| A
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I like this guy. We just recently got to know eachother, but we've known about eachother for a long time. He opened up to me more than he has with most people, especially about his past. I gave him my number, but he lost it and asked for it again and said we should exchange numbers, but i was driving away at the time and I emailed him my number, but he never gave me his. We talk and he doesn't mention.Is this a lost cause? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Probably he thought he was going too strong with you when he started talking to you very in depth when you were starting to know him.
Or probably he isn't a phone person. He may prefer the convenience of the computer (which is almost faceless and anonymous) or being in a large group of friends (where you can blend in easily) to talk to someone.
At least you talk to him on the computer, so that means he is interested in talking to you, just not literally.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't flat out ask him for his number, but I made a comment to him that I'd wanted to call him the other day, but couldn't because I didn't have his number and laughed it off. I mean we talk on the computer and we have many mutual friends so we see each other, but only in large groups.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): i am going through the same number crisis and plus he also always calls me private so i understand, is he calling you with a private number? Did you ask him for his number already?
...............................
A
female
reader, PsyCookie +, writes (2 August 2008):
He doesn't mention what?
I don't think it is. There are no signs that show he is not interested in you. He even asked you for your number and he just probably forgot to give you his. MANY people just have bad memory or forget to do things when they're concentrated in something else.
But you talk to him, so he is still trying to persue you (either as a friend or romantically). If you want his number, just ask him. I don't think you will lose any dignity in the process.
...............................
|
