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... Send *ebble a private message | | | *ebble's profile:Hiya, I am a 19 year old mummy-to-be from Wales, UK. I'm in my second trimester and it's all going very smoothly so far.
My partner and I are super excited about the future and all the stuff we now have to look forward to.
I'm very interested in all things fashion and beauty. I am currently employed by a well-known clothing and accessories company and I love it there. However, after a great deal of research, when my baby is born I plan to start my own online cosmetics business so I can work from home. I want to be there for my baby at all times, while still contributing to the family finances.
I absolutely love to read. My house is filled with books, fiction, non fiction, magazines... everything! And when I don't have a book in my hand you can usually find me bargain hunting on Ebay. The site is fantastic and I recommend it to anyone searching for a bagain.
I live a quiet life and I love it this way. I am happy in my own little world with my own little family, including my fish Dave, Pete and Hayley.
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Am I Pregnant or not?
Q. Right, so i've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the past 5 weeks on and off. Stupid, i know, but we got lazy with the condoms and haven't been worrying about it. I have never skipped a period in my life and my period was due eight ...
A. 24 May 2009: A girl I work with has only just found out she's pregnant - at 26 weeks!! To be honest, we all knew anyway because she has a massive belly but we thought she was just keeping from us because she didn't want anyone to know. It was a huge shock when ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to my friend?
Q. I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...
A. 23 May 2009: To you Leanne, maybe. But the poster is not you, is she?
She is in a completely different situation and wanted advice so I gave it to her. If you think the only way to lose virginity is penis in vagina then fine. But you might have to accept t... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to my friend?
Q. I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...
A. 16 May 2009: If you have used toys on each other then I would consider you not to be a virgin, because well... you can't really go much further than that in a same sex relationship. But again, it's up to you where your 'virginity line' is set. Because as Britt ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to my friend?
Q. I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...
A. 16 May 2009: I think some of the answers here are way off. The people saying that virginity is only lost by penis in vagina intercourse seem to be forgetting all the lesbians out there who have only had sex with women. Does that mean they are all virgins because ... (read in full...)
Only 2 weeks but I think I really screwed things up
Q. I'm in the first two weeks of a new relationship and PMS has just kicked in for this month. I've suddenly become really unhappy and irritable. And I'v already took it out on my BF through about 10 texts this morning, to which he hasnt replied to ...
A. 16 May 2009: I don't think telling him you were pmsing is going to help. He is a guy after all, he's not gonna want to hear that after only two weeks. I think the best thing to do is wait for him to contact you. Don't send him any more texts. If you've apolog... (read in full...)
Help me to be thin!
Q. hello. i have a problem. please help as best you can. well i am 14, 5'4'' and weigh 9 st 9 lbs. i am really fat. i want to weigh 8 st 7 lbs so i am going to do a pro-ana diet and lots of exercise etc. now someone told me that ana can make you pu...
A. 15 May 2009: Being thin won't fix your life, you're problems won't magically be solved because you've lost weight. Life doesn't work like that.
Once you start thinking pro anorexia, you'll end up with ten times more problems:
-hospital visits
-doctors poki... (read in full...)
Skipped almost two periods now...am I pregnant?
Q. Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have ski...
A. 15 May 2009: Sweetheart, no one is going to tell you anything different from 'get a test' or 'go to a doctor and ask for a test', because that's the only to find out for sure.... (read in full...)
Sleeping while partner has sex with me
Q. hi plz help, in a normal relationship is it right that u should wake up and find your partner has had or is having sex with you this has happend so many times. xxxxxx...
A. 14 May 2009: Seriously, if it bothers you that much tell him to STOP doing it. If he's any kind of decent guy then he will.... (read in full...)
Am I Pregnant or not?
Q. Right, so i've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the past 5 weeks on and off. Stupid, i know, but we got lazy with the condoms and haven't been worrying about it. I have never skipped a period in my life and my period was due eight ...
A. 13 May 2009: Do the test but don't take a negative as certain, especially if your period still hasn't arrived. I can see why you'd be a bit impatient, a week is long time to wait for something so huge. An extra few days might be what your body needed to give you ... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend clear her name up? They had sex in the school park & everyone is talking about it
Q. Hello cupids, ok so my friend and her boyfriend (now her ex) has had sex in a school park..so while they were having sex this one girl claimed that she seen them.so now the girl who have seen them been going around our whole school telling ppl what ...
A. 13 May 2009: Maybe next time, she should wait until she's adult enough to deal with the consequences of having sex. And not do it in the park because that's just vile.... (read in full...)
I think I'm turning lesbian!
Q. Hi I'm kikki and I'm 15 I think I might be turning lesbian but not sure. I have a bf but I don't enjoy sex with him anymore it's like he just cares about himself. Recently during p.e at school I have noticed my nipples going hard getting changed in ...
A. 13 May 2009: And how many people get their year of birth wrong? Drunk or not? 15 year olds were not born in 1992, you do the math.
No it doesn't sound genuine. It sounds like a 30 year old perv getting off at the thought of two teenages girls together... (read in full...)
Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet
Q. Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...
A. 13 May 2009: Speak to your doctor about them and ask to be put on something different. To be honest though, you'll have a job finding any bi-polar meds that don't have some kind of gross side effect.... (read in full...)
Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet
Q. Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...
A. 13 May 2009: Take your medication!... (read in full...)
Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet
Q. Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...
A. 13 May 2009: So don't harrass someone with 24 phonecalls after only a week then. What did you expect?... (read in full...)
I think I'm turning lesbian!
Q. Hi I'm kikki and I'm 15 I think I might be turning lesbian but not sure. I have a bf but I don't enjoy sex with him anymore it's like he just cares about himself. Recently during p.e at school I have noticed my nipples going hard getting changed in ...
A. 13 May 2009: Firstly are you called Kikki, or Nikki? And if you ARE indeed 15, then you would not be born in 92 like your screenname suggests. Plus your age says 16-17. So which is it?
I smell BS.... (read in full...)
Why was I wrong to entice older men?
Q. I started having sex when I was 13, and every one of my partners were adult men. There was no coercion or force involved in any of them. I consented to the encounters, and I initiated the sex on each occasion. This did not negatively impact my life. ...
A. 13 May 2009: It's wrong because adult men who have sex with a girl they know to be 13 years old are paedophiles.... (read in full...)
Is her stomach hurting because she hasn't had sex?
Q. Hello everyone,okay so my friend is 14 years old and she is has had sex with multiple partners,she has told me she used condoms everytime and her stomach has been hurting lately and she told me she hasnt has sex for a while..could that be the ...
A. 13 May 2009: No. Not having sex has nothing to do with her stomach hurting. Since she's has multiple partners at such a young age, maybe she should get an STI test and a pregnancy test because condoms are not 100% effective. STIs and pregnancy WOULD make her ... (read in full...)
He's in jail and wants phone sex
Q. my boyfriend is in jail and is asking me to have phone sex with him. i never had sex with him as i was only with him for 2 weeks before he went to jail and wanted to take things slow. he has a moblie phone (cell phone) in jail which he bought ...
A. 12 May 2009: They allow mobile phones in prisons these days? Wow.... (read in full...)
Peter Andre and Katie Price breaking up has really upset me. Help!
Q. I feel seriously pathetic and stupid for asking for adivce on this... but thank you guys for even reading the question. I'm sure all you people in the UK will have heard the news that peter andre and katie price are splitting up? Well it has real...
A. 12 May 2009: Seriously, I don't think this is real but if it is then there are far more important things going on in the world. You don't know these people, you only see what they want you to see. Live your own life.... (read in full...)
Best place to lose your virginity?
Q. I'm ready, and I'm gonna lose it. The question is where? Ideas anyone? The beach? The woods? Not some sleazy hotel room or my bed. This is the first time you'll always remember. I want to make it memorable in so many different ways, and...
A. 12 May 2009: Aaah, first times suck. Don't do it at the beach, you'll regret that one afterwards, trust me.
I can't see the woods being very comfortable either. Unless you went camping for the night in a tent... that sounds kinda cool. Don't go anywhere... (read in full...)
Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 12 May 2009: Have you told your mum about any of this stuff? I think it may be her time to step and help you.... (read in full...)
Am I Pregnant or not?
Q. Right, so i've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the past 5 weeks on and off. Stupid, i know, but we got lazy with the condoms and haven't been worrying about it. I have never skipped a period in my life and my period was due eight ...
A. 12 May 2009: It sounds very much like you're pregnant. Many people who get a straight answer from the test get one because they ony had unprotected sex maybe once or twice, so it was pretty easy to say when baby was concieved.
You've been doing it for 5 we... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me after I became pregnant, what do I do?
Q. Am 26 and have been with my current boyfriend who is 36 for a year. When we met he was having a 6yrs girl with the ex-girlfriend. Our relationship was quite ok for all the time we were together. He didn't want us to have a baby until i become 28, ...
A. 12 May 2009: I agree with Gina. I think you need to look after you for a bit befoe even condsiderng him. Do you want to be mother right now? If not, how do you feel about abortion? Or maybe adoption would be a better option?
Have a good long think how you feel... (read in full...)
These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!
Q. These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. ...
A. 10 May 2009: Obviously your boyfriend doesn't feel the same though. He seems to want to socialise a little more.
It's been a while since you posted this question, how is the situation now?... (read in full...)
He's not a creep I've met his family... Online! I'm 17 he's 30 what should I do?
Q. I really like this guy that I met online. we have been talking for a couple of months now and in no way is he a creep or anything. He's even introduced me to his older bro and his sis in law. His parents even know about me and i have spoken to them ...
A. 10 May 2009: So you've seen first hand how easy it can be to make things up when talking online. Now you should think about the things he has said to you and how many of them are true... To be honest, I don't think any 30 year old man talking to a 16 year old... (read in full...)
My friend shows no interest when I go on about the teacher I fancy. Why?
Q. hi i really need some help. i really really REALLY fancy this guy that works at my school. He's a helper for kids that find it hard to learn. He isn't that old. He is in his early twenties. Everytime i see him i feel like i am going really red and ...
A. 10 May 2009: Maybe she doesn't want to encourage you to do anything about the crush. We all had crushes on people we couldn't have when we were younger - it's all part of growing up but maybe she feels a bit uncomfortable talking about it. Like she doesn't want ... (read in full...)
Period late..not had sex..so why is it late?
Q. (this question is mainly for girls). I am a few days late for my period and I got my first ever period 2 months ago. So far I have been regular. I havn't had sex=not pregnant so I don't now why i am late. Is this normal? and what should I do? ...
A. 9 May 2009: I know it's horrible but eventually they will settle down into a regualr pattern. Mine took about 2 years to do that.
As long as you're healthy (not underweight, not highly stressed, fairly good diet) then you have nothing to worry about.
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I'm confused! He keeps asking me to have sex with him
Q. i dont regret this, but i think i do :S i no this boy 'c' and he was really sweet to me. so after about 6 months of talking to him on msn, i decided to meet him. he only lived araound the corner from me so it wasent that bad. but the first time i m...
A. 9 May 2009: He's a cheating loser honey. He only wants sex from you and that's all he wanted when you were talking on msn. Because you did finally give in, he probably thinks that all he has to do is apply a little pressure and you'll give in again.
Prove... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy? Please help!
Q. Well me and by boyfriend are trying to conceive before he goes to the air force. we used to have sex a lot but now its only a once a week thing. I have a regular period. but I vomit, tender breast, and I also have a wetness that I think may be an ...
A. 9 May 2009: Go to a doctor who will test you for free. Then you will know for sure.
Chances are, if your still having your periods and they seem normal then you're not pregnant. But it can happen, it's not impossible.
I'm 8 weeks pregnant, during my first ... (read in full...)
Moved in together after 5 weeks and now wondering if I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now, and i know it seems quick but we've already moved in together. We met and fell for each other so quickly we didn't want to leave each other. I am happy with that situation and it was all going ...
A. 9 May 2009: Go to a doctor and find out. He'll test you there for free. And really, you should be talking to your boyfriend about this, you're both irresponsible enough not to always use protection so you both deal with the consequences. Maybe that fac... (read in full...)
He took a purity vow, and now no sex
Q. My bf took a purity pledge when he was 17 and in a youth group.But he hasnt gone to church since then. We are now 24 and he still wont have sex. We do oral with each other, and he uses toys on me but wont have sex, even though we talk about getting ...
A. 9 May 2009: There's no question here...
If the guy doesn't want to have sex, you might just have to get over it.... (read in full...)
I'm considering becoming sterile just soI don't screw up here life
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating just short of a year now. We're both 16 and just starting having sex about a month ago. We've only done it a few times. Both with and without condoms. For some reason she hates condoms and doesn't want to take ...
A. 9 May 2009: Are you sure she doesn't want a kid? She doesn't like taking the time to put condoms on... She won't go on the pill... Sounds very suspicious doesn't it? To be honest, I think you both need to grow up. If you cannot take responsibility f... (read in full...)
Is there any help for people like me out there?
Q. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm at the end of my tether. I lost my job in September last year. I worked there for four months after leaving my previous job after five years. The company I moved to was meant to be training me to be one of their ...
A. 8 May 2009: I work for Jobcentre+ in the UK. If you are out of a job you are entitled to job seekers' allowance until you find a new one.
Also, if there is no reason why you cannot work (you're looking after a young child or are sick), then the jobcentr... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin!
Q. Hey I am 16 years old and I have this cousin that I can't get out of my head! I severely want to have sex with her, it's just I don't know how to ask. I do not see her often, If I'm lucky it's once a year for about a week. What I want in a reply is ...
A. 7 May 2009: Oh get over yourself. What makes you think that she even gives a second thought to you?
Most sane people would never even condsider having sex with a family member. It is beyond wrong.
Maybe you should go back to the masturbation bec... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 6 May 2009: ooooo fantastic, well done everyone :)... (read in full...)
Is he being my friend or playing mind games with me?
Q. A guy I work with is married and we are friends. I gave him the cold shoulder to adjust my self after an hurtful 'emotional affair', we did nothing wrong as he would stress to me. during a abreif make up session he said we are cut from the same ...
A. 4 May 2009: He's not seeking your friendship. He's trying to get into your knickers.
You should listen to "eyes wide open" and think of the poor woman that is about to be made a fool out of if you go near this idiot.... (read in full...)
Height rating
Q. how do you people rate a person of height 6 5"? i am 6 4" and i feel good to be this tall but girls are too short to stand up with a boy of this height. what do girls say here?And Do rate my height....
A. 4 May 2009: I'm only 5'2" so we might look a little weird standing next to each other lol but like someone said height doesn't matter when you're lying down!!
Most of my friends are more of an 'average' height and they all go for tall guys. Most women li... (read in full...)
I had sex on my period whilst taking the pill. Can I fall pregnant?
Q. Hiya.... I've been on the pill for 3 months now, me and my boyfriend had sex whilst I was on my period but I was taking the pill at the same time, so I had sex on my period but took the pill on the same day. What I want to know is... can I fall ...
A. 4 May 2009: When you are taking the pill you are protected during the weeks you are taking it and during your pill-free week. Obviously, the pill is not 100% effective so there will always be a slight chance you can get pregnant. The success rate of the pill is ... (read in full...)
How does a girl know when a guy is having sex for the first time?
Q. how does a female comes to know that a male is having sex for the first time?...
A. 3 May 2009: Unless he tells you. You can't really be sure. If you're worried, ask him!... (read in full...)
These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!
Q. These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. ...
A. 3 May 2009: How did he act around her? Did he look uncomfortable? Did she?
This is really puzzling me...... (read in full...)
My wife touched his privates to check out his problem..did she go too far?
Q. I need a little advice, or maybe just reassurance, or maybe someone to tell me i'm being dumb. Or maybe I am right and this is nothing. My wife has her 2 year degree, and about 2 years ago we decided that she should pursue a full degree to get ce...
A. 3 May 2009: Isn't she training to be a primary teacher? What on earth does that have to do with examining people's balls?
She crossed the line. You have every right to be angry.... (read in full...)
These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!
Q. These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. ...
A. 2 May 2009: Maybe it's someone that he's meeting there, that doesn't actually work there?
In my area, most of the supermarkets, apart from management, are staffed by young college or university students... I'm not saying that's who he's seeing but... someone ... (read in full...)
I need a job but I don't want to work because my boyfriend is already giving me everything I need!
Q. i need some advice and no judgement please, my problem is, my boyfriend is taking care of me,very good care. what ever i neeed he provide, he's on the wealthy side, but i need a job, but i don't want to work because he giving me every thing i need ...
A. 1 May 2009: It seems you just want people to say "yes carry on sponging off your boyfriend - that's a great thing to do". I have one question: Do you have a young child or is there something physically wrong that makes you not able to work? If not, the jobc... (read in full...)
Parenting advice please!
Q. Ok some parenting advice please!!My daughter is 4 1/2years old and currently going to pre school 3 1/2 hours a day(due to start full time in sept). She is a lovely little girl but she has a very short attention span!Her teacher has told us that she ...
A. 1 May 2009: I think Gina is talking about 'Supernanny' Jo Frost. Her techniques do seem really effective - but then again it is a tv show. Her website is www.supernanny.com - there's lots of good advice on there. Good luck.... (read in full...)
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