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writes:I have a jelousy problem with my GF, she apparently lost her virginity with some asshole in another town, but she isnt sure, she said she was drunk and she didnt feel like she did when she woke up. Now i feel protective of her, when ever she talks to guys at partys i get pissy and protective. I feel like she doesnt love me and i cant trust her. HELP!!! I feel depressed because of this!
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 If you cant trust her where the hell do you think this relationship is gonna go? A relationship is based on trust. You either need to get the hell over yourself and realise that she was drunk, didnt know where she was at and isnt even sure if it happened and now shes with you so it wont happen again or just move on with your life. You cant be with someone your constantly paranoid about. Just tell her to stop drinking, shes too young and clearly cant do it responsibly.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 I've heard/read somewhere that the human brain is not fully developed until the age of 25 or older, maybe 26 or older, Idk. Maybe older still, BUT here is my point...she did something very irrational, and now you feel worried about her, almost as if she will do irrational things again. How long ago was it that she did this irrational thing? Because people do change.
If she did this while yall were together, or course you feel like she doesn't love you and like you can't trust her. It's also natural to feel the other things that you are feeling. If she did this while yall were together, she has to start from scratch and try to earn your trust all over again.
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reader, diobolicmuphin +, writes (21 June 2009):
Ok, not even reading your explanation, just your heading: if you can't trust the person you're with, move on. Good relationships require respect, honesty, compromise and TRUST. MOVE ON.
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