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My brother caught me masturbating, what to do about it?

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Question - (31 August 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2010)
A female Australia age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I was watching a quiet porn video on my laptop while masturbating on my bed with my hands down my pants (all clothes were still on). I knew that my brother would be coming home soon, but i still left my bedroom door open. When i heard him come home, i kept on going thinking i would hear if he walked upstairs. Two minutes later I caught him looking at me. He had this strange look on his face and asked me where mum was (she was out). I told him and he left.

Im only 13 and he's only 11! And he knows what masturbating is though. I know im too young to do it, but i still do.

What am i going to do about him? I could maybe say i was itching if the subject comes up. What if he tells my parents?

Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010):

You said you knew your brother would be coming home soon, but you kept the door open anyway while you were masturbating, so it sounds like you wanted him to catch you. I would just be honest and tell him what you were doing. It's completely natural, and he's either already done it himself or will be doing it soon. Post back if you have any other questions. If necessary, you can talk to him about what you were doing and explain that everyone does it sooner or later.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

hello, if your brother knows what mastrubatin is then tell him honestly if he doesnt i wud make up an excuse, if i ever saw anything like dis i wud just keep my mouth shut.If you feel that your brother is old enough and mature enough to understand this then i wud sit him down and explain to him in an age appropriate way .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

I don't know why you just can't tell them the truth, because it's natural and nothing to be ashamed of. But if it bothers you that much then you could say you had an itch.

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A male reader, Mikes United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2009):

Mikes agony auntThe Itching sounds like the best thing, there is nothing to be ashamed of about masterbating, but you still dont want your parents to know.

Though if nothing is said just pretend he never saw a thing.

O, and its fine to masterbate at your age, if you are masterbating now, then your body must be ready for it.

Take care.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

I agree, don't worry about it. If you don't say anything about it, chances are he won't either. IF he did notice what you were doing, it's not something that is likely to just come up in conversation. Also, you're not necessarily too young to do it, a lot of people do that type of thing at your age to explore themselves, it's not a bad thing. Don't stress too much about your brother seeing you, it's probably not going to become an issue.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

lol he probably didnt even notice

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2009):

dont tell him any thing

just froget all about it, keep quiet and remember to shut the door next time

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

thanks rcn, that really made me feel better (I wrote this question). So far, he hasnt been acting all that akward towards me.

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A female reader, CupidGirl826 United States +, writes (31 August 2009):

Hello,

I think you just feel really ashamed about it, right now.

I wouldn't bring it up. I doubt he will. He's just as embarrassed about it as you are, with this being said, I doubt he would tell your parents.

Don't worry about it. Try not to think about it. Don't bring it up. And consider it the past.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (31 August 2009):

rcn agony auntThere's no age restriction on masturbating. If the subject comes up that's a good excuse. As far as telling your parents, as a guy, there's no way at that age I'd be telling my parents anything I saw a girl doing. This may be embarrassing for you, but it'd be embarrassing for him to bring that subject up with you or anyone else.

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