My desire for good sex is taking over and ruining the relationship
Q. I am finding things difficult with my partner. He hasn't been with many women. He always insists we have a bath just before sex (I am the cleanest person so this is ok) and everything is very mechanical. He says he wants to be really good but ...
A. 14 May 2011: i'll make this short for you
seek professional help
and if didnt work finish your relationship with this man
as it is extremely unhealthy to have a serious relation with a person who doesnt fullfill your sexual needs,
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Am I wrong not to want to take my husbands child on our Holiday?
Q. A couple of years ago my husband and I went on holiday and took his child from a previous relationship with us. During the holiday my husband did absolutely nothing with the child and I ended up doing everything for him so it was no holiday for me. ...
A. 11 May 2011: just a thought,
why dont you delay your travelling untill the child is cured and then you can all travel together and have fun... (read in full...)
I have the hots for my older Land Lady! Does this relationship have a chance?
Q. I feel confused by my land lord. Shes 64 years old and not married. I'm 36 years old. I feel something for her; she likes it when I buy her gifts sometimes she lets me kiss her on her lips but that's it, nothing more. I feel I want more than that. ...
A. 11 May 2011: if your both single ask her out and have fun both of you
usually this sort of relations only last for a few years because after a while you would want to have kids and that she cant offer,but aslong as you like her follow your heart
Good Luck... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this situation with my ex? I cant move away from the area, but I cant go out and live my life because of him!
Q. Many years ago I divorced the husband of my children. For years he cheated as he travelled with his job and he gave me an STD twice. He was jealous and possesive and played mind games. I eventually filed for divorce and from the day he received the ...
A. 9 May 2011: warn him that if he didnt leave you,your friends,or your parents that you well simply tell the police about him and that you well get him to court
as simple as that... (read in full...)
He loved me when he was married and now he's divorcing he doesn't seem to love me!
Q. Hi, I've been dating a married man for more than one year. He was never happy in his marriage and during our dating year, I gave him advice about how to protect himsel financially, etc. He is now divorcing his wife and going through a mediator. ...
A. 9 May 2011: what he is doing is 100% wrong and stupid
but i think all of this is because of his divorce... (read in full...)
I'm lonely. My husband's a serial cheater. Would he really care if I had an affair?
Q. I have been married to the same man for almost 23 years. I divorced him once because he cheated on me...then we remarried. For the past ten years,he has cheated on me. Last year I found out he was involved in a four year affair. He swore he love me....
A. 8 May 2011: if you fond the right man dont have an affair with him get married to him instead and leave your deceiving husband you sound like a very kind and good lady and having another affair well only get you more hurt even of the sex was great Good Lu... (read in full...)
What's emotional cheating?
Q. What's emotional cheating?...
A. 7 May 2011: an emotional affair
is when you fall inlove with someone while you are still
in a relation or married to someone else
but you dont have sex or get physical (( not even kissing or cyber sex...etc)) with the one you are having an affair with... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for my boss. Please advise.
Q. OK so after some major soul searching for the past few years I realize that the strong close feeling I have for my straight boss is love. My heart says stay clear and not say anything but my heart tells me otherwise. I cant eat or sleep and its ...
A. 7 May 2011: is you boss a man or a woman ?... (read in full...)
Should I let this guy know that his fiance sleeps around?
Q. There is a girl who works in my office who is getting married in less than 6 weeks time. However, she continues to sleep with other men. Friends of friends and men she works with. She does this when her fiance is working(a policeman so does his ...
A. 2 May 2011: this girl must have something wrong in her personality and by stoping this marriage you are going to save this man and his possible family and children from veing decieved, but usually when a man is very inlove with a woman he wont listen to w... (read in full...)
Why is she cheating just 6 months into our marriage?
Q. me and my gf have been dating for 2 years, married for 6 months. the other day she left her computer for work left on. i went to switch it off but in the screen was one of these "meet up for sex" websites. i read her messages and she'd been talking ...
A. 2 May 2011: yes she is cheating prove it officially and get a divorce befroe it is too late thank GOD you got yo know every thing early enough Good Luck... (read in full...)
Can you really just be friends with a guy?
Q. I was having a friendly conversation with a guy I just met. I could tell he was interested in me, but I have a boyfriend (of four years). I'm a pretty friendly person, so I didn't mean anything by it, except maybe enjoying the attention (being ...
A. 2 May 2011: dont text him from what you have said there chemistry between the both of you and it is highly dangerous to call him, to text him or add him on facebook Good Luck ... (read in full...)
What do I do, how do I behave to win back my lady's love?
Q. Hi Everybody I am in a strange situation as things evolve. The background is as follows ; My wife and I have had a up and down relationship for 8 years - from it we have two beautiful children whom we both love. I have provided all they want an...
A. 1 May 2011: is she honest to you? if there is no one else in her life the possiblities are high but you must seek professional help but if she is seeing someone else than the psossiblities of saving you marriage are very low infact it w... (read in full...)
Does it become harder to find love beyond the ages of 40 and 50s?
Q. Hi all! I just turned 51 and its been six months since my last breakup with my girlfriend. It was hard for me to end that relationship because I feel like I am getting older and may not find love again. But that relationship had to be ended ...
A. 1 May 2011: i know many gorgeous people who are in thier twenties and thirties and suffer from lonliness while there are msny poeple ((ex..movie stars)) in thier sixties and look more gorgeous and sexier than others in thier twenties and thirties your age ... (read in full...)
She keeps walking in on me masturbating!
Q. Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What ...
A. 30 April 2011: imho
she is doing it on purpose
is she making any kind of comments about what she is seeing ?... (read in full...)
How should I confront my husband about his texting in bed when he thinks I am asleep?
Q. How should i confront my husband about him texting when he thinks i am asleep? My husband is sending a 'hi' msg on his bbm to his coworker at 12:30 am, while he thinks i am sleeping with our babies. what should you make of it?...
A. 30 April 2011: does he do it only when you are supposed to be asleep ? you can dig for a truthfull answers by going out in a romantic night and tell him that you are blaiming your self for not giving him enough attention,sex,...etc and listen to what he says ... (read in full...)
Wife's ex-boyfriend calls her. Should I intervene?
Q. My wife's ex-boyfriend (one she dated for three months twenty years ago!) sought her out on Facebook. She wanted to catch up with him and she also felt badly for dumping him back when and wanted to apologize to him. They exchanged about a dozen e-...
A. 30 April 2011: another story of the facebook - from what you have said i think there is chemistry between him and your wife your wife seems like resisting him but he knows that she likes him and therefor he wont leave her alone i suggest the following: tell him t... (read in full...)
I always feel people are looking at me like I am weird. Are they? Am I?
Q. Hey ,I wonder ,if you can relate to my problem. I feel very judged ,and criticized all the time/ ..I also feel people are looking at me weird on the street. And I feel very uncomfortable, to go out and be on public places. Well, it sounds like s...
A. 30 April 2011: if many people have told you that you gorgeous and allot of people are looking at you all the time than this explains it all? BTW are you sure of your age group? ... (read in full...)
Do girls get pleasure from anal sex?
Q. Hi, I have never had anal sex so I always wonder do gals derive pleasure out of it?...
A. 27 April 2011: some do like it
some dont
and in my huble oppinion
it depends allot on your first anal experience
if you had allot of fun in it you well seek it again and again
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Why would he have this type of porn on his computer?
Q. I found heaps of Asian porn on my husbands computer. Now I am worried he prefers them to me and I am getting very upset about it. Everytime we go out I am worried he is perving at them and preferring them to me. We fight about it all the time. I am ...
A. 27 April 2011: men are visual creatures
and seeing asain women on porn doesnt necassarly means
that he is cheating on you with an asian woman
i know a friend who likes to watch interracial porn with white women and black men (( he is white and his wife i... (read in full...)
I had an online status that said I had been seeing him, and now he wont see me anymore! Please help me understand why....
Q. hi i've been seeing a guy for 6 weeks we both agreed on just fun with each other. we seen each other once a week which was ok, we had great chat as well and enjoyed each others company. i didnt see him the other night and couldnt get hold of him ...
A. 27 April 2011: imho
he didnt want you to show that you both are seeing each other because he was hunting on other women
so he can choose who he like's the best
and start a real relationship with her
while keeping the others on the pure friendship side
G... (read in full...)
Will a married man cheat if he is truly happy?
Q. Will a married man cheat if he is truly happy at home. As cheating I mean carrying on a emotional and physical relationship for over acyears?...
A. 25 April 2011: when speaking about human beings there are always exceptions and there are people who just dont follow any category but in GENERAL when a man loves a woman and he is fullfilled with her SEXUALLY and emotionly he wouldn't cheat sometimes a man... (read in full...)
Should I flirt with my Ex-girlfriend's best friend?
Q. I broke with my Girlfriend dumped me few months back. My girlfriend left me saying that I didn't have secured future by doing small job. I think I have been hard done by her for leaving me for such a small reason. Now I want taking revenge on her ...
A. 24 April 2011: she didnt think ethical when dumping you and breaking your heart infact if you had a good looking wealthy friend she might have dupmed you srtaight forward to be with him so why on earth would you have empathy on her ? if you like her friend simp... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex with my husband in 13 years but want to have sex with another man.
Q. Hello Cupids. This is one crazy situation you are about to hear and I could really use your help. I have been married to my husband for 13 years and in that time we have never had sexual intercourse. We have had oral sex and have done just abou...
A. 24 April 2011: sorry when i gave my first answer i didnt realize that the other man is married because it is bad to ruin someone elses marriage my adivse to you would be if there is no hope in the future for you to have FULLFILING sex with you husband ... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex with my husband in 13 years but want to have sex with another man.
Q. Hello Cupids. This is one crazy situation you are about to hear and I could really use your help. I have been married to my husband for 13 years and in that time we have never had sexual intercourse. We have had oral sex and have done just abou...
A. 24 April 2011: imho what you are going through is very natural and happened many times before get divorced and marry this new man if he realy loves you as much as you love him or atleast find a man who can fullfill your physical needs as much as your spiritual n... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a normal thing??
Q. i have this problem i mustarbate sometimes i have a gf and we have briliant sex but i do and sometimes i feel watching porn and thats against my believe of 10 commandement. Wat i tink is i m too old 2 mustarbate and also tink i m not normal is the ...
A. 23 April 2011: masterbating is normal even when you have a GF
but if you want to follow the ten comandments you shouldnt have sex with you GF untill you marry her..just a thought... (read in full...)
Should I continue to connect with my estranged daughter, or stop trying?
Q. Dear Cupid I have a daughter who does not want to know me. She was just the most rebellious daughter you could ever imagine from 12 onwards. I tried counseling. But it never worked, she would not attend. I was a very young parent and she is my on...
A. 23 April 2011: if you know the father
try to contact him or his parents...infact contacting his parents is better because they would understand your feelings
and to be honest with you
she is 20 now and i believe within the very few coming years she well regret ... (read in full...)
Computer virus sent email to my ex. Do you think it brought up bad memories to him?
Q. My ex and i have been broken up for awhile and were speaking on an off..my computer had some sort of virus sending out e-mails to basically everyone in my contact list. It picked up on every e-mail including him. I looked at the e-mail and it al...
A. 23 April 2011: bo worries
this is has hapenned to many of my friends including me my self
and i think he well notice that it is a fake e-mail
because they ar ealways sending ads... (read in full...)
I'm still having guilt over an affair even though my husband had one too
Q. I need advise how do i get over the guilt of an affair that i had 10 years ago. I worked with my husband in a family business for 12 years. My husband and his family are Italains. I am not. So you can see already there were quite a few differences ...
A. 17 April 2011: do you have children?... (read in full...)
What does it mean that he travels all that way just to see me? Is it just to see a friend or probably more?
Q. Hi everyone, I hope you can help me with some ideas to the following situation. I met a wonderful man in the summer of 2009. We had this amazing connection you share with only a few people in your whole life. We have lots of similarities even though ...
A. 17 April 2011: you are more than a friend = i have feelings to you and with this smooth chemistry between the both of you it would be.. i love you .. in no time so be carefull why dont you both talk about this issue try to bring it up and talk about it ... (read in full...)
What does it mean that he travels all that way just to see me? Is it just to see a friend or probably more?
Q. Hi everyone, I hope you can help me with some ideas to the following situation. I met a wonderful man in the summer of 2009. We had this amazing connection you share with only a few people in your whole life. We have lots of similarities even though ...
A. 16 April 2011: they say
friendahip oftenly turns to love
but love to friendship never
i think you mean more than a friend to him
but you have to be carefull
because continuing in this well end you up into a secret affair with this married man
Good... (read in full...)
Not sleeping in the same bed as husband
Q. Why would a woman go out of her way to let me know she does not share the same bed as her husband???? What does this mean? Is she trying to tell me something?...
A. 16 April 2011: becarefull buddy
though we do need more data on this
but this wife sounds like she is falling for some one else
and her poor husband may believe that she is the honest little good girl because she is so sexually cold with him
... (read in full...)
Can you lose sexual attraction for someone?
Q. is it possible to loose sexual attraction to someone? I was in a relationship for five years it ended because he was too verbally abusive."ur fat, the "b" and "c" word and all that nasty stuff.Anyways months have passed and he has been dying to come ...
A. 16 April 2011: my advice to you would be so simple never make a relation with some one you are not sexually attracted to maybe in the beginning when we are young we find our selfs falling in love with people we dont really find sexy but as the years pass a... (read in full...)
Guys- if you're in a good relationship, do you still watch porn?
Q. So about a month ago I found out my boyfriend was watching porn. Mainly on the days when we don't have sex. We've been living together for about two years and I've always been the sexually frustrated one bc I have a super high libido. I usually have ...
A. 16 April 2011: the answer ro your quistion is yes
many men do watch porn even when they are sexually satisfied with thier spouses and that doenst mean that they want to cheat at all
and it doenst mean that sexually they are not happy
BUT
watching priv... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about her sharing herself with other guys or wanting too try?
Q. my gf watches kinky porn, pretend rape, and a couple guys on one girl. what could this say about our relationship or the type of person she is? We have amazing sex and are physically attracted to each other and intimate at the same time. ladies, ...
A. 15 March 2011: watching porn doesnt meen
that she isn't sexually satisfied with you or that she is welling to cheat....come on man it is just porn !... (read in full...)
Caught in a torrid love affair with a married woman but she refuses to walk out of her loveless, boring marriage. Why???
Q. Okay....please refrain from excoriating and vilifying me because I know that I'm not supposed to partake in this endeavor, but I'm a little too deep into this game. I've been seeing this married woman who is five years my senior for about three ...
A. 15 March 2011: distant your self from her
she well run after you
and if she saw you with another woman
especially if this woman was one of her friends
she well run after you like crazy,
she is recently too affraid to confront her self
and doenst realy know... (read in full...)
I desperately want to save my marriage, but I don't know what to do...
Q. My husband and I have recently separated. We've been together for 23 years and married for 18. We have two children. My husband initiated the separation, but, for reasons I won't go into now, there are many things that I have done to help create the ...
A. 15 March 2011: if you are seeing a therapist
tell him/her what to do to restore your marriage health,
i suggest though to give him his time to release the pressure and the hidden agony
show him that you have changed and regret what you have done by then if he s... (read in full...)
Ever since my friend told her I liked her, she has been ignoring me.
Q. i am 16 and in love with this smart, beautiful and kind girl. i know for about 3 years now and i fell for her a few months ago. My friend, who is a very nice guy to her went and told her that i like her..ever since she has really reduced talking to ...
A. 12 March 2011: imho your friend was jellous from you and got her away from you by telling that you liked her any ways you can confront her and tell her that you only like her as a friend and that your friend just wanted to break your frinedship with and after t... (read in full...)
I know he's cheating but want the family-man back
Q. My Fiancee of 8 yrs is cheating on me, He does not know I know he is cheating, a lot of red flags have gone off so I did some checking into this "affair/ fling" he is having. The other day I caught him by surprised with his cell phone open. I asked ...
A. 12 March 2011: imho
most of people cheat because they aren't fullfilled sexually
i know that many or even most of the readers wouldn't agree and would oppose me but it is my oppinion and i am standing for it,
i say ask for some professional help on how to g... (read in full...)
Married couple and opposite sex friend
Q. Facts: I've been married to my wife for over 20 year. About 15 years ago, her female friend was dating someone? Back then we were had regular BBQ in my house. Her female friend broke relations a year later. My wife kept taking to them on a re...
A. 7 March 2011: It seems that there is an emotional affair building between your wife and this friend. Your wife and this man wouldn't be hiding stuff from their spouses unless there is something wrong between both of them (even his wife isn't comfortable with this ... (read in full...)
Do I assume that he is cheating on me or what?
Q. I am so insecure when it comes to my boyfriend. I want to trust him, but I have been hurt in my past. Anyway, I figured out his password to his cell phone, and I check it often. Once I heard a girl leave her name and told him to call her back. I ...
A. 4 March 2011: Try to know who the girls are with out his knowledge and keep an eye on what he is doing
Did he cheat on you before?... (read in full...)
Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!
Q. There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...
A. 4 March 2011: why are you so concerned about this married man?
any woman well ban her husband or BF from a girl who knows that he likes her and instead of backing him off
she encourages him more and more..
if he has feelings for you it well continue for a ... (read in full...)
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