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writes:Ok i'm fairly young and for the past few month i have found myself being attracted to other men including some of my closest friends it becomes embarresing when we have to get changed after sports, i find my self starring and people often call me a faggotbut i am VERY attracted to girlsso i'm wondering am i to young to be truely bisexual? Reply to this Question
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Its very normal for people to develop crushes on people of the same sex in teenage years. With your body developing your hormones will be going crazy. You may or may not be bi but I doubt you can tell properly at your age. You can see if you grow out of your crushes on guys but if you dont then I think you could be bi.Dont worry.Hope everything works out ok :)
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (12 July 2009):
At your age most straight men have homosexual fantasies and feelingsso think it is normal at your age to be a bit confusedand I think your 100% normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Do try not to stare at other guys when you're getting changed. It seems to have already aroused (sorry, no pun intended) people's suspicions. The 'faggot' label, once acquired, is very hard to shake off and is likely to mean you have a very hard time of it in school.
It sound like you're bi. Lucky you, best of both worlds. Just try to be as discreet as you can when it comes to the gay side of things. I'm not saying this because it's anything to be ashamed of, but just for your own sake. I wouldn't want anyone to go through the sort of bullying I had to contend with at school. In a few years' time, your peer group will have grown up a bit, and they won't be as homophobic.
Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): I think it might be too early for you to know for sure what your sexual preferences are. At your age, you are still going through a lot of changes, not just physically but psychologically too, and those crazy hormones make life even more confusing!
You could be bi, or it might be just a phase, or even just curiosity. I would say give it more time first, and see how your feelings mature and develop. There is no rush to label your sexuality, and really, that's all it is, a label, a name. So try not to worry too much about it, I think that as you get older, your sexual orientation will become more apparent. x
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