Still deeply in love with the man I met abroad, but still have very strong feelings for my husband....
Q. I am happily married but went abroad alone and fell in love with a single man. He started everything and i fell so deeply for him, now he called it off without any valid reason. I feel like a bitch...please help. I am still deeply in love with him ...
A. 26 November 2010: if you still love your husband
get your self buisy with allot of activities with him
and you well get eventually over that man
and dont ruining your marriage for an unpredictable situation with a man that you dont realy know... (read in full...)
Does that count as cheating?
Q. my girlfriend was texting a guy and met him and even text him immediately after pleasing her is this cheating...
A. 24 November 2010: it is not cheating UNTILL NOW
but such kind of connection if not cut immediatley
most probably would turn into an affair
so i sugest that you convince her to cut this connection with this guy and the most important try to find out what make he... (read in full...)
He left me to be with his mistress and I'm still having a hard time dealing with it
Q. My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me and left me for his mistress. I am having trouble getting past this, there are times where I am ok but truth be told I am still very raw, Its been about a year and I find that there are times I want him to ...
A. 21 November 2010: it is said that friendship heals what love damages
and therefor i suggest that you spend much more time with your friends get your self buisy with social activities,
some professional help would heal allot of your problems aswell,
finaly do... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lives with another guy
Q. My Eastern European Girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We used to live together but because my job means I am now away for a lot of time time she has moved in to a flat with 3 of her freinds - two girls and a guy. She has addmit...
A. 20 November 2010: i 100% agree with baddogbj
espeically that alcohol is mentioned
your discomfort is absolutely acceptable
imagine your self living with three girls in one flat
wouldn't you atleast have a fantasy about sleeping with them
even if you didnt want to... (read in full...)
After being caught, how often do married men go back to their affair?
Q. how often do men go back to the woman they have had an affair with? After 17 years of marriage my husband had an affair with a colleague. He is a director of a company and it would be difficult to just leave, so still sees her at work. He swears to ...
A. 18 November 2010: when a man who is not a serial cheater get caught bloody handed with cheating he usually feels guilt and try's to
stop cheating
BUT would his misstress leave him alone ???
infact this is the real quistion
youd better keep popping at his work
and... (read in full...)
How do I end my marriage without the emotional blackmail?
Q. I have been married for nearly 2 years and have just busted my hubby for cheating. My husband is awaiting a transplant (kidney) and has numerous other medical conditions so we have had a pretty tough time including dealing with infertillity and his ...
A. 18 November 2010: people who love each other usually sacrificie for each other and what you did shows that you are very kind hearted lady
but his cheating is absolutely inacceptable
especailly with all what you are doing for him
finally if you love him give him... (read in full...)
Keeping this secret is tearing me up
Q. I met an old guy friend at a reunion recently. I took along my boyfriend who I love with me. When he was away getting drinks this old friend pulled me aside outside and told me that I was his first love and that he's held a torch for 20 years. He's ...
A. 17 November 2010: you are a very good and honest lady
but as humans we all do mistakes,
i say dont tell your BF
because telling him well put allot of unnecassary
pressure and jeallousy into your relationship
BUT simply forget this oldfriend and cut any contact ... (read in full...)
Retroactive jealousy and small penis paranoia
Q. i believe i have two issues that combine to ruin my life and my relationship. a relationship with someone that needs me more than I have ever been needed - she is so sweet and so beautiful - she has no one else to turn to or to be loved by but her ...
A. 11 November 2010: you creating what you fear my friend
while there is realy nothing to worry about,
and from what you have said
it is abvious that te girl cares for you
and she is happy wiht you in bed... (read in full...)
Big nipples vs. Small nipples, which do guys prefer?
Q. Girls have all different sizes of nipples and we dont really pay too much attention to it until it comes down to having to strip down and reveal them to boys..soo what do guys prefer...big nipples or small ones? or does it not matter at all? ...
A. 11 November 2010: tisha told you the plain truth
we guys care about skin tone and curves far more than the size of nipples... (read in full...)
My wife has never cared about me in our 20 years of marriage, and now I think she is in love with someone else....
Q. i am married for nearly about 20 yrs. but i have never found my wife caring about me. now she is in love with someone else i guess. help me....
A. 10 November 2010: i believe we need more details
aobut your marriage and about how sure you are about her affair
but if she doesnt love you and there are no children between you and her divorce her because there no waste of time such as living with someone who does... (read in full...)
I like seeing my friends cleavage!
Q. I like to see women cleavages so much a friend of mine knew that from other guys then started(as I noticed) to show me he cleavage in different ways ... sometime she bend over in front of me especially when we are alone and in other times she wear...
A. 7 November 2010: telling her well not get you any thing atall
infact she might deny the whole thing and trun it on you to embaress you infront of your friends,
why dont you give us more details ?
because she might like you and want you more then a friend... (read in full...)
I cannot have a woman - how I can get rid of my feelings for women?
Q. I'm a 36 old guy who never had a girlfriend,has never been friend of a woman and of course never had sex. I understood long time ago that it's impossible for me to have a woman(unless I don't look for the ugliest) and that no woman will never li...
A. 7 November 2010: see a counselor ASAP
because i have seen many ugly men date very beautifull women and vice versa... (read in full...)
Could my sister in law like me?
Q. myh sil looks at me now and then, and gives me the impression she likes me. when i dont go to her house to visit, she asks my wife, her sister, why i didnt go.she acts diffrently with me when no one is around than when familyh is around. could she ...
A. 7 November 2010: if you keep reading this site
you well find dozens and dozens of stories like yours,
and i believe yes she likes you as many sil's like thier sisters husbands
but it is extremely dangerous to get close to her
because as anonymous female said she ... (read in full...)
I want to hurt women the way my ex hurt me!
Q. I'm not proud of what I'm about to say because I know it is wrong and can never be justified so that's why I'm wanting your reinforcemt.I was played like a fiddle by my girlfriend and when all my strings popped she tossed me in the ally with the ...
A. 7 November 2010: been there my friend
and trust me the days well do unto her what she has done unto you ,
dont bother your self with hatred and evenge and find a new love
as love cures love and all the pain it does,
usually when a door closes a dozen of doors o... (read in full...)
My ex has a fake profile pretending to be someone else and he has befriended me
Q. My lover dumped me 3 weeks ago,he said he needed some space and time to think things out etc.I have left him alone but i am heartbroken, anyway he has gone on a website that i go on and he goes in a profile pretending he is someone else...he ...
A. 6 November 2010: it sounds like he is testing you, because if he is seeing someone else he would be far away and not bothering to contact you atall ... (read in full...)
The only woman I have ever loved doesn't want me to contact her anymore
Q. I AM A FN EMOTIONAL DISASTER! I am still in love with The Only Woman I Have Ever Loved, and while she informed me that she did not feel the same for me I accepted it and have tried with all my strength and know-how to respect and honor her demand ...
A. 29 October 2010: dont feel very bad
allot of us have been dumped even more than one time
in our life times,
thus we have found love again and lived out lifes happily,
to forget her try to take a leave ,travel abroad make your self busy with work, friends an... (read in full...)
Girlfriend moving to Brazil - She says she loves me but I need advice!
Q. I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a 24 year old woman for 3 months. We have done so much together and our relationship has been developing fast. We go on trips together, enjoy the outdoors, and just love being together. She says that she ...
A. 27 October 2010: the problem isnt realy about her moving abroad
but the problem is her sudden changing in behaviour towards you..
if a women texts you and calls you every day
and suddenly becomes cold and distant
mean's either she is passing some serious trouble ... (read in full...)
Why do all women give me dirty looks or turn away from me in disgust if I happen to look at them? Is a girlfriend an impossibility for me?
Q. I am 41 years old and have never had a girlfriend in my life because I am completely unattractive and gave up on women in my mid-twenties. I decided to concentrate on work. I belong to a photography group and work out in a gym two or three nights ...
A. 26 October 2010: if you had any female friend or female relative
ask her about this
and tell her how to improve your looks and your attractivity
usualy women tend to help lonely men to find spouses,
finally you can seek marrige from abroad using TRUSTY
dating s... (read in full...)
I want to ask him if we are a couple or FWB
Q. Ive been seeing my big brothers friend. At first my brother didnt know, but now its out in the open everyone knows. But now Im confused. We spend alot of time together. I see him almost everyday, he calls everyday, we text throughout the day. And I ...
A. 24 October 2010: sex is the index
if sex is the only connection between the two of you
then you are having a fwb
but if you both share feelings or developing feelings
and every one see you as a couple then you are in a regular
relationship... (read in full...)
We broke up because my boyfriend's brother moved in with us
Q. I have been in a relationship for 6 years, with a man I love and respect. It has been bliss, with very few real "fights". We've always had excellent communication, and have always able to reach compromises on issues we disagreed on. We were so ...
A. 23 October 2010: try to talk this issue agian with you bf
dont lose this relationship
because it seems a very sucessfull one ,
try to find options with your bf
because i am sure he is suffering as much as you are..
why dont you both try to consult someone you ... (read in full...)
Married co-worker keeps staring at me
Q. Hello. I am 30 and work in IT. I am married and have a seven year old son. I have always been faithful to my wife (and any previous partners) and will continue to remain. I am trying to figure out what to do about a married female co-worker...
A. 23 October 2010: from the details you have given i think
she abviously into you,
trying to avoid her isnt going to work because the nature of your work and because women usualy tend to chase those who ignore them,
so i suggest that you get your wife to know her ... (read in full...)
She got this odd text from another guy! What should I do?
Q. So at the beginning of my relationship i saw on my girlfriends phone a text that said "im craving you rn". i asked her about it and she said the guy was drunk and didn't know why he would text that to her. At the beginning of our relationship she ...
A. 14 October 2010: regardless of what she said
hanging out with that guy in the future again would be quistionable
youd better watch her acts and that boys acts at the moment before making any judgement
as there is not enough data to process so far... (read in full...)
My family want me to forgive my dad for sexually abusing me!
Q. I was sexually abused by my father when I was little and I kept it to myself until few months ago. I told my mother and my father's sister. My mother refused to believe me which hurt me so much. My aunt sort of believed me and spoke to my mother ...
A. 13 October 2010: what you have been to
is realy hard and i can understand your feelings
but forgiving your father well give you a big relief
and well give the great feeling of inner peace
as having hatered towords him well not change the past
thus well keep yo... (read in full...)
While separated, wife had sex with 5 other guys and I can't deal with it!
Q. I have been married for 15 years and last year me and my wife were separated all of last year....We have since gotten back together however while we were separated she has had sex with 5 guys...I know because she keeps everything in her ...
A. 10 October 2010: many honest women do the same (( as your wife))
when feeling abandoned or betrayed by there loved ones
but your feers are justified and you have to be frank about it with her and both of you have to deal with it in a rational way ... (read in full...)
FWB likes me as more than a friend?
Q. I sometimes wonder if my FWB likes me as more than a friend. What things do I look for?...
A. 6 October 2010: jealousy is a very big index that he has feelings for you,
and caring for your health is another
but please dont use jealousy so much because it tears the heart and the brain apart,
finally most of men dont connect sex with love
but some men ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my great husband with his brother..did I do it for approval?
Q. My husband is tall dark handsome and my best friend.Due to past abuse and other issues I have a severe (unnecessary ) prejudice against men, yet I somehow need their approval.I have always had sexual issues but my first husband was my first ...
A. 3 October 2010: you seem like a kind hearted girl
but with a self esteam issues,
i'd rather you seeing a specialist
to save your good marriage,
Good luck... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a virgin at thirty!
Q. I am a 26 year old female...I am pretty, friendly, have lots of guy friends....and most people don't believe me when I say that I am still a virgin. I mainly fear because I am overweight that no guy will be attracted to me. I used to be thin and fit ...
A. 2 October 2010: many many men love curvy and over wieghted women,
there might be something else that is distrating from you
try to think it out
i am sure well find a solution ... (read in full...)
Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.
Q. hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...
A. 1 October 2010: +1 on caring guy
man it is very abvoius that she is planning to cheat infact she might be planning for an orgy with her friends,
what she would be doing with 24 condoms at once ? !!... (read in full...)
I wish he could be more jealous
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really wish my bf was more possessive. Not in the creepy "he needs help"-sort of way, but a balanced way. I don't think he's ever jealous although when my friends text me a lot when with him, he jokes that it's my man on the ...
A. 27 September 2010: please dont ever use jealousy with any man
because it brings nothing but trouble and mysery,
as nothing brings a man crazy and out of his nerves and leaves bitter feelings as jealousy does,
i remember breaking with an ex GF because she used to ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is gay!
Q. About two months ago I discovered on my boyfriends laptop that he had pictures of himself. I thought this was a bit strange and went on to his email and went through his sent items. I then discovered he was sending pictures of himself to other men ...
A. 25 September 2010: i agree on youwish
as any one's choices of porn indicates his
sexual preferances and nature in most of cases imo... (read in full...)
Men with low sex drive..do you think about sex less often?
Q. To men with low sex drive: do you think about sex less than usual? do you masterbate to keep from having sex with your partner because you are not in the mood?...
A. 23 September 2010: if your man is masterbating then it is not a sex drive problem, it is most probably something in your sexual lives wich is driving him away from you.. usualy men who are extremly busy and workunder pressure have low sex drives and they wont even t... (read in full...)
I've never had sex because I'm not comfortable about my penis size
Q. Ok so I'm a 19 year old male, and I've had sex before I just never felt comfortable due to my penis size. Nobody has ever said that it's small or anything but a lot of people try it on with me and I'm always afaid that my penis isn't big enough. My ...
A. 20 September 2010: 5 inches insn't considered small by any means
no neet to worry mate... (read in full...)
My world crumbled when I heard about his former lover
Q. hello, I have been married for the last 4 years and am having a child aged 2 years recently i had a talk with my husband and came to know that he was having an affair before marriage and he also had sex with her on listening to this my world ca...
A. 19 September 2010: you said that this affair was before marriage
and i assume that you mean that it was before you knew each other
and therefor dont bother your self with his past darling..
we live in the present and build for the future,
and to be honest with you ... (read in full...)
I fantasized about my straight boyfriend being with a MAN.
Q. Hello all, thanks in advance for reading this. Me and my boyfriend have been in this relationship for a long time and it's been great. Our sex life is full of fantasies and excitement. He is very open minded, just like me and we always try new thin...
A. 19 September 2010: why dont you try a strapon on him instead ?
it happens some times that men turn gay after having sex with a male
so becarefull... (read in full...)
Seeing a married man ....
Q. I have been dating a married man for six months. At first, I didn't think that is was going to stick and I was just lonely and looking for friendship. He was very charming and over time I fell into his trap. I feel that I am doing the wrong thing ...
A. 18 September 2010: confront him my dear
tell him that you wish if he can fix the things wiht his wife
but you are expecting something serious with him
most probably if he knew that you are serious while he is not he well simply go away... (read in full...)
I love them both! Best friend? Or his lady?
Q. ive falling in love with my best friends partner i have know her for 9 years and we have always been very close with unspoken feelings a few year ago we kissed and we never spoke about it but we grew closer 9months ago we started a relationship . ...
A. 11 September 2010: have been in this forbidden love train wreck
before and i assure you mate it has nothing but pain and agony all the way,
lets assume she broke up with him and became your gf
do you think that she well not blame you for that atleast once in a wh... (read in full...)
Pain as the other woman
Q. I became the other woman quite by chance. My lover pursued me for many months. I did the right thing and sent him back to his wife and family. Now, I am the only one in agony. I just want to have contact with him as I did before, but he is very ...
A. 11 September 2010: My Dear
there is a wise saying
that says..
whom ever loved for something well leave you for it..
the guy wanted an afair
you stoped him with your wisdom and kindness and got him back towards his family,
then it is natural that he well loo... (read in full...)
Would you have a problem if boyfriend was still in touch with a Fbuddy?
Q. OK, just a simple question. If your boyfriend stayed in touch with a girl while seeing you, who you know used to be a "f*** buddy" would you be concerned. I mean, even if he told you they were just friends etc... would you have a problem with him ...
A. 9 September 2010: yes..
you should be concerned,
she wasnt his girlfriend
witch means there are no feelings involved between the two of them and it has beel all about sex... (read in full...)
My ex husband sent me a picture of his penis! is he feeling regret for divorcing me?
Q. after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child". and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!! he said that he likes to se...
A. 7 September 2010: sending a pic of his manhood
is very strange
and i believe he might be after you again... (read in full...)
I need to always have attention from men
Q. I have a need to always have attention from men. No matter what I am doing, or who I am with I feel like I must be the center of every man's attention in the room. It could be guys I know or complete strangers. I don't even care what they look ...
A. 6 September 2010: Darling
please go immediatly to therapest and seek help
because you arent ruining your life alone
as they are many lifes of many good men ruines rrouned you
and nothing hurts bad as a broken heart does,
especially if the man didnt do any thing w... (read in full...)
Need a male's opinion, does my ex still have feelings for me?
Q. Okay, I was wondering if my ex still has feelings for me. We did not break up that long ago and there are subtle hints but I need other peoples opinion so I know if i'm just over obsessing or not. Firstly, his hotmail password used to be ilove and ...
A. 2 September 2010: people very oftenly
have feelings for thier ex's
we are humans after all,
try to make him see you chatting with another guy
if he got jealous than his feelings are still alive in some way as men get jealous only for girls who they have feelin... (read in full...)
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