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writes: This will sound silly but its worrying me.While i was with my ex we were once sat on my bed,and i noticed a 'wet patch'around his penis,i was sat virtually on top of him,and now im 20 days late,i was due on the 23rd of july and its now the 12th aug could i be pregnant?I told my mum i was late but not that i could be pregnant and she said it could be down to me not eating properly as i was once 16 days before!Please help me and put my mind to rest!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): hi your not pregant the only way you could be pregant is if you had sex with your boyfriend ok i hope that helps
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (13 August 2006):
 Try not to worry too much hun.
I just recently completely skipped a month! I was 30 days late. I knew I couldn't be pregnant, so that was out of the question. Come to find out it was due to the severe amount of stress I've been under... it keeps me from eating healthy and sleeping... save maybe.... 10 hours a week if I'm lucky? One night, I finally managed to calm myself down, and guess what? I started!
There are many factors that could contribute as to why you've missed it. Stress, depression, eating habits, birth control (if you were recently on it and stopped), or just plain abnormal periods, which sounds to be your case.
Chances are slllliiiim of you getting pregnant off a wet spot, sperm can't live long at all after hitting oxygen. And if you had underwear on, and pants or something, it'd be a feat if you were... so don't fret too much. Give it time before you start worrying. After maybe missing it... over a month or so, should you worry.
So calm down, and try not to think about it. And you could try a home kit just to be safe! They're pretty reliable, after four days of fertilization.
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reader, tyler's_cowgirl +, writes (13 August 2006):
 Home kits are fairly reliable, if you follow the usage directions correctly... there is a slight chance that they may not work though. If you take one and it shows neg. but you still feel you might be pregnant then i'd suggest you go to the doctor's and have blood work done... that's the only way to get 100% accurate result.
good luck, Tyler's_Cowgirl xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would be to embarrased to go to my doctor and im not sure if home kits are that reliable??
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (12 August 2006):
 You say you noticed a 'wet patch'.
I assume this to mean he was wearing some clothing.
If this is the case, the chances are very slim, but not impossible.
Just get a home pregnancy test or make a visit to your GP or local family planning clinic.
best of luck
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (12 August 2006):
 Hey,
why don't you take a home pregnancy test or consult your doctor?
Phoebe
xxx
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reader, chunkymunky +, writes (12 August 2006):
 If the sperm came into contact with your vagina then its possible that you could be pregnant, either take a pregnancy test or go see your doc just incase. Hope everything works out for the best! x
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