I don't trust my online girl with all of her story changes
Q. ok to try to make this as short as possible I am going through a divorce met a girl on myspace who is 19 Im 34. She lives in the next state over well we talked online and on the phone for a few months. And I have fallen head over heels for her. The ...
A. 15 December 2010: BE CAREFUL
she sounds like a manupelative attention freek
infact you remind me of a story i personally lived
and ended by putting me in depression
and finding out the the girl i liked
had a histrionic personality disorder
try to visit this sit... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for him I just don't know if its love?
Q. i've been with my person a while, and usually i'm happy, but sometimes, like right now, for no reason in particular, i feel trapped. i feel like i'm being compromised, that i could be settling that there might be more out there and I'm scared about ...
A. 15 December 2010: try to write down on a piece of paper
the advantages of being with your man
and the disadvantages of being with him
think slowly and ask some experienced elder women whom you trust..
finally i say if you love him and he loves you back
and the ba... (read in full...)
Am I wrong because I feel uncomfortable about girlfriend's relationship with her ex?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together about 10 months now and the only issue we really fight about is her ex boyfriend who she is still friends with. Now, they only dated for a month or two and then decided to be friends.. which I was generally ok ...
A. 15 December 2010: your insecurity is absolutely understandable
many people revive feelings to their ex's
especially if the contact is intense and continuous
between both of them and ESPECIALLY if her relation with her ex was serious ( the had S@x )
you'd better ... (read in full...)
Its been a week and he hasn't called, should I forget about it?
Q. A few weeks ago, my roommate was telling me about a cute single friend of her boyfriend's and she thought I should meet him. Soon after, we met when a bunch of us (friends) went camping together and I was interested, so a couple weeks later I ...
A. 15 December 2010: if you like him and he's is single
call him especially that you have seen his interrest in you
it is very possible that her likes you but he is from the shy with girls type
God Luck... (read in full...)
Can a guy really love you if he upsets you all the time?
Q. Can a guy really love you if he upsets you all the time? I am trying to work out what to do. I have been seeing this guy for nearly 3 years now. We basically have a long distance relatonship as he works abroad and only spends about 25% of his...
A. 14 December 2010: i think he needs help
because i know that he is suffering from his behaviours swell
it is better for both of you to get him treated
for his temper issues
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I'm worried that if I keep texting him he'll think I'm a stalker!
Q. 3 nights ago I slept with a guy I met in a bar. Its the first time ive ever had a 'one night stand' sort of thing. Anyway, he asked for my number in the morning and we were texting for the next couple of days, but now he's stopped replying to my ...
A. 13 December 2010: eyeswide open
told you the right thing to do... (read in full...)
Should I sacrifice my love for my friend?
Q. My best friend loves a girl and now even i too love her now,but she really hates my friend to the core and at the same time she says that i am like her brother.Now should i let her go for my friend or shall i continue to be in touch and date her ...
A. 11 December 2010: aslong as she says that you are like a brother to her it is better for you to forget all aout her
becasue you cant make someone love you if he/she doesnt
and loving someone who doesnt love you is the biggest waste of time you can imagine
you des... (read in full...)
Why all the fighting over Facebook??
Q. Here's my situation... I met a man online, through a dating site and we hit it off from the first date. Mutual attraction and chemistry, and it just felt so good at the beginning. We decided to get off of the dating site, but he wanted to be fri...
A. 11 December 2010: imho
in the begining of any relationship
it is common with men to beocme overly jeallous with the ones they love
and infact i had jeallousy issues within the begining of each relation i had
and i am not a cheater
you have to talk it out
... (read in full...)
Her past is keeping me up at nights...
Q. My girlfriend, who I've Been with for nearly a year now, her past truly bothers me and keeps me up at night. Here's the story: before were together she went on holiday and had sex a few times, she says, with a guy who was a lot older than her she ...
A. 11 December 2010: it is something that happened in the past
you shouldnt bother your self about it at all
if you love her and she is faithfull to you
then let this story out of your head and enjoy
your time both... (read in full...)
Ex no longer interested. I need to move on with my life... Help!
Q. I had a relationship of 8 months with this girl, we loved each other a lot and we experienced together many things, we planned to marry in the future when we finished our studies. But a big fight made her take the decision to break up with me, i ...
A. 10 December 2010: time well get you over her
but nothing cures love as a new love does
forget all about her
especially that she blocked in a very rude impolite way
... (read in full...)
Paranoid about naked photos I sent of myself
Q. I sent naked photos of myself over the Internet to someone I chat to. I know this was really really stupid but the guy is really genuine and he did the same etc. He lives in America (thank God) and I'm in the UK and he doesn't have any other info on ...
A. 10 December 2010: naked pics of a pretty women well circle the world
and it is very possible to come back to you and your name doenst matter as you you'll find these pics under different names and countries !
but you dont need to feel paranoid
i personally would... (read in full...)
Is it too late for me? To have a boyfriend?
Q. I`ve been feeling really sad lately and could use some advice. I can accept an honest answer, although I really had to get my courage up to ask this. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I`m really scared that at my age it`s too late. I`m worrie...
A. 10 December 2010: 30 is inattractive ??
i had crush on women who are in thier fifties
while i am only 34
i am having a crush on woman who is 38 years old now
... (read in full...)
How do I make a straight guy love me?
Q. what do i have to do ??? i am a 16 years old guy,i am a gay and i really love a guy in my school. unfortunately he is straight he is even horny and pervert when it comes to girls...... the problem that i think that he hates me...he only calls m...
A. 9 December 2010: you cant make someone love you when he/she doesn't
and as a straight guy if i had gay friend
and i knew that that he is interested in me sexually i well simply run away from him
so take care... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? Help me interpret the signs!
Q. Hi, I am very confused :) My boyfriend of 6 months has contradictory signs about whether he is gay or not. Well he is quite feminine and sensitive and I have accepted that about him. I have thought that this is because he grew up with women only ...
A. 9 December 2010: the things that you said about him triggers more that he is gay or at least has some gayish behaviours
if he likes gay porn that is another big index
and to be honest with you if you have gay friends try to let them see him as gays know each o... (read in full...)
Was she sending me signals?
Q. I need some advice on how to get this girl in my class. We have this study room requirement where we have to fulfill a certain amount of hours or we don't pass the class and since she was way behind I offered to help her out. This allowed me to A)...
A. 9 December 2010: with little experience you can know
if a girl likes you or not by a simple look in her eyes
but this experience well come eventually over time
though we need more information to give you an accurate answer
but what she said sounds more lik... (read in full...)
Ladies, what do you think of a 40 year old virgin? No, not the movie.
Q. OK, here is a simple and straight-forward question for the ladies. I am going to be honest, and I want the HONEST truth, as you see it. I am a male, 39, going to be 40 in 3 months. I am a virgin. Mostly I am a virgin because I believe sex sho...
A. 9 December 2010: when a woman loves a man i dont think she'll never take care about something like this
Good Luck you are realy a Good man
... (read in full...)
Hate oral sex
Q. Hey my husband wants me to suck him, and i just hate suck i dont know what to do?...
A. 9 December 2010: try to find out what you hate about oral
and talk about it with your husband
you might not really hate oral it self but hate something
related to it
finally i would be really pissed off if my wife didnt do oral on me
because i do oral on ... (read in full...)
Is our relationship doomed forever?
Q. My current ex-boyfriend as of two days ago and I broke up because I blew something he said out of preportion and things got really out of hand. I said some pretty mean things and so did he. We decided to call off the relationship because we just ...
A. 9 December 2010: if you miss him and love him simply call him
and tell him
it is not considered begging darling it is love !!
it is a simple solution
that we make hard
talk about what you both like and dislike
and do it in a proper rational way
if you mad... (read in full...)
He is declaring his love on Facebook for a woman he hardly knows! Have I lost him for good with my stalking behaviour?
Q. Hi, I am new here. I am hoping someone out there will be able to give me some advice. Let me first just give you a quick update of past. I have recently split from my boyfriend of 2 years where we lived together nearly from the beginning. We w...
A. 9 December 2010: it may sound hard
but i believe that the pain and the agony
you'd put him in while he was jobless
has deeply effected him inside
some times women does deep emotional wounds
in the BF/husbands hearts with out thier realy intention or knowl... (read in full...)
Is the amount of phone sex we have normal? And is marriage a possibility when it is my first relationship?
Q. my girl and i have been in a long distance relationship for about 3yrs now. We're both in the university. We are sexually active and lately we've been talking for over 4 hours and we have lots of phone sex. Is it normal? And Do you think its because ...
A. 7 December 2010: couples in LDR do have phone sex
it is normal and marriyng your first love isnt rare at all
and if you think that you love her very much
why dont propose to get you even more close to each other?
and you relation would be more serious... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has got MAJOR issues, but I can't dump her. How do I get her to dump me?
Q. I dont understand my girlfriend , she is bipolar and christian she lives 2 streets away from me in a cold dark flat , she doesnt wash up and wont sleep with me in my nice detached house. I have just come back from a trip with her to her country she ...
A. 7 December 2010: we do all have feeling towards our ex's
so you jeallousy is very naturaly
but as most of told you keep away from her
if you have a kind hearted female coworker tell her about your problem and she most probably would help you and fix with with a ... (read in full...)
Does he want me to be a part of his life?
Q. First we start as friends but now it more than that we talk all thru the day he call me and i call him he's married and i am married. He is older than me, but i care for him, and he let me know that he cares for me. But he said to me he want me to ...
A. 7 December 2010: this situation is quite dangerous
because with some laughter and good events between you both it well eventually turn into an unwanted romance
a hurtfull emotional affair or maybe more !
so you'd better cool it down with him because i beleive it i... (read in full...)
When I get an erection it tends to hurt.
Q. Ok this question is a little weird hence the anon. But whenever im with my girlfriend and she teases me, because we dont wan to have sex yet but she loves teasing me, and i get well..ya know hard. It kinda hurts. But then, when its sponatneous and ...
A. 7 December 2010: i am 34 and when i have a very strong erection
it hurts me some times
i think you should see a doctor only if the pain is inbarable... (read in full...)
How do I tell my overseas boyfriend that I was raped and got herpes from it?
Q. I need advice. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a year. He is deployed in Iraq and a month ago I was attacked and raped. I'm so depressed since this happened and I also got herpes from this. I am completely devastated. I haven't really ...
A. 6 December 2010: telling him while he is still in iraq
well put allot of pressure on both of you
yet i believe when a man loves a woman
he wont leave her for herpes
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my OWN sexual history!
Q. Right, this is probably going to said really silly but hey! When I was abit younger I was quite promiscuous, and now I can say I'm ashamed of it, but now I am settled down and in a relationship and would never go back to my wild days... But for some ...
A. 6 December 2010: never mind your past
infact look at the good side of it
as your wild days most probably has given
good experience to sexually please your lucky spouse
all of us has done things in the past the we are ahsamed of when we think abou it at present
b... (read in full...)
I feel like this is what a real marriage is about, being friends and having a sexual attraction for your mate.
Q. I am a 40 year old, married, mother of two. I am very bored with my 20 year marriage. I have come to realize I married my husband for the wrong reasons (stability, maturity, and fear of loneliness stemming from my childhood). So, basically my ...
A. 6 December 2010: thanks for your honesty with your husband
and your problem is a very common one
people may blame you for these feelings but
i well never do,
at the end we are humans and sex and love is a very important and initial factor in our lives
and there... (read in full...)
He's TOO protective of his Facebook!
Q. My bf and I have gone out over a year now and have been thru ups and downs. I love him dearly and I believe he does. He loves facebook and is very active to a point I can not accept. He is very cautious and protective about his facebook, whenever he ...
A. 6 December 2010: many men and boys are protective regardign their facebook accounts and their e-mails yet they have never cheated on thier spouses
and you mentioned that you are already having jeallousy issues with him and that would make him even more and more prot... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend spy on me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for just over three years. During this time, he has broken the relationship off about 4 times. Every time this happens there is no warning. Things are going along fine. We are spending all of our nights ...
A. 5 December 2010: my freind,
i think it is clear that he has
a personality dissorder or somehow
if you dont realy love him leave him for Good
but if you love him confront him and tell him that you well not ever talk to him again unless he see's a counsellor
and ... (read in full...)
When we're away I miss him but when together I worry I wont miss him
Q. I am 45 and have been chatting with a guy from another city and he is 10 years younger. We've seen each other twice in the past 6 months and we've been intimate; but i am unsure of my feelings for him. When I am not with him I miss him but I w...
A. 4 December 2010: being close to someone you realy like usually turns to love unless he was a big fake and nothing as you have thought he is so you shouldnt be affraid of being close to him as feelings grow naturally Good Luck... (read in full...)
My Husband picks minor issues to argue about,. Why is he doing this?
Q. My husband keeps picking arguments about extremely minor things, he ususally does this when he's been drinking too much. I remain calm and I try to pacify him by either apologizing for the minor incident, I also have asked him if maybe there is ...
A. 4 December 2010: is he newly retired ? if so get him buisy with a bunch of his friends and if he isnt newly retired and this behaviour suddenly came out of the box he is either having pressure in his life and his behaviour is to relaease this pressure out ... (read in full...)
We dated for a month and things were great, then she disappears!
Q. I met a girl that was introduced to me by someone that had been trying to do so for a few months. I always avoided meeting her because I knew she was fresh out of a relationship, but I finally agreed to meet her after about three months. Even before ...
A. 4 December 2010: if you want something so bad set it free if it comes back to you it is yours but if it didnt it simply never meant to we know what the pain feels like but cutting her off your life is the best decision atleast for the moment if you got ove... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has got MAJOR issues, but I can't dump her. How do I get her to dump me?
Q. I dont understand my girlfriend , she is bipolar and christian she lives 2 streets away from me in a cold dark flat , she doesnt wash up and wont sleep with me in my nice detached house. I have just come back from a trip with her to her country she ...
A. 4 December 2010: solve your social phoebia my friend and dont live your life alone (( unless you want to befriend disturbed people )) make good bonds with people arround but and live your moment but dont expect much from people as people change over time and ... (read in full...)
Having a sexual relationship with my boss and my husband knows!
Q. I have been married for 13 years and have two children. In the last four years my husband and I have grown apart. We don't spend much time together. Recently I started an affair with my boss at work. We have only had sex once, but it was so nice. I ...
A. 3 December 2010: it sounds like you are a good girl
who'd her cercumistances put her in this strange situation
i say keep seing your psycharist and ask him/her
about the best solution to deal with your issues
but please keep your best friend away from you
becaus... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has got MAJOR issues, but I can't dump her. How do I get her to dump me?
Q. I dont understand my girlfriend , she is bipolar and christian she lives 2 streets away from me in a cold dark flat , she doesnt wash up and wont sleep with me in my nice detached house. I have just come back from a trip with her to her country she ...
A. 3 December 2010: there is nothing more devistating than being inlove or involved with people whohas personality dissorders
or people who are drug addicts
and therfor i suggest you should dump her ASAP
and try to find another girl or even stay along
as lonsome is... (read in full...)
He's 24 years younger than me, can this work?
Q. I am seriously involved, we are moving in together next week, with a guy 24 years younger than myself. We are madly in love, can this really work out long term? We have a lot in common, our values, hope and dreams are very similar. Any help?...
A. 3 December 2010: i say if you love each other and your both of legal age
live it and have fun
even people from same age group leave each other for various reasons
no one knows the future and therefor
live your moment have fun and best wishes for you and you bf
... (read in full...)
He said he loved me, now he won't even talk to me!
Q. My BF of over 2 years and I have had a tumultuous relationship but until recently, I believed we both loved each other. I'm somewhat of a hopeless romantic, believing love will conquer all. He told me last week he has met another girl and is very ...
A. 3 December 2010: ask him directly and confront him
because people take months if not years to move over someone they'd loved
so i believe there are one of two possiblities
1-) there is something in his life that might not tone with your life and because he l... (read in full...)
Women: do you want a bad guy or a good guy?
Q. Hello, i am hopin someone can help me here, prefferably a female. I know a girl whom I am attracted to but she is not interested in me just want to be friends. i am a nice guy. steady job, supportive, relaitvely stable, kind, et cetera. But she ...
A. 1 December 2010: it is not realy about good or bad
but naturally women love kind hearted strong men
and feel discomfort about pretty type soft guys
yet there are exceptions but i am speeking in general... (read in full...)
Humiliated by my wife's old lie!
Q. Hi, I met my wife back in high school and we got together the first summer of college 20 years ago. We slept together before we got together that summer and I knew she had had an encounter with a friend of mine after we slept together but before we ...
A. 30 November 2010: if she didnt cheat on you after you've become a couple
and you feel secure about her faithfulness now
why bother about her past ??
most women dont tell the full truth about thier sexual past
and we dont live in the past my friend
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Psycho Ex Girlfriend who won't stop messing with me, even tho the breakup was her idea.
Q. I first met my girlfriend in high school at a party and then we didn't talk until this year when she wished me a happy birthday via Facebook. We started hanging out more often after I got her a job at my work, which made work so much fun! We got to ...
A. 29 November 2010: many girls like to make thier spouses jeallous for various reasons, like the feeling of them being loved or the attention they'll get...etc
try to befriend another girl and see her reactions
wich i suppose would be one of the following
1-)if s... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex in 4 years!
Q. I am a 31 yr old male. I haven't had sex in over 4 yrs. I am frustrated and don't know how to go about approaching a female and go about even initiating it. I wouldn't mind a girlfriend or even a fwb. I don't go out much if at all anymore so don't ...
A. 27 November 2010: if you have any female friend or relative tell her honestly about your problem and she well tell you about the cons and pros in your personality and how to improve it
and she might even arrange you with a girl..usually women
tend to help guys in ... (read in full...)
Still deeply in love with the man I met abroad, but still have very strong feelings for my husband....
Q. I am happily married but went abroad alone and fell in love with a single man. He started everything and i fell so deeply for him, now he called it off without any valid reason. I feel like a bitch...please help. I am still deeply in love with him ...
A. 26 November 2010: if you still love your husband
get your self buisy with allot of activities with him
and you well get eventually over that man
and dont ruining your marriage for an unpredictable situation with a man that you dont realy know... (read in full...)
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