Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!
Q. There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...
A. 4 March 2011: why are you so concerned about this married man?
any woman well ban her husband or BF from a girl who knows that he likes her and instead of backing him off
she encourages him more and more..
if he has feelings for you it well continue for a ... (read in full...)
1 last thing before we settle, should I let him?
Q. I have been friends with my guy for over 10 years and we hooked up at new year, 2010. We are both in our late 30's and it feels very serious and we are discussing getting married and having kids. Basically he booked a holiday to Thailand before w...
A. 28 February 2011: If he has been honest from the beginning I don't think
there is much
To worry about
But be sure that when you get married you have to fulfill each others sexually
Usually people who are happy in bed live a happier life and tend to be more ... (read in full...)
She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would ...
A. 28 February 2011: This girl sounds fishy and her behavior is very instable get rid of her and look for someone worths your time
Good Luck... (read in full...)
My friend told me all men are really gay!
Q. Are all men GAY??? A guy who once had sex with another guy said to me that all men are gay, and that they just wont admit it, that they don't actually want women they just want to get off or have babies? He said stuff like they think the vagina...
A. 27 February 2011: Your friend must have been drunk
Most of men would give there lives for a vagina :-)... (read in full...)
How do I show this married lady that I am interested in her?
Q. My neighbour lady(36) is my relative and has 2 childrens. Her husband is abroad. She has some problems with her husband. She shares every matters with me and warned me to don't tell anyone. Every times she will show her cleavage to me by ...
A. 27 February 2011: This women is flirting with you and she likes what you are doing to her
And maybe wants more... (read in full...)
5 days ago he said he wanted to kiss me. I haven't heard from him since!
Q. I met this guy at a party back in October,he made it clear he fancied me,but i was in a relationship at the time so didn't take it further.I did like him though.6 wks ago i split up from my boyfriend,and have recently started texting this other ...
A. 27 February 2011: I think his past experience witch seems very very bad
Is still haunting him and he is afraid to approach any lady even the one whom he really likes
Give him some time to overpass his anxiety
And make him feel safe and comfortable when he approache... (read in full...)
How do you tell if a guy likes you through chats and phone conversations?
Q. how can you tell if a guy likes you solely through phone conversations and chats . . ? yeah .. its a long distance .. but forget about whether it will work our or not .. I just wanna know if he likes me or not .. and he is not a new acqua...
A. 27 February 2011: If he calls you allot he most probably has something for you
And may be he told you that he likes you as a friend because he is still afraid of ant commitment
We need more details like the rescuer suggested
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Can a married man and a married woman be just friends?
Q. Can anyone tell me why a guy would start to distance himself from a woman? We were friends for about a year but there has been some chemistry between us. Suddenly he is not talking to me anymore and avoiding me at all the places we would see each ...
A. 26 February 2011: about my advice and to make things clear for him
send him an e-mail
and be direct about all your feelings
AVOID hitting arround the bush or using indirect speech or blackmailing him
JUST BE DIRECT AND HONEST
tell him what you want from him
i... (read in full...)
Can a married man and a married woman be just friends?
Q. Can anyone tell me why a guy would start to distance himself from a woman? We were friends for about a year but there has been some chemistry between us. Suddenly he is not talking to me anymore and avoiding me at all the places we would see each ...
A. 26 February 2011: there is chemistry so it is bot 100% pure friendship
maybe he is avoiding you now because he doesnt want
these feelings to evolve into an affair
or maybe he loved you and after knewing that you want friendship only from he was disappointed... (read in full...)
How do I begin to tell people that I think I am gay?
Q. I have a girlfriend and a small selection of friends. I am not sure how to tell them that I think I am gay. I don't feel sexually attracted to any females and I do feel attracted to males, which is what has lead me to believe this. I don't want...
A. 25 February 2011: many straight people get attracted to the same sex when they were arround your age
i think it is still too early for you decide
Good Luck... (read in full...)
She was very promiscous in the past but with me she is boring in the bedroom! What is going on here?
Q. An interesting quote I found: "You do not need to know too much about her past. Behind the colorful fabrics, that closet has skeletons" I think i need to get this off my chest, I unfortunately don't really have anyone to discuss this with right ...
A. 23 February 2011: Some people are self centered
They seduce others to boost their egos
But in bee they are very boring because they only focus on themselves
... (read in full...)
I am still attracted to her and enjoy sex, but I don't feel like I love her anymore. Should I break up with her?
Q. Basically I have been dating this girl for two years now and she's the only girl I have ever dated. She's a great girlfriend but I just feel as if this relationship has ran its course. I may sound horrible but when I'm about to meet up with her to ...
A. 23 February 2011: imho if you dumped her you well regret this but when it is too late, according to you she is a great girl and she is good in bed ..why on earth would break up with her? instead try to stop seeing ech other for a week or two so you can revive y... (read in full...)
She just wants to be friends and I want more. It is driving me crazy! Should I leave her?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts, i am wondering if you can pls. help me with a problem that is driving me crazy. I have a friend whom i am feeling very close to. she just wants to be friends. but the closer i get to her the more i feel i am falling in love with her...
A. 21 February 2011: You have to leave if you want to heal
Make it clear and polite to her
And move away peacefully
Good luck... (read in full...)
Should I date a superficial woman who treated me like dirt?
Q. Hi, I'll get right to the point. I was for many years in love with a lady from my school. I told her i loved her many times but she thought of me as a geek and always dated the most popular guy in college, she took my love for granted. Well, 5 yrs ...
A. 20 February 2011: If you aren't attached to any one
Date her,get laid,have fun
And then dump her
I know my answer wont be appreciated by many but this is what i think is the right thing to do... (read in full...)
I'm 31, and I don't want a girlfriend right now. Why do others give me a hard time about this?
Q. Hi everyone. I am back and I've got a really important question. I guess all questions on this forum are important. It hasn't happened for a few months, which is good, but sometimes people insult me when I say I don't want a girlfriend. They either ...
A. 20 February 2011: This is what society always do
Unfortunatly it is almost unavoidable
And your worriying about it won't solve it but infect it well make it worse
Just make jokes of what people say and never take it serious
Good luck
... (read in full...)
Not sure what to think about wife's spanking-fantasy...
Q. My wife wants me to spank her before/during sex. This probably sounds like every guy's dream but there is a bit of a sinister twist that is making me feel a bit uncomfortable. When I asked her where the spanking fantasy had come from, she said t...
A. 19 February 2011: Have fun
And stop making a problem of a gift you have and many dont... (read in full...)
I asked my husband to be more romantic and he moved into another room!
Q. i kept asking my husband to be more romantic throughout our 9 years of marriage. 2 months ago he told me that he is too old to change (he is only 38 yrs )and that i should be thanking god for the good life we have. then he moved to another room and ...
A. 19 February 2011: so it seems that there is a missunderstanding
that blew up because of your nagging
any ways try to speek to one of his relatives
to tell him that you love him and that you want him back
and tell him what you want from him is simply to be mor... (read in full...)
I want my ex back, but she is dating my best friend!!
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and I still love her. I was talking to one of my other best friends and I found out that he is now dating my ex. I still love her very much and I want her back. I don't want to destroy my best friend's ...
A. 19 February 2011: the same old story
you have a wonderfull gf and you start talking about how wonderfull she is infront of you best friend and vice versa, eventually they start liking each other and things spice up the cling togeather and you find your self knoc... (read in full...)
Controlling husband makes me feel I need permission to have a life!
Q. Hi there thanks for your help. I've been married 18 years. My husband has a very caring side. Helps out around the house does some cooking etc. However, he has a very childish and controlling side too. I haven't been able to really have...
A. 19 February 2011: you must go for couselling
and to convince him or even force him to do this
let someone that has power on him and he trusts him/her
maybe his father,his mother or one of his siblings
a one that you both trust to get him to do the counselling ... (read in full...)
I am gutted. Is he fobbing me off, for doubting him? Or is he angry with me? Or is it over
Q. Been going out with my fella for 6 months now and we just had our first fall out - need to say sorry which i have done several times - don't know what else to do he sent me a today to say he can't come sunday - was gutted as i only see him once a we...
A. 19 February 2011: From his behavior, it is obvious that he is not interested in you at all. Best thing to do is to ignore him and ignore his texts. Good Luck... (read in full...)
I asked my husband to be more romantic and he moved into another room!
Q. i kept asking my husband to be more romantic throughout our 9 years of marriage. 2 months ago he told me that he is too old to change (he is only 38 yrs )and that i should be thanking god for the good life we have. then he moved to another room and ...
A. 18 February 2011: Are there parts of the story we don't know?
It is strange for a man to run for 2 months from his wife just because she wanted him to be more romantic... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I had sex with someone else
Q. I broken up with my boyfriend. He's thing is that he thinks that I had sex with another guy Friday. He texted me and I didn't reply because I was mad with him. He refused my explanation and terminated the relationship. I really want him back. ...
A. 15 February 2011: I think he has very very bad experiences with other women in the past
While I do believe that he well change his mind
Because when people get angry they usually say things that don't really meen
But if you intend to continue this relation i b... (read in full...)
I broke off the affair with an older women but now I feel badly
Q. Dear Cupid, I had an affair with 40+ married woman. I'm 20+ and single. After getting great advices from this forum, I realized it's not right. Then, I broke up with her. I stayed silent and keep away form her with no sms, no call. I even d...
A. 15 February 2011: your behaviour is 100% right you should continue what you are doing regardless of the pain
to get over her there is nothing like keeping your self buisy with fun loving group of friends untill you find new love and by then you well be comp... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I had sex with someone else
Q. I broken up with my boyfriend. He's thing is that he thinks that I had sex with another guy Friday. He texted me and I didn't reply because I was mad with him. He refused my explanation and terminated the relationship. I really want him back. ...
A. 15 February 2011: i think there are parts of this story werent told
i believe that he was jeallous from some of your activities and he reached to the point of suspecting any thing you do
and therefor he accused you of cheating..
any ways if this is the case
you ne... (read in full...)
Nude pics of ex found again after lying about removing them
Q. My current bf has nude pics of his ex. I have stumbled across them before on his computer when trying to find photos I uploaded. I had confronted him on this before because well it made me feel crummy and it seemed as thou he was living in the pa...
A. 15 February 2011: any man even if he is an honest partner would enjoy looking at a nude photos of a beautifull woman and i dont think he well delete them he just might hide them or upload them in a secret site imho if he is honest and you love him just get over ... (read in full...)
My wife is texting old high school friends
Q. my wife has been texting high school friends reunited through FB. One friend,male, she has been texting often. At one point I knew something was up and found the following text. I love the way you tasted. When confronted she said that nothing ...
A. 13 February 2011: It sounds that she is cheating on you buddy
Keep observing her silently and you well catch her
Because if you showed any anger she would be more cautious and it would be difficult for you to catch her... (read in full...)
She thinks she can still have all the care and attention from me but wont have to love me?
Q. i need help please...long story short,there is this girl(my second cousin to be precise) with whom i came close to for a while...we shared everythng, talked day and night, laughed at the world etc. she was sensible and understanding, but even more ...
A. 13 February 2011: The answer is leave her for good
It sound that she suffers from personality disorders
Due to a troubled childhood
You'd better know that she well run after you but not because she loves
But simply because she loves the attention you are giving h... (read in full...)
Should I ask him directly? He's a shy kind of guy
Q. hi, thank you for answering my previous questions guys......but i have one more question to ask..... the guy I talked about before... he called me on my birthday i.e. on 11 Feb he wished me Happy Birthday. Since then he has called me everyday, but...
A. 13 February 2011: I think that he likes you
But as a shy guy my self it would be difficult for him to expose his feelings
If you really like him make it easy for him and trust me he would appreciatemitmvery much from you... (read in full...)
I told her that I had fallen in love with her, but she said she doesn't feel the same way... what should I do now??
Q. Ok, so there is this girl in college, and we have been friends for a long time. Recently I started to fall in love with her and started doing things out of the way for her. Then when I was sure that it was love and not just an attraction, I told h...
A. 13 February 2011: i am sorry for you my friend
but you cant make some one love you if he/she doesnt
love you and the more you try to make her love you the more she well avoid you and it would be very very devistating for you,
try to avoid her and get your self bu... (read in full...)
I have a perfect boyfriend, but I am sick of him! What is wrong with me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year, he is practically perfect, he treats me, he doesnt go in moods, hes not possesive, but i am so sick of him! I dont know whats wrong with me, i really love him but im not attracted to ...
A. 10 February 2011: The same old new story. In the end and after breaking up, your boyfriend will change his view on women forever, and you will find yourself in love with a man who treats you badly. You may regret what you have done to your former boyfriend, but by t... (read in full...)
Secretly I would want him to make a go with things
Q. My lover and I split up just after xmas due to not seeing eye to eye with things etc..we were together 2 years, anyway after no contact for a month he emailed me again saying he was depressed and feeling stressed out and that he wanted to see how I ...
A. 8 February 2011: i dont think he is playing
but he backed off because you told him that
friendship is all what you got for him
try to e-mail him again
try to give him a signal that you are ok with him
if he changed some of his attitude
if he loves wi... (read in full...)
My husband is accusing me of cheating to make HIM look innocent!!!
Q. I have been married for almost 4 yrs with two kids 3and 2 yrs old. Me and my husband were lovers for almost 6 years before getting married. I discover him so many lies and betrayed when we are on our 6 yrs relatinoship, but because i love him i ...
A. 7 February 2011: He knows that you are pure,honest and clean and he is claiming that you are cheating on him because he wants to justify his infidelity,
LEAVE him once and for all because Going back to him is like going back to hell with your own foot ! Infact if y... (read in full...)
My "curvy" penis!!!
Q. I'm not sure how to put this question but I guess I'm curious about what women actually think of my penis. I guess I've never really was subconscious until recently. I've been sleeping with this girl lately that has started calling it curvy and ...
A. 6 February 2011: It seems that she like your penis mate
So don't really mind her teasing... (read in full...)
Perfect relationship suddenly ends and she is with someone else in no time...WHY?
Q. Please bear with me, I will try to keep this concise but it isn't easy. The first week of August 2010 I began dating a woman. I am 30 she is 33. I had only been dating casually for the past few years, and generally tended to be the one t...
A. 6 February 2011: It is very clear that your gf suffers from personality issues and disorders
And she is using you and menupalting you
So try to get over her and don't waste your time over her
She definitely doesn't deserve your goodness or your time
good luck... (read in full...)
Marriage or master's degree, which should come first?
Q. Please advice me, I am 25 male, handsome, working as economic analyst, but want to have my master within 2 0r 3 years, but same time want to marry....should i do master first and then marry or i should marry and then go for masters.... i...
A. 5 February 2011: Masters first
Though some marriages are good for school and studying but many are not.. Take care... (read in full...)
Should my wife be very close and open to male friends more than women?
Q. My wife is very friendly and open to male friends than women friends. She says she is more confortable with men than women. She almost talk about anything(culture, love eperiance, sexual things, men vs women behaviour etc) with her male friends may ...
A. 24 January 2011: your gf behaviour is strange indeed
i believe you should ask an older and experienced women that you trust about your gf behaviour
... (read in full...)
Am I just too old for my girlfriend?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 56 and my girlfriend is 40. Do you think that is okay or am I just too old. I look very young for my age. Most people think that I'm in my late 40s or maybe 50. What do you think?...
A. 24 January 2011: imho
if you were 34 and your gf were 18
i would say the the age gap is vry big
but as way grow older this simple equasion become different
and so i believe that the gap between you(56) and your gf(40) is very acceptable
if you love he... (read in full...)
My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?
Q. My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...
A. 23 January 2011: yes you should be worried
and if you dont have children togather divorce her
and find a good woman
there are plenty of good woman every where... (read in full...)
Why did she sleep around?
Q. Why did my good friend sleep around? I have a friend who just broke up with her high school bf of 2.5years. He dumped her in her first week at college. He was an average looking guy at best she is beautiful. My question is why has she suddenly...
A. 16 January 2011: some girls do this when there bf's dump them
i have heared this hapennes over and over and over
i personally believe it is not right at all
but it happens and usualy she well end this attitude in a while so you dont need to feel very bad about th... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time here?
Q. [MOD NOTE] PLEASE SPECIFY YOUR AGE, SO OUR AUNTS CAN GIVE YOU THE BEST AGE APPROPRIATE ADVICE. THANK YOU. Hi, I am a 39 year old guy. Anyone who has read my previous posts will know that when it comes to finding love, I've not had the great...
A. 16 January 2011: 1-) if she keeps putting barriers then she is rejecting you in a polite way
2-)if she keeps breaking promises but every time you want to end this relation with her she runs after you on and on
then she is a very manupilative sick personality ... (read in full...)
Since my wife's breast implants she has changed
Q. I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...
A. 14 January 2011: I smell something fishy
And I suggest that keep an eye on her until you are 100% sure of her faithfulness... (read in full...)
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