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writes: This problem has been bothering me for a year already, I noticed that my superior whom is single and younger than me is fond of me, though he don't dare approach me directly about his feeling however, his body languages and behaviours already showing and its obvious that he likes me :1)He'll feels uneasy when I talked to him, at times he will blush...2)He'll make "noise" in order to attract my attention.3)His eye contact4)His eyes will follow me when I move around the room.5)He will laugh happily when I talked to him regarding work.Judging from the above, I don't think I have misjudged his feeling towards me, am I correct?The problem is that we are working in the same dept, moreover, he is my manager, Im worried, office romance is not easy to handle esp. when things don't work, how are we going to face each other everyday..I always have no luck on guys, due to bad experiences, I don't have faith to trust guys, I always suspect their sincerity, I kind of learn to protect myself from getting hurt, I know this is bad, but I can't help it, can anyone advise me.....Thank you!Lost gal Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 I would say from what you have said he does like you or could just be a simple physical attraction either way he is your boss you do work together and most situations like this end in tears probably yours.
I would try and just ignore these signs and if he makes a move on you then you can see if it feels right but if it doesn't you need to walk away as soon as possibly so it doesn't make work life difficult.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (24 September 2006):
 Hey,
well, it sounds like he does like you, a lot. But office romances don't usually work out. If he makes a move on you, see how you feel. But if he's leaving you alone in that respect than I'd try looking for a guy else=where. The right one will come along, you'll see.
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxxxx
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