodrent on
loooooooool... (read in full...)
Alone too long...
Q. I am a middle aged man who has let his sexual life become none existent. It has been ten years since I even considered getting close to someone. How long is too long without any personal physical contact or a relationship?...
A. 24 April 2009: ten years is not a little time,
but i want to tell you something that i am sure of,
some times things come so fast and easy then they well go as fast and as easy
but things that come after long waiting actually deserve all the waiting !! and w... (read in full...)
Does he really love me or what?
Q. I am a 32yr old out gay male, I am married that happened before I could admit that I was gay, she knows we are together for the kids, my problem is that I have fallen in love with this guy i work with he is 18 and straight. He knows how I feel and ...
A. 24 April 2009: many hetrosexual males , has some homosexual fantaseis especially at their teens, but it is excercise that shows their real oreintation, and from what you have said ,i dont think that your love is gay, he may had a fantasy in the virtual world, ... (read in full...)
Porn considered cheating?
Q. Is watching porn or looking at naked women considered cheating?...
A. 20 April 2009: no not atall ,
infact allot of men who love porn and never even thought about cheating on their wives,
so dont worry he is yours... (read in full...)
I feel really bad and guilty for not being there for her.
Q. Ok, I am 16 years old and I have dated this girl on and off for about 6 years I love her with all of my heart. About 6 months ago she told me that she was raped and I just comforted her for awhile, later she came out and told me who did it. It was ...
A. 16 April 2009: my dear your devotion to your gf shows good devotion, but never put your self in trouble tell your gf to tell the police and they well do there roll, but if you revenged be your self you well find your self behind the bars !! and y... (read in full...)
Are all guys like to have skinny girlfriends?
Q. just looking for body advice.. Im 61kgs and probably around 165 cms maybe a bit taller. Im not fat, im curvy. I like my bum i like that i have one. The only things i dont really like is my boobs, there a bit small but im not that phased. The th...
A. 13 April 2009: from my experience men internationally love and lust over curvy girls much more than skinny ones... (read in full...)
Dont know what I am! Should I come out?
Q. Hi, just some general backround info you need to know. 1.I'm a 13 yo. boy 2.I don't know if im straight, gay, or bi. I don't know what my orientation is, because it could be hormones, but I find MEN, not boys to be attractive, I also like girls...
A. 8 April 2009: sounds like straight for me, as in your ages some times you weel find your self fantasizing about different stuff, and you will fantasize about a girl as soon as you start have feelings about her... (read in full...)
I still love him madly
Q. i hope you can help me i was dating 2 and half years ago and during this period we broke up 2 times with no good reason but he kept on talking to me and telling me how much he cares for me and that i am someone special suddenly and for the ...
A. 6 April 2009: love cures love, for forget this guy as he seems playing with you,and he seems nothing but trouble trust me when he is off with his recent GF he well come back to you again,because you have been always waiting for him and welcoming him, simply he ... (read in full...)
14 yo and wants to know how to masturbate
Q. I'm 14 and I want to no how to mastervat! please help ...
A. 6 April 2009: put some lube on your penis and your hand
grab your manhood firmly,
and then shake ittell you cum,
have fun looool... (read in full...)
How do I find a partner with similar sexual interests?
Q. Here is a description of my current situation. I am 25 year old male with an almost insatiable sex drive and am very experimental/adventurous (for example, I am into BDSM, fetishes, etc). In my past relationships I felt connected to my partner in ...
A. 5 April 2009: get an account on myspace
say all what you want to say on it ,and what your sexual oriantations are,
good luck... (read in full...)
I thinks she still likes me! What should I do?
Q. hello all, im just writing about this little story and i want you to answer me... there was a girl in school who were attracted to me and liked me so i started to talk with her and getting to know her, But someday she said suddenly throug...
A. 5 April 2009: it seems like she is playing with you,
try to to get her to know that you have a girlfreind,
and wait for her reaction if she showed jeallousy then she likes you for sure,
face her and tell her,that if she didnt realy had feelings for you she woul... (read in full...)
Is she worth the pain? Should I trust her?
Q. My girlfriend has lied to me and has to me that she will never hurt me again. She hung out with other guys while was at home in bed and she said that she didn't want to do anything for the evening and she got really drunk with them. She also lied to ...
A. 5 April 2009: most of men/women who are used to cheating and to lying well continue and the possibiliteis that they might stop arent so high i am affraid,
get rid of her ond get red that weight on your shoulders,
their might be a dozen of good girls arroun... (read in full...)
I want a handsome younger boyfriend!
Q. how to get a younger handsome boyfreind when fat,ugly and short and in yours 30s+. is it hard to get a handsome younger boyfreind...
A. 5 April 2009: being fat and short dont necasseary means ugly,
i have seen many older women even in their 60+ i would love to date and have fun with !!
and i have even seen over wheighted girls who look absuolutlty fabulous,
ifact from my experience in life i ca... (read in full...)
Why do good things always have to end?
Q. Hi, well i was wondering and i don't think there is a right answer to this but how come a majority of good things end? Like everything will be going great and then all the sudden everything goes bad....
A. 3 April 2009: nothing lasts forever neither it was good or bad,
so enjoy your self when good things accur,and get over bad things because this is life it what happens with you happens with every one regardles if his sex,colour,religion,country or back groun... (read in full...)
Kindred spirits? He's already got a g/f!
Q. I am a bit confused after getting a telephone call out of the blue from someone I regarded as a friend . He called me from work to say " that he thought we were kindred spirits " and wanted to give me his mobile phone number . He has a girlfriend , ...
A. 3 April 2009: well call him,
and tell him clearly that you know that he has a girlfreind ,and if he cheated on his recent GF then the possibilteis of him being honest to someone else arent so high... (read in full...)
Bad things are happening because you don't follow your destiny. If you would, things would fall into place. Opinions?
Q. I have these really strange coincidences, and I don't know what to do with them. They are huge, and I can't just look away. But I'm not a religious person, yet I don't know what to think. Also my life is really crazy at the last 10 years, and some ...
A. 3 April 2009: well i am religious and i want to tell you one thing
dont beleive this people,becasue they sound like something from the ark ages !!
and i wonder what or wich destiny they want you to follow ??,hopefully they arent frauding for some reason! ... (read in full...)
What does she want from me?
Q. My girlfriend of two years started seeing someone else, I found out by chance, I walked away broken hearted. I wished her well. I never called him or used his name. We all work in the same building. This was sometime ago, and I have tried very ...
A. 2 April 2009: she wants you back because you are better than that whom she abondoned you for,
but never let her back to you,
because she well leave as soon as she likes some one else ahd she well know that you well be there on stand by waiting for her agian !!... (read in full...)
Advice please... Does size matter?
Q. Do good looking guys fancy plain looking girls? Do tall thin guys fancy small heavy girls because I am 5ft2"....
A. 2 April 2009: 5ft2" is fine for a girl and from my experience as a man who travels a lot all over the world, I find most of men internationally prefer a bit over weighted girls to thin model like girls, because honestly those little extra pounds make a girl looks ... (read in full...)
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