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*inkyjoey101
writes:I am a 15 year old male, and I am in high school. I think I am straight but I don't know. I have sexual attractions to males, and I think some males are hot. I look at it this way I would rather date a girl because I like the way a girl thinks, but Idk if I would want a male for anything other than sex/? Does this mean I am gay, or is it just a teenage phase that people go through. I haven't had sex with either a male or a female yet, but I am attracted to guys who are muscular and such. Please give me some advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (17 August 2010):
Well when I was your age I only had a sexual attraction to guys. I just started having emotional attachments to other guys in the last year. If you are gay it's difficult, but it's not the end of the world. You are at a point where most people don't truely know if they're gay, straight or bisexual. You'll figure it out. Just don't try to force yourself to swing one way or the other. It won't work and might be trying to be something that you're not if you try that.
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reader, CaringGayGuy  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Dear kinkyjoey101,
I would say you might be bisexual but it's hard to tell. Okay, ask yourself this does the thought of having sex with a girl disgust you or turn you on? Does a picture of naked girl disgust you or plesure you? And ask yourslef this again but change woman to man if all the girl ones plesure and men ones disgust you you're straight but if the both plesure you you're bisexual but if your plesured by men and not women well you're gay. But only time will tell but this is what I asked myself when I first thought I was gay I also explared the two kinds if sex by porn a good gay website is www.nextdoorbuddies.com but a good one for straight and gay is www.vidz.com tgeese is what made me 100% sure I was gay!
Hope This Helps xx
-CaringGayGuy
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (16 August 2010):
i am 34 and i am totally hetrosexual
but when i was your age i had some sexual feelings towards boys aswell..
as a teen such feelings are very common so dont worry
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 August 2010):
 well, I would experiment with both and then make your decision...Right now, i would say your not because your leaning towards girls more, but you just want to make sure thats what u want, i.e. why u want to experience with guys. U have youre whole life to decide!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): If I was going to wager a bet, I'm betting on "just a teenage thing", but no one knows for sure. My suspicion is that your mind is craving sex, and at this point any player will do. Odds are that once you get in a relationship with a girl, your sex drive will focus... but then again...
For now, quit worrying about it- time will tell. Follow your attractions and don't do anything dangerous.
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